Bangkok Reports

[Nyezhov]

Regarding the issue of emotional distress and financial distress set forth below.

1. If you're unhappy in life, Thailand is not going to make you happy.

2. If you want a wife or a long-term partner, you're not going to find it on a street corner on lower Suk.

3. If you wonder constantly about your finances and worry about them, you shouldn't be spending the money.

[Gonz0]

Thank you all for the feedback. I'm headed to BKK again September end for 3 nights. Have around 69 K THB to play with...

Is this 69 K your remaining inheritance, or is it the maximum amount that you are prepared to spend on this trip?

[Gonz0]

Am I reading this correctly? Your pay is about 500 USD per month and you are spending almost 100 USD per night for your hotel? Surely you jest. There has to be much more to the story that you aren't writing. Living rent-free isn't the only thing.

You missed this part.

... Apart from this I have a small but significant amount of inheritance received from the demise of my parents which fuels my mongering...

[TKOman]

Folks, I am looking for an experience that I have not yet found in BKK. I am looking for a kind of all-inclusive brothel featuring hot pools, cold pools, sauna / steam rooms, massage and of course working girls! The closest I have come is Silom Sauna on Suk Soi 22 which has these features but in a fairly downmarket atmosphere and quality (to be fair their prices are commensurate, so I do still go there). But can I find a more posh spa-cum-*****house? Only the wise folks of ISG know. !

P.S.: I'm OK with soapy massage, but it's not exactly what I am seeking.

[Venturi34]

Am I reading this correctly? Your pay is about 500 USD per month and you are spending almost 100 USD per night for your hotel? Surely you jest. There has to be much more to the story that you aren't writing. Living rent-free isn't the only thing.

Yep, I agree this math does not make any sense. Even if you made 20000 USD a month after tax you would not spend like this.

[HorseTrader]

I work a job in the sub continent which pays the equivalent of 500 USD per month which is peanuts by western standards.

I stayed at a 5 star hotel. It costed me on average 3400 THB per night.

Am I reading this correctly? Your pay is about 500 USD per month and you are spending almost 100 USD per night for your hotel? Surely you jest. There has to be much more to the story that you aren't writing. Living rent-free isn't the only thing.

[Steve 9696]

Thank you all for the feedback. I'm headed to BKK again September end for 3 nights. Have around 69 K THB to play with. However this time, I booked a cheaper flight on Indigo at 10 K THB. There was Air Asia which was about 9 K Baht but I decided to skip it as it was landing at 4 am in the morning that would imply me waiting in the hotel lobby up until noon for check in. I also booked a cheaper hotel for my upcoming trip this time. 5 K Baht for 3 nights instead of the 17 K Baht I paid earlier on the 5 star hotel.

This time I will be documenting my expenses very closely and try to keep my spending to a max of 10 K THB per day. Fingers crossed.

One reason why I am a bit liberal with money is because I own two flats here in my home country and do not have to pay rent apart from food, groceries & utilities. But that is no excuse in the long run and have to be more prudent with my expenses.

Cheers!

That is a solid plan. Save on flights and hotels and spend it on girls. Even a top gogo girl is only 4-5 K baht. So you should be good. Add in a BJ at 7 Heaven for 1300 and veggie massage at 500 K and you should still be good!

I have a friend who does Mexico City and he calls it the “eat soup and fuck” plan (ie spend $$ on girls not food! ). Good plan.

[Vicky Cooper]

Hi,

So I am in my mid thirties and have lost both my parents a few years earlier. I work a job in the sub continent which pays the equivalent of 500 USD per month which is peanuts by western standards. Apart from this I have a small but significant amount of inheritance received from the demise of my parents which fuels my mongering. I started out in this hobby about 12 years ago when I was fresh out of college and landed a short time job in DXB. A PRC girl it was that I lost my virginity to at age 21. At present I'm unmarried and very lonely. (never been married or had a GF BTW).

The problem is with this expensive hobby of mongering, I end up spending loads of money. My last trip to BKK last month, I spent about 80 K THB in 4 days (hotel, food, air ticket, boom boom all included) which I guess is quite a lot.

How do you folks manage to stick to a reasonable budget without breaking the bank and resist temptation versus the body's strong carnal & emotional urges. I find that over the years I turn to mongering more out of loneliness & someone to talk to rather than horniness.

Thank you all for the feedback. I'm headed to BKK again September end for 3 nights. Have around 69 K THB to play with. However this time, I booked a cheaper flight on Indigo at 10 K THB. There was Air Asia which was about 9 K Baht but I decided to skip it as it was landing at 4 am in the morning that would imply me waiting in the hotel lobby up until noon for check in. I also booked a cheaper hotel for my upcoming trip this time. 5 K Baht for 3 nights instead of the 17 K Baht I paid earlier on the 5 star hotel.

This time I will be documenting my expenses very closely and try to keep my spending to a max of 10 K THB per day. Fingers crossed.

One reason why I am a bit liberal with money is because I own two flats here in my home country and do not have to pay rent apart from food, groceries & utilities. But that is no excuse in the long run and have to be more prudent with my expenses.

Cheers!

[MickeyDuck1208]

I am from the Sub continent too. First off, 80 K THB is about 2 L INR for a 4 day trip which is really expensive. Even the 5 star does not justify this since Thailand is much cheaper compared to even, Dubai. Flights. Avoid Thai, take Indigo. Timings are inconvenient, but when the company is not paying for it you can lose some sleep. Even better if you get a connection via KL, go for it, sometimes even cheaper on Air Asia. Shop around for tickets. Hotel - 8 K is ok per night for a 5 star, but you can go down to a 3 star one too. Ping some of the girls on MR, sideline and fiwfans and check what hotel they are in. Book the same. Has worked well for me both in BKK and Dubai. MP you seem to have spent on the higher side, look around and bargain, Thermae pick ups might be better since you can avoid some bar fine, etc. And you said you are a young good looking guy. So most of the girls should be agreeable to come with you.

The core problem. Condolences for your loss. Is female company, not sex. Find something you like to do. Working out, running, hiking, photography, etc. Join a local Facebook group, meet new people and girls. Hit some pubs / bars on weekends, meet people. This is not a cheap thrill, you will lose out money since mind does not control your actions if you are desperate.

80 K baht was all inclusive for the air ticket to and back from BKK, hotel, food, soe shopping & mongering. I stayed at a 5 star hotel. It costed me on average 3400 THB per night.

I'd hit the nuru massage parlours in the day and about 3000 THB was the damage, Night time I would visit a gogo bar at Nana and bar fine somebody- 1 K Bar fine, 3 K to the girl and about 500 THB on drinks and lady drinks = 4500 THB.

Sometimes I'd visit 2 MP during the day.

[CityHunter77]

80 K baht was all inclusive for the air ticket to and back from BKK, hotel, food, soe shopping & mongering. I stayed at a 5 star hotel. It costed me on average 3400 THB per night.

I'd hit the nuru massage parlours in the day and about 3000 THB was the damage, Night time I would visit a gogo bar at Nana and bar fine somebody- 1 K Bar fine, 3 K to the girl and about 500 THB on drinks and lady drinks = 4500 THB.

Sometimes I'd visit 2 MP during the day.

Have you looked at booking separate flights and accommodation, may work out cheaper. Since flights are roughly between 10 to 15 k.

You can probably go for cheaper accommodation and cut out the 3000 k massage for just a cheaper massage or go to a BJ bar.

You should think about joining a hotel loyalty program if you are a regular visitor. On my next trip to Bangkok I will be staying free on points.

[Mgkckr]

Hi,

So I am in my mid thirties and have lost both my parents a few years earlier. I work a job in the sub continent which pays the equivalent of 500 USD per month which is peanuts by western standards. Apart from this I have a small but significant amount of inheritance received from the demise of my parents which fuels my mongering. I started out in this hobby about 12 years ago when I was fresh out of college and landed a short time job in DXB. A PRC girl it was that I lost my virginity to at age 21. At present I'm unmarried and very lonely. (never been married or had a GF BTW).

The problem is with this expensive hobby of mongering, I end up spending loads of money. My last trip to BKK last month, I spent about 80 K THB in 4 days (hotel, food, air ticket, boom boom all included) which I guess is quite a lot.

How do you folks manage to stick to a reasonable budget without breaking the bank and resist temptation versus the body's strong carnal & emotional urges. I find that over the years I turn to mongering more out of loneliness & someone to talk to rather than horniness.

I just don't want to end up at the age of 50 or 60 year old Nearing retirement without any savings left having lost it to this expensive hobby of mongering. I know from wisdom that marriage too is not a solution either as in these times its a very very expensive affair and divorce rates are sky high! I am quite attractive and most girls find me very pleasant but never managed to bag a girl friend over the years.

Hope to have some light on this from older experienced mongers here.

Thank You.

I was running into a similar issue where I wanted to hobby less. What I found working was trying to monger less in where I live (where it's plentiful, but expensive) and stick to a budget on any trips abroad where I'm mongering. Of course, easier said than done. What helped is I have two friends that know about my hobby and keep my accountable; and I always try to budget after I jerk one off. Post nut clarity is an amazing thing. I also try to fill my days with a lot of things, so I'm not always thinking about sex.

Good luck!

[Chan Chalupa]

I dunno, I went to Nana Plaza the other night, and the selection was not very good.

Crazy House in Soi Cowboy was better, but mostly silicon enhanced MILFs.

I doubt you will find 1,000 baht girls within the Confines of Nana Plaza.

If you willing to go 4400 all in well that's another Story.

[Expat American]

Hi,

So I am in my mid thirties and have lost both my parents a few years earlier. I work a job in the sub continent which pays the equivalent of 500 USD per month which is peanuts by western standards. Apart from this I have a small but significant amount of inheritance received from the demise of my parents which fuels my mongering. I started out in this hobby about 12 years ago when I was fresh out of college and landed a short time job in DXB. A PRC girl it was that I lost my virginity to at age 21. At present I'm unmarried and very lonely. (never been married or had a GF BTW).

The problem is with this expensive hobby of mongering, I end up spending loads of money. My last trip to BKK last month, I spent about 80 K THB in 4 days (hotel, food, air ticket, boom boom all included) which I guess is quite a lot.

How do you folks manage to stick to a reasonable budget without breaking the bank and resist temptation versus the body's strong carnal & emotional urges. I find that over the years I turn to mongering more out of loneliness & someone to talk to rather than horniness.

I just don't want to end up at the age of 50 or 60 year old Nearing retirement without any savings left having lost it to this expensive hobby of mongering. I know from wisdom that marriage too is not a solution either as in these times its a very very expensive affair and divorce rates are sky high! I am quite attractive and most girls find me very pleasant but never managed to bag a girl friend over the years.

Hope to have some light on this from older experienced mongers here.

Thank You.

Why do you monger? As a young attractive man, you should focus your energy on dating. $500/ month is about INR 40 K per month. In a major city like Mumbai or Delhi that is indeed peanuts, in a smaller town it would go pretty far. Why not focus on your career and bring up the earnings? Sorry for your loss. In India family support is the most important and it is understandable that you feel lost to some extent. But don't use mongering to escape those emotions. Maybe find some support in extended family. What I am saying in the end is that don't use mongering as an emotional crutch. Your problem seems less finance and more emotional. Work on the root cause and you will be better all around.

[Explorer8939]

The rest of Mr. Nyezhov's advice is worthwhile, but this one is pure GOLD.

The go-gos in Bangkok should be on every naughty boy's bucket list. A first time visitor owes it to himself to visit Baccara on Soi Cowboy, or one of the Rainbows at Nana Entertainment Plaza. Yes, the go-go scene is more expensive than, say, blowjob bars or girls who work on the street or as freelancers in the bars. Yes, the go-gos on Soi Cowboy that are owned by "the Arab" are clip joints. Yes the EDM is often loud.

But the chance to choose from dozens of girls that you can see live and in person beats staring at your phone. You can buy the girl a drink and get to know her, at least on a superficial level. This beats knocking on the door of a hotel room far off the beaten path and facing a take-it-or-leave-it choice. The go-go scene is about as organized as it gets when it comes to P4 P in BKK. Your companion will be a real woman, she'll have an ID to drop off at your hotel and she knows what's expected of her. In in unlikely event she flakes, you have at least some redress by complaining to the club.

So listen to our pals. They know what they're doing when it comes to getting laid in Bangkok.

Bunky

I dunno, I went to Nana Plaza the other night, and the selection was not very good.

Crazy House in Soi Cowboy was better, but mostly silicon enhanced MILFs.

[Jayagopal50]

When you were preparing for this trip, how much did you plan to spend? Did you have a plan?

Can you break down how much of the 80 k was spent on - (hotel, food, air ticket, boom boom all included).

I think at $500/ monthly you have to look at what it may cost you in India for Quality you are getting. In my opinion no comparison. Luckily I am based in USA having migrated in 1970's. SADLY I have aged now, so drinking and partying not possible like before.