Mombasa

[AfAsia]

Simply stupendous. Don't recall the hotel name I'm afraid. Mombasa Beach Hotel?

[Bondxx]

Will be in Nairobi and Mombassa from mid October.

Please feed us with fresh news and updates.

[Donnachaa]

Group Fun.

Habari Rafiki,

I am in Mombasa for a few weeks Late Sept and Early Oct. I enjoy Parties, MMF and group sex. Nothing serious just good clean fun.

Anyone interested please get in touch.

Take Care.

[Zimzam]

Al-Shabab supporter' Aboud Rogo Mohammed killed in Kenya.

A Kenyan radical Islamist cleric has been killed in a drive-by shooting in the city of Mombasa.

Aboud Rogo Mohammed was on US and UN sanction lists for allegedly supporting Somalia's al-Shabab militants.

According to a UN report, he had helped al-Shabab obtain funding and new recruits. He was also facing charges of plotting attacks in Mombasa.

Following the killing, protests have erupted in Mombasa in which one person was killed and churches were attacked.

The highway from Mombasa to the tourist centre of Malindi was closed by tyre-burning protesters, before they were dispersed by police who fired tear gas.

Many businesses were closed, while streets normally full of shoppers and tourists were empty, reports Reuters news agency.

Business premises in Mombasa's central business area closed as panicky owners feared an escalation of the chaos.

Sheikh Rogo was killed on Monday in a drive-by shooting in Bamburi area, Mombasa, while taking his sick wife to hospital.

The deceased was facing charges of illegal possession of weapons. In the case, police said Mr Rogo was plotting attacks at a Catholic church, the Likoni Ferry and Nyali Bridge.

Mr Rogo was shot near the Pirates beach while driving a van that had six other passengers.

Read here:

BBC:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-19390888

The Nation:

http://www.nation.co.ke/News/-/1056/...z/-/index.html

[Bareback Jack]

You probably never tried to live for long periods of celibacy

Quite right. I have no interest in even trying.

Now I really wonder why do you go mongering in Africa

Keep wondering!

You mentioned before that the underlying motives of all girls there is desperation

No I did not. I said that the reason why they asked you for money was probably out of desperation. This was an assumption, just like your statement that they are all acting out of greed is an assumption too.

I will ask you again, if that's true, then what are you doing in their arms? And do you consider your own actions (im)moral and why?

Well I guess I just don't have it in my heart to say no if a beautiful girl asks me politely. If that's immoral I don't know. See, I don't try and seduce anyone over here, I really don't have to. Things just happen. I never talk about money. Not before and not after. I never make assumptions over motives and most of all I don't use the word "Malaya" to refer to a person. I simply let events unfold and I happen to be generous by nature.

[LustyHombre]

I would like to restate that the strategy which I described and executed on my last trip was part of an experiment where the goal was to get a different girl each day without paying directly for sex. Off course the goal was self-gratification, I was not looking for love or long-term relationships, etc.

Explanation:

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WW, Thank you for taking the trouble to explain yourself.

I understand you much better now and realize that you are not simply a mean-spirited and totally selfish young man.

My interests are different, my station in life is completely different, but I surely appreciate the effort you are making in sharing your thoughts and experiences.

P. S. I wish somebody would have told me about the beneficial effects of celibacy and not masturbating 3 times a day 50 years ago! Too late for me now, unfortunately!

[LustyHombre]

OK, between loads and I'm a little bored. I was 49 as well when I hit my current best in the PI and have since replicated once, last year with my current GF.

As they say, once you go black. (sorry, quality of pics not stellar)

Lucky bastard, you! Chances are, the combination of Asian attention to detail and service-mindedness and an African physique is unbeatable.

Other than that : I might have good news for you since, if I remember correctly, I peaked only in my late 50's. Of course, living and eating healthy is important, and a good red wine is an important part of my diet.

Since then, I've had a prostate op which messed my sex life up for a few months before I discovered Vitamin V and its cousins. 10 yrs later, a 100mg Kamagra (Indian generic) 2 hra prior to an encounter (but only with proper mental and physical stimulation) gets me ready for a good non-stop 2 hr session, before I need some R&R.

[Woef Woef]

Much of what you say doesn't go very deep and could be described simply as amateur psychology. You might want consider practicing something else: trying to express yourself more succinctly. It's a skill worth honing.

You can't rely on the Internet as a source of truth. Assessing the veracity of information provided online is a daunting task. A research publication these days isn't to be taken as the holy grail either. Financial interests (of sponsors) are often masked as "research" and statistics have always been a useful tool to play with people's minds. Unless, you come from a mathematics background (like I do) , I'd say you don't really know what you are talking about.

I'm glad that your proposed "celibacy" scheme works for you, but I beg to differ. My experience is totally different. Having a lot of sex during my life has made me a better lover and not diminished my capacity at all. Quite to the contrary. Having casual sex with a woman (for free) isn't a challenge. I wouldn't have to travel to Africa to achieve that. Proposing to lay prostitutes for free is just an absurdity.

You speak like someone who is terrified by the prospect of getting older. Well, let's give you a bit of consolation: you don't lose your power when you get older unless you live an unhealthy lifestyle. You were proposing sexual abstinence to cure your premature ejaculations. You won't be needing to do that when you get older, as you become a more relaxed person you will be able to go for hours too. In my personal experience I can say that I'm better at almost everything when compared to younger age, most certainly when it comes to endurance

Nor me, nor my friends suffer from permanent premature ejaculations. The reason we exercised the jerk off experiment when we were very young was to postpone the orgasm or not have any at all. But that does not imply we were suffering from permanent premature ejaculations and needed a cure for it. However what I noticed was that due to having regular masturbation that I became less attractive to women. It's important to notice that I refer to masturbation here, not to sex, as based upon my experience in masturbation more energy is lost than in sex.

So the reason to start to experiment with celibacy was to become more attractive to women. And it works. Being celibate attracts more women than when you have a lot of sex or masturbation (here I'm referring to the two) based upon my experiences. It had nothing to do with ejaculations and your idea that celibacy even could solve a person with premature ejaculations is miles away from the truth. If you ever would have practiced celibacy for more than a few weeks you would realize that it would make you reach orgasm faster instead of slower the first times you have sex after a period of abstinence.

You talk about your experiences, but your experiences about what? Seems you only know and have experienced one side of the story and proclaim it as the truth. You probably never tried to live for long periods of celibacy and then compared the pro's and cons of to a lifestyle of long periods of sex / masturbation and draw conclusions.

Second I did not write that I have problems getting casual sex with women in Europe or that I need to go to Africa to get laid for free with girls as you seem to suggest. That's your interpretation. I go to MBA because I want to lay on the beach in the sunshine, party, and my eyes like African women and while I'm there I prefer not to pay for sex just like I don't do that in Europe either. However it must be said that both on holidays as well on non-holidays I like to seduce women, so yeah definitely while being on holidays I like to score women for free.

And no, I'm not afraid at all to become old.

Now I really wonder why do you go mongering in Africa. You mentioned before that the underlying motives of all girls there is desperation. I will ask you again, if that's true, then what are you doing in their arms? And do you consider your own actions (im)moral and why?

[Pete Benetar]

I've achieved my personal best at age 49.

OK, between loads and I'm a little bored. I was 49 as well when I hit my current best in the PI and have since replicated once, last year with my current GF.

So at 49 I travel across the globe to reconnect to my longstanding affinity for little lovely filipinas who cater so heavenly to the needs of manhood. I'd just done a hat trick off a filly from BJ ally in AC and was enjoying an early am cup of coffee on the street my first day in country. This girl walks by and I was struck by how dark she was. She turned out to have a filly mom who had laid with a black GI at her conception. The moment she sat down with me after I beckoned her, I realized I would likely spend the week with her, which I did.

As they say, once you go black...(sorry, quality of pics not stellar)

[Bareback Jack]

Absolutely true, IMHO; though I'm not exactly ancient at 51 the ultimate quantifier to me is number of orgasms. Some of this I attribute to retirement (more time) AND more beautiful women (AFRICAN!) , but in my 50s I have been far exceeding any "personal best" I could fathom in my more youthful days without the use of any form of pharmaceutical aid, aphrodisiac etc.

Same here. We are the same age then PB. I agree completely. I've achieved my personal best at age 49 and it was something I couldn't even dream of when I was in my 20s. Having said that, my taste and game has significantly improved since those days. Back then I just wanted to get laid. Today I'm not wasting my time with anything less than gorgeous, hence the need to come to Africa.

I share your dislike for pharmaceutical aids. I think the natural aphrodisiac (beauty) works best for me.

Also, Jhack, I might add that in other news I've found myself with a refreshing admiration of the British Monarch

I couldn't agree more. I have renewed respect for the royal family!

[Pete Benetar]

In my personal experience I can say that I'm better at almost everything when compared to younger age, most certainly when it comes to endurance

Absolutely true, IMHO; though I'm not exactly ancient at 51 the ultimate quantifier to me is number of orgasms. Some of this I attribute to retirement (more time) AND more beautiful women (AFRICAN!) , but in my 50s I have been far exceeding any "personal best" I could fathom in my more youthful days without the use of any form of pharmaceutical aid, aphrodisiac etc.

As an off topic note, the clash yesterday in the Tana River valley appears limited to rural areas and unrelated to any type of islamo-christian tensions. Any relevance to MBA region might be worth expounding on here as indicated.

Also, Jhack, I might add that in other news I've found myself with a refreshing admiration of the British Monarch.

http://www.cnn.com/2012/08/22/showbi...html?hpt=hp_t3

[Willyboy]

Very much so.

Again alarm. New member (girl)

[Bareback Jack]

Much of what you say doesn't go very deep and could be described simply as amateur psychology. You might want consider practicing something else: trying to express yourself more succinctly. It's a skill worth honing.

Regarding statistics, I do find several sources online who measure prostitution in Africa, and research publications which investigate the link between HIV / Aids and %prostitution etc.

You can't rely on the Internet as a source of truth. Assessing the veracity of information provided online is a daunting task. A research publication these days isn't to be taken as the holy grail either. Financial interests (of sponsors) are often masked as "research" and statistics have always been a useful tool to play with people's minds. Unless, you come from a mathematics background (like I do) , I'd say you don't really know what you are talking about.

I'm also confident that if you practice this consistently in your life, you will get laid with much more women for free than the average guy, and on top of that be able to have better sexual performances at older age

I'm glad that your proposed "celibacy" scheme works for you, but I beg to differ. My experience is totally different. Having a lot of sex during my life has made me a better lover and not diminished my capacity at all. Quite to the contrary. Having casual sex with a woman (for free) isn't a challenge. I wouldn't have to travel to Africa to achieve that. Proposing to lay prostitutes for free is just an absurdity.

So when a man gets older and loses his power, he will try to compensate it and as a result become a better lover. That's all fine and well, but I wonder, if tomorrow morning you wake up and you have all your youthful strength back what are you going to do next?

You speak like someone who is terrified by the prospect of getting older. Well, let's give you a bit of consolation: you don't lose your power when you get older unless you live an unhealthy lifestyle. You were proposing sexual abstinence to cure your premature ejaculations. You won't be needing to do that when you get older, as you become a more relaxed person you will be able to go for hours too. In my personal experience I can say that I'm better at almost everything when compared to younger age, most certainly when it comes to endurance

[Woef Woef]

I would like to restate that the strategy which I described and executed on my last trip was part of an experiment where the goal was to get a different girl each day without paying directly for sex. Off course the goal was self-gratification, I was not looking for love or long-term relationships, etc.

Explanation:

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I see a working girl as having two different personalities. On one hand she has the prostitute-hard personality, who is mainly interested in accumulating financial / material wealth via sex / deception etc. On the other hand she also has a human-soft side, who has a need for comfort, sex, love, etc. Like any other human being. An interesting question to ask yourself if you have a "relationship" with a WG is, if you have a relationship with "the prostitute side" or with the "human side".

I'm confident that you can have relationships with the "human" side, but my experiences is that the chances are much smaller compared to getting something going with "the prostitute side".

Keep in mind, that non-WG's also have a 'prostitute' side in them. I remember that for a while when I was going out and dating and girl-hunting I told them that my job was hauling trash (which is not the case) and that I only have little money when they asked me what I did. It was not a recipe for success.

Also those two sides are not mutually exclusive, but are both present, although I believe that at a specific moment in time one of them will be dominant towards another person.

Now imagine you are a WG in MBA and you meet a guy. The guy tells you he does not like malaya's or paying for sex, etc. And next you decide not just to go with him, but even propose to go with him and next even take initiative to get sex with him. Why would you make such a decision?

The 'prostitute side' might think the guy is bluffing and she will gamble that he do will give money, or she sees it as an investment to get the return later on, etc.

The 'human side' might be interested to know you better as a friend, potential lover or wants to get laid with you or the effect of the booz is also playing in her body, etc.

By formally rejecting the 'prostitute' (and money) side beforehand to her, you increase the probability to meet a 'human' side that night.

From the "prostitute side" of a WG you can get a lot, sex, gf experience, fun, etc. As long as the money is being placed on the table. If tomorrow there comes a guy in with the same or more money than you and treats her nice as well, then you will most likely lose her or get less of her. To me there is no art in this, no challenge. It's pure business camouflaged as non-business.

My gratification however lays in fact in getting freebies from WG's where the 'human' side prevails. From a player perspective I do think it's a job well done, to be able to get a WG give her body to you for free, especially if you encountered her in an environment where the "prostitute" side prevails. As it is a bigger challenge, the satisfaction is even bigger than getting laid with a regular non-WG.

Now it is true that in order to reach this I got laid with WG's in who the prostitute side prevails and who returned home empty-handed. They were warned beforehand, yet took the risk to get the shillings out of me later on via deception. Therefore I believe their underlying motives are rather driven by greed than by desperation. They decided to play chess with me and I put them checkmate, so my satisfaction here lies in winning the game.

Remark 1:

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Regarding statistics, I do find several sources online who measure prostitution in Africa, and research publications which investigate the link between HIV / Aids and %prostitution etc. I don't think it's necessary to interview a whole population to say something valid, hence the usage of statistics and sample sizes. Nevertheless I can accept the fact that data might be incomplete or inaccurate in this specific case.

Remark 2:

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In my experience in life I think it's better than men do not masturbate, definitely not older men. I will explain why.

When I was younger my friends and I went out trying to get laid. There was the firm believe that it was best to jerk off a few times before going out so that if you scored a girl, you would not reach orgasm to fast and give her a good lay. I practiced that as well and remembered the results.

Next I wondered, what would happen if a men does not masturbate and have sex and during that period represses his physical and mental thoughts. I started to practice physical and mental celibacy for more than 3-4 weeks. What I found out was that the sexual energy does not get sublimated automatically towards intellectual or spiritual energy in a short time-span of 3-4 weeks. Instead the sexual energy remains in the body and adds up, giving you a stronger aura, more vigor, more sexual charisma, confidence, etc. It might be a self-fulling prophecy, but to my surprise I found out that it became easier to seduce women when you are celibate for a month, and that girls starts to seduce you more as well. It's like the sexual energy is sure that it will find a way out. But you only want to let it go when you get sex, so sex is what you will get. It is very hard to practice, but the results are more than in line with the effort it takes.

I'm also confident that if you practice this consistently in your life, you will get laid with much more women for free than the average guy, and on top of that be able to have better sexual performances at older age.

To those who doubt this, I propose you to practice it and see for yourself.

Remark 3:

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Regarding the non-condescending remark. So when a man gets older and loses his power, he will try to compensate it and as a result become a better lover. That's all fine and well, but I wonder, if tomorrow morning you wake up and you have all your youthful strength back what are you going to do next? And also what made you decide to bend yourself physically and emotionally in order to get laid at older age, why not leave sex for what it is, cherish the memories, buy a dog and lots of books and read?

[Amazonaslife]

. the people administering tests are lacking substantial skills in avoiding samples to be contaminated, possibly delivering a bunch of false positives to people .

Not necessarily true. Free HIV tests are offered (also to muzungus) by mostly NGO runned VCTs (voluntary counselling and testing). They use cheap instant HIV tests, having an error margin of approx. 10. If you want accurate results, then go to a hospital or lab (often they insist for security reasons for a doctor conculting) , costing approx. 1.300 KSH for test and mayge 2. 000 KSH doctor fee.