2007 Medellin Reports

[Malodr]

She is in San Diego show every night. I don't believe I have ever been there when she isn't.

Well I hope I catch up to her in April.

[Malodr]

i'll repeat my recommendation of the hostel odeon just off the parque bolivar at calle 54 49-38 (phone number 513-1404). many people on this site will want to stay in safer areas. this area doesn't bother me as i am young, speak spanish, and have spent considerable time in dangerous areas of many latin american cities. for me, this is the best area to be in since casas, de greiff, food, internet, and the metro are all a few blocks away. the hotel costs 25,000 per night and is very secure. rooms have a stocked fridge, stereo, hot water, cable tv, 2 beds, phone, and no extra cost to have a whole herd of paisas in your room.

included is a photo of 24 year old monica from boston, who i met months ago in el hueco in front of a hotel called noches divinas. i reported on her drug problems at the time, and i regret to inform that they continue. continual slurred speech, sudden losses of concentration, and other factors lead me to conclude that she has already suffered irreparable brain damage. i believe she abuses nose candy and the same glue that the gamines (street children) huff but this is one of the only things she won't reveal to me. check out the photos of her i posted months ago to see how she is deteriorating at such a young age...

i don't think anyone should stay in this area. but if $12 is your budget, then go for it.

[Kdogg21]

I was looking for this one my last trip but couldn't locate her.

She is in San Diego show every night. I don't believe I have ever been there when she isn't.

[Acuerpado]

i'll repeat my recommendation of the hostel odeon just off the parque bolivar at calle 54 49-38 (phone number 513-1404). many people on this site will want to stay in safer areas. this area doesn't bother me as i am young, speak spanish, and have spent considerable time in dangerous areas of many latin american cities. for me, this is the best area to be in since casas, de greiff, food, internet, and the metro are all a few blocks away. the hotel costs 25,000 per night and is very secure. rooms have a stocked fridge, stereo, hot water, cable tv, 2 beds, phone, and no extra cost to have a whole herd of paisas in your room.

included is a photo of 24 year old monica from boston, who i met months ago in el hueco in front of a hotel called noches divinas. i reported on her drug problems at the time, and i regret to inform that they continue. continual slurred speech, sudden losses of concentration, and other factors lead me to conclude that she has already suffered irreparable brain damage. i believe she abuses nose candy and the same glue that the gamines (street children) huff but this is one of the only things she won't reveal to me. check out the photos of her i posted months ago to see how she is deteriorating at such a young age...

[Cornbread88]

Precocious one, I grew up in Illinois so I am a Chicago Bears fan (Cubs fan too) but I will root for the Vikings as long as they aren’t playing the Bears. The Vikings problem is that Childress only has about 6 total plays that he likes to run off that Denny’s menu he carries.

I tend to travel solo on these trips anyway as I very much prefer to do what I want to do when I want to do it but going into a strange city that I didn’t know my way around that does have it’s share of crime along with having a language barrier present made me look for partners-in-crime this time around. I got some great help and advice from Smoothtalker on this trip – little bits of advice that helped a lot. I didn’t really want to venture over to Mayorista by myself – I had no problem sticking to Poblado/Envigado for my first trip into town. I’m sure I did miss out on lots of things this trip – there is always next time.

Slyman, indeed I will know much more Spanish for my next trip to MDE. Truthfully, I’m not sure if I want to spend time approaching non-pros when I go to Medellin but that could change. That’s why I traveled there after all – to take a break from all of the preliminaries, the social foreplay and courtship innuendo that is a prerequisite for even the most casual sexual encounters here in the states and hop in the sack with a really attractive young woman within minutes from the initial meeting. All intentions and ulterior motives are known up front. Variety is the spice of life and the semi-anonymous, no-strings-attached screw is part of that variety (to me anyway).

I know that Latinas are not necessarily doormats but they do expect the man to take command of many important decisions and they actually appreciate and respect you for being decisive. On my trip I always erred on the side of being assertive and confident while at the same time not being too macho/pig-like. Most women I spent time with in MDE seemed comfortable with this.

Confidence is indeed important. Here are some of the rules I go by in the states and I’m sure these can transfer over to MDE a bit. Hope I don’t get into trouble for straying off-topic.

Dealing and knowing how to handle rejection is very important and I imagine it must be important in MDE as well. I’ve noticed that most guys that have an average to less-than-average degree of success with women in the states are those that allow rejection, subjective criticism, and/or being ignored by women to diminish their self-confidence and self-esteem. On the other hand, guys that are fairly successful with women forget about rejection within an hour or less after it happens. They just honestly don't think about it that much or dwell on it.

I ask women a lot of questions and get them to talk about themselves a lot. Everyone loves to talk about themselves anyway.

The main reason many people find the US dating scene tough is because IMO, among young people in the states, 80% of the women are attracted to 20% of the men. IMO, that statistic isn’t a reality as much with people in their mid-30’s and older. Am I part of that 20%? I’m guessing no because in addition to getting plenty of action in the states I’ve been turned down plenty too so I’m shooting par and that’s alright with me. I don’t take rejection personally though as it means she just wasn’t into me – doesn’t make her a bad person because there are plenty of women I wouldn’t be into.

I read about the fellas on here working the non-pros in MDE just walking up and saying Hola to the chica. Being pro-active is important in the states as well in order to meet people because it seems like the only acceptable ways to meet people anymore in the states is through work, through a mutual friend, or through some activity you both happen to be doing around town. The generation who was told to not talk to strangers are now becoming adults and that attitude is carrying over into their adult social life IMO.

I’m fairly certain that a woman knows in the first few minutes of meeting a guy whether or not she’ll want to sleep with him. Knowing that, it doesn’t matter how much you spend on a date or how many slick pick-up lines you have in your arsenal. Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, I think that physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Some women like muscular guys, some women like tall skinny guys, some women like guys with sleeves of tattoos and a lot of women don’t care that much about looks. You just have to be yourself and be comfortable with that and women will appreciate the fact that you aren’t trying to be something you’re not.

Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else. Personally, I've quit looking at relationships as relationships, they're business now. I've taken up the stance that I'm done with the friends zone business. If a woman doesn’t have the time or desire to be romantically involved with me, I don't have time or desire to listen to all their sorted affairs / other guy problems. They can find some other dummy to listen to all that.

The media culture we live in today constantly puts forth the notion that males have to prove themselves to females and that mainly through female validation (either a relationship or sex) are we convinced of our worth. So, the ultimate trick is to not use female approval as a source of validation. It's nice to have, don't get me wrong, but it shouldn't be necessary to derive a sense of self worth for yourself. Don't ever let your identity be defined by what you think women think or by what they actually think. Who or what you are or do is none of their damned business. Many can't make up their minds about what they want. They like what and who they're told to like, and also like it because other women do (aka herd mentality).

Know that a woman's mood has everything to do with how she'll react to a mans approach, and that a woman's mood is affected by many factors including the weather, whether she has eaten anything healthy in the past four days, how her last relationship ended, her job stress, and what she has seen recently on TV. None of these have anything to do with you.

Looking back on all the women I’ve dated, the ones who had serious relationship problems or hang-ups about sex were women who had no relationship with their father growing up. The very orgasmic ones were all "daddy’s girls". You want to see how a woman is going to treat you while you are in a relationship/marriage just look at how her mom treats her dad. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree.

Learn how to hold eye contact for longer than her. If you see a woman that you find attractive, and she looks back at you, don’t look away. Most guys become very self conscious and look away as soon as a woman notices them looking. In MDE, I showed chicas in the malls immediately that I wasn’t at all self conscious about the fact that I was checking them out even if I didn’t end up talking to them. A good exercise is to walk through a mall for a few hours and look directly at every woman you see. Walk into every store, and look directly into the eyes of every single woman you encounter and don’t look away until after she does. At the same time don't open your eyes really wide and smile like a serial killer while you're doing this exercise.

Use slow, calculated movements and gestures. Work on turning your head slowly, how to change facial expressions slowly and how to gesture slowly. This makes a huge impact on how others perceive you. From what little I know about body language this kind of body language transmits the message: "I'm so comfortable in my own skin, it hurts".

EDITOR'S NOTE: I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here for more information.

[Malodr]

Gents,

Can we just agree to get this thread back to the purpose of it? There are other threads that can better suit the recent dialog going on.

I don't think Jackson wants all this bickering but then again I think he stays out of things when he has a personal interest. Otherwise he would have stepped in by now.

Aside from all that has been said already I think all the posters are making valid points but just not in the right threads.

So come on gents, lets at least get this thread Back On Track!

Cheers,

Cubanut

I was looking for this one my last trip but couldn't locate her.

[ElCastillo]

Gents,

Can we just agree to get this thread back to the purpose of it? There are other threads that can better suit the recent dialog going on.

I don't think Jackson wants all this bickering but then again I think he stays out of things when he has a personal interest. Otherwise he would have stepped in by now.

Aside from all that has been said already I think all the posters are making valid points but just not in the right threads.

So come on gents, lets at least get this thread Back On Track!

Cheers,

Cubanut

Hi Guys,

She is a beautiful girl M. One of the most stunning in person. I have heard from multiple guys that she sucks in bed. I really like her, she is very sweet.

[Admin]

Greetings everyone,

I moved all the posts regarding buying property in Colombia to the existing thread titled (guess what?) "Buying Property in Colombia".

http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...ead.php?t=2178

You guys are creating entirely too much work for me. How fucking hard is it to stay on topic? Just read the title of the thread, and if it doesn't match the subject you want to post about, then don't post in that thread.

And while I'm at it, what is it about the Colombia forum seems to breed the largest number of persistent trouble makers in the entire ISG Forum?

You can discuss the phenemon in this thread:

http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...ead.php?t=2764

Thanks,

Jackson

[Cubanut]

Gents,

Can we just agree to get this thread back to the purpose of it? There are other threads that can better suit the recent dialog going on.

I don't think Jackson wants all this bickering but then again I think he stays out of things when he has a personal interest. Otherwise he would have stepped in by now.

Aside from all that has been said already I think all the posters are making valid points but just not in the right threads.

So come on gents, lets at least get this thread Back On Track!

Cheers,

Cubanut

[Escort King]

Felix Navidad too all my fellow mongers.

I hope the new year sees everyone knee deep in pussy.

[Escort King]

I am going back for 8 days this February and I cant wait. This will be my third trip to Medellin and I can't get enough of the place. I plan to hit my favorite casa and literally lay up in the place drinking beers and fucking hoes.
It will be a good time.

I may be up for going along on that trip mate. I have to check my calendar. Have a run to London and Amsterdam in there (conference in London fun In the Big A)

[Precocious One]

Cornbread,

Great post. When you do start going for the non-pro action, I would suggest going solo and eliminating the wingman theory. I am a 40, but look younger due to my ethnicity, and have found to have better luck by cruising solo. I get the impression that you are a fairly confident guy and the latinas are kind of into that. I absolutely love walking into a bar in a third world country solo. Also, it is just kind of gay to chase pussy with a wingman at my age.

By the way, wtf happened to the Vikings last night? They should fire Childress for instilling so much faith in Tarvaris, especially when they could have had Jeff Garcia for nothing. That Tarvaris guy is just terrible.

[BlackSultan]

Great post!! Well put amigo.

I personally like the non-pro / pro combo.
Visit as many pros as i like for the fun, and of course the girlfriend for the love.

Got me yearning for a trip to Medellin :)
Save me a room Senor Castillo ... I enjoy watching you kick chicas out ... hahaha.

I am going back for 8 days this February and I cant wait. This will be my third trip to Medellin and I can't get enough of the place. I plan to hit my favorite casa and literally lay up in the place drinking beers and fucking hoes.
It will be a good time.

[Slyman]

Cornbread88,

Brush up on your spanish, you will find it easier to approach non pros. I personally prefer non pros in Medllin and only use pros when I have nothing else better to do. Very good report. Medellin is becoming the best or the worst kept secret. I will be spending new year's eve there with my non pro girlfriend.

[Infomatic]

Very nice Cornbread88! Thank you!