2002-2006 General Reports

[Prince Leo]

i don't usually say anything about other people's identity or background over the web because more or less everyone puts on a front to disguise their true self, and i am no different. but to time and time again to (pretend to) state that one is a certain culture and understands another in-depth while your manner and the tone of your speech say otherwise, is like continuing your idotic view that the members on this board are filled with stupidity who allow you to further along with your lowly constructed, and poorly presented play.

before i go any further, cu long, please stop your bullshit and be real for a change. it would save jackson some time while he does not have to post your story and the members of this board some headache cuz we, or at least i, don't have to see your fantasy being posted.

[SandRabbit]

I saw a program on CCTV9, about Xinjiang province, man the women there looked like no other that i have ever seen in my life, that mix of chinese, indian & afghan WOW!! i got to get there soon, anyone with knowledge of this remote area, and what its mjor cities have to offer?? the rabbit

[Mock A Bee]

Re: Tapioca's comment after coming out of hibernation etc...

All I can say is after reading his comments on Long CU's postings, I was LOL!

HAHAHA!

I seond Tapioca's comments and suggest Long CU get a life and a find a real girlfriend not befriend some girl and her family playing mind games with him.

Re: Long CU

If you want everyone to see pictures of your "fiance/girlfriend" post them, don't try to ask for email addresses. I don't need more spam or viruses than I already get. Get a life!

MAB

[Wicked SH]

Long CU, as several have mentioned you have pretty strong chinglish so I suspect that you are chinese. You should know the culture. If not then you pretty much do now.

The taxi driver probably didn't get to bone your girl unless she is a street walker. Chinese girls are very particular about who they bone. White men have an advantage as girls are both curious and desire bai ren.

Also small town girls will push for house/car/money in marriage but if you are american you probably won't need to put up anything. They do this to seperate the wheat from the chaff. In the country side there is a lot of chaff. So the family needs these things to see what you are. But the family will also try to take advantage of you. So stand your ground. If your american you don't need to own a house or car since you will most likely go back to america within a few years.

Don't waste your time on girls that don't respect you. This sounds like a messed up situation so you should simplify it and find a new girl.

[Apac Boy]

I was in hibernation but I can't stand it no more. Stupid ass story and shit just don't make sense.

1) Asian American my ass... You have a green card and your English is terrible for a guy that lived in the States for 10 years.

2) You said you think marriage is serious and yet, your Chinese is limited and so is her English and you want to marry her because she is tall and pretty and says she loves u!?!

3) 35, young and fashionable!?!? hahaha...Don't overwhelm us with your American slangs.


tapioca

[Lilojo]

I am still very skeptical about this whole scenario. Notice I did not say confused though I am truly confused as well.

Long CU has only given out hints of himself and as Tatyu had indicated, we still do not know what background LongCU is.

I will not go into all the reasons why I doubt the authenticity of this adventure. The more I read, the less I believe that it really happened.

This shall be the last time I post anything on this subject:

Fiction does not belong to this board.

[Long CU]

Sino View,

I have asked a Chinese guy friend to mention this problem directly to her Mother, same Father same Mother, she emphasized. The only thing remained, whether the Mother and the Father are real or not, or also fake.

Well this is too far suspect. For a real marriage, even I buy a house, they can not do any thing to my property if I list it as a pre-marrital furtune, other Chinese girls advise me.

For the green card matter, I will not (certainly) petition her to USA.
She said he is her real brother

For this matter, I am not worrying so much. From what I view, he is kind of real brother. The matter was perhaps they made sex together, brother and sister, this, the chinese friends of me said, can be very possible, since it happens a lot, particularly in the rural China area.

The real guy I worry is the taxi driver. As a rule of long distance dating, the fisrt moment of meeting the guy must fuck the girl. The girl is so much ready for it. The taxi driver caught the chance perfectly. This girl is not a pro, therefore, it is a worthy chance for him to act on her. My girl, upset from the "turn down", according to her viewpoint, very possible follow him.

I already told her I wanted to send her home, but I was denied. She said immediately, "don't worry"

This fucking verbal reacts is like a war move. I am very positive that she wants to fuck the driver for her fantasy, that is all. If I am not there, she will never fuck a taxi driver. This is the twist most of the readers in the forum don't catch.

Basically, Chinese like to do the things that they can triump on other mistakes. I have many Chinese friends, and I know this.
One time long ago, I tried to date a Chinese from my coutry. She showed interests to me at first. As usual, the girl would bring a friend with her. This is the real scene meeting at local leads, not internet and long distance. Those are meeting to fuck right away.

So, in turn, I brought a guy friend with me, a very close classmate, he is also Chinese from my country.

At the dinner, I talked conservaively. This is the things girls don't like. They want a guy to show strength, manhood near how to play..etc.

Then at night going home, the friend of her goes first. Then my date said byebye. Just right at the moment she leaves the car, my friend, my closest friend, he walked out of the car, I was still sitting at the wheel. He came to the girl, and it seems like they exchanged phone number!!!!!!!!!!! hahahah

Well, my classmate is not a playboy. I know he will never date that girl. He is so busy, and he goes to school with me every single day. But, that is how they do. Yeah they do that, because they like to teach "outsider" lesson. That is they mean that they know what is right to do, and they have the right to do it, since we are all friends, not husbands or wives, nor bf or gf.

Well, in the old time, our US cowboys seem to be best in this kind of games. But I thought it would happen at bar scene. For bar scene, I am well aware. A guy who wants to get my girl at a bar will regret!!! but for the case in Changchun, I was totally suprised!!!!!! one side is a young guy, university grad student, coming from USA, who promises to marry her for real, and one is only a fucking taxi driver, 50 year old, married, have children.

Well, the fantasy and so-called life plays its role here.

Yeah I am coming to the point of decisively forgetting her, and look for another woman.

Just time and chance, and money wasted. Also I must think of myself.

What did I do wrong?

You know her parents very very very much like me. But she, and her brother seems having problems with me.

That is the scenario.

You are right at the point she is not clean. Yeah i called her at an unexpected time, and her fuck body of the night grab her phone to show up his manhood. I was worry that was her father, but I was wrong. I should have shouted straight to that guy.

That is why the phone was turned off now, forever. She came to her phone and realized that was me calling from USA today she told me I was stupid to call wrong number. She only play mind game. The number only one digit wrong will never get to a phone. It will be announce "no existing number"

By the way, do you speak and understand Mandarin?

Sorry to post many reports here. I will stop now. The case is getting closed. I tried to find out the truth since I don't want to make an innocent girl sufferred, in case she did not sleep withthe taxi driver. But it seems she did.

[Long CU]

Besides, tatyu, my case is not cross racial. Many asians in the north did not have enough meaning of this word we in the world have basically 4 races.

1. Caucasian, or white

2. African, or black

3. Asian, or yellow
Asiatic should be asian as well.

4. Afro-Polynesian-Indian are all mix races, so they stand for their own race:mix

The difference in NEA and SEA is the ethnicity. To a containing country like China, even nationality can not be used to classify people.

The cultural is not also very right. They claim to offer cultural matter, but inside they chase after money.

My time being there with her was near 7-7, China valentine's day, which fell on Aug 22.

She booked the hotel YinHe(Silver Galaxy, according to the old legend) for us, do you see what she meant.

But when the mother told me to buy a house in BJ or SH, and my girl suggested to check my bank book, well I don't have that money right there to show them.

It would be i think about 400000rmb to make their eyes bright.
I had in my bank only 60000rmb, the thing is enough for a wedding
Well her Mom told me I can leave!

Then we came to the end of the discussion that I should leave on the Aug 16. So she can truly unite with some lover on Aug 22 maybe. That night I called her from Beijing and she stayed home with parents, say she loves me, etc.

So I don't understand what culture you mention about.

Hi,

This is just a suggestion, so please don't take it the wrong way.

I appreciate the details in your report, but I know from experience that a lot of people find it easier to read a report if the paragraphs are separated by a single blank line.

I know how this happens: You're banging away at the keyboard, putting your thoughts into the report as fast as you can write them. However, if you could hit the return key TWICE at the end of each paragraph, your report would be much easier to read, which would certainly be appreciated by your fellow Forum Members.

Thanks,

Jackson

[Long CU]

Tatyu,
Yeah I grew up in Asia

If I say I am Filipinos you will nod your head
If I say I am Jewish you will count your money
If I say I am Muslim central asia, you will pale and silent
If I say I am black you will say"hei wei" and go away.

So, my thinking is, yes I know all about girls in china sleep with any one. true. girls in any country do that too.

The only thing you are right, is that I am not Chinese. 100%. Maybe long time ago, someone in my family lives in China land. But not now.
When the girl talked to the taxi man, she did not talk to me any more. At all. Since then, she belongs to him. She went with him, it is fine, but she has no room in Changchun. She first expects to stay with me, that was why she booked a king bed. I could not believe that girls in China solve the night by having some men who have room, then jump in to sleep with them, and pay by sex.

Why didn't I expect that? Because I was hoping to marry her, not to do a sex tour with her. If that, I am here an expert, 100 taxi drivers cannot take her out of my hands, I promise you.

She brought her ugly friend to intimidate me, not for shying purpose. The last night she already came to my room by herself, what the hell is it shy here any more?

The ugly girl later kissed my girl in front of me, try to flip up her skirt(maybe for me to see), and I question myself that maybe these two girls did many 3some sections with the ugly girl bf. the ugly girl bf lives with her bf in an apartment where my girl stayed there to wait for me to come to Changchun. Leaving my room at 2am, she could not go back there, due to losing face?, inconvinience(no bed), and if the taxi driver decides to spend the money on her, there is no choice my girl could make:sleep with him. That is why she came back to my room the next day without changing clothes, but the perfume is gone, since she took shower

My dead analysis is for my decision to not marry her, do you know?. I am not crazy.

About other girls, I don't need to fuck any. I am not a bad guy who dream to do serial fucking within a family. I only need a wife.

Tell you, within the days I stay in YinHe hotel, Jilin city, the hotel has a sauna full of girls, and they come to knock my door. But Idid not go to sauna or sleep with any amssage girl. I want to keep the respect for her, and her family. But in turns, whatever I do nice for them, I got shit back. This is it. If I was a normal virile asshole, I was her husband already. I carry with me the reputation of university student, from a family never has any divorce or seperate inside at all, and also I carry the name of a meiguo ren who has money. So, I try to be nice, and I got shit right where I am nice. The taxi driver could use my money to book the room to fuck that girl.

Well, they clearly blame me not to keep my things. But, what the hell, this is not my fault. The bus should have a checking baggage system or tickets check out. And the fact the taxi driver found the bus on the street, it is totally lucky. It was a fast glance over, although let's say he has good and fast eyes, that is why he could get the girl later. Then the girl pops out a sentence iin Chinese(I understand Chinese enough) saying that Zhongguo ren zhen hao....etc...

This fucking sentence hooks she up with the taxi driver, we all 3 decided.

So of course I will not ever marry her. I plan to call her to BJ, fuck her up then leave. And I will give my dear taxi driver some gifts as well

[Long CU]

The girl is fiercely denying anything, anywrong doing.

I don't want to be a true coward who put words in her mouth. If I leave, oh yeah, one day some one will truly fuck her again.

So I am planning a direct check up with the taxi driver.

I have his phone number in Changchun.

So, I asked one internet lead in CHangchun, who is a girl, to call this taxi driver.

The girl in Changchun knows nothing about the story. She just does me a favor: call that guy, and pose as Z.N. friend(Z.N. is name of my "girl"), then ask him if he knows where she is, and if he knows her new mobile phone number.

My logic here is simple: if this driver is only a driver, who brought ZN to her home that night as thousands other customers, he would say"Ey, wrong number, who is ZN, I don't know"

But poor thing happens

My friend said the conversation went like this

Driver: Wei

My friend: Do you knowwhere is Z.N. now?

Driver:Who are you?

My friend: I am good friend of her, I am looking for her, do you have her number?

Driver: you are good friend, but you don't have her number?

My friend: sorry, she turned her mobile off now

Driver: I am not gonna give you her number. I don't have it now
88.

It is clearly enough now, the driver knows ZN, it proves to be a one night stand, since that night the driver made extra 110rmb from my money(I gave him for the prize of finding my bag, also hope to shut up my friend's mouth of talking to him)

Well I clearly lost in this game, but I never gave up to find out the truth.

I kind of not so much very 100% believe my friend who conduct the conversation. There is one sentence she said: he not know ZN
the next sentence she said: sure he is ZN lover

So I will ask one more friend, who is a true friend, to pose as ZN mother to call the taxi driver. Let's see.

And I hope to give the driver some gifts whenever I am back CC.

Hi,

This is just a suggestion, so please don't take it the wrong way.

I appreciate the details in your report, but I know from experience that a lot of people find it easier to read a report if the paragraphs are separated by a single blank line.

I know how this happens: You're banging away at the keyboard, putting your thoughts into the report as fast as you can write them. However, if you could hit the return key TWICE at the end of each paragraph, your report would be much easier to read, which would certainly be appreciated by your fellow Forum Members.

Thanks,

Jackson

[Sino View]

Long Cu,

I know chinese culture very well. That some called brother is definitely her boy friend. No Chinese family can sleep naked in the same room no matter how close they are.

She is just careless enough to let you see her naked bf.

Wake up and fark the marraige deal. You got no commitment to them. It's obvious that the family is out to squeeze your money.
It's better for you to get out now, both for your money and emotion.

Your frequent unanswered call has proven that she is not so "clean". plus all the doubtful events. Get out immediately and you will be a happier man. Just make a clean cut. Stop calling and receiving her calls.

Instead divert your effort to look for a better partner.There 're many nice Chinese gals around esp. in BJ.

Good luck.

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[Tinybobo1002]

Long CU,

I am quite confused with your scenario. If you are at you early or mid 30s and you have lived in US for about ten years and you are from Asia, you should understand Chinese culture better. I guess you are not Chinese or not Hong Kong Chinese.

Your story is long, but I did not see anything wrong with it. Girls in China keep yapping all the time. She talked to the taxi driver and went with him. There is nothing to indicate she sleep with him. She brought her ugly girlfriend, because Chinese girls always bring a girlfriend to a date. If you want, you can bang your girl on the bed and ask the ugly girl to sleep on the carpet. Last, brining her brother, his girlfriend and her parents to the hotel is fine. In China, you fuck the girl, but you don't fuck the family. You support the girl financially, and too bad you have to do the same to her family members.

That's why I am confused. I you have an Asian background and most likely you were raised in Asia, you should understand some Asian Culture.

If you go to Korea, I can promise you the same will happen. This is only a matter of cultural shock. Long CU, re-think about marriage. If you suspect she sleeps with the taxi driver, based on some ungrounded reasons of logic, you can't live with her in a marital relationship.

She may or may not have slept with others. Nobody knows. Nowaday, modern Chinese girls sleep with "everyone". Is that a big deal? I guess not. The most important part is "do you want such a relationship?"

Good luck. Cross racial and cross cultural marriage is difficult.

[OldAsiaHand]

Csun213,

Yes, don't we both wish we were young, handsome and, most importantly, as virile, as Johnny is! Long live the King of Guangzhou Mongers!

BTW, when are you guys coming over next?

OAH

[Csun213]

That's the way to tell him off Johnny. Since you are younger than he is maybe he will take your advice.

[Long CU]

Johny,

It is annoying with lots of bad words from you, it did not help me
for the case

Peaceful ok

As a monger, I achieved already 2 18 y.o girls for 800rmb, 4 pops all night long, from HuaYuan hotel, and they even found the hotel and paid for it. I stayed in cheap hotel, so could not bring girls in

Check the post in GZ where you are entitled King, I list the location of the local sleephouse. Too many unbelieable pretty girls hang out near there, the safe haven for them, and the best place to find straight deal
I tried to move up to the next stage, which is real more serious: the marriage. As seen, I did it in a very short time, and this is my first fault. Perhaps I should be more cool, well just be silent and left the taxi with her, then fuck her up, and be a winner. I was so upbeat in the game, and I got my mess. Now I try to solve it, since the marriage deal is still up in the air. That is why I come here to report and to ask for advises. Most of advices are very sincere and valuable. I may head for an instant hookup for marriage in Szechuan, as officer OAH consoled me.

Have a nice day