Bangkok Reports

[Gargano19]

Truth hurts but if any of us were that good looking we would never be on a board like this.

That's not true.

There is a ease of paying for sex, which you can't get from a relationship.

[Crocodilexp]

Truth hurts but if any of us were that good looking we would never be on a board like this.

That's not true, actually.

Even for a decent looking (top 10%) guy with great game skills (top 10% again), getting laid is a fair amount of work. In addition, outside of PFP, you almost never get much actual choice, just need to approach every promising target that presents herself, until one works.

Of course, only about 1-3% of men are in top 10% in terms of both looks and game, but even for them, it's a slog. Now, some might enjoy that work and find it exciting, while others don't, but it sure takes more time and effort than going to a brothel with a few baht in hand.

[Sunlover2]

Truth hurts but if any of us were that good looking we would never be on a board like this.

P4 P takes the drama and repercussions out of the equation.

P4 P is a hobby, being a 'player' is more a lifestyle.

SL.

[Syzygies]

I rarely see the best looking P4P girls in a go-go bar or beer bar walking out with good looking men.

When I see a stunning girl, I tend to notice she is with a Japanese guy or a Farang, or whatever but that is about it. I am really looking at the girl, not so much the customers. I don't care if guys look good or not. Most of the LBs are with Japanese. Most of the Stunning girls (low surgeries) are with Japanese. I probably would not even know which are especially handsome. High surgeries plain girls are with Japanese or Farangs, either. Most of the natural but ugly girls, if I notice, are with non East Asian customers. Many guys on this forum say they don't really care what the girl's face is like for purpose of fucking. A hot body will do, or a flabby body will do too. Some guys got picked by the girl and could not escape. I had a buddy like that 10 years older than me, who just could not refuse determined girls. He could easily take the worst girl in the bar, and he did.

[EihTooms]

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I have seen plenty of pretty girls go for a guy that is fat and ugly, but like his personality. Most hookers will have fucked guys far uglier and possibly assholes as well. Young Thai hookers can still get a cum with an old guy.
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I rarely see the best looking P4P girls in a go-go bar or beer bar walking out with good looking men. In fact, I rarely see them approach the better looking men in a bar when they easily could. Maybe they are taking the safest route to guard against public rejection, which none of us relish, on the belief that a good looking man has been with many girls better looking than them and would not be nearly as impressed by them as other men.

This isn't all that different from the way it is in real life outside the P4P scene. It is relatively rare to see a really notable match in higher level attractiveness among couples. Much more often than not, he's a 3 and she's an 8, he's an 8 and she's a 4 or they are both 4's or 3's. LOL. When we see two 8's or 9's together, it is so notable we almost think they just stepped out of a Hollywood casting agency. Could be no more than 3% of the couples in the world are in the "both 8's or better" category.

[Syzygies]

Truth hurts but if any of us were that good looking we would never be on a board like this.

Exactly! +1 from me.

Off all the other mongers I met, how many were really good looking? In Thailand maybe one or two were well above average, and asshole rating can be inversely proportional, sometimes. Europe has a lot more good looking mongers, yet they still don't get the girl variety they want and especially not several girls in same day. Maybe they are bad at fucking too. Who knows?

I have been offered freebies, even by hookers and by ex-hookers, but not due to good looks, and it is certainly not a regular thing. A percentage of possible freebies, I knocked back. Girl was not exciting enough and I had alternate plans, or questioned her motives. So getting offered lots of free sex by various young stunners, is just a fantasy.

[Banana Boi]

Truth hurts but if any of us were that good looking we would never be on a board like this.

[Smoothy]

If too handsome we will be assumed to be gay.

That's a problem I've had to live with all of my life.

[Syzygies]

Also I think I get more attention then some, I have very blonde hair and blue eyes.

That is weird unless you are a bottle blonde like most of the rest. We could all dye our hair blonde and maybe get girls more interested.
If too handsome we will be assumed to be gay.

Some guys age very fast, others slow. Compare Mel Gibson, with very wrinkled face to Tom Cruise who looks nearly as good as 30 years ago.
Both probably a-holes.

In a dark bar, most girls think I am much younger, and never guess close to my real age. Helps to have hair on the head and not grey / white hair. However I would need a lot done to actually become handsome, eye makeup, skin laser resurfacing, teeth capping, maybe a nose reduction, etc. Not worth the effort. I don't need girls to find me very attractive (too late for that), just to be willing to have some fun with me.

I have seen plenty of pretty girls go for a guy that is fat and ugly, but like his personality. Most hookers will have fucked guys far uglier and possibly assholes as well. Young Thai hookers can still get a cum with an old guy.

Amazing the myth in the general public and media that a hooker could never enjoy a paid sexual encounter (its just work).
Even some western hookers are willing to get a pop. I recall one writer on here saying his GF worked in an MP and assured him that, none of the girls get a pop at work. They don't want to pop. So why did she become his GF? Obviously the sex was not fun? He met her in the MP and where was the attraction if she did not like the sex at all? Just money I guess. I know plenty of guys make no effort to give the girl a good time since he is paying.

[Lion55]

Why would a hot 18 to 19 YO want to fuck a 51 YO? She won't know in advance if you are going to send her to heaven or not. Even so she may know someone good much younger and in good shape.

Non hookers are giving away sex for free, but not every single day, and they may have a BF, and they can be choosy if good looking.

So why do we pay? We don't want to waste hours and hours trying to get a fuck. We just simply want to get it straight away, and pay for that privilege. Many of us have a GF or wife, so not looking for additional semi "GFs". Some of us advanced porno services that the average Thai girl is not going to provide or not be good at it.

In Thailand, non hooker GFs can be poor and so still work out more expensive per fuck than hookers. So there are still economic aspects to it. All girls are hookers, merely they have a different price. Not quite true. All my young hot regular girls are getting some economic support from me, even if has not been on a per fuck basis. So we could say they are all hookers in a way. I don't have any rich young girls with the hots for me. I have significantly more money than them.

In past I had Thai GF would was absolutely not a hooker, but worked as a Thai chef. I still paid the majority of the accommodation and household bills, because she could not afford it. However she saved a hell of a lot of money as was thifty and good at saving. She had to support several family members though. Sex was infrequent. She cost me far per fuck than a hooker. Definitely not worthwhile. I should have been taught to choose only girls with means. Even my ex Farang wife cost me too much on a per bad fuck basis, and she had a good job. If I had no wives/GFs ever and only did hookers, I would be richer now.

Sure its great if you can find a hot young thing who wants your body only and no money. Paying is just so much easier, even if guys do not have a wife / GF. All my past GFs that were giving me sufficient good sex, were psycho in some way, so hard to live with. If you have a stable of hot young girls all wanting your body and no money, then you are probably "Brad Pitt" or similar. At 60+ I am still wanting girls 35 or less, have a Mrs already, so its just easier to pay. I could try to get a liason going with sweet pretty little thing at the sports pub (mid 30's but still looks good) similar to my GF but smaller still, who seems to like me, and I know she would like to have a BF, but I just can't do it her. She deserves a proper BF. I know she is not looking for a guy just for sex.

When I first came to Thailand, a hot young eager girl for the whole night cost so little, it was a no brainer. Just silly to sleep alone.

Some guys like the challenge to get girls for free, some can't be bothered. Some girls were shocked to find out they did not get paid, but were too timid to argue. No price had been mentioned beforehand. I read many reports from guys about girl for free where I suspected she was hoping for some economic help. If she specifically says she won't accept money, that is different. Thailand has always had many borerline or semi-hookers. I was told by taxi drivers in Ratchada, that many girls going to a disco, were hoping to get taken by a guy (even a Thai guy maybe), but also hoping to make at least 1K. Very cheap price but not aiming to go for free. Girls will very well paid jobs or rich, don't need economic motives for sex.

Always bear in mind the girl has a risk of pregnancy (especially if no condoms) and very few get abortions. Morning after pills is underutilised. Most birth control methods are fallible. Girl should have two complimentary methods in place to reduce risk. My Mrs still has periods, so has to take the pill. She was thinking about injection since not good at taking pills on time.

Well said.

[CzarNicholas]

Why would a hot 18 to 19 YO want to fuck a 51 YO? She won't know in advance if you are going to send her to heaven or not. Even so she may know someone good much younger and in good shape.

Non hookers are giving away sex for free, but not every single day, and they may have a BF, and they can be choosy if good looking.

So why do we pay? We don't want to waste hours and hours trying to get a fuck. We just simply want to get it straight away, and pay for that privilege. Many of us have a GF or wife, so not looking for additional semi "GFs". Some of us advanced porno services that the average Thai girl is not going to provide or not be good at it.

In Thailand, non hooker GFs can be poor and so still work out more expensive per fuck than hookers. So there are still economic aspects to it. All girls are hookers, merely they have a different price. Not quite true. All my young hot regular girls are getting some economic support from me, even if has not been on a per fuck basis. So we could say they are all hookers in a way. I don't have any rich young girls with the hots for me. I have significantly more money than them.

In past I had Thai GF would was absolutely not a hooker, but worked as a Thai chef. I still paid the majority of the accommodation and household bills, because she could not afford it. However she saved a hell of a lot of money as was thifty and good at saving. She had to support several family members though. Sex was infrequent. She cost me far per fuck than a hooker. Definitely not worthwhile. I should have been taught to choose only girls with means. Even my ex Farang wife cost me too much on a per bad fuck basis, and she had a good job. If I had no wives/GFs ever and only did hookers, I would be richer now..

Why fuck me? Like I said I'm pretty sure I don't look 51, when I tell just about anyone they don't believe me?

Secondly / additionally, I've heard some / many Asian girls see fucking white guys as a status symbol? At least according to my best friend which happens to be Korean.

Also I think I get more attention then some, I have very blonde hair and blue eyes.

I'm guessing none of these factors hurt, I do better in BKK than I could have ever expected and even better in AC.

Where white guys with any semblance of sanity are quite an endangered species.

This seems to help more in non white countries (not as much in say FKK land or Canada for example) where blonde hair blue eyed white guys are pretty common.

It was very difficult to monger in Russia mostly because almost nobody speaks English, but in spite of that I did nail a few very very hot hookers.

I'm guessing because I was "exotic"? A male friend I met, said most have never met or even seen an american before let alone fucked one.

[CzarNicholas]

Why would a hot 18 to 19 YO want to fuck a 51 YO? She won't know in advance if you are going to send her to heaven or not. Even so she may know someone good much younger and in good shape.

Non hookers are giving away sex for free, but not every single day, and they may have a BF, and they can be choosy if good looking.

So why do we pay? We don't want to waste hours and hours trying to get a fuck. We just simply want to get it straight away, and pay for that privilege. Many of us have a GF or wife, so not looking for additional semi "GFs". Some of us advanced porno services that the average Thai girl is not going to provide or not be good at it.

In Thailand, non hooker GFs can be poor and so still work out more expensive per fuck than hookers. So there are still economic aspects to it. All girls are hookers, merely they have a different price. Not quite true. All my young hot regular girls are getting some economic support from me, even if has not been on a per fuck basis. So we could say they are all hookers in a way. I don't have any rich young girls with the hots for me. I have significantly more money than them..

As the axiom goes.

The most expensive pussy is free pussy!

[Syzygies]

I'm 51 yo I like 18-19 yo hookers.

Why would a hot 18 to 19 YO want to fuck a 51 YO? She won't know in advance if you are going to send her to heaven or not. Even so she may know someone good much younger and in good shape.

Non hookers are giving away sex for free, but not every single day, and they may have a BF, and they can be choosy if good looking.

So why do we pay? We don't want to waste hours and hours trying to get a fuck. We just simply want to get it straight away, and pay for that privilege. Many of us have a GF or wife, so not looking for additional semi "GFs". Some of us advanced porno services that the average Thai girl is not going to provide or not be good at it.

In Thailand, non hooker GFs can be poor and so still work out more expensive per fuck than hookers. So there are still economic aspects to it. All girls are hookers, merely they have a different price. Not quite true. All my young hot regular girls are getting some economic support from me, even if has not been on a per fuck basis. So we could say they are all hookers in a way. I don't have any rich young girls with the hots for me. I have significantly more money than them.

In past I had Thai GF would was absolutely not a hooker, but worked as a Thai chef. I still paid the majority of the accommodation and household bills, because she could not afford it. However she saved a hell of a lot of money as was thifty and good at saving. She had to support several family members though. Sex was infrequent. She cost me far per fuck than a hooker. Definitely not worthwhile. I should have been taught to choose only girls with means. Even my ex Farang wife cost me too much on a per bad fuck basis, and she had a good job. If I had no wives/GFs ever and only did hookers, I would be richer now.

Sure its great if you can find a hot young thing who wants your body only and no money. Paying is just so much easier, even if guys do not have a wife / GF. All my past GFs that were giving me sufficient good sex, were psycho in some way, so hard to live with. If you have a stable of hot young girls all wanting your body and no money, then you are probably "Brad Pitt" or similar. At 60+ I am still wanting girls 35 or less, have a Mrs already, so its just easier to pay. I could try to get a liason going with sweet pretty little thing at the sports pub (mid 30's but still looks good) similar to my GF but smaller still, who seems to like me, and I know she would like to have a BF, but I just can't do it her. She deserves a proper BF. I know she is not looking for a guy just for sex.

When I first came to Thailand, a hot eager girl for the whole night cost so little, it was a no brainer. Just silly to sleep alone.

Some guys like the challenge to get girls for free, some can't be bothered. Some girls were shocked to find out they did not get paid, but were too timid to argue. No price had been mentioned beforehand. I read many reports from guys about girl for free where I suspected she was hoping for some economic help. If she specifically says she won't accept money, that is different. Thailand has always had many borerline or semi-hookers. I was told by taxi drivers in Ratchada, that many girls going to a disco, were hoping to get taken by a guy (even a Thai guy maybe), but also hoping to make at least 1K. Very cheap price but not aiming to go for free. Girls will very well paid jobs or rich, don't need economic motives for sex.

Always bear in mind the girl has a risk of pregnancy (especially if no condoms) and very few get abortions. Morning after pills is underutilised. Most birth control methods are fallible. Girl should have two complimentary methods in place to reduce risk. My Mrs still has periods, so has to take the pill. She was thinking about injection since not good at taking pills on time.

[Syzygies]

Going to check it out more.

Any specific bar suggestions?

Any good ST hotels in those sois?

I think Natty Bumpo has mentioned the names of specific Phat Phong bars, that he enjoyed fairly recently, and his taste is quite similar to mine, maybe a bit more forgiving of nose jobs and sillies. He does not take any pudgy girls and the face has to be superior. He does not need big tits (same as me). Possibly the ones with "Castle" in the name that also don't have Ladyboys.

BB said more natural looking girls in PP, but I am not sure I noticed that. Many guys don't care and may not even suspect a nose job (they are getting so abundant these days). A very subtle one can still be a pass for me, but some of the Thai TV big stars have quite ugly nose jobs to my taste, and I think how on earth did she get to be the leading lady, with such a distracting nose? Do Thai men get nose jobs or sillies? Not much if they are not a LB. I guess only the gay guys dye the hair blonde too.

BB mentioned more relaxed, and better attitude girls. I think that is important. No one needs a pressure bar.

[Syzygies]

I haven't been to Patpong in about 10 years because it always sucked. It had too many lady boys, and not enough pretty REAL girls. Busy as all hell due to that big market in the middle of it and around it, lots of tourists. The ping pong shows had women that are over 50 years old doing the shows. It sounds like it has changed drastically if you are saying there is a laid back atmosphere there. In the past, that place was far from laid back.

I was in Bangkok the last couple of weeks. Soi Cowboy did suck and is a shell of it's old self. Nana was pretty good though. I didn't try patpong due to it sucking so bad in the past.

ET is right that outside Cowboy bars may have a real good looking girl (hopefully non LB) to pull you in, but inside can be dull.

I have been to Phat Phong again a few times, also with Natty. There are signs of improvement. Some bars were still a bit over rated, like Bada Bing, Electric Blue (I think as the name) and Black Pagoda. Some bars still had a lot of surgeries. However good signs of improvement, so that definitely an option, in the Kings Castle group.

One day sitting with Natty, the girl I liked happened to be same girl I had previously fucked in Twisters at Nana. Took me a few minutes to realise I knew her already. So that means the girls were not especially superior to my taste but competitive, and fine for those less fussy about "enhanced girls".

There are sections with whole rows of ladyboy bars, or something else wrong I forget the detail now. Some bars have Coyotes that can't be barfined I think. However selecting the right bars, can be fine. As I used to stay in Silom are a lot, could be even convenient. Taxi can get to Phat Phong late at night in just 10 minutes or so from Sukhumvit, depending on starting point (I guess I am thinking of getting there from Cowboy straight down Ratchadaphisek).

As I like a bit of full nudity, I might be converted if full nudity comes in, and naturally topless with G string would be a huge bonus (near enough to nude). I have not been there enough to be really expert. I certainly used Phat Phong bars a lot in the early 90's, avoiding the rip off joints. I think regular customers do not have a problem with rip offs so much but some rip off bars may still exist.

Now that Cowboy has rip off bars, abundant Coyotes and ladyboys, abundant surgeries girls, and the doll look intended for the Asian customers, and abundant fatties and uglies in some bars, it definitely falls well below the standard of yesteryear. No advantages over Nana and Phat Phong that it used to have. I have basically quit Crazy House now. Kazy is possible for occasional visit (with skinny girls) but don't like the frequency of shows. Yet to actually BF there. Scared of the pretty girl's inexperience and shyness. Tough to tell if she will be fine or another dud. In Nana I don't really find any bar to consistently interest me now with Billboard still the best for me, to have some superior looking skinny girls. Pretty faces, not that many but some. Cowboy still has some bars with full nudity, however standard of the girls varies. I can ignore a bar full of nude fatties (e. G. Long Gun) as long as there are 1 or 2 girls worth looking at. Had a visits to Doll House and Lighthouse but did not find any girl sufficiently interesting to the fussy spec. Shows the decline of Cowboy for me.

I still need a basically natural and skinny girl bar showing the body properly. Alas too many bars, cannot see the tits properly. Can't stand double layer bras. My visits to bars declines greatly, and prefer to visit known girls, maybe in the bar, maybe outside. I don't have the psychology where need to fuck every girl, so don't have to keep changing girls, and increasingly the probability of crappy sessions. No point changing from a good girl to a bad one.

Plenty of girls I tried, sadly disappeared from contactability, so don't know where they went. Otherwise would still be repeating them.

Its all about specific girls for me, not really bars, but have to be able to find a good girl or two. Would be silly to stick to one bar area. Have to try Phat Phong as well if time available, unless giving it all away. Actually I don't use Soi 22 bars at all, it seems like an expat style area with girls of consistently low quality looks (at least I did not find anything). We never seem to get reports about specific bars there, only MPs, and I usually struggle to find anything much in the MPs there as well. Definitely the soi for very average girls. I bet there are few Japanese there (at a guess).