Ho Chi Minh City - Massage Parlors

[Ishtar123]

9 paragraphs on the seemingly intricate logic behind a decision to DATY or not to DATY, on a commercial sex forum.

And you think I was abusive?

You must be right ravenboy. You are a senior member and your wisdom is as such also. I read all 54 pages of the thread before I made my first post. (something you guys repeatedly ask people to do when they ask stupid questions) I didn't think my 9 paragraphs (although I didn't count them before I posted and I only separated them as paragraphs to make reading easier, rather than a long continuous post) compared to the almost 2 pages of fighting that are in this thread somewhere back in the middle.

As opposed to the fighting, my post was on topic and didn't violate any rules of the forum to my knowledge. It was also not a duplicate post / idea of a historical post.

In a perfect world, it would be nice if people respected one another. If you wished to opine on the subject matter, then your welcome to give your opinion. If you didn't think it was something that needed your input, then you should have let it go, rather than insulting me.

[Mik Hcmc]

9 paragraphs on the seemingly intricate logic behind a decision to DATY or not to DATY, on a commercial sex forum.

And you think I was abusive?

I think you quoting his entire post was abusive.

Anyway regardless of the girl, if you want to go for the growl then do it, if not then don't.

[Raverboy]

Why be abusive? Why discourage people from posting?

9 paragraphs on the seemingly intricate logic behind a decision to DATY or not to DATY, on a commercial sex forum.

And you think I was abusive?

[Milkweed]

Remarkable. I suggest you make an appointment with a psychologist and ask his / her opinion instead.

Why be abusive? Why discourage people from posting?

[Ishtar123]

Thanks Raverboy for your brilliant insight to my sincere post about others' opinions on the subject and welcome to the forum! I see you wouldn't take the time to give your own personal opinion, rather an insincere poke and an attempt at insult. Nice to meet you too!

Do they even have psych doctors in Vietnam? I didn't think they were that advanced yet? They barely understand basic medicine yet, let alone intangible mental health.

It looks like I won't be welcome here, maybe I'll just go back to lurking and avoid posting any future reports and / or contributing to the forum.

[Raverboy]

I was wondering what others think about DATY with SW's? I did some quick reading of posts on the internet, (Google Search) and I found that it seems like the VAST majority of people say that DATY with a SW is NASTY, GROSS, and all kinds of other such words. The reasons for this are pretty obvious I guess, because of the unknown number of customers they have in a day.

For me, I like it and it makes it MUCH more exciting for me. Like a GFE. The quick B&G's on DBP aren't really my thing, it's over so fast with a little touchy feely that it's not so memorable.

I prefer a previously mentioned MP in Q7, the girls get completely naked and climb up on the table with you. A lot of body to body contact, kissing, licking, etc. It's with these girls that I like to DATY. I have never yet had a FS anywhere. The Q7 MP girls offer everything except FS.

My question is that I ask myself if it's really safe to DATY. I researched a ton and found out that the really dangerous one (HIV) is very difficult to transmit from woman to man. The other stuff can all be cured. Also, Gonorrhea is also very difficult to transmit from pussy to mouth because it lives deep in the cervix.

(Sorry for the unpleasant subject matter)

At this particular MP, I asked if I could FS with them. They said no. It wasn't on offer. I've had 3 different girls here (seen the same girls a few times) and none would FS. I also asked for phone number and if they would go to a hotel with me, again, all 3 said no hotel.

So I'm thinking that they won't (or usually won't) FS with anybody else either, and therefor DATY is not so disgusting, because nobody is FS them. That is my logic, that DATY with a SW is not nasty if the SW is not FS. I imagine at the very most, others are also DATY with her, but these girls do a good job of showering and washing right after the fun, and there's no bodily fluids up inside them.

Whereas if I was to go to the Korean area for FS at the barber shop, I might be inclined to FS, but not to DATY. Again, it's because who knows how many Little Smokey's they've had inside them just before you. It's difficult for them to wash up inside thoroughly, etc.

So that's my logic, if I am able to assume the SW is not FS, (by me asking her myself if she will FS, and she says no) then I feel okay to DATY. If it is a FS SW, then I feel that DATY might not be the best idea, and just go for the FS only. (However, as it really excites me, I'd like to DATY) Anyway, I haven't done a FS yet.

I'm curious to know if anybody else uses such logic as I described above, or if anybody else has thought about it the same way? Or am I alone in thinking like this?

Remarkable. I suggest you make an appointment with a psychologist and ask his / her opinion instead.

[Ishtar123]

I was wondering what others think about DATY with SW's? I did some quick reading of posts on the internet, (Google Search) and I found that it seems like the VAST majority of people say that DATY with a SW is NASTY, GROSS, and all kinds of other such words. The reasons for this are pretty obvious I guess, because of the unknown number of customers they have in a day.

For me, I like it and it makes it MUCH more exciting for me. Like a GFE. The quick B&G's on DBP aren't really my thing, it's over so fast with a little touchy feely that it's not so memorable.

I prefer a previously mentioned MP in Q7, the girls get completely naked and climb up on the table with you. A lot of body to body contact, kissing, licking, etc. It's with these girls that I like to DATY. I have never yet had a FS anywhere. The Q7 MP girls offer everything except FS.

My question is that I ask myself if it's really safe to DATY. I researched a ton and found out that the really dangerous one (HIV) is very difficult to transmit from woman to man. The other stuff can all be cured. Also, Gonorrhea is also very difficult to transmit from pussy to mouth because it lives deep in the cervix.

(Sorry for the unpleasant subject matter)

At this particular MP, I asked if I could FS with them. They said no. It wasn't on offer. I've had 3 different girls here (seen the same girls a few times) and none would FS. I also asked for phone number and if they would go to a hotel with me, again, all 3 said no hotel.

So I'm thinking that they won't (or usually won't) FS with anybody else either, and therefor DATY is not so disgusting, because nobody is FS them. That is my logic, that DATY with a SW is not nasty if the SW is not FS. I imagine at the very most, others are also DATY with her, but these girls do a good job of showering and washing right after the fun, and there's no bodily fluids up inside them.

Whereas if I was to go to the Korean area for FS at the barber shop, I might be inclined to FS, but not to DATY. Again, it's because who knows how many Little Smokey's they've had inside them just before you. It's difficult for them to wash up inside thoroughly, etc.

So that's my logic, if I am able to assume the SW is not FS, (by me asking her myself if she will FS, and she says no) then I feel okay to DATY. If it is a FS SW, then I feel that DATY might not be the best idea, and just go for the FS only. (However, as it really excites me, I'd like to DATY) Anyway, I haven't done a FS yet.

I'm curious to know if anybody else uses such logic as I described above, or if anybody else has thought about it the same way? Or am I alone in thinking like this?

[Muse Fan]

I think in general it is hard for a total newbie in a foreign country to stand his ground and I have to say it was a bit uncomfortable for me. Glad that they backed down pretty quickly, otherwise I would have been flustered!

In terms of CIM, I had a parital CIM but you are right in that it doesn't seem to be the norm. I think I surprised her and she took the first couple of shots and then promptly put the towel in place of her warm mouth. Oh well.

I took a friend today. The experience was pretty much the same. But this time there was only one 1 thing different.

As I was finishing I told my friend to wait for me before he went to the front desk. He's shy and I was worried that maybe his girl might try to over charge him somehow. We go out to the front desk and last time there was a guy there who didn't pay me any attention as I placed the 200, 000 dong on the table. He said nothing and I walked out. But THIS time there wasn't anyone there. My friend's girl goes by the desk and she asks for 300, 000 with a smile. I give her a quick look and realize what she's trying to do. Fuck that. I pull out my cash that I keep in a rubber band, and she actually offers to take my bundle and sift out the 300, 000 for me. AWWWWW, what a fucking sweetheart, right. I give her the look and throw 200, 000 on the table and tell my friend to do the same. She says a few words with a smile, I believe she was still trying to ask for 300, 000. But I told her no, I know the rate, and to quit fucking around. She gets the point and doesn't bring it up again.

Don't budge. Stick to the rate. And god bless.

[Ishtar123]

well i tried one of the cafe om's across from the entrance of dam sen park. didn't get the name, sorry. it's got plants around the entrance, dark and hard to see inside. park the motorbike inside the cafe, which is nice so it's not noticeable from the street. then another archway type of entrance again lined with plant-life. i sat in the back with my girl, who was about a 4-5. she rubbed on me, played with my nipples, sucked on them too and rubbed jr. through my pants. she allowed me finger access to her hairy love muffin for a few minutes down the back of her shorts and some titty feel. that's it! no hj, nothing else. i asked about hj, she said no several times. so i had this and a cafe sua the all for 100k. i protested the 100k bill without a hj. but she said the coffee was 35, 000 and the remaining 65, 000 was tip i guess. all in all 100k is not a lot. but i left hornier than when i came in. is that the point of these places? ugh. been to one on minh phuong twice, hj both times, although second time the girl gave hj like her arm was a high speed robotic device. too rushed in my opinion, and she damaged the skin on jr, had to wait 3-4 days before i could get back into action because of healing time! by the way, minh phuon was 150k both times, including drink.

ishtar

[Wendella]

I googled this street many times, but I don't see it on the map anywhere, zoomed in and out. The map is showing me somewhere off CMT8 past 3/2 street. Is that the right area? Do you know what district or near a cross street?

"This street"? Maybe you didn't notice that you didn't include the name of the street. Lucky for you I have ESP and therefore know you're trying to find Dinh Cong Trang street. (either that or I clicked the link to the post you quoted, which had the street name in its title. Titles don't become part of the quoted post.) That Icarus guy misspelled the name of the street, missed the final G on the last part.

Anyway, go to this website http://www.diadiem.com/ And put in the correct name and you'll find it, still in District 1 up off Hai Ba Trung, a very narrow side street (alley really) running parallel to Vo Thi Sau, between that street and Tan Dinh market.

[Cowboy Brew]

I checked out this street that Expatriot mentioned a little while back.

It's a pretty short street and I believe expat mentioned there was a small number of korean barbershops there, but I only saw one and it stood out. It had the barbershop blue and red swirly poles and all.

Anyways, I went with a friend on my motorbike. Not hard to find. Walked in at about 930 at night. About maybe 8 or 9 girls available. Some decent, some ok, and 1 that I thought was really cute. I picked the cute one. Her name was Ly. 20 yrs old. When we get in she walks away to get me some water and condoms I guess. Took her about 10 minutes. Then we take a short shower with COLD water. She does BBBJ, fuck in different postitions, we kissed maybe twice, but she let me suck all over her and let me do what I wanted. She never rushed me, never complained.

Afterwards, she looked at me maybe hoping that I would put on my clothes and leave, but I asked for a massage. She obliged without a problem. Not a bad massage. She did my whole backside first for 10-15 minutes. Then she got up and I asked for the frontside. She obliged with no problem yet again. Then I put on my clothes and left.

Now. Here is the cool part. When I paid downstairs at the desk, I paid 620, 000 which was what I thought I saw quoted by expat. I heard of maybe 600, 000 from someone else, but wasn't sure which to pay since it was my first time.

The lady counts the money, then looks up at me and hands me back the 20, 000. I know it's not a big difference, but from most of my experiences here in siagon, most people would gladly pocket the money and try to take more.

All in all a good experience. I would definitely return.

You are one lucky dude. Although I have never personally been ripped off in the mongering scene, I have encountered many attempts to overcharge me in food stalls and some outlets just because they realised I am a foreigner, which is not immediately obvious as I am Chinese. But most of these happened in DISTRICT ONE only while those in DISTRICT FIVE generally give me no issue at all. I have ate in many sidewalk hawkers and pay the normal price.

[Ishtar123]

I'm new to this forum, but want to contribute at least something. Some people on here say don't discuss price at all, just have her do her thing, then pay the amount on this board. I myself am not comfortable with that, as there are also many reports on here about disasters regarding surprise final bills in the 500k and up range. So for myself, when I go "massage" hunting I always clarify the price up front, I don't want any surprises and I don't want to talk about it during the massage. I can personally relax more this way. Second, I often ask the manager / mamasan if I can see the room. If it's a new place, and my first time I ask if I can see the room. Then I get an idea of the layout, room size, cleanliness, privacy etc. Because I also don't want to be in the same room with another guy. I want a private room. Most of the time, the massage girl herself will escort me to "see" the room. This is good because I can ask her if there are any "extras" before I commit to the massage. If no, than I don't waste my time / money. If yes, we can negotiate right there on the spot before I commit to anything.

Hope that helps!

[Ishtar123]

Been there two times now, after tip from a forum member.

First time I take a girl with huuuuuuuuuge tits. Fake, but good work I must say. BBBJ CIM 250K. First they say. 400k but I say, no, my friend pay 200k. They say okey but the girl still wanted 250K when I left. Next time I took the other girl whith great tits, a little smaller but still good (my first girl was not around). She asked for 250K as she remembered me from the last time.

Its easy to find, just walk in to the street from the main road. Its on the left side. After the Hot Tuc (B&G) there is a Karaoke-bar I think. I went in there as a mistake first time. They are door to door.

Have fun, well worth 200-250K.

I googled this street many times, but I don't see it on the map anywhere, zoomed in and out. The map is showing me somewhere off CMT8 past 3/2 street. Is that the right area? Do you know what district or near a cross street?

[Ishtar123]

Hello, all, I'm a newbie to posting, been lurking for a week or so. I've read that there have been a couple raids at various places around town. Does anybody know what happens to an expat if your inside one of these places when it gets raided? If your not caught with your pants down do they let you go home? If pants are down are you taken to jail and put in the local newspaper?

I know the chances of being in the wrong place at the wrong time are slim, but it is a risk.

Is there a fine? Do you just give the local cop on the scene a couple hundred k?

Thanks

[Muse Fan]

I checked out this street that Expatriot mentioned a little while back.

It's a pretty short street and I believe expat mentioned there was a small number of korean barbershops there, but I only saw one and it stood out. It had the barbershop blue and red swirly poles and all.

Anyways, I went with a friend on my motorbike. Not hard to find. Walked in at about 930 at night. About maybe 8 or 9 girls available. Some decent, some ok, and 1 that I thought was really cute. I picked the cute one. Her name was Ly. 20 yrs old. When we get in she walks away to get me some water and condoms I guess. Took her about 10 minutes. Then we take a short shower with COLD water. She does BBBJ, fuck in different postitions, we kissed maybe twice, but she let me suck all over her and let me do what I wanted. She never rushed me, never complained.

Afterwards, she looked at me maybe hoping that I would put on my clothes and leave, but I asked for a massage. She obliged without a problem. Not a bad massage. She did my whole backside first for 10-15 minutes. Then she got up and I asked for the frontside. She obliged with no problem yet again. Then I put on my clothes and left.

Now. Here is the cool part. When I paid downstairs at the desk, I paid 620, 000 which was what I thought I saw quoted by expat. I heard of maybe 600, 000 from someone else, but wasn't sure which to pay since it was my first time.

The lady counts the money, then looks up at me and hands me back the 20, 000. I know it's not a big difference, but from most of my experiences here in siagon, most people would gladly pocket the money and try to take more.

All in all a good experience. I would definitely return.