Bangkok Reports

[Bnlee2]

I know how this "Loser" thing started, and thought it was funny at first. But now I am thinking about it more and more (probably due to a self complexion). How is it that society determines what is right or wrong? What makes my society correct and the other society wrong? How am I the loser for doing what I enjoy? Who is the loser below?

1. The guy married to a woman, 7 yrs older then him, and has sex with her 4-6 times a year.And who only married her because he knocked her up.

2. The guy that has never married and has 14 kids with 9 different women, and doesn't even have a pot to [CodeWord140] in.

3. The guy that bought a hugh house, that cost him 60% of his pay check because the interest rate has adjusted?

4. The guy that got forclosed on?

5. The guy that was a CEO for a large company, that now how laid off 5,000 people. Or worst yet closed doors all together.
6. The CEO who makes 14 million a year, pays $800,000 to redo his office, who spends $40 million for a new jet, and then closes a factory due to a drop in sales.
7. The guy that is elected Govenor of a State and then tries selling a Senator's seat (after the Senator is elected president).
8. The guy who steals consently to buy drugs. Who never graduated from school. Who never held a jump for more then 1 year.
9. The guy who has never made more then $10 an hour.
10. The guy who will never buy, let a lone drive a BMW.
11. The girl who got knocked up at 14 yrs old.
12. The girl who dropped out of school, who only followed her families foot steps.
13. The girl who has $25k in credit card debit.
14. The girl who gets knocked up on a one night stand, and only knows the guy as John Doe. Who has 5 kids by 3 different guys.
15. The girl who marries the guy that beats her every day, and still loves stays with him.
16. The girl that eats Bon Bon's everyday, while watching Queen Oprah.
17. The girl who thinks buffalo have wings.
18. The girl who only has sex with her husband 4 times a year, and gives it to her husband on his birthday as a birthday present.
19. The girl that has 1 pair of shoes for each day of the month.
20. The girl whose favorite restuarant is McDonald's.

WTF.... just because I chase pussy, why does it make me a LOSER? I confess I am addicted to it like a crackhead is addicted to crack. I am guilty as charged. I am doing what makes me happy, and I am not doing anything that is hurting anyone else. Atleast I am in control of my finances enough that I can do it with out having to charge it on my credit card (which he/she would default in) or take a 2nd mortgage out to do it.

Enough said about Loser's. Refer to me as a guy pursuing the American Dream. I will now climb down off my soap box and take the back lash. M&M out!

21. The guy and/or girl that can not SPELL.

[Retired Army]

1. The guy married to a woman, 7 yrs older then him, and has sex with her 4-6 times a year.And who only married her because he knocked her up.
2. The guy that has never married and has 14 kids with 9 different women, and doesn't even have a pot to [CodeWord140] in.
3. The guy that bought a hugh house, that cost him 60% of his pay check because the interest rate has adjusted?
4. The guy that got forclosed on?
5. The guy that was a CEO for a large company, that now how laid off 5,000 people. Or worst yet closed doors all together.
6. The CEO who makes 14 million a year, pays $800,000 to redo his office, who spends $40 million for a new jet, and then closes a factory due to a drop in sales.
7. The guy that is elected Govenor of a State and then tries selling a Senator's seat (after the Senator is elected president).
8. The guy who steals consently to buy drugs. Who never graduated from school. Who never held a jump for more then 1 year.
9. The guy who has never made more then $10 an hour.
10. The guy who will never buy, let a lone drive a BMW.
11. The girl who got knocked up at 14 yrs old.
12. The girl who dropped out of school, who only followed her families foot steps.
13. The girl who has $25k in credit card debit.
14. The girl who gets knocked up on a one night stand, and only knows the guy as John Doe. Who has 5 kids by 3 different guys.
15. The girl who marries the guy that beats her every day, and still loves stays with him.
16. The girl that eats Bon Bon's everyday, while watching Queen Oprah.
17. The girl who thinks buffalo have wings.
18. The girl who only has sex with her husband 4 times a year, and gives it to her husband on his birthday as a birthday present.
19. The girl that has 1 pair of shoes for each day of the month.
20. The girl whose favorite restuarant is McDonald's.

All of the above

[Mimonger]

I know how this "Loser" thing started, and thought it was funny at first. But now I am thinking about it more and more (probably due to a self complexion). How is it that society determines what is right or wrong? What makes my society correct and the other society wrong? How am I the loser for doing what I enjoy? Who is the loser below?
1. The guy married to a woman, 7 yrs older then him, and has sex with her 4-6 times a year.And who only married her because he knocked her up.
2. The guy that has never married and has 14 kids with 9 different women, and doesn't even have a pot to [CodeWord140] in.
3. The guy that bought a hugh house, that cost him 60% of his pay check because the interest rate has adjusted?
4. The guy that got forclosed on?
5. The guy that was a CEO for a large company, that now how laid off 5,000 people. Or worst yet closed doors all together.
6. The CEO who makes 14 million a year, pays $800,000 to redo his office, who spends $40 million for a new jet, and then closes a factory due to a drop in sales.
7. The guy that is elected Govenor of a State and then tries selling a Senator's seat (after the Senator is elected president).
8. The guy who steals consently to buy drugs. Who never graduated from school. Who never held a jump for more then 1 year.
9. The guy who has never made more then $10 an hour.
10. The guy who will never buy, let a lone drive a BMW.
11. The girl who got knocked up at 14 yrs old.
12. The girl who dropped out of school, who only followed her families foot steps.
13. The girl who has $25k in credit card debit.
14. The girl who gets knocked up on a one night stand, and only knows the guy as John Doe. Who has 5 kids by 3 different guys.
15. The girl who marries the guy that beats her every day, and still loves stays with him.
16. The girl that eats Bon Bon's everyday, while watching Queen Oprah.
17. The girl who thinks buffalo have wings.
18. The girl who only has sex with her husband 4 times a year, and gives it to her husband on his birthday as a birthday present.
19. The girl that has 1 pair of shoes for each day of the month.
20. The girl whose favorite restuarant is McDonald's.

WTF.... just because I chase pussy, why does it make me a LOSER? I confess I am addicted to it like a crackhead is addicted to crack. I am guilty as charged. I am doing what makes me happy, and I am not doing anything that is hurting anyone else. Atleast I am in control of my finances enough that I can do it with out having to charge it on my credit card (which he/she would default in) or take a 2nd mortgage out to do it.
Enough said about Loser's. Refer to me as a guy pursuing the American Dream. I will now climb down off my soap box and take the back lash. M&M out!

[Ralph Kramden]

Andy

Well spoken as a true human being, which most of us are at the end of the day.

[Dextro Sol]

I haven't been to many FL Bars, just had a quick beer at Beergarden last November.

What ages of women can one expect to see at those places? Youngest and oldest, it would be interesting to hear your point of views about this.

What I mean is, how old are the oldest freelancers? How long do they last in this profession?

[The Seer]

Day 3 and another interesting experience, whilst not being p4p I thought I woul share it, anyway headed out with the intention of hitting annies then the nana complex or soi cowboy. On the way out I came across this young lass trying to lift some heavy looking crates onto the back of pickup, with no one obviously helping her the gentleman in me offered to help her, which was duly accepted, now she was quite attactive so I offered to buy her a drink, which was accepted and one thing led to another (I will leave that up to your sordid imagination) and we ended up back at my hotel, unfortunately she had to work tomorrow so left just before midnight. Moral of the story, no good deed goes unrewarded. Sometime I just can't figure Thai girls, here was a young girl, must have been 21 as she claimed, good looking choosing to go with me and not for money, middle aged and not in the best of shape, go figure. I guess I have to watch out that I don't gain a girlfriend, but then I am only in Bangkok for a week then can easily disapear as I only give my nuber for a thai sim I buy new every time I come to Bangkok.

Feeling a bit exhausted decided not to go to Cowboy, instead went for a quick rub and tug at Lavender soi 22, but the session was quite mediocre, same girl as last time but totally different, I guess she had had a long day as well. Still a competent massage which was the main thing I was after.

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[DRRonin]

The reality is that most girls will go wild for a young handsome man.

Watch their eyes and their body language when young guys go by. Like everyone else over 40, girls have told me numerous times they don't like going with young guys - and then minutes later when one goes by their eyes light up and they nearly get giddy. It's hard to blame them - I sure would not go with a woman 20 years older than me unless she had a gun to my head.

As to the debate on being a loser for coming here for sex, I plead guilty! It's certainly the way most of Western society looks at us and in truth so did I for quite a while. Now though that I am getting older and still getting laid with more different girls in a month than most non-losers do in their lifetime I am ok with that. Some people just aren't good at relationships and I am one of them. But I like sex and warm weather. When I was younger I felt guilty that I wasn't doing what was expected of me - get married, have kids, be a good neighbor - but now I am incredibly happy that I am not tied down for the remainder of my life to some middle class life of morality and monogamy waiting for the children to visit and my pension to kick in. Most of us are over here having fun, seeing the world, making friends and having new experiences all the time.

[Andy Abs]

The other side of the story.

We all read with great interest the exploits of Thailand’s numerous mongers, whether they be "vacation mongers" or "expat mongers". Well I thought I would just try to represent the other side of the industry with an account (straight from the horse’s mouth) from a lady working in a well known massage parlor. I will not mention any names of places or people.

The woman in question is in her thirties, but would easily pass as 28, like a lot of Thai women she has kept her age well. I would describe her as beautiful, she has lovely black bobbed hair and very pale skin, and she has no kids so she has a rather perfect body with very firm, verging on solid breasts. She is not hard core and maintains an air of serenity. In fact she is too polite considering her work.

I asked her did she like any part of her job. No she replied, only collecting the money at the end of the day, who would like this job! She told me sometimes when they get a nice looking customer they can be so arrogant and difficult to please, also it can be embarrassing for them as they do not really understand the motive of some really handsome men. Her words not mine. She also told me that when they get in the room many men change from the original meeting. Example: she had one customer who originally wanted a girl to do anal, but he did not like the girls on offer, so he chose her knowing she did not offer this service. When he got her in the room he insisted on anal and knowing he could cause many problems for her as he was a regular, she reluctantly agreed. Without going into too much detail she told me that I would not believe some of the weird shit they have to put up with (Japs). She told me she regularly does two ladies one man, this is not a favorite for her as she does not like eating pussy, which customers always insist on. I can understand that. I would not suck a cock! The girls can refuse customers and certain things. But she told me that when you start refusing life starts to get difficult and you are not recommended to customers. When I asked her about condoms she replied "I never do anything without a condom, not even oral".

She told me her best day was 6 customers in a 12 hour shift and this was when she first started at the parlor. So she was the new kid on the block and very popular. Three months on she is lucky to get one or two a day. She told me their life span is short. New girls come in and take the top positions and the favors of the mammasan /pappasan. Her best tip ever was 5000bt, but many times she gets nothing. Where she works she is favored by Thai customers, which suits her because she does not really like Farangs. I never really pushed for a reason, from between the lines I think it is just easier for her with Thai men, they are not so demanding.

If you looked at this woman you would never think she is in the sex industry. She is beautiful and has retained a very feminine character, her manners are flawless, she looks like the perfect wife material. So guys next time you are out there enjoying yourself, remember these girls have a story too, and they are human beings doing the worst job possible as far as Thai culture is concerned. When you are in a massage parlor and the girl seems shy about showing her body and covers quickly. That’s the real her!

Next time I go I am going to give a good tip, they deserve it. I wouldn't want to suck my cock!

[Cunning Stunt]

Gamahucher you seem to not be very observant for a former soldier. ..

Actually the point is that I am too observant! Too little passes under the radar. I appreciate that a bunch of savvy and streetwise guys with divergent and highly individualistic viewpoints are hardly likely to stay on topic for very long. I guess my point, obliquely made, is that as interesting as it is to be appraised of the personal details of a members successes and material assets, a few here do have an attention span slightly longer than that of a goldfish, and really only need to be told once!

You flatter me but I am no intellectual. There are members on this and other forums here who have much higher wattage brains than my meager possession. This diversity of intellects found here is of endless fascination, ranging from guys who can hardly seem to string a coherent sentence together to those who seem to write doctorate thesis's instead of reports. All brought together through a common goal to score pussy . Amazing.

[Retired Army]

Ok so you are a no raison d'être "shit" starter. Now thats what Warbucks calls a loser.

Takes one to know one?

[Retired Army]

If I may ask you in which country.

The only one that wanted me.

[The Seer]

Thanks, I am not so worried about myself, as I know full well most things can be treated and if not it is a risk we all run withour hobby. I am more concerned passing it on, now I enjoy uncovered oral (and yea I know that has risk as well, but AFAIK much lower than uncovered penetrative sex) and place like Tulip, Akane there is a fair bit of unprotected rubbing of cock against pussy. So I want to keep enjoying myself but don't want to increase risk to others. But enough of that, I am suffering jet lag badly so may as well write up my report to date.

Arrived Sunday from UK, the plan was half empty, never seen I empty like this and this is the high season, anyway staying at Livingstones, and sure it has its faults, like poor sound insulation between rooms, but they are more than made up by the benefits, including of course the sports bar, but mostly it is different than all the other corporate hotels I have stayed at and the attitude of the staff is always positive. Arrived at 4pm So dumped my bags and stright up to Akane, conveniently just round the corner. Don't think I've ever had a bad session there and this was no exception, it just wasnt one of the greats. Still went the the 90 min with oral actions, had a girl Fuyu, who was sweet, the usual session on the shower getting soapy and personnal then onto the bed for a short cat bath followed by good oral (and this girl knows her technique) though covered unfortunately, then a good solid massage. I have had some session here where we spent the whole time sucking and fucking, just didn't hit it off right this time. So feeling still a bit stiff from the flight but too tired for a take out, I then popped up to Lavender massage, which is one of my favourate oily's where you can have a good two hour massage with good hand relief, not everyone choice but I find a good option when feeling tired.

So onto today, hookd up with a grl met on TLL, and after a tour of the temples ended up back at Livingstones for an afternoon of fun, thinking on it seems a bit a sacrilegious.

Then spent a couple of hours in the sports bar with a full choice of the young ladies, will have to sample a couple of these this week but too much choice can be a bad thing if I can't make my mind up, but decided tonite that would go to Tulip, so a brisk walk to there and went for the two hour session, I am not going to name her as she was a delightfull girl and it wasnt her fault for the accident. So anyway into the shower for a soap and grope, nearly came there but knew more was to come, onto the bed for a cat bath and oral, this time uncovered, and if I though Fuyu was good this girl surpassed it she has the most amazing tongue. Then on with the cover and the main course, now when I am tired I often find it hard to cum and this was no exception, we fucked each other for nearly an hour before she noticed the cover had come off, afterwards we tried to resume but I was worried about it appening again so she finished me off with oral, still a nice end to the session. She really seemed to enjoy the session and I think she came multiple times, never had anything but grade A service at Tulips.

So back to choices, hopefully I will get some sleep soon, jet lag this time is a bumer, wonder what is open at 3am! Was thinking about popping down to Annies then Nana but not sure now.

Finally and I know its too late, Happy Chinese New Year

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[El Greco]

Things must be slow in BKK; just went through the past five pages: A YMMV report on Annies, squables about who's a loser and what age group P4P girls like, and something about a teeth cleaning. Hmmm. What we need is a stimulus package.

Agree with you.

Here is a stimulus package that will open all doors. Sorry I mean legs.

[Warbucks]

... Those who seem to view these threads, less as an exchange point for mongering information and adventures, and more as a cathartic reaffirmation of their own self image and worth. For who would use a bunch of mongers as a sounding board for a valuation statement regarding their own merits and achievements? Don’t think that is necessarily the kind of hard information that the target audience of forums like this really want to hear.

Or perhaps it’s best to just enjoy and fuck the self analysis .

Gamahucher you seem to not be very observant for a former soldier. The Thailand threads always go off topic. They were talking about toilets and housing material in the racism in Thailand thread if I recall correctly.
Just the other day you were telling us all about the cool weather in Manila. Is that mongering information?

Nobody is using this board as reaffirmation of their own self worth. I take it we are all successful in our own right that we travel the world at our leisure and especially in these hard economic times have money to waste on pussy.

I am really enjoying that “king’s” English that you use. It is simply amazing that the two most perverse guys on ISG seem to be highly intellectual. I find that somewhat oxymoronic.

[Bonzo1]

My advice is don't sweat it. If you caught anything (doubtful) it'll most likely be G or C or H, all of which would probably (*though not definitely) have symptoms...the first two of which would almost certainly be treatable.

If you are worried about HIV, don't be. Your odds are better of winning the lotto. But if it'll make you sleep better, get tested 6 weeks from now.

These things said, good to hear about your safe and healthy attitude. No harm in going to the doctor (I suggest after 6 weeks, if no symptoms) and running it all by him/her, and even taking the test.

Good luck (not that you'll need it).

-B-

On my second day in Bangkok staying at Livingstones I hve been ahvign a great time and was going to write some reports, but a recent trip to Tulips have left me somewhat concerned, as usual for Tulip had been really enjoying myself, went to change position to find the condom had come off and had to be retrieved from inside her pussy! , the girl seemed unconcerned, but I am now very concerned and would welcome some advice, obviously I need to and and get checked ut where and how long afterwards can I stop worrying.