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[Chocha Monger]

Food is not necessarily more important than a cell phone. It depends on what the cell phone is being used for. It can be used as a tool or as a toy. If it is used as a tool, then you definitely do not want to pawn it because it can be used to bring you money to buy food.

(One of my chicks in the Dumbinican Republic was talking about selling her computer because she didn't have money to pay for school. I said yeah bih and then how are you going to do your school work without the damn computer? For some reason she had not thought of that.)

But in the way that you said they were using it, fuck them! Six mfs sitting around playing games in the dark with no food and not 1 has sense enough to grab a newspaper and search the want ads and use the phone as a tool to find a damn job.

Again, fuck them! This is the exact reason why I will never send a woman money. Now I have been poor before and I have had to pawn shit before, but I have damn sure never been lazy as to sit on my ass in the dark with no food and not go out and look for an opportunity to better my living situation. Throw money down a hole because you can't get pussy back home if you want to. You are a mf fool. Either that or you didn't have to work for it. I will only pay as I go. None of that layaway pussy shit that you guys talk about.

There is an abundance of information out there warning horny suckers not to send money to women. Yet, many sex-starved fools will throw their money down the rabbit hole. Many of the men doing this cannot afford the financial loss that comes from falling for romance swindles. A significant number are lonely elderly men who subsist on meagre pensions and cat food. Others are middle-aged men who think with their dicks. They choose to ignore the evidence that domesticating pussy is risky business, especially financial captive breeding programs. Some will make multiple attempts at such projects until landing in bankruptcy.

Briffault provided these three corollaries to his law:

Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?

If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. ("I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."

A man's promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman's wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.

In economics there is the concept of diminishing marginal utility: The benefit derived from a product lessens with each successive unit consumed. Consider an all-you-can-eat buffet. If you arrive hungry, the first plate from the buffet provides 100% utility in satisfying your hunger. The second plate provides less utility, although you still may be a bit hungry when you begin filling the second plate. But by the time you're eaten the second plate, you are no longer hungry. If you return to the buffet for a third plate, you will probably feel overstuffed after eating it. In terms of utility you are now in negative territory.

If we accept Briffault's law at face value, women derive diminishing marginal utility from their relationships with men after acquiring the desired benefits.

[Kabul Guy]

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Two out of three and send her ass to the gym, teach her how to dress and do hair and makeup, walk, and voila. Of course this pre-selects her being compliant and obedient, or since that is that not that uncommon here, at least you not being a fuckup that can't enforce expectations. And. Be. Obedient for a woman is a fairly large portion of sane. This is not rocket science. Six months with a personal trainer will turn any average chick into a bikini model, unless she is genetically deformed.

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If your girl is doing retarded shit like IV skin whitening treatment, then you are in inadequate control of your girl. Yoga pants are for bitches that actually do yoga. Etc. Reduce her allowance and make sure the spending is being decided by you.

I like that idea of making a 7 into a 9.

Once I give her the allowance it is her's to do with as she pleases. Dumb shit is amusing but she has to learn no advances no matter what. (OK a real life and death situation but not no rent money because she bought a high end gym package.) Truth be known her body is at least a 9. 5 already, it will be nice to have it at a 10 level, Had we been in a live in situation, I'd have paid for the gym and trainer just for that.

She is new, only has gotten two months allowance. First was spent on past bills but she bought her mother a washing machine. OK not too bad choices but second went on dumb shit with no income coming in time to pay rent so she asked for an advance.

Right now her phone in in pawn and we can only communicate while she is at work and she can sneak using email. My guess is 50-50 she loses her job over it.

[Kabul Guy]

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It is not uncommon for me to decide to take a chick from LA Cafe and if she is with a friend she asks me to give the friend money to get home. Shiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeddddd. She better find a customer the same way that you did!

Or have the pair.

Threesomes are my second favourite thing. Foursomes are at the top.

[Kabul Guy]

Possibly there is a finishing school mongers can send their gfs to?

Can I be an instructor?

[Dg8787]

Been there done that. This will not apply to visitors but if you live here, it is perfectly possible to get all three. How? Easy.

As Ron White said, you can't fix stupid. I would argue that you have very little chance of fixing sane. That leaves sexy.

Two out of three and send her ass to the gym, teach her how to dress and do hair and makeup, walk, and voila. Of course this pre-selects her being compliant and obedient, or since that is that not that uncommon here, at least you not being a fuckup that can't enforce expectations. And. Be. Obedient for a woman is a fairly large portion of sane. This is not rocket science. Six months with a personal trainer will turn any average chick into a bikini model, unless she is genetically deformed.

There is no average 7 Filipina that can't be improved into a 9 with training. This is the land of fucking opportunity, but you're going to have to go for fixer-uppers. Because natural smart hot sane women want nothing to do with aging mongers; they have opportunities. However, the gap between mediocre looks and instagram model is fixable with work, instruction and resources.

If your girl is doing retarded shit like IV skin whitening treatment, then you are in inadequate control of your girl. Yoga pants are for bitches that actually do yoga. Etc. Reduce her allowance and make sure the spending is being decided by you.

Possibly there is a finishing school mongers can send their gfs to?

[Roll Aides]

Been there done that. This will not apply to visitors but if you live here, it is perfectly possible to get all three. How? Easy.

As Ron White said, you can't fix stupid. I would argue that you have very little chance of fixing sane. That leaves sexy.

Two out of three and send her ass to the gym, teach her how to dress and do hair and makeup, walk, and voila. Of course this pre-selects her being compliant and obedient, or since that is that not that uncommon here, at least you not being a fuckup that can't enforce expectations. And. Be. Obedient for a woman is a fairly large portion of sane. This is not rocket science. Six months with a personal trainer will turn any average chick into a bikini model, unless she is genetically deformed.

There is no average 7 Filipina that can't be improved into a 9 with training. This is the land of fucking opportunity, but you're going to have to go for fixer-uppers. Because natural smart hot sane women want nothing to do with aging mongers; they have opportunities. However, the gap between mediocre looks and instagram model is fixable with work, instruction and resources.

If your girl is doing retarded shit like IV skin whitening treatment, then you are in inadequate control of your girl. Yoga pants are for bitches that actually do yoga. Etc. Reduce her allowance and make sure the spending is being decided by you.

Sane.

Sexy.

Smart.

Pick two because you will never get all 3.

I have a hot SB found on SA, collage graduate with a real degree (not HRM LOL but in physics of all things) She got her monthly allowance, went out bought yoga pants, had an IV skin whitening treatment, signed up for a gym with personal trainer, had major hair and nail spa day. Next day when I refused to advance her allowance she had to pawn her phone to pay her rent.

Another regular, grad student, smartest philippina I have ever met (and I worked with several pina engineers in Afghanistan). Nice firm body but not good looking or good in bed.

I could go on. Anyone ever anywhere found all three in one?

[Dg8787]

Sane.

Sexy.

Smart.

Pick two because you will never get all 3.

I have a hot SB found on SA, collage graduate with a real degree (not HRM LOL but in physics of all things) She got her monthly allowance, went out bought yoga pants, had an IV skin whitening treatment, signed up for a gym with personal trainer, had major hair and nail spa day. Next day when I refused to advance her allowance she had to pawn her phone to pay her rent.

Another regular, grad student, smartest philippina I have ever met (and I worked with several pina engineers in Afghanistan). Nice firm body but not good looking or good in bed.

I could go on. Anyone ever anywhere found all three in one?

Lmao. Few mongers would score 2! Some would not even score 1.

[Mr Enternational]

One of my party pieces is to ask them how much they have in their pockets. Between 1 and 40 pesos is not uncommon.

I do the same thing when those broads decide they want to turn their nose up at 1000 pesos. Then when they say they only have 50 pesos I just stare at them. From now on I may start putting the 1000 on the table and stare back and forth at them and the money.

It is not uncommon for me to decide to take a chick from LA Cafe and if she is with a friend she asks me to give the friend money to get home. Shiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeddddd. She better find a customer the same way that you did!

[Mr Enternational]

The usual emergencies, no foods and electric cut off. "Can you 2000"? I decided to walk the quarter mile to her brgy and visit with the family (they know me). A sweet surprise, if you will. Knocked on the door and mama invited me inside. Sure enough, power cut, and no foods. Looking about to see half a dozen family members cell-phoning free FB, I asked why they didn't pawn the father's phone, the girl's phone, and the brother's phone. That would turn on the electric and put food on the table for 2 days. "Ibaligya your cell phones". Complete blank stare from papa, mama, girl, brother. From the western perspective, food is more important than a phone.

Food is not necessarily more important than a cell phone. It depends on what the cell phone is being used for. It can be used as a tool or as a toy. If it is used as a tool, then you definitely do not want to pawn it because it can be used to bring you money to buy food.

(One of my chicks in the Dumbinican Republic was talking about selling her computer because she didn't have money to pay for school. I said yeah bih and then how are you going to do your school work without the damn computer? For some reason she had not thought of that.)

But in the way that you said they were using it, fuck them! Six mfs sitting around playing games in the dark with no food and not 1 has sense enough to grab a newspaper and search the want ads and use the phone as a tool to find a damn job.

Again, fuck them! This is the exact reason why I will never send a woman money. Now I have been poor before and I have had to pawn shit before, but I have damn sure never been lazy as to sit on my ass in the dark with no food and not go out and look for an opportunity to better my living situation. Throw money down a hole because you can't get pussy back home if you want to. You are a mf fool. Either that or you didn't have to work for it. I will only pay as I go. None of that layaway pussy shit that you guys talk about.

[PedroMorales]

sell their cell phones to pay for pampers or foods. Response: I need the phone for future trades; its better to be hungry with a phone, than fed without a phone (can't make future trades without a phone).

The casual visitor to the Philippines would see pawn shops full of real basics like rice cookers. Vulture capitalism at its rawest. Many of us will have picked up a hooker late at night who hadn't eaten all day long. One of my party pieces is to ask them how much they have in their pockets. Between 1 and 40 pesos is not uncommon. There are so many people living on the bread line in the Phils it is unreal. Know alls visiting them must be a real pain. If folk sold their phones, that would drive the price even further down. Asking them to sell their phones is akin to asking them, to sell a kidney.

[WestCoast1]

Sane. Sexy. Smart.

It depends on your meaning of sand and also smart. Due to upbringing and cultural differences, the girls here often do the *damdest* things (or that seem that way to me). Some of the things they do seem counter-intuitive and stupid. An example, like yours:

I landed and made my way to my condo. One of my regulars, who was aware that I was coming (but not which day), shot a txt as I was unpacking my suitcase. The usual emergencies, no foods and electric cut off. "Can you 2000"? I decided to walk the quarter mile to her brgy and visit with the family (they know me). A sweet surprise, if you will. Knocked on the door and mama invited me inside. Sure enough, power cut, and no foods. Looking about to see half a dozen family members cell-phoning free FB, I asked why they didn't pawn the father's phone, the girl's phone, and the brother's phone. That would turn on the electric and put food on the table for 2 days. "Ibaligya your cell phones". Complete blank stare from papa, mama, girl, brother. From the western perspective, food is more important than a phone. However, this is not the west. . .

Have run into this type of situation multiple times. You need money? "Yes, emergency for foods". Sell the TV-Plus and TV in your home first. "Buang Westy"!

Related story. You are probably aware of the situation in Venezuala, the unraveling of the social and economic fabric has been all over the news the past few years. In a somewhat surprising story in the news from about a year ago, as inflation was wildly out of control and the locals were having trouble purchasing anything in the stores as prices spiraled up out of control, they began trading things with each other, online, using social media. Pampers were traded for food. Other items were traded for transportation. And so on. Western reporters asked locals why they didn't sell their cell phones to pay for pampers or foods. Response: I need the phone for future trades; its better to be hungry with a phone, than fed without a phone (can't make future trades without a phone).

[Kabul Guy]

Sane.

Sexy.

Smart.

Pick two because you will never get all 3.

I have a hot SB found on SA, collage graduate with a real degree (not HRM LOL but in physics of all things) She got her monthly allowance, went out bought yoga pants, had an IV skin whitening treatment, signed up for a gym with personal trainer, had major hair and nail spa day. Next day when I refused to advance her allowance she had to pawn her phone to pay her rent.

Another regular, grad student, smartest philippina I have ever met (and I worked with several pina engineers in Afghanistan). Nice firm body but not good looking or good in bed.

I could go on. Anyone ever anywhere found all three in one?

[Mr Enternational]

It was surprisingly direct and forward for a Filipina. I did not need more prompting.

Weird that you did not pick up on the signals earlier since you even wrote about them in this post. That is why she had to be forward. She was thinking this guy has no clue. You were sitting there thinking about going to find a new chicks when you already have one in the room practically forcing herself on you. Come on man. You guys have to do better when it comes to women that are not bar girls.

[Donnahito]

I am mostly a polite guy (Canadian hey) so I had a date with a girl we met at the Mall, we chatted and then she said that she is only looking for a relationship and so I said OK I am not and I excused myself. She asked if I had wine in my room and I said yes, so she asked if she could come.

OK we hit the room have a drink then she again reminded me she wanted a relationship I said sorry I don't so I walked her to the door. At the door she asked for a kiss so with I kissed her..

Wow PP that sounded like quite the wild ride! If you don't mind me asking, how did you guys meet, just bumped into her at the mall and started talking?

[Pinaypounder]

I am mostly a polite guy (Canadian hey) so I had a date with a girl we met at the Mall, we chatted and then she said that she is only looking for a relationship and so I said OK I am not and I excused myself. She asked if I had wine in my room and I said yes, so she asked if she could come.

OK we hit the room have a drink then she again reminded me she wanted a relationship I said sorry I don't so I walked her to the door. At the door she asked for a kiss so with I kissed her.

Back in the door, now I am like FUKKKKKKKKK how to get rid of her I still had time to go out to get a fresh piece.

She ask if I have some music so I turned on some music and went to the bathroom.

I returned and sat far from her and she was in a chair I on the couch.

It was dark and then I noticed she had one leg up on the arm of the chair and her dress was hiked up and lo and behold she was naked and rubbing her baby maker. She had removed her panties while I was in the bathroom and apparently she saw me as rather fuckable.

It was surprisingly direct and forward for a Filipina. I did not need more prompting.

Needless to say she got well fucked and I learned a lesson and was rewarded for not lying. She turned out to be one of those crazy girls but wow could she suck cock.

Be honest and yeee shall be rewarded!

PP.