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10-28-21 13:00 #1094
Posts: 3042Originally Posted by BaxterSlade [View Original Post]
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10-28-21 03:45 #1093
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Another point that I want to make regarding relationships with bar girls is the following:
It is extremely difficult for bar girls to find jobs in Tijuana that enable them to earn a living. This is especially true with those that have no "preppa" or the equivalent of a high school diploma. This is why there are so many beautiful women working in the bars as they can actually survive on the bar money, even fichas alone. There options are few, including working in a factory, being hair stylists, working in a restaurant, etc. These jobs pay very little. To the tune of may 60-75 dollars a week. Most of these women are the victims of an ex-boyfriend or husband who has cheated on them and left them with kids. One of the girls I had a relationship with got a nursing degree and couldn't make more than a hundred dollars a week (some will challenge me on this but I know for a fact). Therefore, when you do get into a relationship, unless you are ok with the girl staying and working in the bars (where their best choice for making any decent cash lies), you are going to end up forking over substantial amounts of money for food, rent, clothes, sicknesses, etc. And, of course if they have kids, you can count on expenses for school, uniforms, etc. Etc. If you have the money to keep the girl out of the bar then that is a plus. I am not rich, but I have made a good income. The girls I had relationships with didn't want to work in the bars and I didn't want them to either. Therefore, I ended up paying for everything. So, the question you have to ask yourself, is. Is it worth it? And, frankly, I got tired of forking over the dough because there was always something that required more money. Always.
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10-27-21 19:49 #1092
Posts: 227Originally Posted by BaxterSlade [View Original Post]
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10-27-21 17:50 #1091
Posts: 1064Originally Posted by RikyMichaels7 [View Original Post]
Here is some info I have learned over the years. It doesn't take long to figure out if its ONLY about the money, that pretty much summed up the short term relationships. First thing I learned is work slowly, if you meet someone you are attracted to and take them up right away as soon as you become a client that right there pretty much wipes out any chance of a real relationship. You guys might be happy to learn the next thing I learned. Is it important to be guapo (handsome) , hell no I'm old ugly and balding. In the 3 long term relationships I have had the most important thing that has made me good relationship material is being accepted by their families. So far in most cases I hear the same thing, the kids never like who mom is dating and for some reason they like me. Only thing I can think of is I do resemble a clown Jajajaja. But being accepted by the kids does seem to outweigh money and looks. And it is rare to find a bar chica without kids.
So these bg relationships have been the best years of my life seeing Tijuana outside the zona norte has been exciting and fun. I have done it all been to all kinds of fiestas. One advantage is when going to a wedding or similar event you will end up assigned to the table with her bg friends also known as the hooker table.
The first 2 relationships involved girls who had been in the bar life for years but were ready for an exit strategy. They made relationships a little harder to accept. I can never forget the time waking up in bed with my new GF after a great night together she gets a phone call and explains she has to go fuck someone but she will be back in a couple hours. Ok so we can agree these type of relationships are far from normal.
On a side note the current GF was never really a hooker I met her on her first and last night working in a bar. She has been a real sweetheart most of the time. Only drawback of not being a seasoned sex worker is she can't give a decent BJ. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have the dreaded real BF, she is always available and I do have a key to the casa. But I have noticed she does post a lot of sexy pictures on social media and seems to do a lot of facebook flirting. I recently got in her phone and discovered at least one guy sending her money via western union. When confronted she says don't worry she blames some amiga she met on fb who was teaching her how to pick up some extra money. So I quizzed her, so what do you tell these guys? How handsome they are and you love them. She says of course not you tell them how sad you are because your mom is dying and she can't afford the surgery to save her life. Jajaja where have I heard that one before.
As far as these relationships go the one thing I learned from a member of this forum that has proved to be the most important is. The one who cares the most has the most to lose.
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10-27-21 16:25 #1090
Posts: 1912Originally Posted by BigMagick [View Original Post]
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10-27-21 08:22 #1089
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10-27-21 07:24 #1088
Posts: 6493Why so serious?
Agree with NeverOnce.
I am in this forum to exchange info to get better sexepriences, also to share good things with the bros and have fun with them. I have no need to prove anything to anyone. So far I have lots of fun with quite a few bros in the forum or on site in many mongering locations. Some bros have shown me the sexiest and funniest times in other countries.
I would leave others to pursue their preferences. Only when they are near the point of going in harm ways, then I would let them know in the gentlest ways.
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10-27-21 05:38 #1087
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10-27-21 03:06 #1086
Posts: 55Why be a jerk
Originally Posted by CaptainSolo [View Original Post]
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10-27-21 02:50 #1085
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by Dcrist0527 [View Original Post]
Thing is when you get in these discussions it is always one or the other. She is totally into you or totally into your money. The reality is that it is a sliding scale. Yes, pros are 100% about the money but is any woman really 100% into the guy? It is not 1% about money or how the guy makes her look good? I do not know if I buy that 0% is possible with any woman.
So if you accept my premise, I would like to ask you something about Mexican versus American strippers. What I found is that just having plain ho sex (100% transactional) was not that satisfying, so I went the sugar baby route. It varied based on the relationship but what I would say is a pro was 100% money, a sugar baby was closer to 40 to 60% about money, and a GF / wife would ideally be 25% or less. And the SB sex or GF sex was usually light years better than ho sex.
With American strippers, if I went below 90% pay for play, I would get burned. What I mean is that if you had anything other than a casual acquaintance level relationship, you would be taken advantage of. If you gave a stripper a million dollars, she would not appreciate it but think "Yeah, I am so hot. I deserve it. " or "Shit, I should have gotten $2 million out of him. " As long as I was firm on the amount I gave her, things were fine.
In general then, I gave up trying to make strippers into SBs, but once I accepted how they were, they were great. I had some amazing sex, and the sex, because there was even that small percentage of intimacy, was much better than with hos.
I had to stick to seeking.com/ SA to get sugar babies in the USA. Seeking.com or SA is different when I went abroad, and I had several chances to make women into GFs and twice I felt comfortable enough to do that.
I did meet a former stripper in Monterrey who was on seeking / SA. She was different in that she did not have her hand out after sex was over and expect payment like a ho. I helped her out and took her on trips and had a great time with her but she was not IMO GF material. SB material for sure but not GF material.
To me, in the USA, there is like this stripper code that is kind of fucked up. It's like "I may grind on a guy's dick topless for money, but I do not fuck or suck dick for it. " As long as you can help the stripper hide the fact that she is not breaking that code, she can be down to play.
So my question is this: Because the Mexican strippers are all fucking and sucking anyway, have you been able to get over that 90% hump? Do you think that is possible? What do you think is the percentage you can get to with a Mexican stripper? IMO and from what I saw the Mexican stripper was not as jaded because being a pro is legal in Mexico and not in the USA.
I am seeing an amazing Colombian woman now and it does not matter to me now, but I did meet a 20 year old from Puerto Vallarta in Tijuana who had only been working in the club a week. We had chemistry and she had an orgasm when we had sex. She was open to the idea of showing me around PV and hooking up with me if I went and saw her. Even though I did not have time to follow up, I felt like with her, she was potential SB material and I could have gotten over that 90% hump with her.
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10-27-21 02:26 #1084
Posts: 120You can take the puta out of the bar but not the bar out of the puta
A working girl is always going to think like one. Same way a doctor thinks like a doctor outside of work too. I know this is all fantasy and pay for play but maybe dating is the wrong word. Its more of just a friendship I would have with working girls. I rather hang out with the dregs of society like putas, drug users and mongers they are more real then the upper class. I have briefly rubbed shoulders with the upper class in America and they are miserable, sad, evil folks. So maybe y'all are right but my goal wouldn't be to fuck them / use them. The contrary actually, I would do for them the same thing I do to all my other friends. Provide them with genuine value and be of service to them. Sure some people take advantage but I know better. Its just the way I chose to live my life.
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10-26-21 22:28 #1083
Posts: 227Absolutely True
Originally Posted by CaptainSolo [View Original Post]
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10-26-21 21:45 #1082
Posts: 1458Originally Posted by CaptainSolo [View Original Post]
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10-26-21 18:06 #1081
Posts: 6493Let's be real
Big Majick,
Bar girls have to pay rent, buy food, booze, drugs, support BFs, kids, families. For most it's a struggle for survival every night. Working in the bar is very serious business to them. They have met hundreds guys who think they are slick and suave and can game them into giving free or cheap sex. Most have been fucked, impregnated, saddled with babies and abandoned in their young ages by guys. Bar girls are probably the most cunning and cynical creatures on earth. They just hate and despise guys who try to take advantage of them. Good luck to try to find that niave innocent young girls who have not gone through a couple abusive relationships and are unattached, looking for romantic relationships with guys in puta bars.
Doers anybody walk into a burger shop and hope to get a free $1 burger? Bar girls' companies, time and sex sessions are their serious business. To them guys who try to get free sex or cheap sex are thieves and cheaters, deserving the worst treatments.
Some guys think they are special and can convince bar girls to turn GFs with promises, flatteries, gifts, wining, dining, vacations. The girls would enjoy all those perks, but it's business to them. The need to get paid for their companies is foremost in their minds. Unless the guys pay them for sex on the vacation, she would feel being taken advantaged of. Even the hottest girls who make a lot of money every night fucking guys in the club, not strapped for money, would still insist on getting paid for sex on vacation and feel cheated if not compensated.
It's well known girls in Mexico start their sex lives early. They have plenty of guys they involve with deeply. They don't need more personal relationships with some BS guys in the bars who may only try to fuck them cheap, use them and potentially exploit them. Most have BFs, pimps and kids to support. While there may be exceptions, bar girls are almost always pay for play to mongers, no pay, no play. Show them your hearts of gold and your big wallets and find out how far you can get.
A few of my wingmen thought their generous gifts and expensive vacations compensated the girls for their companies and sex, but the girls feel they are entitled to those free goodies, and still have to be paid for their time and sessions. They called these guys some ugly names and quickly cut off contacts.
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10-26-21 16:16 #1080
Posts: 640I agree completely
Originally Posted by Sol12 [View Original Post]