Bangkok Reports

[Crocodilexp]

But the better looking girls have more fragile egos and are taking a rare and, frankly, unnecessary risk of losing Face by making a big play for a man who might turn up his nose at her approach when she could take the safer route instead.

The way this particular topic applies here, I suppose, is don't automatically assume a hot girl in a venue ignoring your attention and focusing on another dude has anything to do with you not being as physically attractive as him. Lol. It could very well be more like the opposite of that.

Interesting thought experiment and the logic seems sound on the surface. However, in reality, I definitely do NOT see more hot working girls making a big play for me now than did back when I was 10-15 years younger and 20 kg lighter.

[EihTooms]

Not once did I see old white guys on Thai girls FB pages with the Heart emoji. Hansum Asian; boys always POP up.

You know when the girls stop at the little Buddhist shrine to wai and pray for a fortunate night to help support themselves and their families before they hurry into the go-go bars? That's when images of old white guys POP into their heads.

[Danny Duck]

Check out what's on their phones or the walls of their bedrooms. Its Korean pop stars in their late teens / twenties not some aging farang but check out where their money comes from and its customers in their fifties up. Two different worlds. First is their fantasy second is their reality, its what they do for a living, its work.

When it comes to work they don't like bad hygiene, if you are too inebriated and those identified with a reputation for being overly demanding or aggressive. I feel they don't differentiate on age. In fact I have heard more than once a lot don't like young guys because of the nonstop pounding they get unlike granddad who likes to take it slow and easy. Also don't believe a high BMI or being folically challenged makes a lot of difference. For sure how you look, grooming, dress, having a smile, a twinkle in your eye and look like you are enjoying yourself goes a long way but a 3000 baht offer for her time supersedes all of that.

In short it's true they have their preferences and if they have choices they will pick and choose. If not they will close their eyes and dream of their Korean idol as they go through the motions with whoever is paying.

Not once did I see old white guys on Thai girls FB pages with the Heart emoji. Hansum Asian; boys always POP up.

[Franciscass]

Then sadly for us Farang Thai girls will be conditioned to like Thai men because your average Thai girl DOES NOT watch Farang TV if there is no Farang around. They all watch their Thai drama series. Most of the big Bangkok TV stars who Thai girls find hot are in their 20's and early 30's, not over 60. The other thing Thai girls watch are cartoons to help them improve their English. Guess Thai girls will become accustomed to like the human version of Doraemon.

Check out what's on their phones or the walls of their bedrooms. Its Korean pop stars in their late teens / twenties not some aging farang but check out where their money comes from and its customers in their fifties up. Two different worlds. First is their fantasy second is their reality, its what they do for a living, its work.

When it comes to work they don't like bad hygiene, if you are too inebriated and those identified with a reputation for being overly demanding or aggressive. I feel they don't differentiate on age. In fact I have heard more than once a lot don't like young guys because of the nonstop pounding they get unlike granddad who likes to take it slow and easy. Also don't believe a high BMI or being folically challenged makes a lot of difference. For sure how you look, grooming, dress, having a smile, a twinkle in your eye and look like you are enjoying yourself goes a long way but a 3000 baht offer for her time supersedes all of that.

In short it's true they have their preferences and if they have choices they will pick and choose. If not they will close their eyes and dream of their Korean idol as they go through the motions with whoever is paying.

[EihTooms]

Maybe that might have been true 100 years ago, these days you can get pretty fat on cheap food. No need to be rich. In my opinion its pretty easy to see what a society deems attractive, just look at their media. What do the guys look like on TV, in advertisemennts and shows. These are the guys that thai women have been trained to like.

Whatever look a Thai girl has been conditioned to be sexually attracted to, that has almost nothing to do with who Thai hookers tend to feel more confident about approaching, being more comfortably uninhibited with or giving good service to in the room.

There is far less potential upside for a P4P girl to give attention and great service to a man she perceives as physically attractive enough not to really need her attention to get well laid and laid by girls at least as good looking as her if not better looking than to a man who in her eyes and estimation would feel lucky as hell and eternally grateful for the chance to be alone in the same room with her.

Now, the least attractive girls in a bar or any venue will go after a good looking man without hesitation or worry about being publicly rebuffed because they are used to being publicly rebuffed and most onlookers would expect it anyway. No surprise.

But the better looking girls have more fragile egos and are taking a rare and, frankly, unnecessary risk of losing Face by making a big play for a man who might turn up his nose at her approach when she could take the safer route instead.

The way this particular topic applies here, I suppose, is don't automatically assume a hot girl in a venue ignoring your attention and focusing on another dude has anything to do with you not being as physically attractive as him. Lol. It could very well be more like the opposite of that.

[Banana Boi]

its pretty easy to see what a society deems attractive, just look at their media. What do the guys look like on TV, in advertisemennts and shows. These are the guys that thai women have been trained to like.

Then sadly for us Farang Thai girls will be conditioned to like Thai men because your average Thai girl DOES NOT watch Farang TV if there is no Farang around. They all watch their Thai drama series. Most of the big Bangkok TV stars who Thai girls find hot are in their 20's and early 30's, not over 60. The other thing Thai girls watch are cartoons to help them improve their English. Guess Thai girls will become accustomed to like the human version of Doraemon.

[Kazeu]

I've been to Soi Cowboy with a really fat bloke and the girls absolutely loved him. I don't think it has anything to do with the reasons you suggest. It's more likely to be because fat men are perceived as being so rich they can eat as much as they want.

Maybe that might have been true 100 years ago, these days you can get pretty fat on cheap food. No need to be rich. In my opinion its pretty easy to see what a society deems attractive, just look at their media. What do the guys look like on TV, in advertisemennts and shows. These are the guys that thai women have been trained to like.

[EihTooms]

I've been to Soi Cowboy with a really fat bloke and the girls absolutely loved him. I don't think it has anything to do with the reasons you suggest. It's more likely to be because fat men are perceived as being so rich they can eat as much as they want.

I don't know about Thai girls falling all over customers because they look rich in any other way; bling, expensive clothes, shoes, in their demeanor, whatever. But I do see them lighting up and approaching customers with much more visible confidence when there appears to be no reason the customer might reject them for not "measuring up" to the type of girl they are used to being with. And I don't think that behavior is limited to direct P4P hookers.

I hear comments, complaints really, about being turned off by Thai girls with a boring lack of confidence in the room only from the guys I know who honestly do look like they could get hot girls for free but never from the guys who don't look like they could.

Only talking about the natural perception of the guys. We all know ugly guys who get hot girls, even for free. But I doubt that is a premise Thai hookers are basing their approach behavior on or how they behave in the room.

[Banana Boi]

Rainbow 2 closed? Saw a Facebook post by a popular Rainbow Girl that indicated its over.

Rainbow girls have moved to another gogo bar. They're still all in Nana Plaza.

I don't think Jason Statham has problems getting laid. Even if no one knew who he was.

Sure but how many old bald men on ISG have the touch me and I'll destroy you bad boy look? Sade says ET has a hot looking model look so kudos for him. Agree if he looks hot even if he is balding it may work for him but in reality 99% of the old bald men I have seen in Thailand and Germany FKK clubs would not likely be classified as hot looking by a 20 year old girl.

If I hear "Hello, handsome man, where you go" one more time I swear I'll throttle one of them.

But don't we all hear this way too often from Asian P4P girls? Even I hear it often with my comb over.

[Whoreman]

Gogos are never static an which are the best ones, even in the same night. I'd say Billboard and Butterflies tend to have more young, fit girls and tend to be the "higher class" part / club gogos. Rainbow 4 has more girls with the kawaii look, and overall is generally good. Angelwitch tends to have a good overall mix of different girls and aren't barfined / overrun with chinese / japanese tourists so the hot girls may actually be there when you show up and give you attention. There's good and bad all over, and girls rotate in and out all night, so a place may rock one hour, suck the next, and so on, its always a mixed bag at every gogo, feel free to browse the selection around.

All this said. Pop into a few places until you find one you like, its not hard. Even the little places have gems.

I used to like doing that but grew to really dislike go-go bars so just stopped going. I'm finding it difficult to motivate myself to get back into them even with reports that this is the best time ever. Tonight I was going to check out Baccara but then I remembered the silly two lady drinks rule last time I went there and wondered whether they're still pulling that kind of nonsense. I ended up getting off at Phrom Pong and unloading in a massage girl instead.

[Whoreman]

And I have heard many reports from my fatter, less attractive punter friends that their girls are almost always fine with going bareback with them since they have not had much sex in their lives (or so the girls mistakenly believe), they are fat and therefore "can not have HIV."

I've been to Soi Cowboy with a really fat bloke and the girls absolutely loved him. I don't think it has anything to do with the reasons you suggest. It's more likely to be because fat men are perceived as being so rich they can eat as much as they want.

[Catire]

I do the comb over. Works well for me with my 97 strands of hair I comb over. P4P girls say I look young with my comb over. I believe them!

Can't agree with your sentence in brackets. Baldness is one factor girls can't overlook even if you're tall, fit, and tanned. My source is the Seinfeld episode when Elaine broke it to George that baldness is the worst thing possible for a man. Hair on your back and yellow smoker's teeth are other things that are pretty gross for girls. But of course for money all guys look good to girls.

Yeah, I'm talking aside from the money.

Are you referring to Thai girls only where you can't pull off the bald look if muscular and tanned? I don't agree. I don't think Jason Statham has problems getting laid. Even if no one knew who he was. Bruce Willis is now quite old and he was never particularly well built.

I was originally responding to Locamotive's post. He's in the PI and sounded like he wasn't talking about "pros"". Also Pinays are Thais aren't quite the same.

I will say that if anything I've gotten better from Thai hookers as I've gotten older (strictly talking about pros) .. but I've also changed my game so to speak. and grown to understand thais a little better

[Danny Duck]

Rainbow 2 closed? Saw a Facebook post by a popular Rainbow Girl that indicated its over.

[Franciscass]

And I have heard many reports from my fatter, less attractive punter friends .

You have my sympathy ET, I have the same problem, I'm also too good looking. It's a heavy load to carry but a burden we have to bear. If I hear "Hello, handsome man, where you go" one more time I swear I'll throttle one of them.

[EihTooms]

What works in your favor is you apparently don't look that old. How you look is more important than your calendar age. You still have your hair, and you're not fat. And you're 6 ft? In like Flint as long as those three things keep steady as they go. (you should be able to get late 30 somethings stateside)

How many middle aged farang men do you know in Asia (and frankly almost anywhere) who aren't either bald or fat. (and I'm not talking obese, but roly poly) . Or both?
at least the weight you can control. With hair, one is completely at mercy of parental genes.

(you can pull off the bald look provided you go to gym regularly, and lift. and stay tanned. How many bald middle aged men do you know that adhere to that regime?)

I think a punter being unattractive or attractive are each a mixed bag with regard to Thai hookers.

Many girls might want to put a feather in their cap by being seen walking away with a good looking, fit customer just to prove to all witnesses that they can get one. But that ensures nothing about how well that punter will be treated in the room and might even work against him being treated all that well. She thinks he has had a lot of sex with many girls and is therefore more likely to have HIV/STD. And that he has had sex with better looking girls than she is, which tends to inhibit and lessen the confidence a Thai girl needs to deliver the best service.

She will also conclude one crap session with her means nothing to this dude since he can get any girl he wants any time and this one session is no big deal to him. Now, multiply that attitude by most of the girls that guy finds himself in a room with and you can see it isn't the great advantage some might assume.

And I have heard many reports from my fatter, less attractive punter friends that their girls are almost always fine with going bareback with them since they have not had much sex in their lives (or so the girls mistakenly believe), they are fat and therefore "can not have HIV."

Also, notoriously overly self critical Thai girls will go all out for a punter if they suspect he could not possibly have gotten laid much in his life and certainly not by a girl as hot as she is. So she is more likely to put in the extra effort just to enjoy testing the limits of her sexual powers. She would feel silly even attempting such a thing with a man she is certain has been with more beautiful girls than she is.