Bangkok Reports

[Raj Patela]

Farang will go with anyone with a hole. An Asian won't! For most Asians, you have to have a certain look. If you don't have it you ain't getting a second look no matter how cheap you are.

By Asian I'm sure you mean Korean and Japanese and not an American Asian. There is a huge difference. Just like Thailand, Japanese and Korean are taught not to speak out. This is very frowned upon and you are looked down upon for complaining. In the Western world, complaining and bitching about everything under the sun is a way of life. Negativity is the norm. Asians aren't happy about getting crap service just like a Farang. However, they will take the loss and go quickly to the next girl rather than let it ruin their night that they have spent 2500 baht screwing a girl they could NEVER get in real life!

One common mistake for guys in Thermae is when they see a girl back into Thermae after 10 minutes. I hear stuff like oh the Japanese guy came in 3 minutes so the girl is back. Absolutely wrong. The Japanese guy kicked the girl out of his room in 3 minutes or less!

Last night I saw a Farang feeling up an Ugly Rainbow 5 girl. No Asian would touch her with a 10 foot Pole.

[Raj Patela]

Flags flags flags. Ok only 1 I saw.

I quickly thought it would be Chinese but is was a tour group of old what looked like Scsndies. Minimum age 65 or so.

The Plaza was Heaving with Humanity.

As I walked by you know who I saw she had her dinner with her. As I left the Plaza an 1. 5 hour later she had the same bowl. Leads me to think she didn't move the whole time. Hahaha.

Can any of you stand in the same place for that long.

[Banana Boi]

Meaning they don't complain in the room as much as Western dudes and are likely to accept the service offered and not make a fuss if it's not up to snuff and just move on. They are very picky about looks.

Farang will go with anyone with a hole. An Asian won't! For most Asians, you have to have a certain look. If you don't have it you ain't getting a second look no matter how cheap you are.

By Asian I'm sure you mean Korean and Japanese and not an American Asian. There is a huge difference. Just like Thailand, Japanese and Korean are taught not to speak out. This is very frowned upon and you are looked down upon for complaining. In the Western world, complaining and bitching about everything under the sun is a way of life. Negativity is the norm. Asians aren't happy about getting crap service just like a Farang. However, they will take the loss and go quickly to the next girl rather than let it ruin their night that they have spent 2500 baht screwing a girl they could NEVER get in real life!

One common mistake for guys in Thermae is when they see a girl back into Thermae after 10 minutes. I hear stuff like oh the Japanese guy came in 3 minutes so the girl is back. Absolutely wrong. The Japanese guy kicked the girl out of his room in 3 minutes or less!

[AmPervert]

...What kind of world exists where opportunities are so lacking, and situations are such that they have to resort to sex to pay the bills?...I can be reminded of how much worse other people have it. Hence, it's all about the power dynamics.....but really it's all about just lording it over them....

"resort to sex?" "lording it over them?" Yes, we are lucky that we were born in the richest country in the world but it was just luck. What a disrespectful attitude towards women who are providing you with just a small amount of happiness on this planet. I hope if you move to Thailand, you get a better attitude. Life is good. You are very lucky to have a life where you can travel to SE Asia. Don't make it a bad thing for the people in SE Asia who run across you. Smile, be respectful. Be happy and try to spread your happiness to others please. If you enjoy it in BKK (and travel to Siem Reap), you are halfway there man. Look on the bright side. It is brighter. LOL.

I'm thankful for Bangkok! The city that exists for one reason, and one reason only.

As someone mentioned already when you posted this before, Bangkok existed long before any monger found it. There are millions of people working really hard in BKK and they have nothing to do with us or the pleasure industry.

Think of saying that NYC exists just for it's sex industry. In the 80's, sex was truly everywhere in NYC. Paid sex is still easy to find in NYC but is that the reason NYC exists?

[Raj Patela]

Show me an establishment where majority of girls have Good attitudes I'll show you where to get HOT 1,000 baht girls.

[AmPervert]

Absolutely. Guys who are rejected at Thermae always come on here saying Thermae girls only want Japanese and Koreans. Not true. Been to Thermae with happy go lucky Farang and they have a blast. Been to Thermae with guys who don't smile and then I hear they didn't want me. Well who would with that grumpy look on your face? Been to Thermae with guys who don't know how to properly talk to a girl. Again I hear that Thermae girls only want Asians. I'm not even close to Brad Pitt in looks but I know how to smile and charm a girl in her early 20's. Learn that and you will do just fine at Thermae and every other venue in Thailand. Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too.

"Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too. ".

Excellent post Banana Boi.

[Goatscrot]

I occasionally read that Asian guys don't complain, but I find that hard to believe. About 2 weeks ago I was sitting in Thermae with an Asian friend (I'm farang) while he was scrolling through online options because he was not satisfied with the current lineup at Thermae. His number 1 concern was girl appearance but he also talked about price and service. Seems same as farang to me. Perhaps someone can explain how various posters know that Asian guys don't complain.

Meaning they don't complain in the room as much as Western dudes and are likely to accept the service offered and not make a fuss if it's not up to snuff and just move on. They are very picky about looks.

[EihTooms]

I too have never had any negative experiences with Thermae girls or escorts / freelancers in general in Bangkok. I am white, European, over 50, balding and slightly (in my dreams) overweight. I find just a bit of common courtesy, decency and respect goes a long way. Girls suss you out quickly and I find while a lot can be a bit wary at first, we generally end up having a good laugh and chat at the end and they are more than happy to give me their line number for any future 'business' I'd like to give them.

However, serious question, do you guys which more experience (long term local knowledge) think a lot of this 'anti Farang' thing comes from a simple case of the language barrier, in that it's easier a lot of the time for local girls to deal with Asian guys? Or am I simplifying the issue too much?

I don't know why but when I first visited Thailand I mistakenly thought most young Thai's in particular (say under 25 or 30) would have a better standard of English, on reflection I don't know why I assumed that and it's down to my own ignorance. But I still find myself going up to people in restaurants, shops (bars, and clubs) and break into English assuming they'll understand me without even realising I am doing it. Also I find many girls with a basic grasp of English want to communicate but a lot gets lost in translation which can make things awkward and it's so important that we 'Farangs' cop onto that and manage the situation carefully to respect the girls and make sure they always feel comfortable around us. Not forgetting to respect their cultural values.

I know English isn't everyone's first language on this forum, I am just using it as an example.

I am 70, Caucasian, in fairly good shape, thinning hair but it is still mostly there, speak passable basic Thai and have never gotten a vibe that I could not walk out with any but perhaps the top 5 Asian-Only FLs in Thermae for the going rate at any time. When I approach a cluster of lookers with a smile I get smiles back in response and it is the rare FL in there who does not appear open for take-out discussion.

If BBFS+CIP were not the critical factor in my either having sex or not, Thermae would be an easy go-to venue for a 2,500 - 3,000 baht no brainer P4 P option for me. Well, DFK is going to be a significant if not critical factor too, followed by BBBJ as foreplay. BBBJ+CIM might be an OK alternative for me with the NO to BBFS+CIP girls. But good luck finding a competent version of that among those lazy Thermae P4 P partime hobbiests.

Unfortunately, BBFS+CIP is the critical factor for me. Furthermore, my days of getting the 10 minute Safety First / No Condom No Sex lecture or launching into a fresh new back and forth negotiation for more money with my dick in my hand at the moment of (no) penetraton are over. Therefore, I generally but not 100% of the time clear and settle that critical issue before I take a girl. That is where the smiles, cheerfulness and excitement in the girl about me choosing to take her usually drops like a rock and she bails on the idea. No biggie for me. Whatever. I'll get another attractive girl who will say Yes, no problem. In fact, I often had a half dozen as attractive if not more attractive girls waiting for me to give them the green light to come over to my apartment on any night I stopped in Thermae anyway.

I have no idea why some FLs in Thermae are Asian-Only providers. I seriously doubt it is based on some studied market research and business logic as in this type pays more, that type never complains, this type has smaller equipment, that type is more or less fun and all that. Since when has any decision by a Thai girl been based on studied research and logic? No, my guess is it is simply because the Asian look and demeanor is familiar and more comfortable for them and a Farang encounter is unknown. They only go with Asians because they have only gone with Asians.

[TooDirty]

On this day of thanksgiving I'd like to share what I'm thankful for. I'm thankful for Thailand! And here I am counting the days until I can retire near to Thailand. Why can't I risk it all and do it now or soon, I just don't know. Decades and decades of being brainwashed into thinking you need x amount of cash just to get by, when what if, maybe, just maybe you can get by on less? .

Oh, Captain! My Captain! LOL Although I like the food and foot massages too. The mini-split ACs are swell too, much better than crappy American hotel ACs.

[HorseTrader]

Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it.

I occasionally read that Asian guys don't complain, but I find that hard to believe. About 2 weeks ago I was sitting in Thermae with an Asian friend (I'm farang) while he was scrolling through online options because he was not satisfied with the current lineup at Thermae. His number 1 concern was girl appearance but he also talked about price and service. Seems same as farang to me. Perhaps someone can explain how various posters know that Asian guys don't complain.

[BHawk]

Do they still have a no INDIANs policy?

Don't know. I was busy checking out girls, not guys. But but of the few I saw I didn't register anything but caucasians and maybe a couple of SE asians.

[PgReal]

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

I too have never had any negative experiences with Thermae girls or escorts / freelancers in general in Bangkok. I am white, European, over 50, balding and slightly (in my dreams) overweight. I find just a bit of common courtesy, decency and respect goes a long way. Girls suss you out quickly and I find while a lot can be a bit wary at first, we generally end up having a good laugh and chat at the end and they are more than happy to give me their line number for any future 'business' I'd like to give them.

However, serious question, do you guys which more experience (long term local knowledge) think a lot of this 'anti Farang' thing comes from a simple case of the language barrier, in that it's easier a lot of the time for local girls to deal with Asian guys? Or am I simplifying the issue too much?

I don't know why but when I first visited Thailand I mistakenly thought most young Thai's in particular (say under 25 or 30) would have a better standard of English, on reflection I don't know why I assumed that and it's down to my own ignorance. But I still find myself going up to people in restaurants, shops (bars, and clubs) and break into English assuming they'll understand me without even realising I am doing it. Also I find many girls with a basic grasp of English want to communicate but a lot gets lost in translation which can make things awkward and it's so important that we 'Farangs' cop onto that and manage the situation carefully to respect the girls and make sure they always feel comfortable around us. Not forgetting to respect their cultural values.

I know English isn't everyone's first language on this forum, I am just using it as an example.

[Raj Patela]

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

Last night I saw Nana School berating an old Farang. I think he wanted too much for too little money.

I was in Horror just seeing a potential customer with her. Maybe my Hype ING her did some Good.

[EverythingThai]

Absolutely. Guys who are rejected at Thermae always come on here saying Thermae girls only want Japanese and Koreans. Not true. Been to Thermae with happy go lucky Farang and they have a blast. Been to Thermae with guys who don't smile and then I hear they didn't want me. Well who would with that grumpy look on your face? Been to Thermae with guys who don't know how to properly talk to a girl. Again I hear that Thermae girls only want Asians. I'm not even close to Brad Pitt in looks but I know how to smile and charm a girl in her early 20's. Learn that and you will do just fine at Thermae and every other venue in Thailand. Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too.

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

[Nyezhov]

On this day of thanksgiving I'd like to share what I'm thankful for. I'm thankful for Thailand! It's about the power dynamics. That's what it's all about ain't it folks? More often than not, I feel like I'm being stamped down, walked all over and just barely getting by. You look at your 401 k, your IRA, paying your shitty mortgage, up to your neck in medical bills, looking back at your miserable life, and you think to yourself, God. Life sucks. But then you go to Thailand, and you realize the chicks you're banging have way more terrible lives than you do. Much more than you could even begin to conceive, cause think about it. Would they really be banging your ugly mug if they had the cash not to? What kind of world exists where opportunities are so lacking, and situations are such that they have to resort to sex to pay the bills? As shitty as my life is, that's why I love Thailand so much, cause when I'm there, I can be reminded of how much worse other people have it. Hence, it's all about the power dynamics. We get pushed around at work, we have to suck up to management, etc. But when we be in Thailand, we hold the cards. Even in Europe, some of the chicks doing this for a living, are better than most of us financially, believe you me. But in Thailand, odds are pretty high, 9 out of 10 chicks there you pay for sex are way worse off than joe average flying in from the states, I'm just saying. We don't want to admit it fellas, but it's a form of poverty tourism. Us throwing our weight around, and for some folks from north America, quite literally fat ass dudes throwing their weight around, hah! The kind of mindset where you're there to gawp at the poor brown people, but be all up in their culture and stuff, but really it's all about just lording it over them. That's why I'm saying fellas. Don't waste your lives. Go to South East Asia. I'm not quite there yet financially, but by God, when I can, believe you me, I will.

How many wars are happening right now? There's so much uncertainty in the world. And here I am counting the days until I can retire near to Thailand. Why can't I risk it all and do it now or soon, I just don't know. Decades and decades of being brainwashed into thinking you need x amount of cash just to get by, when what if, maybe, just maybe you can get by on less? Then again, you don't want to end up like some of them white dudes homeless on the streets of Pattaya. Reports were coming in about them some 10 plus years ago, odds are most of them are dead by now, but then again, there's not many places better than Thailand to die in. I'm thankful for Bangkok! The city that exists for one reason, and one reason only.

Do you feel better now that you have let it all out?