2006 Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[Giotto]

Might be of interest here, too.

http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...d.php?p=523462


Giotto

[Lamonger]

I know the feelig, I'll keep it in mind before I proceed.

Thanks for your input. Hope I can make the best of it.

LA

just don't let the little head do the thinking. That's what the big head is for. But, when the blood flows from the big head to the little head the big head doesn't think very well.

[Retired Army]

If I understand it correctly my confusion in certain aspects, is more then normal and fits well with the .

just don't let the little head do the thinking. That's what the big head is for. But, when the blood flows from the big head to the little head the big head doesn't think very well.

[Retired Army]

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Let's face it, the problem is that, 99% of men coming here only encounter BGs, freelancers etc. who's behaviour is not typically Thai anymore. So, they get a completely distorted view of how Thai women are supposed to behave. The hapless monger walking down Suk. slobbering all over his LBFM, who's tarted up in short-shorts, bare-mid-riff, tits hangind out, talking in loud, gutteral Isaan dialect and walking like, well, a hooker is oblivious to the fact that this isn't in the slightest, a representation of Thai womanhood and is in fact a slap in the face of Thai womanhood and Thai culture.

We have been saying this for months, but I am not sure anyone is listening or cares. And that is a shame.

[Old Thai Hand]

your girlfriend is an issan girl after all? i must say that is a bit amusing. one hopes, for your sakes, she is pale enough to meet your exacting standards....

prostitutes are always a 'slap in the face' to 'respectable women', simply because the underlying reality is they undercut the market, selling cheaply what 'nice women' make men pay incredibly dearly for. of course women hate them - that's why they've always been so vehement about whiping out our hobby through police action.

though i must agree with you that one should not walk about in public with one's prostitute, or preferably any woman. when i do have to walk from pickup point to short-time hotel i always make a point of having her walk behind me.

despite my calling a truce, not wishing to engage in fights with you, you still obviously can't stop yourself. you've proven with this post with the same old extremist stance about women, that you like to bait and therefore are nothing but a serial antagonist and troll.

and, oh ya....my gf is as white as the driven snow...lol

you see o****, people like me and retired army and others here prefer to find company among the beautiful and respectable women of thailand. i suggest,you would be better to go back to trolling for katoeys on beach road, buying cheap, forlorn pussy in the brothels in udon, or seeking the desparate and helpless in the child prostitution areas, like k11 in cambodia, where you are obviously more at home.

[Lamonger]

OTH,

Do you have an opinion on my post?

If anyone could have a valid point it would be you.

If you would not mind, give me a piece of your mind.

And don't worry I will read your post objectively.

LA

[Opebo]

Normal Isaan women (not BGs, obviously) are quite traditional. That might explain it, RA. But, my GF comes from Amnat Charoen, near Ubon

Your girlfriend is an Issan girl after all? I must say that is a bit amusing. One hopes, for your sakes, she is pale enough to meet your exacting standards.

and although she's traditional in some ways (i.e. extremely quiet, well-spoken and well-behaved and conservatively dressed in public), she is as I said affectionate in public too. But, she doesn't do it in an overt way; certainly not the gross, over-the-top way you see BGs do it with punters. She's still polite, demure and quite charming when she does it, because she's the product of a good upbringing and still knows how to be a proper Thai lady.

Ugh, sounds like my aunt. And I like short shorts.

Let's face it, the problem is that, 99% of men coming here only encounter BGs, freelancers etc. who's behaviour is not typically Thai anymore. So, they get a completely distorted view of how Thai women are supposed to behave. The hapless monger walking down Suk. slobbering all over his LBFM, who's tarted up in short-shorts, bare-mid-riff, tits hangind out, talking in loud, gutteral Isaan dialect and walking like, well, a hooker is oblivious to the fact that this isn't in the slightest, a representation of Thai womanhood and is in fact a slap in the face of Thai womanhood and Thai culture.

Prostitutes are always a 'slap in the face' to 'respectable women', simply because the underlying reality is they undercut the market, selling cheaply what 'nice women' make men pay incredibly dearly for. Of course women hate them - that's why they've always been so vehement about whiping out our hobby through Police Action.

Though I must agree with you that one should not walk about in public with one's prostitute, or preferably any woman. When I do have to walk from pickup point to short-time hotel I always make a point of having her walk behind me.

[Lamonger]

You have basically said what I was expecting and hoping to hear from you.

And even though you decided to rip on me a little I appreciate it.

You are exactly the kind of a person I was hoping would give me advice.

If I understand it correctly my confusion in certain aspects, is more then normal and fits well with the concept of us understanding Thai women?

In either case, thanks for taking the time to give me your angle.

LA

[QUOTE=Retired Army]Then you really don’t know Thailand, Thai people or Thai culture. I first lived in Thailand in 1973. Have visited almost every year since and have live here for over five years. So this is where my comments are coming from. And I only understand a small portion. The rest I have to leave up to my Thai GF/wife and at times she doesn’t understand or can’t explain why Thai’s do what they do.

[Lamonger]

You know, I respect your post the most of all the answers.

I hope you are wrong, but realize your have much higher chances of being right then I do.

I hope this is your whole post and this is the whole message I was supposed to get.

LA

[QUOTE=Yi Ren]<Can't quite figure out what to cut, so have top-posted>

LA Monger,

Dude, you are like, so clueless. Live with your nice memories - it's not reality. You will thank me, for sure.

Cheers,

Y

[Old Thai Hand]

Seems like we are running about 50/50 here. Might be the age difference or the fact my GF is from Surin not Bangkok.

Normal Isaan women (not BGs, obviously) are quite traditional. That might explain it, RA. But, my GF comes from Amnat Charoen, near Ubon and although she's traditional in some ways (i.e. extremely quiet, well-spoken and well-behaved and conservatively dressed in public), she is as I said affectionate in public too. But, she doesn't do it in an overt way; certainly not the gross, over-the-top way you see BGs do it with punters. She's still polite, demure and quite charming when she does it, because she's the product of a good upbringing and still knows how to be a proper Thai lady.

Let's face it, the problem is that, 99% of men coming here only encounter BGs, freelancers etc. who's behaviour is not typically Thai anymore. So, they get a completely distorted view of how Thai women are supposed to behave. The hapless monger walking down Suk. slobbering all over his LBFM, who's tarted up in short-shorts, bare-mid-riff, tits hangind out, talking in loud, gutteral Isaan dialect and walking like, well, a hooker is oblivious to the fact that this isn't in the slightest, a representation of Thai womanhood and is in fact a slap in the face of Thai womanhood and Thai culture.

[Retired Army]

In my limited experience, there is great vaiability here. I have know BGs that while were almost completly unhibited in private, will express concern over relatively innocuous displays of affection in public.

On the other hand, my Thai GF, who is in her mid-thirtys, and has had NO connection -- past or current -- to the bar trade, has surprised me by her desire to show affection to me in public, even though I have been concious of being conservative myself.

She may well be an exception, but then that means I've met two in less than a year. YMMV.

Cheers,
-Y

Seems like we are running about 50/50 here. Might be the age difference or the fact my GF is from Surin not Bangkok.

[Retired Army]

Hey Retired Army,

Your the best, you rule my friend.

Thank you. I hate to see good hearted guys taken advantage of.

[Petrol Pete]

Hey Retired Army,

Your the best, you rule my friend.

[Seydlitz]

In my limited experience, there is great vaiability here. I have know BGs that while were almost completly unhibited in private, will express concern over relatively innocuous displays of affection in public.

Not just BGs, I'd say. My GF is 25 and she is very conservative in public. She says "we do everything in the bedroom, but nothing in public". To give an idea of the gap, she loves to have sex outdoors in our private swimming pool (admittedly in a very secluded location), but she will not hold my hand at Emporium. Not that I'd really want that (the hand holding I mean).

In fact, she is very affectionate , but in a reserved way. And very distant in public, which suits me well.

[Yi Ren]

Probably because she is so emotionally scared. However, the Thai’s typically don’t express emotions in public.

Even I can’t answer this one. You either know it or you don’t. One of the complaints I have about my GF/Wife is she isn’t very demonstrative when it comes to showing affection. But I have learned that this is typical Thai because parents aren’t good at showing affection to their children. Perhaps OTH can help on this one.

In my limited experience, there is great vaiability here. I have know BGs that while were almost completly unhibited in private, will express concern over relatively innocuous displays of affection in public.

On the other hand, my Thai GF, who is in her mid-thirtys, and has had NO connection -- past or current -- to the bar trade, has surprised me by her desire to show affection to me in public, even though I have been concious of being conservative myself.

She may well be an exception, but then that means I've met two in less than a year. YMMV.

Cheers,
-Y