Date In Asia

[Sammon]

Hello, without doing anything DIA banned me and I can no longer log back in even by changing my email. Is there a trick to enter DIA again? Thank you.

I was locked out one time because I said some nasty things to a ladyboy. Next time I was in Philippines I changed my SIM card on my travel phone, got a new email address, photoshopped my photo, used that phone to open new account. It worked.

[Christo570]

So let this be a lesson to all. Even the girls who seem sweet, fun and genuine can betray you in an instant if it suits their needs. Lying is second nature to them. View anything they say with a healthy dose of skepticism. If a girl is willing to come to a hotel on a few hours' notice to sleep with you, you should know what kind of girl you're dealing with.

In fairness you were probably not the first, and certainly will not be last guy that will be told that he is an exclusive relationship. You just realize she probably has been told the same many times. The reality of sex work is that most do it because they have limited options and it is a easy way to make more money than they could normally make. However, many would give it up to be a wife and mother in a heartbeat. That is why it can be dicey being in a long relationship, sometimes the honest feeling on both sides can come in and give your interactions a real feeling. However, they don't erase the reality of getting enough money to live. I met my fair share of women that were pregnant and promised the world only to be dumped.

[JonesLover]

Hello, without doing anything DIA banned me and I can no longer log back in even by changing my email. Is there a trick to enter DIA again? Thank you.

[Goferring]

Is it worth paying a subscription to see all the likes? Or just work off the free version?

Also, does the dating app work well in other countries to make it worth paying the lifetime?

TIA.

Where are you now? Are you physically in the PIs? Like all Apps, I'd recommend waiting till you are boots on the ground, then get the paid app.

Be there so that the girls know you are real and can meet after work today, not maybe next month if you come at all.

Paid version as $20 represents good value, opening access to everyone whenever you want.

DIA has a few Pinas working in Singapore, otherwise it's really only the PIs itself.

Enjoy. G.

[Marxh]

Is it worth paying a subscription to see all the likes? Or just work off the free version?

Also, does the dating app work well in other countries to make it worth paying the lifetime?

TIA.

[VictorHugo999]

Hi friend,

I actually find DIA pretty effective, with replies rather fast.

If nit, you can go to Tinder or Pinalive (paid).

Victor.

Yes, I got closed twice. First time I have no idea what, if anything I did wrong.

Second time I signed up with different email, different phone number, different pic.

Closed instantly. I guess they monitored IP. I really don't know HOW guys keep an open account.

At any rate, I use Pinalove, thaifriendly, hellopinay, thaiflirting, pilipinalove now.

Too bad, I would really love to know why the jerk behind DIA is so controlling.

[Mua Tur]

.Girl #2 had been a great experience in-person and we remained in regular contact after I returned home from the Philippines. I kicked her a few pesos to help out with some minor costs, and she returned the favor with lots of intimate video calls and pics to keep me entertained. She told me she loved me (as Filipinas typically do way too soon), and she said we were in an exclusive relationship. I rolled with that, but took it with a grain of salt.

Absolute choice.

As things got a little more serious,

Not understood why it became serious if it is grain of salt!

it became more important to confirm whether she was being truthful or not about the exclusivity of our relationship. After doing a bit of legwork, I determined that she was in fact a complete liar.

Who is not the liar? How many girls we used to meet in our every trip and we always saying she is the only one we came to meet. Ha ha ha. Don't you think they knows what we doing behind them?

She was still chatting with and trying to meet up with other guys. (Not sure how many she actually met up with, but it doesn't much matter.) This was not a huge surprise and I was totally prepared for this outcome.

Hey man may be its me or may be more punters from here.

So let this be a lesson to all. Even the girls who seem sweet, fun and genuine can betray you in an instant if it suits their needs. Lying is second nature to them. View anything they say with a healthy dose of skepticism. If a girl is willing to come to a hotel on a few hours' notice to sleep with you, you should know what kind of girl you're dealing with.

Good some one started to take the lesson and good to see no hard feelings.

[TomParsons2000]

Gents, a sincere thank-you for the advice provided on my situation with Girl #2 from DIA. I value the input tremendously. There's a wealth of experience on this board, and hearing the different thoughts and perspectives from those who responded was very helpful to me.

I do have an update to pass along regarding Girl #2 (scroll down for the story) the girl whom I had grown attached to and wanted to stay in touch with. I thought I'the share the update here, as a cautionary tale for others.

Girl #2 had been a great experience in-person and we remained in regular contact after I returned home from the Philippines. I kicked her a few pesos to help out with some minor costs, and she returned the favor with lots of intimate video calls and pics to keep me entertained. She told me she loved me (as Filipinas typically do way too soon), and she said we were in an exclusive relationship. I rolled with that, but took it with a grain of salt.

As things got a little more serious, it became more important to confirm whether she was being truthful or not about the exclusivity of our relationship. After doing a bit of legwork, I determined that she was in fact a complete liar. She was still chatting with and trying to meet up with other guys. (Not sure how many she actually met up with, but it doesn't much matter.) This was not a huge surprise and I was totally prepared for this outcome.

So let this be a lesson to all. Even the girls who seem sweet, fun and genuine can betray you in an instant if it suits their needs. Lying is second nature to them. View anything they say with a healthy dose of skepticism. If a girl is willing to come to a hotel on a few hours' notice to sleep with you, you should know what kind of girl you're dealing with.

[Sammon]

The problem now is that I suspect I'm making an amateur mistake. Because I find myself wanting to stay in touch with Girl #2. During our time together, I learned some things about her which pointed to the fact she is not a hardened pro, and I have independently verified this information to the extent possible. But an international romance is likely to entail some financial costs (how else does one show affection from thousands of miles away? And few benefits as we can't physically be in each other's presence. And I know having a "relationship" with a girl who was willing to meet me at a hotel for casual sex is probably not advisable. Despite knowing this, I want to stay in touch with Girl #2 and see how this plays out. What do you think, gents. Am I making a huge mistake?

I have been using DIA exclusively for more than 10 years. So much that I have not taken any bargirls for a while. Experience vary between very very good to dud. But I always treat them well.

Generally I do not continue the contact till my next visit because of the money demands which is very common. I tell them I only give money on meeting giving unheard of excuses like I am banned from sending money, western union locked me out etc. Now the new thing they advise is G cash. These girls know in and out of how to get money.

Yes, I have supported many girls I have met on DIA through school. They are appreciative of the help and give me good GFE when I visit. As I got older I do not do that anymore. I have chatted with many and meet a fraction of them for a good time. Many are looking for cash cow or should I say cash bull. Once they realize I am not one of those they loose interest. Some still stick around and I have repeated fun time with them. Some are so nice they refer or bring their friends and cousins.

In your case do not be bowled over by any girl who rocks your world. Despite innocent looks or demeanor they are in it for money. The moment you are out they are try to get money from someone else. Even if you support them there us no guarantee they will just sit and wait for your return. When I supported girls through school I had no illusions knowing fully well they will hang around their age group and maybe have boyfriends.

I would suggest keep in touch and if you feel like it send small amounts to help her. Or otherwise just give various reasons why you cannot send money. Before your next trip start trolling again on DIA. I am doing just that for my trip starting next week.

[Python75]

When will you be back? Less than 6 months? If so then maybe budget a few bucks - $100 or $150 for the Retainer. As this will pay dividends if you go back and stick with her again. Or should I say Stick it IN her again.

Not going back to Makati for 2 years or so? Then I would end it now. Not worth it. Because ALL FILIPPINAS WILL ASK FOR MONEY if you keep in communication with them.

Peace and good luck .

I concur with GentileBear's assessment. Good advice.

[GDreams]

I recently had occasion to make a trip to Makati, where I was staying at one of the major hotels in the Poblacion district, close to P. Burgos Street. A separate field report regarding my experiences with local massage girls and on-street observations can be found in the Makati section of this forum.

In anticipation of my upcoming trip, I signed up for several online dating platforms, but ultimately ended up focusing on Date in Asia (aka DIA). To try and focus on more than one platform could have been quite time-consuming. I chatted back and forth with quite a few girls, and whittled them down to a shortlist of those whom I actually wanted to see. Many were willing to share their Whatsapp or Facebook contact information, which made it easier to establish a rapport outside of the DIA platform. There were of course lots of ladyboys and some scammers asking for money for various emergencies, which I was well prepared for after reading this forum.

I found a number of the girls were timid about meeting me, once they learned we would be hanging out at my hotel after the initial proposed meeting at a mall or coffee shop. I had been straightforward in my DIA profile, explaining I was looking for a casual and fun time. That candor may have scared off some of the good girls. The ones looking for a real, long-term relationship. I'm sure many of those good girls are attainable and could be bedded in a short amount of time, but I was trying to be ethical and open / transparent about my intentions.

I ended up meeting two girls from DIA in person. Both were in their 20's. Girl #1 was a textbook example of what a "no strings attached" experience should be. A good time was had by both of us, but I had no desire to see her again after that single meeting. Conversation was lacking and her bedroom skills didn't impress me. Girl #2, however, was a significantly different experience, in a good way. She turned out to be sweet, funny, fantastic in bed, an all-around great girl. I saw her more than once, and it turned into a complete girlfriend experience. I had a great time, and I honestly believe she did too.

I would have seen other girls from DIA (I had more lined up), but was having such a great time with Girl #2 that I opted to stick with her for the rest of the trip. Many of you may scoff at this, and I'm a little bit surprised at this turn of events myself. I went onto DIA with the intent of having some much-desired sexual variety with different girls, but I ended up with a quasi-girlfriend. All things considered, the trip was fun and I'm pleased that DIA generated some great leads, with no membership cost for the site.

The problem now is that I suspect I'm making an amateur mistake. Because I find myself wanting to stay in touch with Girl #2. During our time together, I learned some things about her which pointed to the fact she is not a hardened pro, and I have independently verified this information to the extent possible. But an international romance is likely to entail some financial costs (how else does one show affection from thousands of miles away? And few benefits as we can't physically be in each other's presence. And I know having a "relationship" with a girl who was willing to meet me at a hotel for casual sex is probably not advisable. Despite knowing this, I want to stay in touch with Girl #2 and see how this plays out. What do you think, gents. Am I making a huge mistake?

I prefer to have a small group of girls who I can have a friendship as well as regular sex. All are happy with a one to 2 meeting a week without becoming clingy. All get paid before they leave but otherwise payment is never mentioned. I have had a few like number 1 that I cut and some others get boyfriends or move. I make it clear that marriage is not going to happen and that I would be happy for them if that found someone they can be happy with. I make it clear that when I am not there that I am not supporting them, though during the pandemic I sent one girl 8 k peso over 18 months when she was desperate and a couple of others 2 - 4 k. If you want something more serious then you need to consider what that means and how you commit to it timewise and monetarily.

[GentileBear]

Hey Tom,

If you are more seasoned and have already done the "one night. One barfine" or "wife for a night" but different ones each night then I say Fuck what others say and stick with a winner! Sometimes it is more fun to have a tour guide and get to know the lady better and take her to SM Mall and buy a Teddy Bear or a Lighter. Oh, I remember well. Clap Clap. Happy To Serve! They say in their malls over there. There is nothing that is better than a sweet lady who is into you. So on your first premise. I agree- if you found a winner. No need to rotate to other ladies if you are having fun.

As to your next question. When will you be back? Less than 6 months? If so then maybe budget a few bucks - $100 or $150 for the Retainer. As this will pay dividends if you go back and stick with her again. Or should I say Stick it IN her again.

Not going back to Makati for 2 years or so? Then I would end it now. Not worth it. Because ALL FILIPPINAS WILL ASK FOR MONEY if you keep in communication with them.

Peace and good luck .

[AsianPursuits]

What do you think, gents. Am I making a huge mistake?

How can it be a mistake when you have expressed a good understanding of the situation? Do you have plans to return to Ph regularly?

The cost to maintain this relationship with this girl is the replacement cost. The cost of finding here was your Free DIA membership, your messaging, then one dud date, then a good one. Doesn't sound too hard to find a good girl.

Over the years I have kept in contact with many girls, most of them will require some financial help at some time. The only regular financial commitment I've had is when I was on a monthly roster of visiting Manila working where I considered the monthly 'support" of P10 k being good value for having my apartment stocked upon arrival and having a hot girl in my bed every night I was there.

Currently I have a province girl that has me in a quandary. She's so beautiful and usually way out of my league. Because of where she lives practically I can only see her once per year. She is a genuinely hard worker, hard studier, inspirational person. I usually find a reason to send her P5 k per month (she doesn't ask). But this is actually confusing her. I keep telling her I am not a good future plan for her but then I'm also supporting her. For her it would have been better if I just left last year, said good bye and take my chances to message her when I return.

Apart from financial the other part of the conversation always turns to "when you coming back?" this can sway you thinking about your other life and mongering plans.

As harsh as this sounds, it's not that hard to replace these girls.

[TomParsons2000]

I recently had occasion to make a trip to Makati, where I was staying at one of the major hotels in the Poblacion district, close to P. Burgos Street. A separate field report regarding my experiences with local massage girls and on-street observations can be found in the Makati section of this forum.

In anticipation of my upcoming trip, I signed up for several online dating platforms, but ultimately ended up focusing on Date in Asia (aka DIA). To try and focus on more than one platform could have been quite time-consuming. I chatted back and forth with quite a few girls, and whittled them down to a shortlist of those whom I actually wanted to see. Many were willing to share their Whatsapp or Facebook contact information, which made it easier to establish a rapport outside of the DIA platform. There were of course lots of ladyboys and some scammers asking for money for various emergencies, which I was well prepared for after reading this forum.

I found a number of the girls were timid about meeting me, once they learned we would be hanging out at my hotel after the initial proposed meeting at a mall or coffee shop. I had been straightforward in my DIA profile, explaining I was looking for a casual and fun time. That candor may have scared off some of the good girls. The ones looking for a real, long-term relationship. I'm sure many of those good girls are attainable and could be bedded in a short amount of time, but I was trying to be ethical and open / transparent about my intentions.

I ended up meeting two girls from DIA in person. Both were in their 20's. Girl #1 was a textbook example of what a "no strings attached" experience should be. A good time was had by both of us, but I had no desire to see her again after that single meeting. Conversation was lacking and her bedroom skills didn't impress me. Girl #2, however, was a significantly different experience, in a good way. She turned out to be sweet, funny, fantastic in bed, an all-around great girl. I saw her more than once, and it turned into a complete girlfriend experience. I had a great time, and I honestly believe she did too.

I would have seen other girls from DIA (I had more lined up), but was having such a great time with Girl #2 that I opted to stick with her for the rest of the trip. Many of you may scoff at this, and I'm a little bit surprised at this turn of events myself. I went onto DIA with the intent of having some much-desired sexual variety with different girls, but I ended up with a quasi-girlfriend. All things considered, the trip was fun and I'm pleased that DIA generated some great leads, with no membership cost for the site.

The problem now is that I suspect I'm making an amateur mistake. Because I find myself wanting to stay in touch with Girl #2. During our time together, I learned some things about her which pointed to the fact she is not a hardened pro, and I have independently verified this information to the extent possible. But an international romance is likely to entail some financial costs (how else does one show affection from thousands of miles away? And few benefits as we can't physically be in each other's presence. And I know having a "relationship" with a girl who was willing to meet me at a hotel for casual sex is probably not advisable. Despite knowing this, I want to stay in touch with Girl #2 and see how this plays out. What do you think, gents. Am I making a huge mistake?

[HenryA77]

Yes, I got closed twice. First time I have no idea what, if anything I did wrong.

Second time I signed up with different email, different phone number, different pic.

Closed instantly. I guess they monitored IP. I really don't know HOW guys keep an open account.

At any rate, I use Pinalove, thaifriendly, hellopinay, thaiflirting, pilipinalove now.

Too bad, I would really love to know why the jerk behind DIA is so controlling.