Nairobi

[TailPipe]

Fuck them, pay them, and it ends there and then. The more times you meet the same girl the more you are digging that hole. As we say, TIA my friend, This Is Africa.

Just to clarify. You will not meet a girl several times?

[TailPipe]

Cause that maybe your only option to get sex. These girls have 5 or more caretakers. You are not the only giving them money. I am not mad at you for paying 5 k to 10 k. With your payment they don't need the cash so much from me. I am spitting the facts. I have been here a month and have not paid for sex. Well not in the fashion you guys normally pay. I haven't even taken a girl out to dinner. Why you are responding with envy. Take a deep look at yourself. Step your game up, get in shape, dress better, improve your looks. Anything that will help not paying for sex. Of course I am kidding. But I don't take this forum as serious as you guys take it. Its not my lifely hood. I am just reporting my experience.

The last time I was with an African girl we went to an eco lodge for a couple of days. Huts above the river, had a great time. At the end I slipped some notes in her back pocket. She didn't count it but asked me why I was paying her. Was I trying to 'pay her off'? I was taken aback when she said that. I vehemently denied it but in hindsight she was right. I paid her because I knew she dreamt of marrying a Westerner and as I wasn't going to paying a small donation was the least dishonourable thing I could do. Could I have not paid her? Probably, but I don't want to be an abuser.

I think you have an ego problem with paying. You want to believe you conquered them. To me that's irrelevant but for the girls who are driven by poverty it's pretty sad.

FYI Taxi money is not really money for a taxi.

she later ask for 2 k. But I live near matatus so I gave her 1 k.

[Blakman]

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[Blakman]

I have come to understand why I haven't had much problem with these Kenyan women. I took time to interact before coming which peaked lots of interest. In addition I look very good and dress very well for my age adding more interest. I tap into what intrigues the normal girl so none of my girls were not black diamonds, liddos, or brews bistro girl looking for cash for pussy. Try fucking regular girls and maybe you will get a different experience. Try being upfront also. Give a girl options to accept or decline before arrival and you won't have problems. My last experience was my closest experience to a problem. Reason it was rushed. Did not have the time to break down the procedures. But 2 k solve that. Nothing dramatic like you guys are trying to scare incoming visitors. Kenyan girls mostly just want to drink or smoke weed. I could add go out to eat but its not in my vocabulary. They will accept any kind gesture unless you deal with hookups, P4P chics.

[OneParkPlacee]

I've heard mixed reviews of Pink Apples Spa, Westlands Massage Spa and Fatma's. Found them all either on boards placed on roundabouts or on websites like Nairobi Raha.

I'm looking for some instant action (no messaging on Tinder or other apps) but can't seem to figure out which spot is best in Nairobi. I'm happy to pay above the standard 5 k or 8 k.

With the current lockdown, I'm not sure spots like Black Diamond are viable. It would mean heading there at 5 pm!

[Naked Gunz]

Statistically some of you are right, he will get in trouble if one of the women turns out to be a con artist.

And that's all I have been saying, obtaining and smoking weed in ANY foreign country is asking for trouble, much less with people you don't even fucking know. Some people have no problem setting you up with the cousin cop and splitting the proceeds. A couple years ago I was in the apartment building in Nakuru when the cop came and killed his GF for fucking some other dude. Don't fuck around with Kenya justice system.

As for money, dudes pre-arrival questionnaire to the forum was endless questions about cost for this, cost for that, so why get worked up, it was obvious little or nothing will be paid anyway. Am just exhausted how people love to rub dog shit in your face because you offer a cash gratuity and they don't. If cheap charlies are such pimps why fly all the way to Kenya? What about all that pussy your flying over?

[TrueGent]

I have to admit that the experiences I have had so far have not involved a monetary compensation. I have had to make up excuses to give ladies money to save face (asian hangover). I always listen to what they say and use that as an excuse to give them some money. They always thank me and never count or look at the money. But I'm a big softie.

Amendment to the previous post. It should read as "have not involved a monetary compensation DISCUSSED UPFRONT OR AFTER".

[TrueGent]

I have to admit that the experiences I have had so far have not involved a monetary compensation. I have had to make up excuses to give ladies money to save face (asian hangover). I always listen to what they say and use that as an excuse to give them some money. They always thank me and never count or look at the money. But I'm a big softie.

[Druster]

Seems you never been africa yourself if you thinking most kenyan girls not into P4P. In most african countries 70-90 percent girls is available for sex for a right price for them.

Was Born in Eldoret, grew up in Kenya. Worked all over Kenya including turkana, speak Swahili fluently. And been to Colombia, where P4 P is common. Agree with Blakman (sorry, thought you were from USA, but Jamaica is close enough). There is enough women for fun without paying for them.

Statistically some of you are right, he will get in trouble if one of the women turns out to be a con artist.

[Naked Gunz]

I keep the same strategy any place I go bro. I damn sure ain't committing no crime. Each girl knows the compensation and can elect to say I will come or I won't come. By the the way bodies on these Kenya women can be a lot better. But love the tall ones though. But I see better sexier bodies in my home land of Jamaica.

Oh your Jamaican. Sorry, I have horrible ADD, didn't notice they are "Victoria Secrets", oo-la-la! FYI, can't eat panties. Take it easy, I'm not hating. You be you.

[Neddy69]

In Kenya everything is about money. Papers, information, sex, friendship, absolutely nothing is free.

I am not sure how long Blakman is in Kenya but the game he is playing will land him with a problem sooner or later, that is just a fact and the way it goes. After 20 years in Kenya I've seen his style / game play out many many times by several people, it never ends well unless they run off after a few weeks.

Spot on. A disaster waiting to happen. The chicas are very creative especially in Mombasa. If they're in cahoots with kenyas finest they going to bleed you white of money. They just charge you according to the sexual offences act. And that's going to cost you thousands of dollars to get off the hook and your face is shown in prime time Kenyan TV. And another laughing stock for the Kenya Kimbos. For example these two guys.

https://youtu.be/mKMh9OZXqxQ

Neddy.

[Mombie75]

These women willfully accept gifts as compensation, they are aware of it beforehand and smile afterwards when received. This is no scam, no deception. Two willful parties. And you guys are chatting like this is an atrocity. Today I text my latest date and ask her how was the date. First thing she reference to was I love my gifts. There's more than one way to show your appreciation to a woman. Unfortunately you only know one way. Money money money. Well I know gifts gifts, body oil massages, and few other things I won't even share so you can adopt my skills. By the way my 3 some turned into just a 2 some. 3rd party chicken out. Girl was a 5 with 8 breast, suck dick like a 10. She was a Sagittarius. 3 nuts. Let me educate you that zodiac sign gives the best head.

Whatever people do with their time and money is not really my business apart from this being a forum I will offer my two cents worth from time to time.

What I do know is you are reading Kenya and the women very wrong. I do not know how long you are in Nairobi but if you play this game the clock is ticking before one of these girls turns and you get a local cop having a word and you will pay up or get locked up. I have been in Kenya 20 years, I've seen this play out several times. Gifts mean nothing, you can give them dresses, shoes, chocs as much as you like, when the day comes and one of these girls calls you and wants hard cash for rent and you don't pay up that 10 or 15 k is when she goes to the local cop she knows and bang you have a problem. When you say oh I gave you a dress, an uber etc, means shit, you will see the turn in these ladies then. Trust me, it happens a lot. That is why ex pats like myself do what we call hit and run. Fuck them, pay them, and it ends there and then. The more times you meet the same girl the more you are digging that hole. As we say, TIA my friend, This Is Africa.

[Sydpat]

I am really sorry to read that few people continue to exploit the young girls even when they don't mind spending fortune on air ticket at this time of the period and also accommodation.

No girls are interested to sleep with you to satisfy their urge but they need money, what they want is $ 25 per night or $ 50 for whole day and for that price you don't even get a girl to handle your dick in your own country leave aside to fuck.

Don't hurt their feelings, they like to smile does not means that you just pay in kind of cheap stake items from dollar shop, you can afford it and you have travel to other side of world then respect them and pay them don't exploit them.

I hope other friends would agree and don't follow this man principal.

Sydpat.

[Blakman]

These women willfully accept gifts as compensation, they are aware of it beforehand and smile afterwards when received. This is no scam, no deception. Two willful parties. And you guys are chatting like this is an atrocity. Today I text my latest date and ask her how was the date. First thing she reference to was I love my gifts. There's more than one way to show your appreciation to a woman. Unfortunately you only know one way. Money money money. Well I know gifts gifts, body oil massages, and few other things I won't even share so you can adopt my skills. By the way my 3 some turned into just a 2 some. 3rd party chicken out. Girl was a 5 with 8 breast, suck dick like a 10. She was a Sagittarius. 3 nuts. Let me educate you that zodiac sign gives the best head.

In Kenya everything is about money. Papers, information, sex, friendship, absolutely nothing is free.

I am not sure how long Blakman is in Kenya but the game he is playing will land him with a problem sooner or later, that is just a fact and the way it goes. After 20 years in Kenya I've seen his style / game play out many many times by several people, it never ends well unless they run off after a few weeks.

[Mombie75]

In Kenya everything is about money. Papers, information, sex, friendship, absolutely nothing is free.

I am not sure how long Blakman is in Kenya but the game he is playing will land him with a problem sooner or later, that is just a fact and the way it goes. After 20 years in Kenya I've seen his style / game play out many many times by several people, it never ends well unless they run off after a few weeks.