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09-10-12 09:44 #276
Posts: 9Originally Posted by Roll Buzz [View Original Post]
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09-10-12 02:43 #275
Posts: 264Drill in dating
Agreed, compensated says a lot, but in the long run, it may get a bit. Dull. May question to yah all (seems to fit in this thread.). How would slavic women feel about going together with a friend to (a compensated) date in a strip bar? I don't go there much myself, seem to remember seeing men with girlfriends there (might have been dancers having a break). Think this might be interesting with my (young) girlfriend (s) , as a compensation or alteration for watching porn with her. Has anyone s-g to report?
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09-06-12 10:47 #274
Posts: 2306Originally Posted by Jake993 [View Original Post]
That said, there is IMO a whole stratum of female population in Russia who wouldn't even consider the idea of "compensated dating" (successfull young office professionals, intellectual or arty girls, ect). This is the best target for us (or those of us) who can't compete with Moscow money!
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09-05-12 06:17 #273
Posts: 1337Originally Posted by banaanovich [View Original Post]
he suggests that this practice lies somewhere between prostitution and dating. and imho, he is 100% bang on. these girls in no way consider themselves pros, but in fact it's exactly what they are doing. and on the other side of the equation, i bet that a lot of these guys absolutely hate the idea of visiting a prostitute because of psychological or social issues. they are happy to shell out regular cash to keep a girl (or several girls) "on call" because they can afford it. and let's not forget the married guy whose wife drives him bananas and wants to keep a few girls on the side.
you have to hand it to this guy for writing a paper on the topic. i's love to hear the lecture just for it's comedic value alone.
good catch.
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08-30-12 10:17 #272
Posts: 22The science of dating
dr. chris swader of moscow's national research institute has a scientific take on a topic often discussed here: "the commodification of intimacy? the practice of compensated dating in moscow". he seems to be touring europe with his lecture (abstract here:
http://regconf.hse.ru/uploads/2e60d3...b445507a27.pdf
) , next stop uppsala university in sweden on september 11.
»evidence from online sources, realworld 'speed dating' investigations, and from qualitative interviews describes compensated dating as a hybrid practice with connections to both commercial sex and romantic love, yet distinct from both, « the scholar states. a fair verdict imho.
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05-29-12 09:05 #271
Posts: 2306Costs
Originally Posted by Jojosun [View Original Post]
Had a 23 yo Belarus student at home this weekend, with who I was "relationship building" on internet since almost two year. She is on a Germany, France and Italy bus tour (her first trip in western Europe) and quitted the group to stay two days with me.
Saturday: meeting at 8 pm. Stroll to my favorite bar where we had 4 cocktail each on the terrace (was happy hour) , bill 40 €. Nocturnal romantic stroll to Notre Dame that lasted some two hours. Stop at a nice mexican place where we had three Coronas each + chip, salsa and guacamole, bill 45 €. Long romantic stroll to my home (I live near the Opera). Cost of the night in town: 85 €.
Sunday: wake up at 11am, tea at home, she wasn't hungry. Bus to her hotel (2 € each) so that she can change clothes. From her hotel, long stroll through picturesque areas, at 4 pm stop in a nice typical french brasserie near my home, she wasn't hungry, I had to force her to share with me one plate of frogs and one creme brulée, this with thow bottles of Chardonnais, bill 60 €. Back home for a wild fuck and more wine. At 11 pm, walk to a modest brasilian place with live music and great atmosphere, three beers each and some "casquinho de caranquejo" (crabmeat covered with manioc) , bill 42 €. Walk back home. Cost of the day: 110 €.
Monday (was vacation day here) : wake up at 11 am, cafe plus croissant at a cafe terrace, bill 12 €. Stroll and suntanning at the Louvre Gardens during two hours. Shopping to La Maison du Chocolat (high-end stuff) where I buy her as a gift some chocolate truffes, cost 28 €. Then stop in a cafe, one omelette for two and a bottle of rosé at the terrace, bill 34 €. Taxi to her hotel 10 €. Her bus leaves at 3 pm to Nice and then Italy. Long kiss goodbye. Cost of the day: 85 € (gift included)
Cost of the weekend: around 280 €. She sent an sms from the bus to say that she will be grateful forever for this weekend that was the most wonderful of her life.
As a side note: what great women Russian women are. Beside being honest, emotional, smart, cultured, witty, selfless, fun and great conversationalists, again and again I'm amazed by their liking for no-holds barred sex and their skills at oral. They are definitely the best and most enthousiastic blowers on the planet. It's literally amazing. There must be some special schools in Russia where they learn to suck dicks. She was with my cock like a starving dog in front of a roast chicken. No way to move her away from it, even by force (not that I tried too harshly though).
What a great weekend.
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05-17-12 19:16 #270
Posts: 1454One of those lovely nuances of the Russian language that English lost a long time ago.
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05-17-12 15:34 #269
Posts: 100Yep using the formal 'vashe' after you've had sex with her is sure to annoy her.
Originally Posted by Stravinsky [View Original Post]
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05-17-12 15:21 #268
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Latexian2 [View Original Post]
The girls will press you if you are a foreigner, because foreigners have a way of, well, disappearing. The Russian guys will always be around, somewhere.
Most important is that you have money, or at least look Like you have money. And if she presses you too much about what you do, just say,"это не ваше дело" (it's none of your business). This will either [CodeWord140] her off or increase her curiousity. Either way, it could be fun.
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05-15-12 18:41 #267
Posts: 88Originally Posted by Prosal [View Original Post]
As with most things with women, the more information you give to them the generally worse off you will be. Better to keep her guessing what your salary and general status are. I mean you should be giving the hints an EE woman looks for, like nice clothes, a watch, decent cell phone, knowledge of travel (or even names of cocktails) , things of that nature. But beyond that don't say anything.
In fact in my experience, one of the best answers to "what are you doing in Moscow/Kiev/Minsk?" is neither honesty (we all know that) or lying (saying you have a long-term job there) but rather dodging the question entirely by just saying "dela." She will push you on that but just say you have your own business matters to take care of and that's why you're here. Keep her guessing. Russian men do not discuss their business dealings with women, and the intrigue will work in your favor. Maybe she has a fantasy of being roughed up by an arms dealer. Maybe she wants to find an i-banker type in the jet set. Maybe she wants a man with a stable job who leaves his work at the workplace and just wants to have fun. If you're ambiguous she can pick whichever fantasy she wants.
This is completely different than in the states where in singles bars the first several minutes is usually about your profession/job.
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05-15-12 10:57 #266
Posts: 332Real facebok profile?
Well, you do not have to have a real facebook account. I have one with a fake name, like here, strictly for dating. I am single so I have no wife to worry about, but still, I do not want my family and co-workers knowing about my sex life. I do not post anything (one any of my facebook accounts) but I do keep track of other people and the girls get to size up their competition.
Originally Posted by Explorer69 [View Original Post]
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05-15-12 10:52 #265
Posts: 332That is how women are, not just Russian women
A while back I used to date my boss, who made 1. 3 to 1. 5 times as much as I did. Sometimes we went out for drinks and / or food with co-workers and being the boss, she often volunteered to pick up the bill. No, it was not deductible; it was out of her pocket, anywhere from 100 to 500 USD, and at least once per week. However, when she went out with me, only me, she expected me to pay for her.
On another case I lived with a woman who had 2 houses on her property. Actually, one 3 bedroom house, and a one bedroom apartment with a large garage. She rented the larger house to a family and we moved in for a few months into the smaller house. She actually wanted me to pay rent to her, and she wanted to charge me more than she was charging the family of strangers for the entire large house.
Third example: I was ready to make it permanent with a woman. Staying with her meant I had to work as a trader, which meant I could potentially make far more money than she did, but it would be more variable, and not guaranteed, at least at first. However, she just could not get used to the idea that she would be the one with the regular paycheque, or our steady source of income. Eventually, I had to get a regular job, which meant leaving her.
That was in the good US of A, with women who were well-educated, financially secure and supposedly feminists.
I currently live in eastern Europe now and usually make far more than the women I date. I do not mind paying but I do appreciate it when they at least makes me feel like we are working together. I really appreciate it when a woman quickly digs into her purse for loose change to avoid making me break another large bill. Or when she buys a few small items without asking for money. To me those are the keepers.
Originally Posted by Jake993 [View Original Post]
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05-13-12 10:09 #264
Posts: 2306Originally Posted by Bimbo Boy [View Original Post]
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05-13-12 10:06 #263
Posts: 2306Originally Posted by Bimbo Boy [View Original Post]
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05-11-12 10:40 #262
Posts: 608Originally Posted by Stravinsky [View Original Post]
In my experience, the Russian expects and wants you to pay, not because she thinks about money, but only because she expects you to act as a man.
So the man must pay, but you don't need to go to expensive places.