Bangkok Reports

[Goatscrot]

Yeah, I probably gave her too much money. Lesson learned. You are also probably right about her having successfully pulled this stunt with other guys. I went to Thermae to look for a FL because I was sick and tired of bargirls always begging for lady's drinks. But now I'm thinking the bar scene is still preferable in comparison. I've never had a bargirl refuse kissing and BBBJ. Some of them did not want to kiss at first but did not resist when I kissed them during sex. Now I'm beginning to dislike Thai hookers. What can you expect from lazy and stubborn Southeast Asian girls? Thailand might be the No. 1 destination in sex tourism. But it doesn't make the country the right destination for most. They are No. 1 in terms of quantity but not quality.

I used to have none refuse as well. Seems more and more are headed in that direction. I'd imagine many of our Asian brethren are less demanding than we are.

I pretty much confine it to the oilies these days.

Was just reading on the Singapore forum that a dude pulled a Brazilian Japanese gal for 300 SGD all night. That's less than 7 k baht. So dudes are paying more in Thai gogos (BF and LT fee) for Isaan gals than you would pay for an extremely hot gal out of a hotel disco in expensive Singapore. Nuts really.

[Turgid]

You can get oral gonorrhea from kissing a ho whilst fucking her with 5 condoms on.

Because the monger yesterday had gonorrhea when she sucked him.

Now she's giving it away with kisses LOL.

Good try. If that were the case the entire world population would have gonorrhea.

[Bam Boom Bam]

Well, I probably would have given her much less, perhaps 500 Baht if I was feeling generous, a couple of hundred if I was not. And truth be told, I can almost guarantee you that she has pulled this stunt with a lot of other guys and gotten away with it. They know what they are doing and can size a dude up pretty quickly. But yes, most don't want to be hookers but they don't want to work a regular job either. I pretty much swore off FLs a few years ago when I had a string of experiences like yours. I would explain to the gal, in Thai, that I expected her to service me like a boyfriend or like what she would see in a "sex movie" and for the most part they looked dumbfounded.

Thermae was a party every night back in the day. The gals were almost all drinking and there would be quite a few dancing by the jukebox. They would grab your unit as you walked by and proposition you. They were quite aggressive and very forward. We western dudes like this, Asian guys are turned off by it for the most part. I would also imagine a gal who acts shy and inexperienced can be a bit of a turn on to some of the Asian guys. They also have the fantasy that the gal is "cleaner" as so many are paranoid about catching something, as we read about here on the forum ad nauseam these days. But for me, I like the gal next door; if I live next door to a brothel. I like them experienced with dirty minds and dirty mouths. That's hard to find in Thailand. Used to be common in the oiles, not so much any more. Asians, who are the main customers, just want different things. And they are the majority of the market.

Yeah, I probably gave her too much money. Lesson learned. You are also probably right about her having successfully pulled this stunt with other guys. I went to Thermae to look for a FL because I was sick and tired of bargirls always begging for lady's drinks. But now I'm thinking the bar scene is still preferable in comparison. I've never had a bargirl refuse kissing and BBBJ. Some of them did not want to kiss at first but did not resist when I kissed them during sex. Now I'm beginning to dislike Thai hookers. What can you expect from lazy and stubborn Southeast Asian girls? Thailand might be the No. 1 destination in sex tourism. But it doesn't make the country the right destination for most. They are No. 1 in terms of quantity but not quality.

[Bam Boom Bam]

Your are a proven rookie, there is a learning curve to handling and dealing with these ladies. If you would have read the forum deeply, you would have learned that negotiation and personally are the key to success. These ladies can see right through you. All of the seniors here have told stories of the disappointments and lessons they have learned dealing with the ladies of the night. Read and learn.

Lesson #1, if she askes for 5000 just ignore and continue the conversation. Laugh and show her your a great guy. Tell her you are interested but be patient. Let her warm up to you. She knows she has your attention and that you are a potential income for her. Again the important part is not to rush, be patient. She knows she has you hooked it is just the price that is holding you back. She will come down, just give her time. Haggling is the oldest form of negotiation. Your in a hurry and that never works in your favor.

RL.

Yeah, I'm not 100% unfamiliar with the negotiation process. But I chose not to pursue the barfine any further after I determined her to be of low IQ. No surprise there. Most bargirls are just plain dumb. Also, she seemed arrogant and high maintenance. She wanted to go to a sky bar. So I left after finishing my drink.

[Zman429]

Your are a proven rookie, there is a learning curve to handling and dealing with these ladies. If you would have read the forum deeply, you would have learned that negotiation and personally are the key to success. These ladies can see right through you. All of the seniors here have told stories of the disappointments and lessons they have learned dealing with the ladies of the night. Read and learn.

Lesson #1, if she askes for 5000 just ignore and continue the conversation. Laugh and show her your a great guy. Tell her you are interested but be patient. Let her warm up to you. She knows she has your attention and that you are a potential income for her. Again the important part is not to rush, be patient. She knows she has you hooked it is just the price that is holding you back. She will come down, just give her time. Haggling is the oldest form of negotiation. Your in a hurry and that never works in your favor.

RL.

I'm with him just leave too many other fish in the sea and you'll probably end up wasting time and money. Plus a 5 k figure maybe a polite way of saying not interested.

[Robert Long]

I didn't fuck her. But I met her in Hillary 4 last year. She said barfine was 800 Baht. She wanted 5000 baht for longtime. So I left.

Your are a proven rookie, there is a learning curve to handling and dealing with these ladies. If you would have read the forum deeply, you would have learned that negotiation and personally are the key to success. These ladies can see right through you. All of the seniors here have told stories of the disappointments and lessons they have learned dealing with the ladies of the night. Read and learn.

Lesson #1, if she askes for 5000 just ignore and continue the conversation. Laugh and show her your a great guy. Tell her you are interested but be patient. Let her warm up to you. She knows she has your attention and that you are a potential income for her. Again the important part is not to rush, be patient. She knows she has you hooked it is just the price that is holding you back. She will come down, just give her time. Haggling is the oldest form of negotiation. Your in a hurry and that never works in your favor.

RL.

[Bam Boom Bam]

There's a lot of grey area between "disgusted desperate newbie"and "hardcore professional hooker". Perhaps your "date" was too close to being the former. One looks for somewhere in the middle.

Btw. not to pick a fight, but who the hell are you to tell anyone to "get the hell out of Thermae"or anywhere for that matter? She has more right to be there than you and you should know by going into Thermae that although most girls are there every night or every other night.. there is a small smattering of true ""end of month" or sometime freelancers who stop by when they have a temporary need. That's the chance you take and that's the opportunity other mongers seek. If you want something more guaranteed, learn to distinguish between the women you meet/talk to (it's not that hard if you make a minimal effort)

I had the fortune of meeting a true non Thermae regular at Thermae last year. Wonderful girl.

btw here's another tip. Don't be shy about specific requests that are important to you (for e.g. BBBJ) Ask the girl. They won't be offended. and IF they are/ or appear to be - that's a good signal you've chosen one you need to run away from.

She probably was a desperate newbie. If you say to someone "Who the hell are you to" then you are picking a fight.

She does not have more right to be there than me. Perhaps equal right. At least, I'm a paying customer. The price of admission is buying a drink. She is taking advantage of the facilities free of charge.

I believe I made more than minimal effort.

One Thermae performer out of 200 girls is not a high batting percentage albeit admirable.

About requesting BBBJ before going out, I was going to address that in my subsequent reports. Am still working on them.

[Bam Boom Bam]

If you do whithout a condom, you defenately are prone to Herpes. Especially deep throat. No thank you for me. Yes saying, read the internet.

I know what you are trying to say. But if the girl has herpes in her crotch area, nothing can protect you from catching herpes. The probability of catching herpes from BBBJ is very low. That's the chance we take.

In theory, you can catch herpes from eating a hamburger with your hands. You did not wash your hands after shaking hands with a guy who just returned from the bathroom. The dude also did not wash his hands and so on. But the practical likelihood is close to zero.

Also, the internet is full of misinformation and fabricated data. I do it for a living. I don't mean fabricating data. This expert says it's 10%. Then another expert says it's 80%. Then people select the data that matches their beliefs.

[CzarNicholas]

Here here. Not only can you still get herpes and virtually everything else if you wear a condom (rips, tears, slipping off, etc) but you can also get anything and everything even if you are monogamous. Unless you know with 100% certainty your partner is disease free and will remain monogamous as well.

You can get oral gonorrhea from kissing a ho whilst fucking her with 5 condoms on.

Because the monger yesterday had gonorrhea when she sucked him.

Now she's giving it away with kisses LOL.

[EihTooms]

You can get herpes on areas condoms don't cover. Warts as well. This hobby has its risks. If you are not willing to take them, then you should stay monogamous.

Here here. Not only can you still get herpes and virtually everything else if you wear a condom (rips, tears, slipping off, etc) but you can also get anything and everything even if you are monogamous. Unless you know with 100% certainty your partner is disease free and will remain monogamous as well.

[Goatscrot]

Part 2.

We exit Thermae Cafe into the rain-filled night. On the way to the hotel, we get some sandwiches and soft drinks from 7-11. The sandwiches taste like crap. After eating in the room, she says you give me money. I tell her "Take your panty off and go take a shower. I give you money after. " I think she understood.

We are on the bed about to start. I tell her blowjob. She says condom. Covered blowjob wasn't what I was looking for. But it doesn't look like a BBBJ is going to happen. I probably should have kicked her out right then. Anyway, I put the condom on. She reluctantly sucks on it for literally 10 seconds and then stops, acting like I tried to stick a giant baseball bat down her throat. Fucking liar. As I'm pounding away missionary style, I try to kiss her. She freaks out. So I gently place my left hand below her hips and stick my index finger up her ass. It does not enter very far since she is very tight down there. She freaks out even more. At least it was not a giant baseball bat.

After about 10 minutes, I don't see it happening. I just want her to leave so I stop. I think about just giving her 2000 baht for lying about the blowjob. But I give her the 2500 baht.

It turns out she really is a college student. I can tell she hates going to Thermae. She needs to decide what she wants to be. If you want to be a hooker, then act like one. If you want to be a college student, then get the hell out of Thermae. It sure as hell looks like Mr. Syzygies is right about Thermae Cafe.

Well, I probably would have given her much less, perhaps 500 Baht if I was feeling generous, a couple of hundred if I was not. And truth be told, I can almost guarantee you that she has pulled this stunt with a lot of other guys and gotten away with it. They know what they are doing and can size a dude up pretty quickly. But yes, most don't want to be hookers but they don't want to work a regular job either. I pretty much swore off FLs a few years ago when I had a string of experiences like yours. I would explain to the gal, in Thai, that I expected her to service me like a boyfriend or like what she would see in a "sex movie" and for the most part they looked dumbfounded.

Thermae was a party every night back in the day. The gals were almost all drinking and there would be quite a few dancing by the jukebox. They would grab your unit as you walked by and proposition you. They were quite aggressive and very forward. We western dudes like this, Asian guys are turned off by it for the most part. I would also imagine a gal who acts shy and inexperienced can be a bit of a turn on to some of the Asian guys. They also have the fantasy that the gal is "cleaner" as so many are paranoid about catching something, as we read about here on the forum ad nauseam these days. But for me, I like the gal next door; if I live next door to a brothel. I like them experienced with dirty minds and dirty mouths. That's hard to find in Thailand. Used to be common in the oiles, not so much any more. Asians, who are the main customers, just want different things. And they are the majority of the market.

[Goatscrot]

If you do whithout a condom, you defenately are prone to Herpes. Especially deep throat. No thank you for me. Yes saying, read the internet.

You can get herpes on areas condoms don't cover. Warts as well. This hobby has its risks. If you are not willing to take them, then you should stay monogamous.

[SuperBuilder2]

Part 2.

We exit Thermae Cafe into the rain-filled night. On the way to the hotel, we get some sandwiches and soft drinks from 7-11. The sandwiches taste like crap. After eating in the room, she says you give me money. I tell her "Take your panty off and go take a shower. I give you money after. " I think she understood.

We are on the bed about to start. I tell her blowjob. She says condom. Covered blowjob wasn't what I was looking for. But it doesn't look like a BBBJ is going to happen. I probably should have kicked her out right then. Anyway, I put the condom on. She reluctantly sucks on it for literally 10 seconds and then stops, acting like I tried to stick a giant baseball bat down her throat. Fucking liar. As I'm pounding away missionary style, I try to kiss her. She freaks out. So I gently place my left hand below her hips and stick my index finger up her ass. It does not enter very far since she is very tight down there. She freaks out even more. At least it was not a giant baseball bat.

After about 10 minutes, I don't see it happening. I just want her to leave so I stop. I think about just giving her 2000 baht for lying about the blowjob. But I give her the 2500 baht.

It turns out she really is a college student. I can tell she hates going to Thermae. She needs to decide what she wants to be. If you want to be a hooker, then act like one. If you want to be a college student, then get the hell out of Thermae. It sure as hell looks like Mr. Syzygies is right about Thermae Cafe.

If you do whithout a condom, you defenately are prone to Herpes. Especially deep throat. No thank you for me. Yes saying, read the internet.

[Catire]

Part 2.

We exit Thermae Cafe into the rain-filled night. On the way to the hotel, we get some sandwiches and soft drinks from 7-11. The sandwiches taste like crap. After eating in the room, she says you give me money. I tell her "Take your panty off and go take a shower. I give you money after. " I think she understood.

We are on the bed about to start. I tell her blowjob. She says condom. Covered blowjob wasn't what I was looking for. But it doesn't look like a BBBJ is going to happen. I probably should have kicked her out right then. Anyway, I put the condom on. She reluctantly sucks on it for literally 10 seconds and then stops, acting like I tried to stick a giant baseball bat down her throat. Fucking liar. As I'm pounding away missionary style, I try to kiss her. She freaks out. So I gently place my left hand below her hips and stick my index finger up her ass. It does not enter very far since she is very tight down there. She freaks out even more. At least it was not a giant baseball bat.

After about 10 minutes, I don't see it happening. I just want her to leave so I stop. I think about just giving her 2000 baht for lying about the blowjob. But I give her the 2500 baht.

It turns out she really is a college student. I can tell she hates going to Thermae. She needs to decide what she wants to be. If you want to be a hooker, then act like one. If you want to be a college student, then get the hell out of Thermae. It sure as hell looks like Mr. Syzygies is right about Thermae Cafe.

There's a lot of grey area between "disgusted desperate newbie"and "hardcore professional hooker". Perhaps your "date" was too close to being the former. One looks for somewhere in the middle.

Btw. not to pick a fight, but who the hell are you to tell anyone to "get the hell out of Thermae"or anywhere for that matter? She has more right to be there than you and you should know by going into Thermae that although most girls are there every night or every other night.. there is a small smattering of true ""end of month" or sometime freelancers who stop by when they have a temporary need. That's the chance you take and that's the opportunity other mongers seek. If you want something more guaranteed, learn to distinguish between the women you meet/talk to (it's not that hard if you make a minimal effort)

I had the fortune of meeting a true non Thermae regular at Thermae last year. Wonderful girl.

btw here's another tip. Don't be shy about specific requests that are important to you (for e.g. BBBJ) Ask the girl. They won't be offended. and IF they are/ or appear to be - that's a good signal you've chosen one you need to run away from.

[Bam Boom Bam]

Part 2.

We exit Thermae Cafe into the rain-filled night. On the way to the hotel, we get some sandwiches and soft drinks from 7-11. The sandwiches taste like crap. After eating in the room, she says you give me money. I tell her "Take your panty off and go take a shower. I give you money after. " I think she understood.

We are on the bed about to start. I tell her blowjob. She says condom. Covered blowjob wasn't what I was looking for. But it doesn't look like a BBBJ is going to happen. I probably should have kicked her out right then. Anyway, I put the condom on. She reluctantly sucks on it for literally 10 seconds and then stops, acting like I tried to stick a giant baseball bat down her throat. Fucking liar. As I'm pounding away missionary style, I try to kiss her. She freaks out. So I gently place my left hand below her hips and stick my index finger up her ass. It does not enter very far since she is very tight down there. She freaks out even more. At least it was not a giant baseball bat.

After about 10 minutes, I don't see it happening. I just want her to leave so I stop. I think about just giving her 2000 baht for lying about the blowjob. But I give her the 2500 baht.

It turns out she really is a college student. I can tell she hates going to Thermae. She needs to decide what she wants to be. If you want to be a hooker, then act like one. If you want to be a college student, then get the hell out of Thermae. It sure as hell looks like Mr. Syzygies is right about Thermae Cafe.