China Women - Opinions and Advice

[Lustforthrust]

Women usually get married at age 24 or 25 and have their baby at 26.

Same in the USA.

I have talked to students who told me their roomates bring the boyfriend to the dorm for overnight visit/sex. one guy in the bedroom with 6 to 8 girls.

That's ordinary for Chinese anywhere.
I had a lover, a flight attendant at Qatar Airways in Doha who was playing the "how much do you want me" game on me at one time. Won't take calls, picked up her clothes from my apt. when I wasn't there but left some and other obvious womanly tricks.
So I went to her apt. one day. I rang the door bell. Saw an eye in the viwer, a minute later someone opened the door. They were having a party, there were maybe 6 chics, all Taiwanese. My chic want standing there, looking down, kinda trying to run away, kinda smiling, not knowing what to do. I went over to her and without saying a word, grabbed her and kissed her. It got hot, I was squeezing her butt, her hands around my neck, I had a hard-on, pulled her legs over my hips, still kissing and started walking to her bedroom. Her flatmate ran in front of us to open the door to my chic's room and then closed it after I walked in with my chic on my hips. Then she put a large towel on the floor at the door, I guess to muffle the sounds (give us more privacy).

Later I came out and joined the party with a big smile on my face and my chic on me like she was a part of me. And all the other chics had bigger smiles on their faces than mine.

[Ace Gallant]

IMHO:

I am fucking

hahaha

Fucking = Having Sex

Enjoy!
AG

[Ragnarok42]

IMHO:

Let me put it in another way: Are you: Making Love or Having Sex?

Got it?

Enjoy!
AG

IMHO:

I am fucking

hahaha

[Panda Bob]

This is my first writing and I wanted to express some of my views about chinese woman based on my 3.5 years living/teaching in China.

1. young, sexy, cute woman look/dress the part and looking for a sugar daddy. There thing is texting, shopping.

2. college students - start looking for a bf their 2nd year of university.
Times are changing as girls use to stick with her first bf. Now they will shop around and ok to loose their virginity to her BF.

I have talked to students who told me their roomates bring the boyfriend to the dorm for overnight visit/sex. one guy in the bedroom with 6 to 8 girls.

The student usually has a serious bf during her 3rd/4th year and most likely to marry the guy in the next two years.

Women usually get married at age 24 or 25 and have their baby at 26. They believe age 26 is the best time to conceive.

Whe the girl gets 24/25 and not have a bf her family starts to worry and pust pressure on her to find a guy fast.

So when you meet cute, educated girls age 25 up they are usually already taken / married.

Many of the open minded students age 20 and up will work the KTVs to earn extra money. Many students looking for extra to pay school fees.

Most divorces are in the 35 and up range. There are 10s of thousands of smart attractive "older" available woman.

It is not surprising to talk to woman age 40 who are sexy looking, have a good job and not have had sex for 10 years. Why? these woman dedicate themselves to their child/family until the chile gets into university / graduates and then they are serious to start hunting for a husband.

Yes, many get Chinese guys at first but most I not say all I said most guys only want to play with these woman who are divorced. Why? There are so so so many young virgin woman running around the men don't need to waste their time being serious with an older lady.

Chinese woman like most other woman don't want to marry down.

About sex: Chinese woman in general are shy to talk openly about sex. From my conversations 50% ladies not like oral and most not want to taste/drink the sperm. I did not say all! You have to work on it and be patient with the woman.

A chinese woman will be very attached to you if you help her
Just buying some groceries buying her a set of long underwear for the coming winter, buying her eye glasses for 200 rmb will score you points and making her commited - obligated to you.

I know you are laughing and saying all woman are like this - what I am saying they have a real sense of commitment to you for helping her. They will not ask you to buy a cellphone or jewelry. Not like my experiences in Thailand + Philippines.

Please keep in mind I am speaking in general terms - and my comparisons to woman in Philippines and Thailand is based on my years visiting those countries for the past 20 years.

I'm not talking about my sexual experiences in china in this thread.

Please also note my observations are based as a 60 year old American who was in China to teach English - I am a retired teacher.

I thought it would be easy for me to find a GF/lover but not so.

Problems to keep in mind:

1. age if past 50
2. able to speak Mandarin/ her ability to speak English or . . . . .
3. they worry you might have aids
4. they worry you will love them and then dump them - going home.

If you are on the younger side of 50 and work and live in china you can hook up with a great woman.

Of course if you have "money" - businessman then the door is wide open. Just like in any country.

there is more I can share but maybe you already know this and sorry if wasted space here.

I guess I am writing this if you are looking for more than mongering.

I have so much to share from my experiences as part time monger and talking to real mongers in china.

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[Ace Gallant]

If that were to be true, how'd you explain the pain when you find out that your loved one is having an affair?

Maybe Sex is a part of Love, but not the way around.

IMHO:

Let me put it in another way: Are you: Making Love or Having Sex?

Got it?

Enjoy!
AG

[Yuri B]

I Love and sex are two different things.

MAB

If that were to be true, how'd you explain the pain when you find out that your loved one is having an affair?

Maybe Sex is a part of Love, but not the way around.

[Ragnarok42]

So end of the day: The best time to monger is when you are single. But if you are not Single…. Better monger far far far away with not strings attached!

Enjoy!
AG

Great advice AG but for me I only mongered after I was attachted / married. So not a lot of experience when single. As you know I am a big fan of sticking with girls I have had a good time with and many have become good fuck toys. But many married men monger in order to STAY married and not stray.

haha, hasn't worked too well for me either. Being I am on affair number 2 and 3 and 4 seem to be happening soon. So wait for a few more months and you will start to see my wining, bitching posts.

[Ace Gallant]

Here it is:

I'd rather be married with kids and monger than monger when I'm single.

But it's my weird thinking that often gets me beat up by senior members...

Speaking from experience:

I am for Monger when Single and if you need to monger when married, do it without attachment and somewhere far away from home!.

I am married and divorce twice. In my first marriage, me and my wife lived thousand miles apart but I don't monger. Sometime even have to give myself hand-jobs to relief myself! So? What happens? Still divorced!

Second marriage, I travelled too much still, but decided to monger once in a while during business trip when I was entertaining or been entertained. Still file for divorce!

Let me tell you all these talk about 4+1 rules > BS! Female are smart animals till they get married! When they lost interest in you, no matter what rules or how many rules you abide to are useless! Regardless of whether they know or not, whether you have family outside (Geez... how can a man have more than 1 REAL family?), whether they lose face or not, or even you are down with AIDS or VDs....are all not in the equation. In fact, if the women really love you, she would even be willing to take care of you if you are down with anything! Hey? Isn’t that what in the oath of marriage?

So end of the day: The best time to monger is when you are single. But if you are not Single…. Better monger far far far away with not strings attached!

Enjoy!
AG

[Chocha Monger]

Folks
An interesting sub-thread a couple of pages back. My 2 fen worth.

If you marry then its for love something deep and durable over the period as long as I can see forward. Its a deep, mystical and spiritual enduring connection for those who are lucky enough to find it. Simply it touches the soul and changes both parties.

That is an interesting view. Since few will ever find something like that the more practical approach is to marry if it will bring you money, fame, power or valuable connections.

[BruceTea]

Here it is:

...follows the following promises:

1. Don't let me know
2. Don't let me loose face
3. Don't bring back anything dirty
4. don't have a family outside.

Plus one more thing I keep to myself - deny deny deny - no matter what!

100% fool proof....

I'd rather be married with kids and monger than monger when I'm single.

But it's my weird thinking that often gets me beat up by senior members...

[AsnDragon]

Mock A Bee/Wapec,

Did I miss something? What is the 4+1 rule. I'm dying to hear about it.

Life would be simplier to just NOT marry and monger. Either having mistresses or girlfriends. You name it. There's no guilt, no obligation, you get the variety that you want and you can still feel emotionally connected to your mistress or girlfriend as well. Less potential legal mess when a divorce comes up.

But sometimes. Just sometimes I think love and sex intertwine at times. People do become confused. It's easier to judge from a distance, but when you are the one involved in this love/sex tangle, it's actually very real and it does happen. It's difficult to discern between the boundaries or love and sex.

AsnDragon

I absolutely agree with Wapec. Love and sex are two different things. I have posted comments before on the fact that there are many who read this website and get the two utterly confused.

Oh well, some things never change.

MAB

[Mock A Bee]

I absolutely agree with Wapec. Love and sex are two different things. I have posted comments before on the fact that there are many who read this website and get the two utterly confused.

Oh well, some things never change.

MAB

Folks

An interesting sub-thread a couple of pages back. My 2 fen worth.

If you marry then its for love something deep and durable over the period as long as I can see forward. Its a deep, mystical and spiritual enduring connection for those who are lucky enough to find it. Simply it touches the soul and changes both parties.

Sex, girlfriends, mistress and mongering well its the physical attraction and joy of sex with a women that you want to treat as a little princess for the time you are with her. It too can be a deep, mystical and spiritual connection but lasts only as long she is with you and understands that it can be created with other little princesses who you too can and will deeply love while you are with them.

Because one is enduring, touches the should and the other temporary then it falls to reason that sex and love are not the same. This is why its possible to have great sex and multiple sex partners while you are at the same time married.

I've had good sex when married but I've had amazing, great, outer body experience sex when mongering (and mongering while married following something similar to SEAJ 4 +1 rules). The two are very different and almost polar opposites.

JMPOV
\W

[Wapec]

Folks

An interesting sub-thread a couple of pages back. My 2 fen worth.

If you marry then its for love something deep and durable over the period as long as I can see forward. Its a deep, mystical and spiritual enduring connection for those who are lucky enough to find it. Simply it touches the soul and changes both parties.

Sex, girlfriends, mistress and mongering well its the physical attraction and joy of sex with a women that you want to treat as a little princess for the time you are with her. It too can be a deep, mystical and spiritual connection but lasts only as long she is with you and understands that it can be created with other little princesses who you too can and will deeply love while you are with them.

Because one is enduring, touches the should and the other temporary then it falls to reason that sex and love are not the same. This is why its possible to have great sex and multiple sex partners while you are at the same time married.

I've had good sex when married but I've had amazing, great, outer body experience sex when mongering (and mongering while married following something similar to SEAJ 4 +1 rules). The two are very different and almost polar opposites.

JMPOV
\W

[Mock A Bee]

Sure... go to church several times a week to meet Wife 1 (you may need to bring a female relative to trade). Wife 1 selects your sex partners (often her sisters/cousins/etc. You may need to bring female relatives to trade) with the help of prayer and multiple meetings with church authorities. Each night they will decide who you service, but only after you all pray together. Missionary position only. After you remove her sexy neck-to-ankle homespun dress that covers enough cotton underwear to outfit a Spanish galleon with sails.

And then there are the logistical challenges of finding a double-wide that is big enough to house four plus-size women in billious cotton sails and all of their little ankle-biters.

Yeah. Forget polygamy.

But what happens if you divorce wife? Is she still your sister?

;-)
MAB

[Crazy Jim Wood]

I heard Mormons or other certain religions allow multiple partners??? Maybe you guys need to find a girl of that kind of religion that allows multiple sex partners. ;) And pretend you are of that religion or truly convert.

Sure... go to church several times a week to meet Wife 1 (you may need to bring a female relative to trade). Wife 1 selects your sex partners (often her sisters/cousins/etc. You may need to bring female relatives to trade) with the help of prayer and multiple meetings with church authorities. Each night they will decide who you service, but only after you all pray together. Missionary position only. After you remove her sexy neck-to-ankle homespun dress that covers enough cotton underwear to outfit a Spanish galleon with sails.

And then there are the logistical challenges of finding a double-wide that is big enough to house four plus-size women in billious cotton sails and all of their little ankle-biters.

Yeah. Forget polygamy.