Non-Pro Garotas - Opinions & Advice

[Eros74]

Another couple of stories like this and I guess half ISG will join match.com asap LOL

[Rio Bob]

Sangue Bon, thanks for shares this, I love when things happen like the part I quoted, it makes you feel very good LOL.

The most important thing is to stop in the apartment, no matter for what, to show her the photo of the city where you live, to give her a present, to cook her something....once you get her in your flat, you neither has to push, enough to wait a while and to tease her....they are human being as us, sometimes even more horny than us...

Actually I just remembered a third one I scored on the first date. This one contacted me on match.com and told me she was coming to New York on business and would like to meet me. I took her for dinner on little Brazil street in NY.

The whole time I chatted with this woman online months before she came and even through dinner I couldn't read her. I just never knew if I could score with her.

Then after dinner we went to have a cigerette outside the restaurant and I went to kiss her, she was all over me, went back to her hotel, banged like rabbits all night. Did repeats on her in NY and in Rio.

[Eros74]

...she was pretty nice, we stopped in my apt for a second, on the way up the elevator she told me she'll come in my apt but don't expect any sex, I said I know. Half hour later she asked me if I had a condom....

Sangue Bon, thanks for shares this, I love when things happen like the part I quoted, it makes you feel very good LOL.

The most important thing is to stop in the apartment, no matter for what, to show her the photo of the city where you live, to give her a present, to cook her something....once you get her in your flat, you neither has to push, enough to wait a while and to tease her....they are human being as us, sometimes even more horny than us...

[Rio Bob]

Thanks, that's all I need and in a while I will give my first try to br.match.com.

What I mean is that with the years, I learned and I changed from to convince her I am the right one she was waiting for, to make her believe that there is nothing bad with sex at first date, that I am surely not gonna to change my opinion about her and that if man and woman like each other and they are both single, there is no one reason to wait more time to make love.

Obviously I do not tell her in this short way, but in longer, nicer way, touching and kissing her.....I found it works quite good, much better than lie to her......IMHO

Most of the women I scored with from match.com was on the second date, if there was a second date. The first date we would meet for a drink or dinner and I would check to see if there was any chemistry between us, sometimes I would get close but most of them held out and I don't push too much at all. Then usually we go out the next night again for dinner and it usually happens no problem.

I can only remember 2 times from match.com that I scored on the first meeting and both of them I met in the day. One told me she was looking for a serious relationship, I told her she has no chance with me that the only thing that we could do is go to my apt now and have great sex, she agreed, she called me 100 times after that never saw her again, too clingy.

Another was similar, I met her on the beach during the day, we went for lunch then we took a walk, she was pretty nice, we stopped in my apt for a second, on the way up the elevator she told me she'll come in my apt but don't expect any sex, I said I know. Half hour later she asked me if I had a condom. I would have met her again because she was hot but I met another one from match.com the next day that I liked even better and banged her everyday.

[Hughdad]

Have a story behind that username selection?

[Eros74]

In Match.com Brazil I have never met a GDP. But all were mature, educated and looking for a serious relationship and or marraige...

Thanks, that's all I need and in a while I will give my first try to br.match.com.

Then the next day they usually tell me some type of excuse...

About the second part of your post, according to my experience here in Europe, but I guess it is the same everywhere, if a woman meet you at first date and spend with you dinner and after dinner time in some club, surely she feels comfortable together you and probably likes you as well, otherwise she finds excuse and she leaves in a very soon time if you are not her type.

So what stop many to follow you...till morning is most of times cause they are afraid about what you think about her next day. I found that if you give her a good alibi-excuse, to sleep with you, many will do it "enough" easily.

What I mean is that with the years, I learned and I changed from to convince her I am the right one she was waiting for, to make her believe that there is nothing bad with sex at first date, that I am surely not gonna to change my opinion about her and that if man and woman like each other and they are both single, there is no one reason to wait more time to make love.

Obviously I do not tell her in this short way, but in longer, nicer way, touching and kissing her.....I found it works quite good, much better than lie to her......IMHO

[Rio Bob]

Thanks guys for the answers, so....we now have brazilcupid.com, parperfeito.com.br, orkut.com, match.com International Brazil... ok I can register in everyone, but any differences between them ? Which one has higher numbers of Brazilians, regular, girls ?

In Match.com Brazil I have never met a GDP. But all were mature, educated and looking for a serious relationship and or marraige. It gets messy because at some point they realize Im not looking to get married to them but they usually end up giving me some anyway for the fun of it. Then the next day they usually tell me some type of excuse that they drank too much or it was my charm and they usually don't act this way normally. Me neither.

[Eros74]

Thanks guys for the answers, so....we now have brazilcupid.com, parperfeito.com.br, orkut.com, match.com International Brazil... ok I can register in everyone, but any differences between them ? Which one has higher numbers of Brazilians, regular, girls ?

[Sprite13]

In the topic of dating sites in Brasil, I have used prior to a trip last year Brazil Cupid and it was ok, "met" a nice mineira with whom I'm still in touch but I haven't got the time to actually meet her. I tried once, for curiosity sake Latin Euro, it was a complete waste of money. All in all, I wouldn't mind giving Brazil Cupid another try.

[Itchy Dogballs]

Madd Love,

You make Brazil's economy seem like the land of Oz, especially compared to that nasty USA A. Don't get me wrong, I love Brazil. It's a wonderful place with great people. I believe that they are a country on the rise. It clearly is the most advanced economy in South America.

But are you kidding me with your goofy comparisons. Any reasonable person would look at the stats and see that there is no comparison at all between Brazil and the G8 countries. Brazil has a very tiny upper income group, a relatively small middle class, and a HUGE lower class. So many of the roughly 200 million Brazilians live in relative squalor, when you compare it to USA Or Western EU standards. Homelss people in the USA Live like kings and queens compared to Brazil's impoverished masses. Travel outside the high rent business district of SP or the tourist area of RJ, and you see a very different Brazil. Get a grip! You are misleading people with your BS.

[Rio Bob]

Anybody could me suggest a couple of web sites where to get in touch with regular brazilian girls to date and at same time to improve portuguese too ?

Thanks in advance.

P.S. I mean something like match.com but only for brazilians.

I have been using match.com International Brazil section since 2004.

I have had some luck with this site, I usually join several months before a trip and get a list of numbers and the cost of joining usually pays for itself as I usually get at least one freebie a trip from it.

They have several pricing plans, the best is you join for 6 months and you get to contact anybody on the site whether they pay or not and they can contact you whether they pay or not. A lot of Brazilian women let their membership lapse but their picture is still there, so if they don't pay then they can't respond to you.

[Eros74]

Gatorman, Sprite13 thanks guys, I will take this with both goals to get in touch with regular girls and to improve my portuguese and who knows, maybe I will end to discover better place where to go.

[Sprite13]

Try also the Yahoo Encontros area, a good fishing ground. Portuguese language required. Another awesome place is Orkut. Again, portuguese required here but a few english speaking ones can be found there too. But I would rather stay away from the English speaking ones as the more English they know, the more mileage and gringo chaser potential if not a programma girl she can be, unless she is very educated and from the upper class.

[Gatorman]

You might try parperfeito.com.br

[Eros74]

Anybody could me suggest a couple of web sites where to get in touch with regular brazilian girls to date and at same time to improve portuguese too ?

Thanks in advance.

P.S. I mean something like match.com but only for brazilians.