Dating Regular Girls

[TreeGreen]

An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?

Thanking you sir for your kind words. Knowing the territory really helps initially. These ladies, from choice, really would be rather back home. That's usually a very good entry point. Talk about their country / home town. They almost are all proud of it. Ask where they're from, show a little interest and knowledge of it etc and you're showing yourself to be a warm and decent person for them to relate to. It's quite easy to slip into these conversations if you're being atteneded to by a Fili nurse / waitress etc. Showing an interest in Fili food is another opener, athough I try and avoid this, as they then might actually want you to eat the stuff, which really isn't to my taste.

At church, I think most of them attend for social rather than religious reasons. The genuinely religious lot can be pretty intense, but if you're willing to put up with them, the churches do post-service social events. Coffee, lunch etc. At which you can get to know some ladies.

Good luck!

I'll be posting my indian / Pakistani experiences soon for anyone interested.

[Wicked Roger]

An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?

Always said to those who listen to me (very few LOL) that hospitals are always a good place to check and find a pinay. Churches are a wonderful place also. I would take some to church and hang around. It is amazing how many you can offer a lift home to while your date is praying etc.

Had a few physios and pharmacists in my time but you need patience and be careful of the jealous types as they can be serious trouble

[Double Shooter]

First time post here, but as a regular of the P4P scene in Dubai I found things getting a bit stale after a while. The thrill has been a lot greater since I have been concentrating for the last four years...

An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?

[TreeGreen]

first time post here, but as a regular of the p4p scene in dubai i found things getting a bit stale after a while. the thrill has been a lot greater since i have been concentrating for the last four years purely on non-p4p. pickings are rich in the emirates and i have regulars from all backgrounds. this report deals with my fili experiences, among others.

tagged is a great starter, although having lived and worked in south east asia i like to think that i know the subtle arts of enticing the ladies from that part of the world without electronic aid. it was in pursuit of a find on tagged, though, that i came upon one of my least expected, but subsequently most fruitful, hunting grounds for fantastic filis. church! (ok, i'm going to hell, i know that, but i'm really long past redemption anyway).

purely in the interests of securing the deal on my tagged target i had reluctantly agreed to attend a service. i missed out on the preferred target sadly, but it opened a world of opportunities that still stand me in good stead. most filis are catholic, but it's those in the evangelical happy clappy sects that seem to provide the most fertile hunting ground.

i can only assume church attendance for these ladies is out of some sort of life-long habit, as any strict theological hang ups seem to go straight out of the window once you have established good relations. kindly offering a lift home, a post-service coffee etc. have all been preludes to some frankly fabulous sex and the building of some great no-strings attached regulars. you must stlll be careful to filter which ones are happy with that no-strings option or else you can get clingers.

i have found mid-30s to mid-40s filis are my favourites. i also find they are less likely to create drama, being that little more mature. many are married with hubbies elsewhere and are often after the same thing you are, which helps, although as south east asian veterans will know, that's really not a cast-iron guarantee of calm. faces might sag a little more, but they can still have great bodies and plenty of the service standards we all know and love. if you find a lady that basically just wants something to relieve the humdrum of existence far from home you can really have a great time. charisma is everything here. if you're a pleasant enough guy with a good sense of humour, make a little effort with your dressing, where you take them on dates etc. the investment is rewarded handsomely. i took one bored 30-something fili to oman for a very dirty long weekend a couple of years ago. itbstarted off with her talking about her favourite bits of the bible over a coffee. next weekend she was providing me with a rather delightful, if somewhat risque, bbbj on the road to murep001. all at her initiative. regular shags still come from that source. as well as good tips on flight discounts (she's a travel agent).

a regular milf i have been shagging for three years now even brought back butt plugs, dildos and other toys from her last trip back home. within reason i let them have parties at my place. no naughty stuff and nothing gets out of hand. no threesomes etc. but it provides a further bounty of choices. they see you look after their friend so are themselves often happy to getting friendly with you. bewre fili jealousy, bowever. veterans will know what i mean when i say handle with extreme care and discreteness when shagging two whi even vaguely know each other. even if its no strings, the green eyes monster can be unleashed. and i'm not talking about sylhilis here. something far more lethal. a jealous fili.

one strange aspect to my fili conquests. every new lady i find who is up for fun and who i bring back to my place seems very keen on trying out the pool. i can only assume they like to show me what the goods are before sampling. an odd quirk, but one that's welcome. has helped me make my mind up a couple of times. inotice the ones who don't ask to swim are the ones who just aren't interested in taking things beyond a drink. swimming pools must be some sort of signal for filis, although i can't work out for the life of me what.

a nurse i met at a hospital has been another great find. again, just being friendly and sweet gets the foot in the door. this prospect often doesn't seem great at first in thise unflattering clinic clothes, but once she's out of them. turned out she was actually a trained physio. in addition to a great massage, she provides what i can only describe as possibly the finest hj in human history. i cum like a volcano every time. an oily sensual tour of her fingers round my cock and balls ends with a literalblow job, her literally blowing slowly but oh so sweetly over my cock while stroking. the occasions she turns this manoeuvre into an actual bbbj are frankly a quasi-religious experience.

these opportunities are not always easy. you have to know how to read the signs. but that only takes a bit of common sense and some charm. as a pock-marked casanova used to say "just give me 10 minutes to talk away my face". and to be fair, he didn't seem to do too badly in terms of landing the ladies.

happy hunting comrades!

[Daman22]

Well I haven't had any luck on tagged yet, been trying for 2 weeks though so must stay patient.

Only 50 out of 2000 maybe access my friend request and only 2 replied to my private messages for the first time, then nada.

Maybe I'm a weirdo and I don't know how to approach what to do, but you learn from practice I guess. Maybe I have to update my profile to VIP or something there to get more notice.

[Kabul Guy]

Wow! I must respectfully disagree, at least for me. If I followed KG's plan I'd be spending a lot of time on low probability of success targets. There are many many Tagettes. It's a target rich environment and you need to quickly cull the herd.

Part of it is that I have the time to chat them up a fair bit before meeting them. I only get to Dubai when leaving Afghanistan on leave and then a couple weeks later when I am returning then 3 months in a construction camp.

I have yet to actually take a prospect to lunch. By that time it has progressed beyond the stage of a get to know you lunch and we both know where we are going to end up when we meet.

[Nice Guy 99]

Originally Posted by ExpatNLookin [View Original Post]

I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?

If they chat play it from there, ask them to lunch or other meeting that is non-threatening.

Remember in chatting up the ladies, you should not come on too strong, be funny and pay them compliments, all ladies like to be told that they are beautiful and have a nice smile / laugh.

Wow! I must respectfully disagree, at least for me. If I followed KG's plan I'd be spending a lot of time on low probability of success targets. There are many many Tagettes. It's a target rich environment and you need to quickly cull the herd. Sure the first chat and / or messaging must be reassuring that you're not some dangerous troll but quickly thereafter talk about visiting your hotel room or not wanting to sleep alone. If this is accepted and communications continue you know you have a high probability target; if not, nothing lost.

I'm sure a variety of approaches to Tagged will work; to each his own.

[Wicked Roger]

I didn't stand at the airport immigration handing out my contact. I just got lucky for a change.

So happy mongering to you folks, and I really hope I won't have the need for sometime to come.

Snow.

I am sure that was you in immigration a few weeks back with the sign around his neck asking for 'friends' LOL.

It is always better to have a full time GFE fili IMHO as then you will really benefit. But now you need lessons from uncle WR in how to make her kinky and share with your friends while you watch, and how to leave her at home while you pop out for more filis bring them back and persuade her to be bisexual.

Now as you may not know these lessons in detail am happy to be the 'visiting professor' LOL Just PM where and when my friend LOL

[Kabul Guy]

I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?

Start off with a non-threatening profile, something that would attract the ladies. Make it funny.

Cast a wide net; send friend requests to as many ladies who catch your fancy.

Look for ladies in other places than just the browse function, Look at guys with a large number of female friends and send them all friend requests, look at the ladies friends as well for other sexy ladies.

When a friend request is accepted, send a message thanking them for being a friend and asking if they want to chat.

Play pets and send winks and luv to get their attention as well.

If they chat play it from there, ask them to lunch or other meeting that is non-threatening.

Remember in chatting up the ladies, you should not come on too strong, be funny and pay them compliments, all ladies like to be told that they are beautiful and have a nice smile / laugh.

[ExpatNLookin]

TAGGED has been wonderful for me. I have and still to this day maintain contact with so many good pussies. Here is a small sample.

I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?

[Snow1998]

I have been keeping away from the pickup bars and WGs for sometime now as I've been casting a net to pick a regular. I had given my contact to this girl (details withheld intentionally) who works as a cashier and new in Dubai. I didn't know how new untill she was in bed with me last night. First time she came out was a few days back as she had just bought a phone and sim and called me first. I was taken completey by surprise as I really didn't expect it. She hopped a cab (on my request) with a friend (also new) and joined me at a club I was in. We ate drank and danced till closing time and the vibes were really good with her, we were into each other from the word go. Maybe it was the recent display of some insensitiveness on the board that got my sympathy and feelings into high gear I don't know, but I just felt a need to make her life just even a little bit better than the deal she has here on 1600 / month. I was upfront on day 1 that whatever we have is while she and I remain in Dubai and it cannot go beyond that. Maybe she believed me or not I'm not sure but thats a line I keep reminding her. She was so fragile and naive (for want of a better word) that I could have taken her home that night and she would have just succmubed. But I was not going to do that. Dropped both of them off at their accommodation around 4am. The next day I picked her up after her shift at 1am brought her to my place as she said she liked to come with me. She was tired from a 10 hr shift and hungry so I cooked her a meal. She had never had a man cook for her! We got intimate and had some of the most beautuful sex I've had in a very very long time. She was really so into it and after the MPs and WGs and brothels I've had in the recent past this was really something else. She feels she has found a rock she can depend on and at the same time fill her womanly (or I should say girly) needs. And she is aware of all the other benefits for her in this relationship. So I won't be contributing any FRs untill this lasts for the simple reason that I don't need to visit such places, though I will keep abreast of what goes on. And as for all the old and young chatter that has gone on recently I saved the best (at least for me it is) for last. I am just a few years shy of a half century and my new found GF is 23! She has very catogorically told me her preference as she finds me so caring and trustworthy, her words not mine. No bragging here merely stating a fact. And as for how long she has been here today is day 9 and no I didn't stand at the airport immigration handing out my contact. I just got lucky for a change.

So happy mongering to you folks, and I really hope I won't have the need for sometime to come.

[Greek Niko]

TAGGED has been wonderful for me. I have and still to this day maintain contact with so many good pussies. Here is a small sample.

[Ruffeek]

On Friday. 8 June, I collected my TAGGED pet, TAV, from her place of employment and brought her over to my place for an excellent session where I MAPped her quite thoroughly (see my earlier report here For a more detailed note for that day).

As per our agreement, I collected her again on her next day off, Saturday. 16 June. The plan was to take her to the observation deck at Burj Khalifa (tickets purchased online a week earlier) , stop for a quick lunch somewhere (eventually, it was Nando's on SZR) and then head to my place (we reached home at around 1430hrs).

We stayed at my place till about 1830hrs. And it was ONLY about sex, sex, and more sex. Since I had treated her as a lady at Burj Khalifa and over lunch, I could treat her quite the opposite at home.

Our next date is planned for Friday, June 22 (her next day off). But, I might be occupied elsewhere and so, I might regretfully cancel.

From here on, I will let the pictures tell the story, with minimal comments. The pictures are all posted in the photo gallery starting from this post (will edit post to add links as soon as report is up).

At The Top: AED 200. 00.

Lunch bill: AED 140. 00 including AED 20. 00 tip.

Fuel to AUH and back x 2 trips: AED 100. 00.

So yeah, as Snow1998 says, it's already definitely not free!

R

[Snow1998]

I am currently going through my well-deserved Bachelor Days (June 5 till June 27) as wifey and tyke are away, visiting her family in a CIS country.

Friday morning, I had arrangements to pick up a Fili from Abu Dhabi and spend the day with her. She works as a food-serving maid in an Embassy. She gets a day off every alternate Friday and on Saturday of the following week. I shall refer to her as "TAV"

I came across TAV on Tagged (she is one of my "Pets") a few months ago.

R

This can't be for free for long. A request for some finances for an ailing mother or such might be coming soon. Enjoy it while you can.

[BionicMan]

I am currently going through my well-deserved Bachelor Days (June 5 till June 27) as wifey and tyke are away, visiting her family in a CIS country.

She has sent me a message saying that June 22 is the absolute last time. She claims that she wants to abstain for at least a few months so that her Fiance will not suspect her. I'd be quite happy with that arrangement. My affection for her is not likely to outlast three visitations! R

Will you believe that? A girl that goes quickly into a BBBJ (no CIM?) while you drive the car is not capable to abstain for months. IMHO