Nairobi

[Jnb1983]

Blackman, 23 is not 20. If you invite them for a pizza many will want to 'meet' for the simple fact they are hungry. Few will come to your house. They do it because they expect something from you in the future.

That you have a lineup of those gilrls whose main interest is sex with you I don't believe.

From my experience, Nairobi has a huge scene made up of young girls that engage in dates / sex in different ways and lines are very often blurred. I agree with you.

There is the middle-class Nairobi girl who can be genuinely interested in dating or even just in fun. That would not just happen on a daily basis and without moving your ass from your house though, as per what I experience. Appearances do matter (these girls like good-looking guys) but would not work alone without a bit of effort. Contrary to what somebody else said in the forum, Nairobi is full of athletic Kenyan guys who invest on gym, cars, clothes, nights out and try their best to be attractive; competition is not nil and just being built up does not make the case for girls jumping on you. Keep in mind that on Tinder, a lot of good-looking Kenyan girls who are clearly not into sex work are also very adamant on not wanting hookups but rather go for dates as an entry point. Also keep in mind that a lot of cases of rape have occurred (and have been very publicized) lately to girls who accepted dates in guys' apartments, thus Nairobi middle-class girls are also becoming more careful in just accepting a straight home invitation without any previous meeting / date.

There is a huge "in-between" area too, between middle class girls and sex workers, where lines are very blurred. Typical portrait: girl in her early 20's; lives in some non-affluent area of peripheral Nairobi or in some affordable apartment in Westlands or Ngong road, in any case far from her traditionalist family; often lives with some girl friend or sister and sometimes, despite the young age, has already a child from an early undesired pregnancy; would like to live the "big city life" (and tries to portray that on Instagram) but most often finds herself trying to make ends meet working as a shopkeeper or in some hair salon. In some cases, she might be a student who can't afford certain things (dinners, clubbing, shopping) because of her economic conditions.

Are these girls prostitutes? Definitely not. Can you have sex with them without expecting to pay for the performance the morning later? Yes, indeed. Do they expect nothing at all from you? That is where lines get blurred. Many girls will be happy to be invited out for a nice dinner and to spend a nice night out clubbing with drinks and may not be making money requests (not right away at least). Many may definitely come to you at some point (days or even weeks after a first meeting), asking for some support because rent payment is due or because some family emergency came up. Most will stick to you if they find you are not only attractive but also capable / willing of providing experiences and things they don't have access to on a daily basis: nice nights out, spa treatments, some nice shopping together, a nice house with a swimming pool, etc. Many of them will drop you quite quickly if they don't see you as someone who, besides being attractive, is capable of providing experiences / things they don't normally have access to. In short: if they are just a "hole" for you, don't expect things to go on much. And be sure: girls are neither naive nor nymphomaniac (as they look like in Blakman's descriptions): if they sense you are just another guy who wants to fuck them and has nothing particular to offer, they will figure that out quickly and act accordingly.

What shocks me in Blakmans's "tales" (and makes them unbelievable from my perspective) is not that fact that he claims screwing a high number of girls without paying cash the morning later; that can actually happen in Nairobi quite a lot and there are plenty of chances to enjoy life and girls here without recurring to professional SWs. It is the fact that he reportedly does that without moving the ass from his house; claiming that some booze on the sofa and some cheap made-in-China presents are some sort of "silver bullets" to get girls laid with a snap; and claiming that none of the girls ever asks not only for any form financial support at any point but even just for basic things like a date or a dinner out. That is actually not believable and would not be even if you were Denzel Washington. I leave aside, and I let people's common sense judge, his narcissistic trips on how sexy he is and how good he sexes girls and how his black Alpha-male sex appeal is the key to screwing a different stunner every night without getting out of the door. All that in porn-like modalities and with girls who are curiously eager (without receiving anything in exchange) to be photographed naked or half-naked as if they were a "prey" to be put in a collection.

This is my experience from 4 years in and around Kenya. If however anyone wants to believe the fabulous 7 weeks described by Blakman, I would at least warn him to be very careful in following the steps described by him, as one can even get himself in pretty dangerous situations.

[Blakman]

Tonight was one of those days where I didn't want to repeat with anyone and I was getting lots of tomorrow responses so I sought out a girl I couldn't convince to take the gifts. We agreed on 2.5 k plus uber. She arrived and was darker and slimmer than my expectation but not that slim. Smell good and was bubbly. She let me videotape her twerking. The girls love doing that. I have so many twerking videos. She hinted she was the best sucking dick and told me about recent 3 week trip to Mombasa. So seeing she was paid for pussy I didn't opt to kiss or eat her pussy. She sucked my dick amazingly. With some good sloppy toppy. She was a really good rider as well. But I could not cum. I told her to suck and jerk me off. She tried really hard to suck me off but wasn't able to succeed. She then was jerking it off but no luck. Her stroking style was very unique. She then got some oil out her pocket book and went back to stroking and man that did the fucking job. Exploded. We slept and she limited me to one nut. First experience of that since my arrival. Early in the morning I said fuck that and called her a uber.

[Jiggaman69]

I am in the same boat as you. Also found another website. http://www.bigbootypantyhose.com/home.htm Any ideas on where these woman are from?? I found one in Peru, huge ass. See my reply there on your last thread. I am just lurking the forums I always mongered in the US but never out the country. I can't PM on here but at some point I will pony up.

I disagree with you whole heartedly. I had some freebies in Nairobi doing something similar to what Blakman did. Talk to ladies I met online through video chat to get them comfortable, then invite them over. Usually I'd say I needed help cooking and the like etc. Pros or not pros, these are still women. If you can get them comfortable with you and your presence, that's already half the work. Next bit is just escalate things.

Also, I saw a pic of Blakman in the Colombia thread and dude is in crazy shape. That helps A LOT, especially in a country like Kenya where the local men aren't known for being particularly muscular.

This definitely helps as when you talk to women as they don't see you first as a P4 P white person in which they'd easily categorize the relationship as transactional (not to say it can't happen on the reverse).

This.

Also this.

[Blakman]

I get a text from a girl wanted to visit. The week as been crazy with girls coming over. She tells me she's in the cbd getting nails done and can come by. The new westland, I did not like the place so much because of kitchen and bathroom but living room bedroom was straight to entertain. She arrived and was nicely busty. Cute face. Nice ass by my standards. She was very humorous and had some mystique. I had fucked all night with other girl so I was in no rush. But while listening to music and having few drinks she got up on top of me and we began kissing. Her breast was in my face and I felt them. They were very firm. Like nicely firm. Really a turn on to feel. She got in my pants and started sucking. Kenyans suck dick good. I must emphasize for guys who have different opinions. We took it to the bedroom and fucking her felt good because she was thick but curvy. Lots of ass lots of breast when she's on top. And she was riding me. We switch to doggy. Not sure if it was the Cialis. But I fucked her hard for long time and she was bouncing it back. Finally I jerked off on her chest. The next two rounds her pussy made me cum. The funny part is she was knocked out and when she woke she was very confused and like incoherent. I was like damn I fucked you that good. She was like I never fucked that long before. She was really good company as are most of the girls. I gave her white jeans and top. She sported it on status LOL. I have had couple girls outright say you were the best. Being a cheapy charlie. I have to think their sincere because I don't give up no dollars LOL.

[Blakman]

I text this girl. Asked her if she wanted an invite. To my surprised she agreed and then requested to bring her sis. My response that's so unromantic. If you don't feel safe you shouldn't come. Also if you not physically attracted to me you shouldn't come. So my bold statement worked and she elected to come without the sister. When she arrive she was shorter than I expected. But I really liked how she looked. And she was articulate, nice demeanor as the case with most Kenyans. We had some drinks and she mentioned how liquor turns her into that different crazy woman. I made sure she clarified in a good way. I had to move out from my apartment in the morning and I wanted a good send off. We kissed and shit was smooth. I requested a joint and she indulged after refusing earlier. She held the joint like a pro. Went back to kissing and clothes starting coming off. She had a nice little body. I was ready to eat her pussy. She was one of those girls that take for ever to cum. She kept saying lick it with your tongue. Finally after great length of time. I got up and put my dick to her mouth. Very sensuous sucking. I enjoyed much. I then stuck my dick in her. For a little girl she had a deep pussy. Wet and deep but tight. And she didn't mind spreading her legs wide. It was a good fuck. I nutted on chest. We had sex 2 more times during the night. I was moving to Westland and she worked in the area so we took a uber to my new apartment. I gave her a Victoria panty and weekend bag. Call her uber to her job.

[Zircon]

Good job Blakman. Keep hitting it. I give you an A+. Excellent stories. Keep that popcorn popping.

I moved to Ngong. Nice apartment but compound and location so so. I contact this girl to come over and she says yes. The uber is over ten bucks so I ask her to matatu closer and she refuses. I give in since she's staying the night. First meet. And say I will pay for uber. She then says can my friend come. I am like first date no. She says my friend is lonely and she just wants to come and swim then leave at night. I said that's more uber money. The girl says are you broke or something. At the same time a girl with a thick body who stood me up and I told her se done. Text me. She says she's nearby the new place wants to come over for lunch. I then tell the previous girl let me unpack and think about this and get back with her later. Ubered the thick girl to the crib. When she got out she was every bit of thick I wanted. Give her hug and inside we are. Now before coming she wanted 10 k and I refused. She then said 7 k and she would not come for clothes. She then said lets just meet no sex. I was curious to see the body and agreed. I just moved in so was not prepared. Cut up a fresh pineapple to impress then made popcorn. Played music then popped in porn as a test. Her eyes was glued to the tv. I started kissing on her neck and lips. Feeling her titties. She wore no bra. Her nipples was her spot. She kept pulling me in to suck them. She then stroke my dick but would not suck them. I said how about that massage. She said ok and to the bedroom. Her thick body looked better than I thought. Just how I like it. Meaty and tight. I gave her back massage and took a pic. Then turn her to the front. I got to her pussy and now it was my turn to lick for hours. Finally she nutted. Sorta loud orgasm. I then laid back and said suck it and sure enough she did. She did an awesome job and was stroking me to cum. I stop her got a condom was fucking her missionary. Told her cum on my cock she said I can only cum once. I said oh yeah. Starting hitting it. Talking to her. Next thing I know. I am cumming she said. We switch to doggy. Bang it for awhile she then ask me to cum. But I wanted to cum in her mouth while she sucking so I took off the condom. She stroke me off I don't even know where the spunk went. My eyes was close and I was seeing stars and roaring madly. After that I ordered in. Cheapy charlie ordered in. Only my second time. I would have given her what she wanted sort of. So I then threw her a panty. She said she only wears thongs. I threw her these shorts winner, then a dress, and another dress. 3 was my limit. $11 total. She was happy but she started asking for cash do her hair. I denied but countered with going to national park. She was persistent but held my ground. I new she liked me and that would prevail. Called uber the end. Says she will stay the night next time.

[Blakman]

So I convinced my overnight girl to stay for a 3 some. And I convinced my new date to want to participate. Overnight said she never experienced it. My new girl arrived and she was taller than me. Stack with tits and ass. I position both of them together but initially the body language was not on the same page. We drank a little then smoke weed. Shit was Still dragging. I kissed both of them and still nothing. Finally I grab both hands and had them hold each others hand and something happened then stopped. We smoked more weed and seem like I and bicurious girl was eager to get at the new girl. Bicurious beat me to it and kissed on the new girl. It got intimate fast. Got me out my seat watch them kiss and feeling boobs. Also new girl was Fingingering pussy. Then bicurious starting licking her. Then I took my dick out and new girl was sucking me. This 3 some was real. Kenya have real 3 some. I began fucking bicurios doggy as she licked new girl pussy. Then I wanted to fuck new girl. Put on the condom and banging new girl while new girl fingered bicurious. Then the two really got intimate. And spent lots of time together. Bicurious then said she had to leave soon so I fucked her some more before she departed. But before she left. Her and new girl was like having a deep swahili conversation and I could feel like new girl was dominating the bicurious girl in the conversation. They totally ignored me. It was just them it seem. I was jealous but figured bicurious is leaving so just be patient. I walk bicurious to the uber and came back. The new girl had her close on and I was like wtf. We had a long talk because I became a brat. And she took off her shit and I bang that ass doggy good. I also lick that pussy good. She had two big orgasms. I gave her a dress and victoria secret panties. The other girl I just gave her a dress for staying overnight and the threesome. Felt bad about that. Really good 3 some.

[Confiable]

I disagree with you whole heartedly. I had some freebies in Nairobi doing something similar to what Blakman did. Talk to ladies I met online through video chat to get them comfortable, then invite them over. Usually I'd say I needed help cooking and the like etc. Pros or not pros, these are still women. If you can get them comfortable with you and your presence, that's already half the work. Next bit is just escalate things.

Also, I saw a pic of Blakman in the Colombia thread and dude is in crazy shape. That helps A LOT, especially in a country like Kenya where the local men aren't known for being particularly muscular.

This definitely helps as when you talk to women as they don't see you first as a P4 P white person in which they'd easily categorize the relationship as transactional (not to say it can't happen on the reverse).

This.

Also this.

Yes, game and being in shape is not talked about enough. Men want women with nice bodies. Don't you think women would like that also regardless if she is a pro or non pro. Physical attraction plays a part. The I am a white guy in a African country is an old cliche and a non factor in African cities. Unless they think you are an easy target to upgrade their lives.

[Zakmo]

That you have a lineup of those gilrls whose main interest is sex with you I don't believe.

I disagree with you whole heartedly. I had some freebies in Nairobi doing something similar to what Blakman did. Talk to ladies I met online through video chat to get them comfortable, then invite them over. Usually I'd say I needed help cooking and the like etc. Pros or not pros, these are still women. If you can get them comfortable with you and your presence, that's already half the work. Next bit is just escalate things.

Also, I saw a pic of Blakman in the Colombia thread and dude is in crazy shape. That helps A LOT, especially in a country like Kenya where the local men aren't known for being particularly muscular.

Being black and especially Jamaica may play a role LOL

This definitely helps as when you talk to women as they don't see you first as a P4 P white person in which they'd easily categorize the relationship as transactional (not to say it can't happen on the reverse).

What I discovered from this trip is that there's really a lack of knowledge from previous members of how nairobian woman operate. This by far is the easiest country to score with regulars. If you know how to be smooth, carry a good conversation, and entertaining. A girl will come to you place no problem. P4P is more challenging unless you are offering top $. These girls come from the village, share 1 bedroom apartments. They look for an overnight escapes. If you intrigue them.

This.

I have been here 7 wks. And only paid for pussy twice. I think it all depends on your game really. Some guys only have skills and capabilities to buy pussy. They are only comfortable around places girls solicit. While other guys with some game, understanding how to verbally and textually stimulate a girl thrives in non pro environment. So decide which are you and if you are the latter. Nairobi can be heaven for non pro experiences.

Also this.

[BroComplex]

There is a fine line between a prostitute and a regular girl in Africa. Giving money or gifts in Africa is expected in their culture does that mean all girls are a prostitutes just because you paid for it?

[Blakman]

Tampa buccaneers beat the Kansas city chiefs because the defensive coordinator had a better gameplan the the chiefs coordinator. I have a better gameplan than all you posters. Suck it up and accept it. Being black and especially Jamaica may play a role LOL

Blackman, 23 is not 20. If you invite them for a pizza many will want to 'meet' for the simple fact they are hungry. Few will come to your house. They do it because they expect something from you in the future.

That you have a lineup of those girls whose main interest is sex with you I don't believe.

[Harry2]

I want to say this was the most fun 3 some I ever had. ... But it cost me $20 roundtrip uber, they drank off $30 of alcohol LOL. $20 Kentucky fried chicken. And 2 gifts for each girl.

I mean P4P girls might be using money to go on nights out anyway. So if you're offering a safe fun night with money spent, for many girls it's the same thing.

Maybe Blakman does especially well because he's black?

[SceticoBlu]

Blackman, 23 is not 20. If you invite them for a pizza many will want to 'meet' for the simple fact they are hungry. Few will come to your house. They do it because they expect something from you in the future.

That you have a lineup of those gilrls whose main interest is sex with you I don't believe.

[Blakman]

Our communication was really good and I was very clear with her of my expectations. That's really the gist of my game. Give a girl the opportunity to say yes I am coming or no this is not for me. I got her uber. I don't hesitate to pay anymore cause once they in the uber to my place I am good. She look so slim and curvy. With a beautiful pearly smile. We hugged in the elevator and enter my apartment to music. She was so easy going. After some drinking and weed smoking. She went to the bathroom to get comfy and came out in a school girl outfit almost as if you plan to turn me on. She was very affectionate and passionate. No kids. We kissed and got into it. She got on her knees and was sucking the tip of the head. She was so sweet. I normally like them thick but Kenya has made me fond of slim girls. She was 5'8. I love tall girls. I put on a condom first round. Did not use for 2nd Road and rest of the way. We also ordered in from KFC. I convinced her to stick around the next day for a 3 some. Which she said she never experience only kissing. In the morning I gave her a dress. She loved it and did not ask for anything else. We just waited patiently for the other girl LOL. 3 some story next forum.

[Blakman]

Sir,

You need to refer to me as the Nairobian slayer LOL. Since I have a lineup of regular girls still fucking me for gifts. 6 weeks now. Count with me. What I discovered from this trip is that there's really a lack of knowledge from previous members of how nairobian woman operate. This by far is the easiest country to score with regulars. If you know how to be smooth, carry a good conversation, and entertaining. A girl will come to you place no problem. P4P is more challenging unless you are offering top $. These girls come from the village, share 1 bedroom apartments. They look for an overnight escapes. If you intrigue them.

Easier than in your home country but still difficult. Yet you can get one. But don't let yourself think from some posters 20 year girls of Nairobi generally just wait to sleep with you.