Nairobi

[Naked Gunz]

I guess I was biased against the Philippines because I grew up in a very racially diverse area so I knew Filipinos and Dominicans so I wasn't all that impressed.

The thing is nobody randomly comes to Africa so there's almost no information. I don't know how willing you and a couple other mongers / expats to guide a noob but it would be worth paying for a membership if it meant I could buy a clue with h people with vast experience. I too am totally dependent on educated girls. Juggling hoes bringing them to the spot I sleep. It's been a mess. The other day I had to pay two girls to go away while I was with another. The reason this happened was because of the extreme CP time of the girls so I assumed they flaked. I'm seriously considering a not so hot educated girl in the rotation simply because she's a freebie that isn't impressed by my money. But then I remember your story about the so-called unicorn Kenyan girl. Is the answer always find 'me fuck 'them and flee?

You knew Dominicans / Pinoys in your country, not their country, big difference. Actually, your also generalizing people as a whole, which is also misleading. I can only generalize Kenyan women here, which are all truly fucked up, hehe! Wow, bro! You not just newbie in Kenya, your a newbie in life! Nothing wrong with that though, your learning as you go, which can be expensive lessons. I'm practicing day trading, and get kicked in the ass daily for not being a newbie! I've seen your Tanzania posts, you ain't that newbie, so don't say that. You paid the WG, so they caused no problems for you- not a newbie move. Even US Secret Service was too dumb to do that Colombia.

Just remember most of your contacts are living in Eastlands, where it's much cheaper. If she is coming from Eastlands, she doesn't know you, so she will move slowly, then traffic will slow her down, and she has to figure out where you are- no woman can do this anyway! Meet her in a neutral setting before she knows where you live. If she lives just North, or West of town she has much more going for her or she lives with people. Try to confirm where she lives. That's why I also get my chics online before I hit the ground. I pick their brain about who, what, when and where, so am not wasting time trying to know who I'm dealing with after I get there. If there is a good rapport, it's all good upon arrival. I saw about three posts saying that's the wrong move. You have to use your own strategy when it comes to logistics! I only had one woman out of 50+ try to meet me on time.

I can't recall the unicorn, but people will answer all your questions, and you have to read the forum. There are some hard chargers, past and current, in the Kenya forum. Some doing things like braving late night walks on River Rd. (WTF!) and getting pussy in Sabina Joy, which is undergoing renovation I hear! So don't feel alone. I guess the answer is don't lead the non-pro chics on to think there is more. I have plenty of contacts I can call, and when I told them I was "exclusive", all were cool and said OK. My buddy had one regular woman buying him clothes when we when there. What is she feeling now that he's fucked her and gone? He was married and just having fun. Treat the pros like pros, semi-pro with a smile and payment, and pay non-pro like a lady so she doesn't feel like a ho. There is no trick to all this. I think I've written all this here for the fifty-eleventh time-DUH! Enjoy bro!

I am in my mid 40's and I used to have a job where I could spend 6 months of the year in Kenya, albeit Mombasa not Nairobi. I know a lot of ex pats that have retired there. There is one golden rule if you retire to Kenya and want it to be peaceful and stress free, do not get involved with the locals. What I mean by this is keep yourself to yourself for the majority part and do not ever keep girls for repeated fun, after a few meets move on. It does work but too many try keep one for themselves and it will 99% go pear shaped.

Well, I have the same type of job, and I don't want to put myself in a prison by not freely associating myself with the locals to some degree. Sure, you don't want to be so open that you will be hit up constantly for help. I can only think of my American friend on the coast that retired there and has been for many, many years there. His personality is open, but if you try to get too close in the wrong way he will let you know in a heartbeat to not go there. Women that try to leave a toothbrush are told to take their shit and go. He gets locals for maybe 600 shillings. He has even shut ME down for asking too many questions, hehe! He knows the game and plays it well. Asian diet and environment are pristine. One look at thirty-something women Asian women on Tinder confirms this. I'm stuck in the states waiting for work documentation and I don't have a home here-am in a hotel. I have had a marching band living in the room above me for a few days, and I don't have to look to see who it is. The heavy walking and constant movement tells me it's a fat biatch that can't seem to sit the fuck down for 5 straight minutes in a small hotel room.

Can you blame a man for wanting to keep some good shit close? Only the culture / vulture gets in the way. Culture differences and vultures that tell her lets pick the bones! When you say pear shape I assume you mean fat-true? I looked in the newspaper once and confirmed what I thought, and it was that the obituaries were full of Kenyans dying in their fifties. Shitty air, food, and the environment are killing them. I once grilled some butcher meat in Nakuru and it looked and smelled great but was so chewy and gamey I could barely eat the shit. I really could not tell you what the meat was, but I know not dog meat at least. After about 15 Kenya visits, and some for as much as a month, I know now, and really new inside then, it ain't for me to live.

[Mombie75]

I am in my mid 40's and I used to have a job where I could spend 6 months of the year in Kenya, albeit Mombasa not Nairobi. I know a lot of ex pats that have retired there. There is one golden rule if you retire to Kenya and want it to be peaceful and stress free, do not get involved with the locals. What I mean by this is keep yourself to yourself for the majority part and do not ever keep girls for repeated fun, after a few meets move on. It does work but too many try keep one for themselves and it will 99% go pear shaped.

[Triple Darknes]

Exactly the reason I would also reconsider any African retirement. It's your life, and I have never been to Dar to judge the place, but you just said you're a newbie. For that, and many more reasons, don't jump too soon. I would be hanging out in Dar more often, so you can evaluate the place for that major decision-which deserves at least a year of continuous occupancy before being made.

I've had a lot of time to reflect on what happened with me after getting hung up on an African chic. I'm sure she really meant well (sometimes) but the cultural differences are too much to overcome sometimes. Another MAJOR issue with being a foreign man with a younger woman in her country is that while trying to maintain the dominant role in the relationship, that role will be compromised by the language difference, which affects almost everything you try to accomplish. Examples: She always has to translate for you. Store clerks won't even talk to you, but her..

You're right a Canadian lady told me to go the air bob route for at least six months before I make a decision. I'm in one now first time ever for me. I paid the first night and will get a cash discount for the rest of my stay. I guess I was biased against the Philippines because I grew up in a very racially diverse area so I knew Filipinos and Dominicans so I wasn't all that impressed. When J-Lo was dating diddy I didn't see what the big deal was. What I was impressed by was the corn fed big assed country girls in the south.

The thing is nobody randomly comes to Africa so there's almost no information. I don't know how willing you and a couple other mongers / expats to guide a noob but it would be worth paying for a membership if it meant I could buy a clue with h people with vast experience. I too am totally dependent on educated girls. Juggling hoes bringing them to the spot I sleep. It's been a mess. The other day I had to pay two girls to go away while I was with another. The reason this happened was because of the extreme CP time of the girls so I assumed they flaked. I'm seriously considering a not so hot educated girl in the rotation simply because she's a freebie that isn't impressed by my money. But then I remember your story about the so called unicorn Kenyan girl. Is the answer always find 'me fuck 'them and flee?

[Naked Gunz]

I am a noob and I'm one of those mongers chicks dream about. If the chick is super hot and the price isn't absolutely outrageous I'll pay. I felt a ways when it tools 6 hours in country to secure pussy with no phone or dating app support. I have stuck gold using day game in Nai. But like you I've decided against Kenya for retirement. It's looking like Dar now. This is like little Ghana, it's crawling with proBlack returnees.

Exactly the reason I would also reconsider any African retirement. It's your life, and I have never been to Dar to judge the place, but you just said you're a newbie. For that, and many more reasons, don't jump too soon. I would be hanging out in Dar more often, so you can evaluate the place for that major decision-which deserves at least a year of continuous occupancy before being made.

I've had a lot of time to reflect on what happened with me after getting hung up on an African chic. I'm sure she really meant well (sometimes) but the cultural differences are too much to overcome sometimes. Another MAJOR issue with being a foreign man with a younger woman in her country is that while trying to maintain the dominant role in the relationship, that role will be compromised by the language difference, which affects almost everything you try to accomplish. Examples: She always has to translate for you. Store clerks won't even talk to you, but her. You will probably tip too much while out, which also screws up the dynamics. You don't know when to bribe and when not to bribe. You, having to be saved by her will diminish your role and give her too much power. Only an older, loving, mature woman, and not a lying, out-for-herself chic will truly have your back. Nines times out of ten the hot piece of ass won't have your back.

I am considering my initial choice-Philippines. American friendly, English speaking, decent living conditions, strongarm president killing and jailing all the druggies / thieves, and TNA everywhere. I don't even know what the hell I was thinking putting Kenya on the list. I would really, really, think long and hard about your retirement.

[Triple Darknes]

Saavy? Your American! You cannot be outsmarted unless your newbie, or letting your guard down.

I like a challenge. I consider day game: seeing a super hot chic on the street in town walking down the road, and minding her own business, as my prey. I try to stop her, and cajole contact info, a later drink- SOMETHING-from the woman. It is probably easier for mzungu, but has worked very few times for me in Nairobi. Women are too focused, scared, whatever, of a stranger approaching them in the street-unless your mzungu-tsk! Hell, that's where the hot non-pros are though! The key is to get them when they are stopped! Stopped squeezing melons in the store, stopped reading a paper, but stopped in place. That's when you pounce and get her attention. Some guys say I got the waitress, the girl in the store, whatever- she was stopped in place! So challenge yourself to get what you want.

Enjoy your time in Nai- are you still considering Africa retirement? My posts reflect a complete reversal, hehe! Don't forget to post a report on your stay, Kenya forum needs life support.

What I mean about savvy WG is chicks that know how to handle noob mongers. Guys who've been mongering for years can relax and make their selections A noob who's a total slave to his dick we"ll let the chick select the monger if she's hot enough. That's why I specially avoided notorious red light countries for this reason.

[Triple Darknes]

Saavy? Your American! You cannot be outsmarted unless your newbie, or letting your guard down.

I like a challenge. I consider day game: seeing a super hot chic on the street in town walking down the road, and minding her own business, as my prey. I try to stop her, and cajole contact info, a later drink- SOMETHING-from the woman. It is probably easier for mzungu, but has worked very few times for me in Nairobi. Women are too focused, scared, whatever, of a stranger approaching them in the street-unless your mzungu-tsk! Hell, that's where the hot non-pros are though! The key is to get them when they are stopped! Stopped squeezing melons in the store, stopped reading a paper, but stopped in place. That's when you pounce and get her attention. Some guys say I got the waitress, the girl in the store, whatever- she was stopped in place! So challenge yourself to get what you want.

Enjoy your time in Nai- are you still considering Africa retirement? My posts reflect a complete reversal, hehe! Don't forget to post a report on your stay, Kenya forum needs life support.

I am a noob and I'm one of those mongers chicks dream about. If the chick is super hot and the price isn't absolutely outrageous I'll pay. I felt a ways when it tools 6 hours in country to secure pussy with no phone or dating app support. I have stuck gold using day game in Nai. But like you I've decided against Kenya for retirement. It's looking like Dar now. This is like little Ghana, it's crawling with proBlack returnees.

[Naked Gunz]

Day game worked OK. But yes dating apps are quicker. That being said dating apps attracts savvy semi-pros.

Saavy? Your American! You cannot be outsmarted unless your newbie, or letting your guard down.

I like a challenge. I consider day game: seeing a super hot chic on the street in town walking down the road, and minding her own business, as my prey. I try to stop her, and cajole contact info, a later drink- SOMETHING-from the woman. It is probably easier for mzungu, but has worked very few times for me in Nairobi. Women are too focused, scared, whatever, of a stranger approaching them in the street-unless your mzungu-tsk! Hell, that's where the hot non-pros are though! The key is to get them when they are stopped! Stopped squeezing melons in the store, stopped reading a paper, but stopped in place. That's when you pounce and get her attention. Some guys say I got the waitress, the girl in the store, whatever- she was stopped in place! So challenge yourself to get what you want.

Enjoy your time in Nai- are you still considering Africa retirement? My posts reflect a complete reversal, hehe! Don't forget to post a report on your stay, Kenya forum needs life support.

[Triple Darknes]

You got thrown off guard because you're used to Northern Hemisphere July / August, which is freaking hot. I think you have not are (all) TFF my friend. I'm sure there are a few mentions of Jul / Aug temps. You go from DXB to NBO and get the surprise of your life. My first AIRBNB was so full of holes it's like I was outside, and they had one piece of shit space heater I literally sat on day and night. I had to constantly fuck and drink to stay warm-the assholes already had my money. On top of that, they said nothing about the pre-pay electricity, the same electricity that they had not paid! "Why are everybody's lights on but mine"?

To each his own on Social media, I personally like an advanced line-up. Saves on hunting time, more time for pumping. I also like to find my body type (TNA grande) pre-arrival and establish a rapport. Just my thing-you do you.

Yeah that's what it is the equator I forgot it was hot as hell in the states and light jacket weather here. Day game worked OK. But yes dating apps are quicker. That being said dating apps attracts savvy semi pros.

[Naked Gunz]

I'm in Kenya right now. I'm surprised it's this cold. It's not cold compared to American winter but it's cooler here than it is at my house on the states. I agree that you need time. I'm on a no social media challenge and day game works better than night game.

You got thrown off guard because you're used to Northern Hemisphere July / August, which is freaking hot. I think you have not are (all) TFF my friend. I'm sure there are a few mentions of Jul / Aug temps. You go from DXB to NBO and get the surprise of your life. My first AIRBNB was so full of holes it's like I was outside, and they had one piece of shit space heater I literally sat on day and night. I had to constantly fuck and drink to stay warm-the assholes already had my money. On top of that, they said nothing about the pre-pay electricity, the same electricity that they had not paid! "Why are everybody's lights on but mine"?

To each his own on Social media, I personally like an advanced line-up. Saves on hunting time, more time for pumping. I also like to find my body type (TNA grande) pre-arrival and establish a rapport. Just my thing-you do you.

[Triple Darknes]

Forget naughty nomad. That guy's a tourist. In his funny pirate outfit. How much he spends in a country. A couple of days. Admittedly he has guts. Being the first tourist flying into Mogadishu. But to get the lay of the land I spend no less than a month incountry. I don't pipeline via dating apps. For example in Gambia totally useless strategy. The girls check in every couple of months. You can literally talk to ANY girl on the street and more often than not it will translate into date and subsequent lay in all subsaharan african countries. And don't forget. You are on top of the food chain. I totally agree with XXL. Never have a chica waiting. Might be hard to get rid of unless you have time constraints. Doesn't apply to me. I am time millionaire and have sufficient funds.

Neddy.

Suffering 2 more months in Disneyland.

I'm in Kenya right now. I'm surprised it's this cold. It's not cold compared to American winter but it's cooler here than it is at my house on the states.

I agree that you need time. I'm on a no social media challenge and day game works better than night game.

[Member #4589]

Forget naughty nomad. That guy's a tourist. In his funny pirate outfit. How much he spends in a country. A couple of days. Admittedly he has guts. Being the first tourist flying into Mogadishu. But to get the lay of the land I spend no less than a month incountry. I don't pipeline via dating apps. For example in Gambia totally useless strategy. The girls check in every couple of months. You can literally talk to ANY girl on the street and more often than not it will translate into date and subsequent lay in all subsaharan african countries. And don't forget. You are on top of the food chain. I totally agree with XXL. Never have a chica waiting. Might be hard to get rid of unless you have time constraints. Doesn't apply to me. I am time millionaire and have sufficient funds.

Neddy.

Suffering 2 more months in Disneyland.

I totally agree with what has been said. There really is no reason to have a girl waiting on you before you arrive. Best bet is to go to a popular nightclub and work from there.

That strategy hasn't failed me in Accra, Lagos, Nairobi or Jozi.

The only time I could ever see one wanting to set up a something prior to arrival would be the case if the girl has a very niche body.

Example: there's a girl in Nigeria on Instagram I follow. She had like 40 EE boobs but a very slim body. Her body type was harder for me to see on my day to day interactions with other ladies. I set up a meet with her beforehand because I had at the time a thing for huge boobs on a small figure.

Outside of that, I don't recommend the practice.

[Mohit1692]

Was in Nairobi last week. Went to Black Diamond. Girls are friendly there. Took one girl to a nearby hotel. Cost me 5000 shillings for the girl and 4000 for the hotel. Dancing with her at the bar and then going to a nearby hotel after was good fun.

[Neddy69]

I'm learning. There's a lot of bad information out there. Naughty Nomad actually suggests using dating apps 2 weeks in advance. I know now that will get you a sticky girl. The concept of dating doesn't seem to compute, They think it means stay with them and only them the entirety of your trip. This is a recon trip for me, I've read good things about Mombassa on here. Although I'm a big city guy. I'm leery of defined red light districts but on the other hand I like comfort I'm a budget traveler but I'm not really trying to go to the hinterlands to save 5 bucks on pussy. Besides girls in rural areas are even more sticky than city girls. Country girls may not see another monger for a long time.

Forget naughty nomad. That guy's a tourist. In his funny pirate outfit. How much he spends in a country. A couple of days. Admittedly he has guts. Being the first tourist flying into Mogadishu. But to get the lay of the land I spend no less than a month incountry. I don't pipeline via dating apps. For example in Gambia totally useless strategy. The girls check in every couple of months. You can literally talk to ANY girl on the street and more often than not it will translate into date and subsequent lay in all subsaharan african countries. And don't forget. You are on top of the food chain. I totally agree with XXL. Never have a chica waiting. Might be hard to get rid of unless you have time constraints. Doesn't apply to me. I am time millionaire and have sufficient funds.

Neddy.

Suffering 2 more months in Disneyland.

[Mushamisi]

Yet another one falling in love with a hooker. Yawn.

My friend, the once in a lifetime paid wild sex ride rarely gets better on repeat, quite the opposite. Staying in her apartment will ensure things go downhill that much faster. This should probably be listed as the First Universal Law of Mongering to save poor souls.

Read our brother Naked Gunz's recent posts on relevant subject.

My first time to Kenyan I went with a nurse I had found though Afro introductions and chatted up for a month before arrival. I soon learnt that was a fuck up. I stayed at her "house" in some village while they were still building the complex. Thankfully I skipped to Mombasa same trip and kept my head straight. I ghosted her.

[Triple Darknes]

Rule for black Africa: never have girls waiting for you when you land. Such girls will think they have a discoverer right over you. You'll waste days and money getting rid of them. The 1st disco you'll visit on your 1st night will show you 10 times more girls 10 times better-looking than the pre-booked ones.

I'm learning. There's a lot of bad information out there. Naughty Nomad actually suggests using dating apps 2 weeks in advance. I know now that will get you a sticky girl. The concept of dating doesn't seem to compute, They think it means stay with them and only them the entirety of your trip. This is a recon trip for me, I've read good things about Mombassa on here. Although I'm a big city guy. I'm leery of defined red light districts but on the other hand I like comfort I'm a budget traveler but I'm not really trying to go to the hinterlands to save 5 bucks on pussy. Besides girls in rural areas are even more sticky than city girls. Country girls may not see another monger for a long time.