2002 Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[OzGuy]

tonydasnake,

Thanks .....

Yes, Aon does have chinese features ..... I thought she was very cute, and she had a great attitude, so I bf'd her.

The nights when I went to NEP the most talked about bars on this forum like Angle witch and Rainbow and so on had mongers virtually out the door .... so, I checked out the otherside of NEP, went in to nancy, stayed about 2 mins as there was no girls that interested me, at first I walked past Fantasia, because the door girls were all over me, hugging me and trying to grag me in, so at first I walked past to Spider's web, stayed there about 5 mins, again no real interest, so I was going to go back to ground level and check out rainbow and playskool, again on my way past Fantasia I got mobbed by the door girls, so I thought I would just have a quick look, well I ended up staying there for about 30 mins ...... as you said it is small but there is quite a good selection, while I was there 3 or 4 girls came to chat, Aon was actually the first, but then she had to dance, and I was happy to see some movement ..... when she finished, I bf'd her ..... and a good time followed ..... but even though I took her LT, after about 2 hrs she got a call and said she had to go, that she had to meet a friend and this was the only night she could see ... her !! ... yeah right .... so, I paid her half the original deal, she was unhappy, but took it, then she asked if she could come back the next night and that she would definately stay ..... well, I was getting ready to go out again the next night and there was a knock on the door .... yep, it was her, I was actually going to tell her that I had to go and see a friend, but man ... she was wearing these tight, hip hugging jeans and this tight black little top that exposed her soft, slim little belly ..... come on in !!!! .... and she did stay all night for 1,500 bt ..... and the performance was first class .... I recommend her to anyone.

OzGuy.

[TonydaSnake]

OzGuy, don't worry about lashing out at me as long as you have a point or an opinion; anyone can easily see you're a decent guy without a malicious bone in your body.

Small world! Pretty sure I took Aon ST with another girl at Fantasia for a double dip back in Oct. She is has some chinese features, right, ? Also took out a Khmer girl from there and, my favorite by far, the door girl. Fantasia is small but full of good choices.

But back to Thai women and culture, the last thing I'll say is if someone wants to connect with a Thai girl on an emotional level, be a man and do it the old fashioned way, not the "oldest" way. Go outside the Sukhumvit sex strip and meet youself a regular girl. I've gone out with three regular Thai girls and two became girlfriends. They were good experiences but it took alot of time and effort, as should be perhaps. But this also was a "reality" check in that I saw there was nothing ultimately superb about these ladies in any way compared to ladies of other cultures.

This SUPERB quality is the fascade presented to the sex tourist and a very dangerous one to mongers with that weak spot, or ulterior motive to find wife or GF.

[OzGuy]

tonydasnake,

I agree with you 100% ..... yes I remember the first one I had, her name was Aon, 22yrs, 5'1, very petit, she was at Fantasia in NEP, which is on the 2nd level, up the escalator to the right as you enter NEP, her number was 6, but I have heard the numbers change, her peformance was very good, actually better than any that followed on my recent trip, enthusiastic bbbj, screw in what ever positions you wanted 1,500 bt LT + bf ..... all of this I posted when I returned on the Bangkok board, as well as the names of the others ..... but all in all Aon was very good, very friendly and very enthusiastic ... well worth a throw !!

In my last post I was defending my response to another's post, not lashing at you .... there is no need, I agree with your point of view totally.

Keep it up ;-)

OzGuy.

[TonydaSnake]

ozguy,

who was you first? what did she look like, what did she do and was she good at it; and what is her number so maybe some other lucky monger can fork over his bhat and nail her. me, i can't remember my first because she probably wasn't that good; and if she was i'd have told you about it rather than keep it to myself.

those who crave intimacy with ho's are a disturbed sub set of healthy mongers, as are those who crave the ****d, imho.

i'd be asking myself why i can't find an emotional connection with a non working girl.

[OzGuy]

Well said Juice .....

OzGuy.

[OzGuy]

tonydasnake,

I am assuming that your posts were in response to my recent post where I agreed with DJ about remembering your first Thai girl, are you telling me you can't remember yours ?? ... name ?? ... where you found her ?? .... what the experience was like ??

Thats what I was responding to, the fact that any new experience stays with us and shapes us in some way .... I didn't once say that I was emotionally connected to anyone, all I said was that I can easily remember the first .... the others I can hardly remember much at all, they were just a procession, and to say that these comments misdirect newbies is also wrong, you can't say what a person is to do or experience in Thailand, yes I agree with you, falling for one of these TG's is a huge mistake for anyone, but people have to experience, what they want to experience, wether that is good or bad .... you can't direct people into having the same experience as you, thats your own experience, it might not fit with what they want out of their trip of a lifetime.

If I am wrong and your posts were not aimed at what I said, then please disregard this post.

One other thing is that if you look at what this forum is named - opinions and advice ..... where does anything I have said regarding Thai women not fit in ?? .... it is an opinion, just like yours .... considering that I agree with your views on them .... I was just responding to another post.

OzGuy.

[JuiceSpike]

Z man makes a lot of sense and is right on the money.... (nice posting)...

I think anybody can get attached or emotionally involved with a Thai hooker... it could happen to any guy irregarless of IQ or social status... A guy starving for affection/attention and not getting laid much in his western country could get easily attached to a Thai girl... Thai hookers have the best approach for an escape from the "real" world, they offer cheap and for the most part good sex....

.... I remember on my first trip to Thailand I felt like a kid in a candy store but did not loose my head or had any expectations of making the experience beyond of what it was... It is an escape, sex with hookers is an escape and not to be confused with a relationship or emotional attachment.... Some guys may feel sorry for some of these girls because they are sweet and their approach is unlike hookers in western countries.... but feeling sorry for some woman is not a good reason for falling in love.... or even starting a "real" relationship.

Most guys here know that regular women come with their "issues" that you have to deal with in a relationship. Now, a Thai hooker is no different but their "issues" are far more complicated (amplified by one thousand) and many of these girls are damaged for life.

Also, the smart hookers know what western guys want and need, they know these guys (especially the new ones) are in awe at the scene and they take advantage of this. They know some of these guys are lonely and need good attention..... Also, some Thai hookers are fun to hang out with, the smart ones can be good company outside the bed but don't mistake this with emotional attachment or love..... These girls know what they are doing and they will capitalize on a guy's soft heart or sympathy for their situation.... but, they are doing a job, they know how to do it very well even though some are really "nice" and personable....

You can make a love to a woman or you can just fuck her. The same goes for women with men. Knowing the difference is the most important thing for a new guy to know going to Thailand... Thai hookers know this difference very well. They are working and work for them is to please, be friendly and hopefully find a guy who will be a regular customer. Return business is their best way to avoid fucking hundreds of guys.

juice

[Firedick]

Bigwang,

Stupid ? Then I must be fucking retarded ! I've been engaged here in the states 5 times and managed to dodge the bullet all 5 times ! And yet, I enjoy mongering with girls half my age and weight immensely.

LittleBigMan,

I'm late getting on board here, work. There are a couple Thai Banks with Branches in S.F. and L.A. But as other have said, not the best way to get at your money. ATM's will work in almost city.
DO NOT BUY A CONDO !! Lease.

[TonydaSnake]

I know I'm gonna get shit for mentioning Z and CEO's in the same sentence since some here can't see the forest thru the trees. So let me add that if there were a "self help book" on finding Ho's it wouldn't advise emotional attachment except in maybe one chapter titled DON'T DO THIS. But the book would keep things simple, as does Z and other here.

Who cares about your first girlfriend, your attachment to your first Ho, or losing your virginity?

[TonydaSnake]

Z you are not jaded, this topic of getting emotional about Thai girls is what is jaded. You see Z is dispensing advice based on wisdom, or as much wisdom as is possible when advising many people of different ages and backgrounds, and most of whom one doesn't know!

Whether you are an army drill instructor, CEO of a company or leader of a country you instruct the masses by keeping it simple and addressing the least common denominator (dumbest). In that way everyone can follow your lead.

What is the lead in this case? To find and bang lovely women around the world, as this forum states in its vision statement. There is no need to state here how you formed an emotional attachment to a Thai BG, or made her cum with your prowess as this just strokes your own ego, implying she "likes" you better than the next guy and IMHO adds NOTHING to WSG. It is your absolute right to form these emotiomnal attachments just don't harm the forum with them.

Why do I say "harm" the forum? Because many 1st timers will read this as a desirable outcome of their sexcapades and will compound the little inevitable newbie mistakes with big emotional ones that they are not really prepared to handle...

Really, I feel I have kept my emotions toward the girls I met overseas to myself and that had nothing to do with Z or anybody else. To me it was common sense and wisdom; let WSG be about what orifice was entered, how much was paid, and hopefully her # so others can enjoy and verify your not just blowing smoke!

And If you want to argue that emotional attachments are a valid topic that is fine but don't put this forward as wisdom for newbies to follow.

[OzGuy]

DJ,

I agree with you .... the first time you do anything new or different stays with you with some form of fondness, be it the first time you had sex, to the first thai girl, etc .... but after that .... well ... just another number really.

OzGuy.

[Dick Johnson]

For most of us there's always that first Thai Girl who still means something. Or is that just me? I think not.

-DJ

[BigWang]

juice, z and all you all have good points.

But the fact is we are stupid. Otherwise we would have married the nice girl who loved us and not be whoring around in Bangkok.

[Joe Zop]

More than one bar in LOS with the same name -- I'm stunned an amazed!

1ball -- thanks for the invite, but I'm going to be up in Chiang Mai until at least the 6th, and am trying to nail down my schedule after that in the next few days.

[Mrice]

Originally posted by joe_zopas per the name of a bar I walked by last night -- Up2U.

U weren't in KK were u joe? just opened a bar by that name in oasis plaza.

BTW I can defend myself also, but thanks for chiding duniawala - it probably cooled me down just enough to save me from spraining my typing finger giving him a right good spanking.