Tijuana Escort Reports

[Jinxx]

Oh I don't care about 10,15 or even 30 minutes late. I always have work to do. It's when 9 turns to 10 then another long period of silence turns into yet another time. That's the shit show that was Wednesday morning so my response was to blow her off and tell her I couldn't see her that day so no dinero for her which is the only thing chicas understand. She made sure to arrive on time Thursday morning albeit 10 minutes after the agreed upon nine, but like I said, I don't care about that because anything within 30 minutes of the scheduled time is a deviation that I'm willing to accept when dealing with Mexicanas.

OK now I understand what you mean about "conditioning" her. She tried to pull the "I'll show up whenever I feel like it" routine. And you put the brakes on that crap, but gave her another chance to be on time the next day, and luckily it worked out. Smart play on your part. If you give these chicks an inch they'll try to take a mile and that's when everything gets all f*cked up.

[Jinxx]

But you did condition her. You conditioned her not to value your time by waiting around 7 plus hours while still giving her a paid session. Reinforcement goes both ways. By still paying her for a session, you reinforced that she can get away with being offensively late (show up around 10:30 when scheduled for 3:00) and still get paid.

Yea exactly. It just so happened that day I really didn't have anything to do so I could afford to just wait around for her to take forever. But that was actually the last time I ever saw her. She reached out to me a few times after that saying let's hook up. But she was just way too unreliable and I can't afford to be waiting hours upon hours for a puta to show up. Hopefully maybe she learned a lesson and was a bit more punctual with her other clients going forward, but I doubt it. She was the type she saw herself as such a superstar that she didn't care about making me wait. And I was like a puppy dog just thrilled that I was hooking up with such a hot chick. But 7 freaking hours late is just way too much I had to cut her off.

[LuvMexicanas]

Maybe you should just expressly ask her to give you a call if she is more than 10 minutes late so that you can got to the bathroom or park your car or whatever. Sometimes I feel that a Mexican girl tends to not call me that she is late is because she is shy of confrontations. And once I diffuse that thought, they become better with their communication.

Oh I don't care about 10,15 or even 30 minutes late. I always have work to do. It's when 9 turns to 10 then another long period of silence turns into yet another time. That's the shit show that was Wednesday morning so my response was to blow her off and tell her I couldn't see her that day so no dinero for her which is the only thing chicas understand. She made sure to arrive on time Thursday morning albeit 10 minutes after the agreed upon nine, but like I said, I don't care about that because anything within 30 minutes of the scheduled time is a deviation that I'm willing to accept when dealing with Mexicanas.

[Member #4730]

But you did condition her. You conditioned her not to value your time by waiting around 7 plus hours while still giving her a paid session. Reinforcement goes both ways. By still paying her for a session, you reinforced that she can get away with being offensively late (show up around 10:30 when scheduled for 3:00) and still get paid.

Yeah not waiting around too long as they might lose their turn at getting a donation from their monger BF. They could show up and already balls deep with another lady or she could join the fun when they arrive. They should communicate better, but probably getting their lashes, hair extensions, makeup, etc. Right before arriving. I could careless and just want intoxicating "oh shit" passion.

[Jackie888]

Tongue in cheek or not, bottom line she showed up just 10 minutes after nine on Thursday and stayed in constant communication even letting me know she was running 10 minutes late. Contrast that with the shit show that was her the previous day (lots of excuses and meeting time changes). Whether she truly got the message to be on time or don't bother showing up, I'll get a gauge on that when I return in a few weeks. Will she sustain the punctuality when I return? That's anyone's guess but if I was forced to bet my life savings on it, I'd put it on her returning to her Mexicana ways of tardiness. She did seem to enjoy the hotel breakfast so there's that.

Maybe you should just expressly ask her to give you a call if she is more than 10 minutes late so that you can got to the bathroom or park your car or whatever. Sometimes I feel that a Mexican girl tends to not call me that she is late is because she is shy of confrontations. And once I diffuse that thought, they become better with their communication.

[LuvMexicanas]

The chica I was referring to was super super hot but she was absolutely terrible at being on time. I stopped seeing her simply because I can't afford to wait around for 7 freaking hours hoping she's going to actually show up. And jeez it would've cost a lot of money to try to "condition" her. I had no choice but to cut her off. I have enough chicas who are hot, horny, and punctual. Another good tactic is positive reinforcement. When a chica is on time let her know you really appreciate it. You don't have to give her an extra tip, but just let her know that punctuality is important.

But you did condition her. You conditioned her not to value your time by waiting around 7 plus hours while still giving her a paid session. Reinforcement goes both ways. By still paying her for a session, you reinforced that she can get away with being offensively late (show up around 10:30 when scheduled for 3:00) and still get paid.

[Jinxx]

LOL. I think it's a combination of conditioning and respect. I remember a chica who was never on time when we were only fooling around. But when we started to get serious, she was always on time. And another chica who was always late with me for a date, but would run red lights if money was involved.

The chica I was referring to was super super hot but she was absolutely terrible at being on time. I stopped seeing her simply because I can't afford to wait around for 7 freaking hours hoping she's going to actually show up. And jeez it would've cost a lot of money to try to "condition" her. I had no choice but to cut her off. I have enough chicas who are hot, horny, and punctual. Another good tactic is positive reinforcement. When a chica is on time let her know you really appreciate it. You don't have to give her an extra tip, but just let her know that punctuality is important.

[LuvMexicanas]

I should've known. Every time I've tried to "condition" a chica to show up on time it's never even remotely worked out like I wanted it to.

Tongue in cheek or not, bottom line she showed up just 10 minutes after nine on Thursday and stayed in constant communication even letting me know she was running 10 minutes late. Contrast that with the shit show that was her the previous day (lots of excuses and meeting time changes). Whether she truly got the message to be on time or don't bother showing up, I'll get a gauge on that when I return in a few weeks. Will she sustain the punctuality when I return? That's anyone's guess but if I was forced to bet my life savings on it, I'd put it on her returning to her Mexicana ways of tardiness. She did seem to enjoy the hotel breakfast so there's that.

[Member #4730]

Did your wife catch you cheating. How did it go down. I'm always interested in reading stories from mongers that were married.

We both worked and had no kids both making 6 figure salaries along with our businesses. We had kids and then she decided to quit working and stop helping with the businesses and I was burnt out so traveled often solo to "treat" myself. I blew through so much money with no regrets and have a gambling issue as I love BJ. I used to head to Vegas every month and that is why I'm going on "free cruises" as an invite from the cruise lines. We would probably still be together, but she just didn't help with anything besides the kids.

She wanted to live a minimalist lifestyle and wanted me to keep getting rid of my stuff, so I just got tired of it and bought another house and we had to split all assets as CA is community property. No problem for me as I almost took my life in the military and she was there for me during those rough times. I wouldn't be here and wouldn't have made the money we did if it wasn't for her and she is not a materialistic person, but I love stuff (cars, jewelry, watches, etc.). We are still friends and either she is oblivious to my trips or I did a great job on my "leisure and business" trips. I hardly took photos of monger activities so mainly I wanted freedom and sanity. Sucks at times being by yourself as we were together for over 20 years and hanging out with temporary gf in bars isnt exactly emotional connection, but still not getting nagged everyday. She always joked I’d trade her in for a newer model like I do cars.

[Jackie888]

I should've known. Every time I've tried to "condition" a chica to show up on time it's never even remotely worked out like I wanted it to.

I had a chick scheduled for a house call for 3 pm. 3 quickly turned to 4. Then communication went dead until 6 she said she'd be at my place around 7 or 8 she was just waiting on her babysitter. Well she finally shows up at around 10:30 and provides me with mind-blowing sex. This chica for me was one of those "holy shit I can't believe I'm banging a chick this hot and beautiful". So I gave her a lot of leeway.

Moral of the story is brother Jinxx has absolutely no useful advice to offer when it comes to conditioning chicas to improve their punctuality, or lack thereof. Brother Jinxx will overlook and forgive a lot of BS in his quest for mind-blowing sex.

LOL. I think it's a combination of conditioning and respect. I remember a chica who was never on time when we were only fooling around. But when we started to get serious, she was always on time. And another chica who was always late with me for a date, but would run red lights if money was involved.

[TjBrazil]

Sometimes it is cheaper to keep her. I had to split a large real estate, investment, business portfolio. I just couldn't do it anymore and we are still friends. I mongered probably 15 out of the 20 years, but working overseas and military time didn't exactly keep us together in one place. Good for the guys that are able to do it and hope my daughters find some loyal dudes, but definitely hope they never meet someone like me..

Did your wife catch you cheating. How did it go down. I'm always interested in reading stories from mongers that were married.

[Jinxx]

It's tongue and cheek. Just playing on the Pavlov's dog experiment from the intro psych class many of us took to fulfill a gen ed requirement in college. I couldn't run an actual experiment to save my fuckin life.

I should've known. Every time I've tried to "condition" a chica to show up on time it's never even remotely worked out like I wanted it to.

I had a chick scheduled for a house call for 3 pm. 3 quickly turned to 4. Then communication went dead until 6 she said she'd be at my place around 7 or 8 she was just waiting on her babysitter. Well she finally shows up at around 10:30 and provides me with mind-blowing sex. This chica for me was one of those "holy shit I can't believe I'm banging a chick this hot and beautiful". So I gave her a lot of leeway.

Moral of the story is brother Jinxx has absolutely no useful advice to offer when it comes to conditioning chicas to improve their punctuality, or lack thereof. Brother Jinxx will overlook and forgive a lot of BS in his quest for mind-blowing sex.

[Member #4730]

I also get numbers from agency girls I like, but the funny thing is I eventually get bored with them and delete their number. The girls hit the wall so fast the only keepers are the ones that give great bbbjdt. Because of these experiences I don't understand how guys have sex with their wife for 20 years. It's almost grounds for suicide.

Sometimes it is cheaper to keep her. I had to split a large real estate, investment, business portfolio. I just couldn't do it anymore and we are still friends. I mongered probably 15 out of the 20 years, but working overseas and military time didn't exactly keep us together in one place. Good for the guys that are able to do it and hope my daughters find some loyal dudes, but definitely hope they never meet someone like me. 😉.

[Jinxx]

Getting an agency chica's number and hooking up with her on the side is perfectly normal. Just be discreet and don't let her play you for a fool.

I heard a story where a guy got an agency chick to see him on the side and she talked him into "advancing" her $500. He thought he was prepaying for future sessions. She took it as a free gift then when the guy started bugging her she blocked his simp ass. Then guess what he did, he went crying to the agency. Guess what the agency told him, "not my problem my friend".

I heard about another guy who bought a chica an expensive cell phone, the chica blocked his simp ass soon after that and sure enough he went crying to the agency. You already know what the agency told him.

[TjBrazil]

I also get numbers from agency girls I like, but the funny thing is I eventually get bored with them and delete their number. The girls hit the wall so fast the only keepers are the ones that give great bbbjdt. Because of these experiences I don't understand how guys have sex with their wife for 20 years. It's almost grounds for suicide.