Santa Marta

[Brother P]

It is a common question asked by people that want to drug and / or rob you as well. I can tell by and when the question is asked, if the person is full of sht. My gut told me she was a hoe and possibly more by when she asked the question in the flow of the convo. A hoe can be taken to a love motel so she doesn't need to know if I live alone. I don't bring hoes to my apartment.

Obviously, if the question is asked in the normal flow of the convo, then it could be interpreted as innocuous.

I agree that this is a question frequently asked by chicas who may want to hustle you in a negative way.

I've spent about 4 weeks in Cartagena this year. Hoes frequently ask where your friends? I always say around the corner at the other bar, or with a Chica. Or my friend has an apartment on a different floor. I never admit to traveling solo. This is when it pays off to be seen casually chatting with other travelers at the bar. I also have a cool Colombian dude I sometimes barhopp with, of course his beers are on me. But the Chivas with bad intentions definitely target dudes who are solo. Be careful! Have fun, but be careful!

[Orgasmico]

"Vives solo" or "Do you live alone is a very common question asked by Colombian women. It's not a and attempt to find out if they can rob you.

It is a common question asked by people that want to drug and / or rob you as well. I can tell by and when the question is asked, if the person is full of sht. My gut told me she was a hoe and possibly more by when she asked the question in the flow of the convo. A hoe can be taken to a love motel so she doesn't need to know if I live alone. I don't bring hoes to my apartment.

Obviously, if the question is asked in the normal flow of the convo, then it could be interpreted as innocuous.

[Mr Enternational]

"Vives solo" or "Do you live alone is a very common question asked by Colombian women. It's not a and attempt to find out if they can rob you.

Standard question that I ask them because I want to know if I will be able to stay at their house or if they will be able to stay out all night. Speak of the devil. Yesterday my girl said that I could stay in her house or a hotel when I come to Valledupar. I asked what her mom was going to say. She said she had to talk to her about it. She just hit me up and said that her mom said to talk to her dad about it. I have stayed at chick's houses before with their family.

[JjBee62]

You're a nicer (more tolerant) guy than me. Whenever I meet a girl online and they start talking to me about their birthday (especially that week), I interpret that as game, unless they are telling me about plans they already have and how they plan to celebrate (even then that could be game as the plans fall apart).

I was with a girl once catching the train in Medellin and a dude came up to us and asked us for directions (which train to catch). I explained to my girl that, that was game and the dude really wanted to hit me up for money. Low and behold, my girl gave him the directions and he did something completely different and irrational. At that point, I think she might have understood how when you get hit up by people all the time, you can tell by their body language and the look in their eyes if they want to hit you up for money.

The same applies to talking to chicas online, which I'm sure you already know. This is another example. As soon as I asked her what she does for a living and she doesn't immediately answer and ask me stupid sh*t like - "do I live alone" - just incase she sees an opportunity to possibly drug / and or rob me. I cut the convo short and wish her luck. She then admits that she is a hoe and I tell her. That's what I thought by the way you talk. In other words, you sound like a Hoe.

"Vives solo" or "Do you live alone is a very common question asked by Colombian women. It's not a and attempt to find out if they can rob you.

Most of them live with family well into their 20's, often having to share a bed with their kids and other siblings. They ask if we live alone (whether you live in Colombia or anywhere else in the world), because that's one of their conceptions of wealth. Having enough money to have their own place is a sign of success.

[Tomasb]

Looks like she is not missing many meals, esp cake.

Saturday I met a chick in Santa Marta on Cupid. She said that Sunday would be her birthday. So when Sunday came I told her happy birthday. She said I was the first person to tell her. She said she would come to Barranquilla when I am there later next month. Then she told me that she wanted a cake, flowers and 3 beers for her birthday. I said sure you can have whatever you like when we are together. She said she wanted it that day. I said that I was not even in Colombia at the moment. Then she talking about send the money and she will buy it because she does not want this year to be like all the other years. I told her that was life and have not heard anything else from her.

[Orgasmico]

Saturday I met a chick in Santa Marta on Cupid. She said that Sunday would be her birthday. So when Sunday came I told her happy birthday. She said I was the first person to tell her. She said she would come to Barranquilla when I am there later next month. Then she told me that she wanted a cake, flowers and 3 beers for her birthday. I said sure you can have whatever you like when we are together. She said she wanted it that day. I said that I was not even in Colombia at the moment. Then she talking about send the money and she will buy it because she does not want this year to be like all the other years. I told her that was life and have not heard anything else from her.

You're a nicer (more tolerant) guy than me. Whenever I meet a girl online and they start talking to me about their birthday (especially that week), I interpret that as game, unless they are telling me about plans they already have and how they plan to celebrate (even then that could be game as the plans fall apart).

I was with a girl once catching the train in Medellin and a dude came up to us and asked us for directions (which train to catch). I explained to my girl that, that was game and the dude really wanted to hit me up for money. Low and behold, my girl gave him the directions and he did something completely different and irrational. At that point, I think she might have understood how when you get hit up by people all the time, you can tell by their body language and the look in their eyes if they want to hit you up for money.

The same applies to talking to chicas online, which I'm sure you already know. This is another example. As soon as I asked her what she does for a living and she doesn't immediately answer and ask me stupid sh*t like - "do I live alone" - just incase she sees an opportunity to possibly drug / and or rob me. I cut the convo short and wish her luck. She then admits that she is a hoe and I tell her. That's what I thought by the way you talk. In other words, you sound like a Hoe.

[Mr Enternational]

I guess the knucklehead sentiment came from the fact that freaks like this get on regular platforms but I guess that is because dudes go on regular platforms instead of the gazillion sites with hoes.

Saturday I met a chick in Santa Marta on Cupid. She said that Sunday would be her birthday. So when Sunday came I told her happy birthday. She said I was the first person to tell her. She said she would come to Barranquilla when I am there later next month. Then she told me that she wanted a cake, flowers and 3 beers for her birthday. I said sure you can have whatever you like when we are together. She said she wanted it that day. I said that I was not even in Colombia at the moment. Then she talking about send the money and she will buy it because she does not want this year to be like all the other years. I told her that was life and have not heard anything else from her.

[Orgasmico]

Well she said she was being honest and told you that she was looking for money and said she could give you what you wanted. You never mentioned wanting anything, but left it up to her to offer something. I do not see how she was a knucklehead for that. You could have just as well said I would like to hook up with you when I go to Santa Marta, but you did not. You just wrote her off for offering what she had to offer due to distance.

I felt like "we could hook up in Santa Marta" was game and she is really looking for SIMPs that want to pay her to jack to her pics / vids. When I told her I get pics and vids already from chicas, the convo stopped.

She didn't, however, block me or anything like that so I'm thinking I could hit her up the next time I'm up that way, if I want to, and see what it is. I guess the knucklehead sentiment came from the fact that freaks like this get on regular platforms but I guess that is because dudes go on regular platforms instead of the gazillion sites with hoes.

[Mr Enternational]

I just had to check this knucklehead. She hit me up on social media talking about she could send me pics and vids for a fee. Had me confused with one of those OnlyFanboys in the USA. I'm posting her pic incase any of you dudes run into her. Says she lives in Santa Marta.

Well she said she was being honest and told you that she was looking for money and said she could give you what you wanted. You never mentioned wanting anything, but left it up to her to offer something. I do not see how she was a knucklehead for that. You could have just as well said I would like to hook up with you when I go to Santa Marta, but you did not. You just wrote her off for offering what she had to offer due to distance.

[Orgasmico]

I just had to check this knucklehead. She hit me up on social media talking about she could send me pics and vids for a fee. Had me confused with one of those OnlyFanboys in the USA. I'm posting her pic incase any of you dudes run into her. Says she lives in Santa Marta.

[Member #4740]

Out of curiosity I ask the reception guy and of course at "love hotel" no registrations.

So you are lucky not to have this Drama in your hotel and instead her to love motel.

I never bring a girl to my own hotel.

[JustTK]

Did any body visit SM recently? How does it look like, vibe and party scene?

I often live rhere. Everything is open and in fullswing.

[Elvis 2008]

Many thanks, so about 275 mil a night not cheap but love the view and the pool. I know right where the building is located as I have walked past it hundreds of times in the past 5 years during my stays in rodadero.

I too just about always use booking dot com on my travels and it suits me well.

The Tall Man.

TM, if you go to Trip Advisor, they will list all the prices of the hotel booking companies. Yes, booking.com is easy but sometimes you go to other sites like Agoda and off brands I have never heard of and they can do better.

It used to be that the hotel sites guaranteed the best rates but I do not see that advertised as much I think. Marriott in Cali was 30% less on third part website than Marriott and Intercontinental in Cancun was 30% less than IC's own website. Going to Trip Advisor saved me $200 for my hotel booking for the IC Hotel in Cancun.

[Prelude141]

Did any body visit SM recently? How does it look like, vibe and party scene?

[SkyBuilder]

Mercure sounds like an Accor hotel, and Gio doesn't seem to be the part of Choice Privilege. You sure you mean Choice rewards, not another program?

Yeah, I screwed that up a bit and combined them into one section. I have used Choice in Barranquilla but elsewhere I use Hotels.com. Just got back and this time I used booking for a couple of nights in a small town called Sincelejo and it was great. Saved me money and gave me what I was looking for.

Sky.