Nairobi

[Blakman]

These girls prey on suckers. Never cum in their pussy man. That's mongering rule #1. Pull out spray it on their faces in the mouth and boobs. Its more fun.

She informed me for the first time about the alleged pregnancy only after about 5 months. Which I find rather strange and even suspicious.

I mean she should have done so within the first month.

[AbramFather]

Options:

1) Its not true. Its a well known scam and there's no end what she will try to do to keep you and your support. Leave all your shit and move.

She informed me for the first time about the alleged pregnancy only after about 5 months. Which I find rather strange and even suspicious.

I mean she should have done so within the first month.

[Blakman]

I talked with a girl from tinder seem like she had a nice booty. Lived far but seem straightforward and bit naughty like myself. Former College girl. Took some convincing to come but she did. So don't listen to any jerks who tell you that you can't get a girl to visit your home first time. Lay down the rules. She is bi so I alert my bi friends. One ask us to send mpesa for weed. 150 kes but she didn't show, the other was requesting money for kids birthday and trying to offer me her friends for business. The third I used for 3 some before and she made it. I want to say this was the most fun 3 some I ever had. It really was incredible. I won't go into a long novel. But one was Sudanese color with an amazing ass and the other a shorty has really nice complexion. This is still ongoing. But it cost me $20 roundtrip uber, they drank off $30 of alcohol LOL. $20 Kentucky fried chicken. And 2 gifts for each girl. But money well spent. It could have easily been a 4 some.

[Blakman]

I met a girl on tinder. Was way oversized and I told her. She opted to introduced me to a friend. Got a few videos of her dancing showing her booty but not a good look at her face. Ass looked impressive enough to move forward. She was illiterate in her text but smart enough to say she want cash not gifts. So I put her on the backburner. I was in a situation where most girls was saying tomorrow and time was ticking. So I agreed to give her 3 k over night. She live close by and was smart enough to take a 100 kes motorbike and charge me 300. Anyways she's tall, slim waist and ass but closer look no makeup and sorta worn 29. We get in she's hungry. Thank god for my hotdogs. I did not want to waste more money on her. Gave her some gin, smoke some weed. She took a shower. Came back out and made some sexy dancing video. Very nice ass but she got a few mosquito bites on the buns. By the way her titties was shot. I had determine no kissing, no eating pussy, definitely condom fucking. Took the chance of her blowing me natural caused she initially requested me have the HIV self kit ready so I felt maybe she's ok. Head job was good on the sofa. Brought her to bed room to fuck. Missionary and doggy. Room was dark. Finally nutted on her face. Slept early in the morning fuck her again and notice my condom got blood stains. Turn on lights she was bleeding some. I think ***** may have known she was in the shower awhile. Anyways I had her wipe out the blood from the mattress as I wash the sheets and pillow cases. She was very obedient in my instructions in cleaning up and she did wash dishes and shit. So overall not a bad person. I was on the sofa. Said to her, I was like how we going to do this to get my moneys worth. You suck and jerk me off. Sure enough she got on her knees and did just that. She got points for that. She ask for uber which wasn't much gave me hug and off she went. I learned to make sure you get a clear videochat or facial video. I don't to preliminary meets so those are my options. Definitely ask if they got kids. The ass will hold up but the titties will go.

[Slowalk]

If a girl tells you that you are the father of a new born baby.

Options:

1) Its not true. Its a well known scam and there's no end what she will try to do to keep you and your support. Leave all your shit and move.

2) Its true. Be a good father. I don't think Kenya can force you to do anything. If she's threatening you, its likely 1)

[AbramFather]

Every child is a blessing, a well-loved saying all over Africa.

However I have my concerns about that.

I wonder if some of you could answer a few of my questions, either from own experience, or from hear say.

It is about what could happen if a girl tells you that you are the father of a new born baby.

Of course first of all I have to find out if there is any truth in her statements.

I don't know yet the amount of drama that can be expected.

So my questions are:

1- if there is a girl stating that you are the father of her child what can she do?

Can she go to the police or the court and will you be forced to answer or can you be forced to do a paternity test?

2- if at all the paternity test says that you are the father, can you be forced to pay child maintenance?

3- Are there any sanctions possible to force you for paying child maintenance and what are these sanctions (like.

Being held, not possible to enter or to leave Kenya?

4. what can be the monthly amount of child maintenance (probably higher for muzungu?

I would like to thank you in advance if you could answer some of these questions.

[Blakman]

I got a call from a nice body chic saying I am ready to see you. Finish with all my school stuff. She said between 11 to 12 pm. Shortly after another girl called said she's in kilimani area and can visit. I told I had arrangements but if she wanted short visit sure. She said she would rather wait till I was available. I should have accepted her offer. This girl told me all kinds of story and my hunch said she wasn't coming but somehow through all her promises I believed. I offered her a uber and she decline saying she would uber to my location. That was the clue that should have made things obvious sge wasn't coming. After that electricity went out 17 hrs. Bum day.

[Blakman]

Now that I am out of shared apartment. My sexcapade is back in full swing. Yesterday I invite a lady over but she was taking her sweet time to confirm, I began dialogue with a slim model like girl who was saying everything right and assured me she does not sell her body. I explained my expectations and gift offering and she said that was so sweet. We confirm for 3 pm and sent her uber at 8.50. Bit high but anything under 10 is now okay with me. When she arrived she was a size 2 or 3 and close to my height. Very warm and pleasant. I expected to drink liquor and order in from chicken inn but nooo she doesn't drink or do any drugs. And she was okay with the pineapples and popcorn plus said I could cook burgers. I laugh at y'all jokers thinking a restaurant is a must. Anyways I link her to you tube and she's playing her favorite music. She has the burger and give me thumbs up. We watch porn she loves it but the screen keeps freezing and she wants to really see all of it. I do something that allows us to watch more but freezes again. I say let me give you a massage. She says sure and takes a shower and comes out. I give her a back massage and she's amaze I am really giving her a massage. I turn her over to do the front and I say fuck it skip the massage. Start sucking on her breast, hearing moans and slide down to lick her pussy and she's like no don't do that. I am thinking she kidding but more tries more resistance. So I say suck my dick. She says okay but it won't be long I am not a fan of it. She proceeds to suck my dick like a fucking expert and stops like within 5 minutes. I beg for more and she says I told you it won't be for long. I get my condom and start banging her size 3 body. It feels sooo good. Of course she's cumming because its blakman. I then fuck her doggy for awhile. Can't cum. I go back to missionary and same deal surprisingly. I pull off the condom have her jerk it. She can't do it. I think my dick likes my hands best LOL. I tell her I want to cum in her mouth she says no but on my face is ok. I nut a whole bunch on her face. She lays there not phased by it. And gets up and takes a shower. We chill watch few movies, I make hotdogs have ice cream then we sleep. In the morning she didn't want to have sex. Had me call uber and left without even asking for gifts which was interesting cause she asked a couple times before sex and I told her in the morning. Because of her shorten length blow job. Didn't feel she deserve a gift. So fellas that was free sex.

[Blakman]

I moved to Ngong. Nice apartment but compound and location so so. I contact this girl to come over and she says yes. The uber is over ten bucks so I ask her to matatu closer and she refuses. I give in since she's staying the night. First meet. And say I will pay for uber. She then says can my friend come. I am like first date no. She says my friend is lonely and she just wants to come and swim then leave at night. I said that's more uber money. The girl says are you broke or something. At the same time a girl with a thick body who stood me up and I told her se done. Text me. She says she's nearby the new place wants to come over for lunch. I then tell the previous girl let me unpack and think about this and get back with her later. Ubered the thick girl to the crib. When she got out she was every bit of thick I wanted. Give her hug and inside we are. Now before coming she wanted 10 k and I refused. She then said 7 k and she would not come for clothes. She then said lets just meet no sex. I was curious to see the body and agreed. I just moved in so was not prepared. Cut up a fresh pineapple to impress then made popcorn. Played music then popped in porn as a test. Her eyes was glued to the tv. I started kissing on her neck and lips. Feeling her titties. She wore no bra. Her nipples was her spot. She kept pulling me in to suck them. She then stroke my dick but would not suck them. I said how about that massage. She said ok and to the bedroom. Her thick body looked better than I thought. Just how I like it. Meaty and tight. I gave her back massage and took a pic. Then turn her to the front. I got to her pussy and now it was my turn to lick for hours. Finally she nutted. Sorta loud orgasm. I then laid back and said suck it and sure enough she did. She did an awesome job and was stroking me to cum. I stop her got a condom was fucking her missionary. Told her cum on my cock she said I can only cum once. I said oh yeah. Starting hitting it. Talking to her. Next thing I know. I am cumming she said. We switch to doggy. Bang it for awhile she then ask me to cum. But I wanted to cum in her mouth while she sucking so I took off the condom. She stroke me off I don't even know where the spunk went. My eyes was close and I was seeing stars and roaring madly. After that I ordered in. Cheapy charlie ordered in. Only my second time. I would have given her what she wanted sort of. So I then threw her a panty. She said she only wears thongs. I threw her these shorts winner, then a dress, and another dress. 3 was my limit. $11 total. She was happy but she started asking for cash do her hair. I denied but countered with going to national park. She was persistent but held my ground. I new she liked me and that would prevail. Called uber the end. Says she will stay the night next time.

[Blakman]

Honestly I am proof that the gifts alone would bring them great joy. About head. Nairobi I have gotten great head and cum in the mouth action. I mean girls sucking my dick for ever. The first girl and fourth girl did not give me head. So to adjust to that issue I made sure say something in a conversation that I don't date girls who does not give head. That rectified that problem. Agree with you if you meet a girl with a child the titties do drop. I ponder is because of lack of nutrition. If you love black Nubians I don't think Nairobi is it in abundance, but in the night clubs it sometimes make you say not so fast with that statement. I think the Tanzania have the bodies and beauties from a few women I have seen in Nairobi. I had two Kenyans that has a stunning body. But I will wait till I arrive safely on American soil to show those.

Realized I never posted anything after gleaning info from this thread, so I wanted to at least provide some limited contribution.

In short, Nairobi and I just aren't especially compatible for my preferred pace. I flew out to Nairobi with the intention of staying in Westlands or Kilimani for two weeks to work remotely with our regional team with some dating and p4 p mixed in, before heading on vacation afterwards. This isn't a travel site, so I'll summarize by saying it was the first time in a while that I felt spoiled by the comparative reliability of internet and other critical infrastructure in places like the Philippines or even Cambodia. Even at the best of times in the nicest of places, working remotely in tech (for a western company at least) in Nairobi was a kick in the dick.

My struggles with business internet aside, I didn't find much excitement in the way of girls I met on Tinder, on the street, the mall, or by way of touts. I found out the tough way that no matter how secular they claim to be, Kenyan Muslims are a lot more averse to head than their Indo sisters. I ran into one or two truly fantastic racks in the wild, but I also found a surprising amount of droopy tits and creative "scaffolding" in bustier women or bigger asses.

Girls were also surprisingly materialistic / opportunistic in a way I guess RTFF didn't prepare me for; girls seemed super humble and down to Earth, but they'd get to my Airbnb, see Jordans and a PS5, and suddenly had business plans they wanted me to hear or shopping trips they wanted to go on with no mention of where the funding would come from. I don't mind resetting a girl's expectations, even at the risk of it killing the mood, but that doesn't make it any less of a pain..

[Advantageous]

Realized I never posted anything after gleaning info from this thread, so I wanted to at least provide some limited contribution.

In short, Nairobi and I just aren't especially compatible for my preferred pace. I flew out to Nairobi with the intention of staying in Westlands or Kilimani for two weeks to work remotely with our regional team with some dating and p4 p mixed in, before heading on vacation afterwards. This isn't a travel site, so I'll summarize by saying it was the first time in a while that I felt spoiled by the comparative reliability of internet and other critical infrastructure in places like the Philippines or even Cambodia. Even at the best of times in the nicest of places, working remotely in tech (for a western company at least) in Nairobi was a kick in the dick.

My struggles with business internet aside, I didn't find much excitement in the way of girls I met on Tinder, on the street, the mall, or by way of touts. I found out the tough way that no matter how secular they claim to be, Kenyan Muslims are a lot more averse to head than their Indo sisters. I ran into one or two truly fantastic racks in the wild, but I also found a surprising amount of droopy tits and creative "scaffolding" in bustier women or bigger asses.

Girls were also surprisingly materialistic / opportunistic in a way I guess RTFF didn't prepare me for; girls seemed super humble and down to Earth, but they'd get to my Airbnb, see Jordans and a PS5, and suddenly had business plans they wanted me to hear or shopping trips they wanted to go on with no mention of where the funding would come from. I don't mind resetting a girl's expectations, even at the risk of it killing the mood, but that doesn't make it any less of a pain.

I also underestimated how thorough the lockdown was; a lot of the time you were pressed for choices in food or shopping after 8:45 pm, and I think folks used to how curfews are being enforced in places like Colombia or the States will be surprised at how airtight it is in spots like Kilimani.

That said, I'll concede the value proposition is solid. A girl never asked me for more than 3-4 k Ksh at the end of the night or the next morning, only asking for extra stuff later on. I gave a couple smaller ($15-30 value) gifts out to some of the more chill girls, which they were extremely and demonstrately appreciative of, but maybe that's bc it was on top of whatever cash "gift" I proposed. As someone who smokes pot, it was also a lot easier to meet girls that wanted to smoke and hang out in Nairobi, which is a pleasant distraction from the middling tree you get there. A lot of girls were also down to get shitfaced off wine regardless of time of day if available, which was a big turn-off to me but YMMV. I'm probably spoiled by experiences elsewhere and handicapped by visiting during COVID, but if you're value-minded, prefer a (let's say) "softer" body type, like chocolate of any or all shades, or really, really like Afrobeat, I'd recommend giving Nairobi a shot. Otherwise it's a pass for me.

I should also say this only applies to Nairobi, and specifically as a dating / mongering destination; it was amazing to be awash in a sea of predominantly positive Black faces, and I'd definitely go back on a purely touristic slant, as the rest of Kenya that I visited on my vacation time was absolutely brilliant.

[Blakman]

So I moved into a shared apartment with 3 ladies. Actually the owner told me it was just her. So she lied. Anyways there was no rules restrictions for visitors. I paid my money so I was going to get my moneys worth. So I brought 4 girls there in my 8 days there. I guess after a few times of hearing the raucous the owner decided that it was time to part ways. I had stay there past my 7 days anyways and needed to find entire apartment to finish out my stay. Wanted to be near cbd because only time there was with trugent. Got an apartment and it was right in front of a major fruit market. Not an inviting appearance. Quite few things not in the apartment so decided to move out. I am off to ngong. I did visit at massage parlor on bishara market mansion building 401. Did not entertain. 1 girl there I would have bang. 4 k just sex if y'all interested.

[Blakman]

I was humoring jnb who cast my reality as a novel. Bojoknownothing or whatever your is. But what your compliment tells me is.

Maybe and can use my reality elsewhere since you put it on such high standards. Its not my fault that you guys are not getting the same treatment. Try to make sex and intimacy more exciting. Maybe you will get more with less rather than giving more and getting less. Just saying the BlakJamaican man out LOL

As a lot of posters already said and everyone who knows Afica a little better, knew a long time already, this is really what it is:

[Bajuni]

As a lot of posters already said and everyone who knows Afica a little better, knew a long time already, this is really what it is:

Getting back to the novel..

[Blakman]

Its been five weeks I escaped p4 p but after going two days hearing I need cash from many prospects I relented. Chose a girl with overall nice body. Not a stunner by far. Again I cut the cost of uber by making them travel closer to sending them uber. Proud of that discovery. I met this girl on tinder as I have met 99% of my girls. I was doing something wrong with uber, so she had to take a cab. Cost me $3.50 extra I wasn't happy but beats being alone. Quiet girl, fluorescent dress. Perfect boobies before having a child but now just Nice boobies, slim waist, curvy booty. We Get in the room and I have bakery snacks, sinces its very cheap its new addition to my presentation. Liquor was there but she didn't even engage. Get the music going and we start kissing. I can say this. Kenyan girls are good kissers. She mention she likes to suck dick and she proved it. There was a view scrapes with the teeth but she got better with time. She also spent lots of time sucking. Let me say this if you are not getting some extensive submissive pleasures from these Kenyans, you are doing something terrible wrong. These horror stories that you are hearing of what these girls can potentially do to set you up. I am seeing none of it. Only One time when I fucked a girl so good she snuck back in the compound later that evening and found me with another girl. I included that just to rub it in the haters face LOL. Getting back to the novel. I switch to eating her pussy and by sticking my fingers in her pussy, it felt good. After licking her good, I had her slip my cock in. Her legs was positioned wide like she can take deep cock and a pounding. So I went to town. She made wonderful soft moans and she called me daddy. I love that. We then switch to doggy which was the best part. I saw the outline of her body. Slim waist, and curvy bottom bouncing on my dick. I gave it to her for a long time and she gave back as well. It was good chemistry and made the 3 k for all night worth it though I rather pay with gifts. We shifted to missionary and I ask can I finish in her mouth and she was like yes. I love this about Kenyan women. They are very similar to Caucasian women liking the taste of cum. Anyways I nutted but it was only a little and I knew I had more so I continue to jerking it off above her and I splashed. She tried to take control but like the other day it was too explosive and sensitive. We slept through the night and I fucked her two more times two more orgasm. In the morning gave her 3 k and $2.50 uber. 3 k all night can't complain.