Non-Pro Garotas - Opinions & Advice

[Perkele]

Hi Perkele,

In 98 % of the cases you are right. There are 10.000 women alone at Copa selling their ass. This works only when you really find the needle in the haystack. My GF is making as a dentist approx. 150.000 R$/year - more than the best therma-girl would ever make. So why sell her ass???? She simply has enoguh money.

90% of the girls sell their ass for money. The absolute majority is un-educated and I agree with your that once they work as a GdP they see this as their way out of misery. A lot of easyly earned money. The small educated proportion of these girls, also quite often from good families, see this work only as a temporary time to get over some mishaps and they prefer to get back into "normal" life. That happened to my GF.

That at the other hand does not stop me from continueing to monger, as long as it will last (LOL). Everybody of us is getting older and to have a lasting relastionship is a nice thing as well. When I was a young stag it was the adventure of weaking up every morning with another woman in bed but priorities change in life.

Carlos

Carlos.

I'm happy for you, but WHY settle for a prostitute as a girlfriend when one can find women who never event thought of selling ass?

I have nothing against ho's, but a ho doesn't make a good wife. That is a well known fact.

I'm sure that great majority won't agree with me, but in my books there are no such things as SEMIpro or part time ho's or onetimers. For me if a woman SELLS ass even once, she is a prostitute. Why you may ask and I will respond.
As we all know that relationships has its ups and downs. All relationships are great when everything is fine etc. BUT when the downs come and believe me they will come a normal woman will fight with you and curse and so on, but that's it. A HO will do all the above and on top of that she has the CAPABILITY to SELL her ass. This is significant difference. A ho (or ex ho as many of you may like to call some of them) can even justify an affair to herself (and even to you) by CHARGING money from the guy she's fucking. You know the drill, she asks money for some crap you don't find necessary, she really wants it and since you do not provide, she'll sell her ass. Problem solved.

May I remind that I do not judge ho's, I find them very useful. But they do not make good girlfriends/wives.

P

[Carlos Primeros]

Hi Perkele,

In 98 % of the cases you are right. There are 10.000 women alone at Copa selling their ass. This works only when you really find the needle in the haystack. My GF is making as a dentist approx. 150.000 R$/year - more than the best therma-girl would ever make. So why sell her ass???? She simply has enoguh money.

90% of the girls sell their ass for money. The absolute majority is un-educated and I agree with your that once they work as a GdP they see this as their way out of misery. A lot of easyly earned money. The small educated proportion of these girls, also quite often from good families, see this work only as a temporary time to get over some mishaps and they prefer to get back into "normal" life. That happened to my GF.

That at the other hand does not stop me from continueing to monger, as long as it will last (LOL). Everybody of us is getting older and to have a lasting relastionship is a nice thing as well. When I was a young stag it was the adventure of weaking up every morning with another woman in bed but priorities change in life.

Carlos

[Perkele]

There is no such a thing as a ex-pro.

What is wrong with you guys? Once a ho always a ho.

Well if you want to spend rest of your life wondering.....

There is SO MANY women in Brasil who wouldn't sell ass for any reason.....

Here is the deal, ho's are for a fuck. Normal women... for relationships...

Just my 2 centavos (again).

[Hitmanm3]

Hi to all,

I simply recommend that time will show if she is worthwhile. Stay with her and forget the past (of her) and continue to do you part of mongering.

Carlos

Good to hear that at least someone made a good life out of a bad situation. You are going to hear good and bad feed back on the situation at hand, but ultimately you are the one that has to live with the decision of making a life with her. My opinion, if you do not mind me giving one, is to forget what she did in the past. Think for a minute, that part of her life kind of brought you and her together and she took a negative part of her life and made it into a positive and that in my humble opinion means a lot more to me than what she did as a GDP. Good luck in what ever decision you make.

[Carlos Primeros]

Hi to all,

I have now over the last 6 years a very good friend of mine in Rio. She had graduated as a MD/Dentist and has now her own office in Niteroi. She was working on the side during her time at the university as a semi-pro. We met 8 years ago at Posto 5 the first time and during my regular visits to Rio we fell in love. We met occasionally and then more and more regularly and one day she declared that she is quitting her old life and gets "respectable". I respected here anyhow and treated here like a GF and she gave me the GFE.

She first worked as an dentist in a clinic for 3 years and then opened her own office in Niteroi. When I am in Rio and when I do not monger, then I stay at her place and we are like on old couple, going out, enjoying ourselves. We really live together, share out thoughts, I have usually all my stuff at her place and I stay in her appartment when I am in Rio. I can imagine staying with her for ever. For her her past is over. I still monger but by far not as much as I did 20 or 10 years ago. As all south-american women she is very possesive and would cut my balls off if she catches me mongering. But simply do not get cought. In Brasil every man with money mongers but avoids to be cought. I simply do the same. She knows that I do it but what the heck!

I simply recommend that time will show if she is worthwhile. Stay with her and forget the past (of her) and continue to do you part of mongering.

Carlos

[Bornran]

Can't change the past. Accept her for who she is and hope that door won't open again. God knows I have alot in my closet yet I closed the door and tossed the key, so if your like US Customs who keeps stopping me due to my past, hey keep looking because I'm not going back.

[Hobbying]

I've met alot of pros that are going to professional schools in fields such as medicine, law, dental, business, etc. So it seems to me that there's a chance that a successful beautiful girl might once been a pro.? What happens if you find out she was once a pro?

I might be in that situation myself.

[Exec Talent]

Good idea, Christopherd. Here are two options:
http://www.flowerland.com.br (they accept Visa, MC, Amex)
http://cartoes.uol.com.br/ Send her a card - FREE!

I have ordered online from this florist for years. They always do a great job.

http://cameliaflores.com.br/loja-/

[Jan 156]

If anybody here can write a nice romantic poem in portugese can you please post it here so we can all copy it!
An easier option is to post a link to a romantic song on her Orkut, Ana Carolinas singing "isso ai" or Jota Quests " So hoje" are good bets.

I've tried copying ordinary poems before and don't recommend it unless you're sure. Questioning her big smile, she told me, "Your Portuguese is good, but not that good!" Lines from songs (nice suggestion, Abzsafado) and greeting cards sound cool though I will always in future modify them enough to make them believable. I'm rifling through some classic poetry just now though - one can be forgiven for copying great art - I've got a couple of those poetry books printed in simultaneous translation.

[Abzsafado]

I was thinking more along the lines of a postage stamp, maybe with a handwritten poem or something . . .

If anybody here can write a nice romantic poem in portugese can you please post it here so we can all copy it!
An easier option is to post a link to a romantic song on her Orkut, Ana Carolinas singing "isso ai" or Jota Quests " So hoje" are good bets.

[Jan 156]

Good idea, Christopherd. Here are two options:
http://www.flowerland.com.br (they accept Visa, MC, Amex)
http://cartoes.uol.com.br/ Send her a card - FREE!

I was thinking more along the lines of a postage stamp, maybe with a handwritten poem or something . . .

[Poucolouco]

In case anyone's forgotten, it's the Brasilian equivalent of Valentine's Day in less than 2wks (12th June). That should give everyone time to think up non-financial means of showing affection to your lovely lady . . .

Good idea, Christopherd. Here are two options:
http://www.flowerland.com.br (they accept Visa, MC, Amex)
http://cartoes.uol.com.br/ Send her a card - FREE!

[Jan 156]

In case anyone's forgotten, it's the Brasilian equivalent of Valentine's Day in less than 2wks (12th June). That should give everyone time to think up non-financial means of showing affection to your lovely lady . . .

[Jan 156]

Besides, if the BLEEEEEP doesn't show up as will happen 9 times out of 10, then you will know her ways from the beginning and will not have wasted any serious time. Most international flights arrive early in the morning before anything else is going on, so if your 30 minutes to an hour is wasted waiting on her not to show up then you won't have missed out on anything else as you would have if the same thing happened during regular mongering hours.

Additionally, the bus times not only vary (every half hour but can be anywhere within that half hour) and she may have to change. Some people go over the score andd get to an appointment like that hours early, but my own experience is that, although there's always exceptions, Brasilians do not expect themselves or other Brasilians to necessarily be on time. One girl was two and a half hours late visiting me at my apartment once. She managed to text once on the way when she had reception and credits, but it was thru no fault of her own and she was 100% when she arrived. Rainstorms put everything back, on top of normal travel delays. Another girl I was meeting to go to a party in North Zone, arrived two and a half hours late, not made up, just as I was leaving in a taxi with two friends. It was no problem - we just worked round it. Take it easy and always have a back-up plan - preferably one that doesn't involve demonizing a person whose circumstances are not fully known to you on that occasion. If you fall out with someone unnecessarily you might not be able to backtrack, so when there's nothing to lose it's more practical to ride the wave than start, 'if she does this, that measn that.' . . . When maybe it does. But maybe it doesn't!

[Mr Enternational]

Some of you guys find it necessary to disparage Rio women every chance you get. Have you ever thought for one fleeting moment the problem is you? I have NEVER had a girl not show up at the airport nor want to see me off when I leave.
I have though had guys too cheap to pay for their own rides from the airport hit me up and ask my driver to take them to some shack in centro where they leeched a place to stay off their ugly "girlfriend." They never mention things like that when they post here and of course the girl (who loves being with them and never charges them a dime) is always beautiful.

Yeah I remember when that incident came up in the forum a couple of years ago. But I'm speaking specifically about an internet female that you have not met in person before. Someone who you are already friends with is a totally different ballgame.