Mr Gogo in the Dominican Republic

[GrownMan1]

I would like to thank Mr. Scared ass Gogo the information he gave me even though he didn't want me to go to Colombia. Yes I heard it in your voice Homie even though you respected my decision. I heard the Sigh of relief when I told you, I finally came to the conclusion of canceling my flight. The worst case scenario I saw happening was me going to Colombia, and being targeted because I'm an American would have to stay in room confinement for 14 days. Administer segregation for those of us who been in jail. Confined to my room with no pussy and no weed Hell to the naw! That's like saying she may be 18. Somethings are just not worth the risk. The consequences are too deep. Thank you again Gogo! I guess that's why we've been friends for so long because we know each other's sincerity.
By the way for those of you who probably don’t know what I’m talking about. My flight For Bogotá Columbia was scheduled for tomorrow Monday morning. Today Colombia just announced starting Monday all travelers entering in the country must agree to be isolated for 14 days no exceptions!

[Mr Enternational]

Please share this with anyone you know that is playing or thinking of playing on those Sugar Baby websites. My information is USA-centric.

Man you came with the real. Your info is universal, not USA-centric. Just because it is legal in other places does not mean mfs are not out to scam or rob you the same way.

Unfortunately most guys dicks are so hard that it is taking away the blood that should be flowing to their brains and they will not be as on their toes as you were. That post needs to be pinned to the top of the SA thread.

I don't get mfs robbing people these days. How much cash does the average person even carry? And the cell phones and other electronics can be easily tracked leading police right to you. Plus there are cameras everywhere. I saw an interview of an old mafia guy saying you would have to be an idiot to commit a crime this day and time. Yet everyday they have more and more stories of these idiots on the news.

[Brother P]

If you do get to "retire" here, Brother P, your WhatApp team will get filled up fast. You'll be meeting new ones every day.

Ex pats keep busy just separating the wheat from the chaff. There's no talk of FB, DR1, or DR Cupid here. That stuff is just for infrequent visitors, and can be an unnecessary waste of valuable time and resources.

You'll be your own coach and GM here, and your only problem will be keeping the team happy, when you meet the next star player, and figuring out if she can take you to the playoffs, LOL.

Sounds like a good problem to have! LOL! Looking forward to it!

[Oakie]

Also you move so rapidly that you are rarely in a spot for more than a couple days. Kind of hard to get a connection on such a short trip. If I'm on a weekend visit only I would be stacking numbers also.

Oakie said something that hit me and I agree totally with him. I think it takes about a year to finally break a Dominican down and finally get her on YOUR page. The little bullshit my girl does is cultural so I can give her pass, for now. Oakie is stronger than me though, sending a girl home in the darkness would have made me probably call her right back LOL. I'm weak for pussy like that sometimes.

That's not being weak, MrGG, that's just being human, with a heart!

I could never have done something like that a few years ago. It was hard, but if you are consistent, have been clear and honest about the relationship, they come to accept that. I'm a single older guy and I never lie to her. No need to, so that simplifies things a lot. She carries my phone so I have no secrets from her. She respects that. That's unusual down here.

Here's what's a little different about our relationship, and makes it a rare case. She's bi, and when she's not with me she lets me know what she's up to, and where she is. Her girlfriends are my best buddies, so I'm not worried who she's fucking when she's not with me. That's a biggie!

Other than that, she's a normal domesticated mother putting her kid through school in PP, with a little help from her ex husband.

[SavePros321]

Wuddup Gogo Forum! Long time no chat!

I posted the below in the Seeking Arrangements forum on here on ISG, but it is on delay (I guess posts there have to be approved by the moderators).

Please share this with anyone you know that is playing or thinking of playing on those Sugar Baby websites. My information is USA-centric.

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What do you think are some risks I am not aware of? I am single so I am not worried about them knowing my name, but I am a bit concerned about my car since plates can easily be traced. Don't want strangers showing up at my place. Not cool.

See the attached photo where I got myself into a situation that I had no idea of how to escape.

More on that in just a minute.

I know this is an international site, but most guys forget the distinction. What happens in Europe on SA will not work the same in the US. Prostitution is 100% illegal in the US, and most of the scammers and robbing crews on these SB websites are banking on the fact that you will not go to the authorities should they catch you slipping and set you up. I mean, it's illegal right? How much sympathy would you expect the cops to have for you?

Another thing guys fail to realize about SB websites is that you and the female are diametrically opposed:

-Her goal is to get as much out of you as possible without having to do anything for it. Let alone have sex! Most of them would love for you to Cash App them money without them ever having to meet you in person.

-Your goal is to get sex from her without shelling out a bunch of money on gifts and useless dinner dates just to finally get to bang her. Kinda sounds exactly like regular dating, right?

For the REAL SBs on those websites, they basically want a guy that would be someone they would see being someone they would actually be in a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship with, with the added benefit of this person giving them money. Think the Billionaire character in the 50 Shades of Gray movie who has the three 6's all women want: 6-pack, 6-feet tall, 6-figures.

A fat slob that wants to give her money for her honey? "I'm not a pr0stitut3!

Back to my story.

My main protocol on SA is to never ever agree to meet with any female on SA without FIRST video chatting with her either via FaceTime, Google Hangouts, or Duo because I do not post any photos that show my face (I am also not going to send Snaps via Snapchat back and forth, the conversation has to be in real-time). This cuts down significantly on scammers who are using fake profiles and pretending to be the females in the photos to dupe suckers into sending photos of themselves (yes, there are gangs on those sites profiling "Whales". More on that later).

I only discuss monetary "help" and potential meeting dates / times / locations via video chat, and this has always been fool-proof. Until it isn't.

The broad in the text messaging screenshot attached: We video chat and she seems to be at home alone at the time. Works a normal job and we schedule a time to meet around her work schedule.

(Also key: always try to do these meetings during the early daylight hours, as you will see why in a minute).

We agree to meet at a Starbucks in my area (a very nice part of town).

I get there early and pick a spot in the back of the place near the restrooms. Closer to the meeting time for her to arrive, I look towards the front of the store and there are a handful of young latino males and females pacing out front. They caught my attention so quickly because the looked very much out of place there. One of the younger guys is looking into the store from outside and we lock eyes. They eventually come into the store and go to the counter. The males are paired up with the females and it is made to look like they are all on a date. They sit at a long table not too far from where I was positioned.

I then get a text from the girl I am supposed to be meeting and she says "I'm here". I then reply "I'm inside".

She then texts back the following:

"he said he's inside".

"Wrong person".

"Sorry I didn't mean to send that".

I then freeze the fuck up. "Damn, what's my next move?

100% sure at this point that the Latino crew is with the chick I am supposed to meet (she was a latina). I then get on my cell phone and pretend to be talking to someone. The girl I am meeting finally comes in and walks over to me and sits, looking hella embarrassed by the fact that she's given up the game.

"Who were you talking to?" I say. She replies "I didn't mean to send that. " And that's it. Since again I am certain she is with the young Latino crew, something in my mind tells me to remove this chick from the situation. I immediately get up and say "there's too many people in here. LE't go for a walk" and start to head for the door. She follows promptly behind me.

To shorten this story up a bit, we walk on the strip of this Starbucks and I talk to her as if we are still trying to determine when would be good day and time for her to come over and how much she wanted for it. But I knew I was going to block this scamming h03's number as soon as I could get clear of her. Good thing working in my favor was that she nor they had any idea what I drove there in since I arrived super early (and she was late).

We come back from a bit down the sidewalk of the main street and I stop in front of a BBQ joint that is also on the same strip but a but further down. I tell her "cool, I'll hit you up and we can talk more as we get closer to the date of us meeting. " I give her a hug and then tell her "I'm going to get some lunch!" And then I disappear into the BBQ joint.

Now at this point I am still trying to plot my escape. I had no idea if the Latinos where watching from Starbucks or not. From the restaurant I stand inside and look at my phone like I am waiting on a friend to arrive. I see the scammer girl get into her car and leave, and I keep my eyes on the Starbucks from the restaurant. A little bit later I see the young Latino group all leave out of Starbucks and start to head in the direction of the restaurant. They pause about halfway, linger for a bit, and then go back into the Starbucks. At this point I haul ass to my car, jump in, put it in gear, roll quickly out of the parking lot and blow through the red light.

Just in case I was being tailed, I went out of my way to make wild, sudden turns onto new streets, bust you-turns, and take a much longer route back to my place.

Parting advice for newbs:

Never ever show your face on those SB websites. All of my photos on Seeking Arrangements have my face blurred or blacked out. Some of those SB websites will not let you hide your face; I would not use those sites at all. You are setting yourself up to be robbed once the robbing crews know what "Big Bank Hank" looks like. Remember how escorts used to hide their faces on Backpage or Craigslist? YOU are the prize on the SB sites. You need to do the same.

Also, never ever agree to meet a female in person unless you video chat via FaceTime or Google Hangouts or Duo FIRST. Obviously it does not save you from scammers 100% of the time as I have demonstrated in the above story, but my experience has been that it filters out a lot of chaff. Any chick that runs away when you tell them to video chat with you first is 100% a scam chick or not the chick in the photos.

If they ask me to send a photo, I tell them VIDEO CHAT ONLY. DO NOT send a photo of yourself! I would say at least 85% of the younger female profiles who are less than 25 yrs old are probably Pookie's or Paco's trying to see if you are stupid enough to give away as much personal details about yourself as possible in order for them to figure out where you live and what you drive.

And don't be so much of a chump that you would send money to a chick you've never met in person! I have had females on SA tell me that they need to be compensated to talk to me via video chat or for meeting me in person. If a chick tells you she needs to be compensated for meeting you or talking with you via video chat to determine if the two of you could potentially help one another out, tell that h0 e to get lost!

Hope someone out there gets value from this post and use it to avoid getting got.

[Mr Gogo]

That method does not work for me because I am rarely trying to fuck the same paid chicks day in and day out. Unless I could do like Mani and this whatsapp team was sending me new chicks, then maybe that would work. Plus a lot of times for me it is not about having a hole to stick my dick into, but it is the hunting for the hole.

Also you move so rapidly that you are rarely in a spot for more than a couple days. Kind of hard to get a connection on such a short trip. If I'm on a weekend visit only I would be stacking numbers also.

Oakie said something that hit me and I agree totally with him. I think it takes about a year to finally break a Dominican down and finally get her on YOUR page. The little bullshit my girl does is cultural so I can give her pass, for now. Oakie is stronger than me though, sending a girl home in the darkness would have made me probably call her right back LOL. I'm weak for pussy like that sometimes.

[Oakie]

I think building a WhatsApp team was one of the best moves I've made. Well worth the time and the effort. I don't k ow how much they actually care for me, nor do I I really care. Their good company, the sex is awesome, and they've never given me any drama. Everyone is happy and the sex seems to be getting better. I have a prospect that might make a good addition, we shall see. By the time I retire and move there in a few years I should be gold! LOL.

If you do get to "retire" here, Brother P, your WhatApp team will get filled up fast. You'll be meeting new ones every day.

Ex pats keep busy just separating the wheat from the chaff. There's no talk of FB, DR1, or DR Cupid here. That stuff is just for infrequent visitors, and can be an unnecessary waste of valuable time and resources.

You'll be your own coach and GM here, and your only problem will be keeping the team happy, when you meet the next star player, and figuring out if she can take you to the playoffs, LOL.

[Mr Enternational]

I think building a WhatsApp team was one of the best moves I've made. Well worth the time and the effort. I don't k ow how much they actually care for me, nor do I I really care.

That method does not work for me because I am rarely trying to fuck the same paid chicks day in and day out. Unless I could do like Mani and this whatsapp team was sending me new chicks, then maybe that would work. Plus a lot of times for me it is not about having a hole to stick my dick into, but it is the hunting for the hole.

[Brother P]

You can have all the BBBJ you want, you can have condoms that are almost like natural feeling, you can have SW that let you bare back them.

The bottom line is nothing compares with natural sexo with a girl who you know is clean, and has real feelings for you.

All my dealings with women around the world, and I still want the one who I know is clean.

I feel you Mr. Slick.

I think building a WhatsApp team was one of the best moves I've made. Well worth the time and the effort. I don't k ow how much they actually care for me, nor do I I really care. Their good company, the sex is awesome, and they've never given me any drama. Everyone is happy and the sex seems to be getting better. I have a prospect that might make a good addition, we shall see. By the time I retire and move there in a few years I should be gold! LOL.

[Oakie]

I ask myself that every time "my girl" pisses me off. I like having the go-to-girl. That one that stands out from the rest by fulfilling all your fantasies and acting loyal. I like date night with a special girl. I like BB sex without worries. My girl will be there if I'm in jail or the hospital. She cooks and cleans in my apartment like its hers.

But she has to not over step her bounds. I'm fair and generous but I also want time for me. Not looking for a wife, but a companion that acts like her life is about me.

Now if you have a rotation every week of five girls, condoms will probably come into play. They will probably look at it as a business transaction only. And you have 5 different personalities to deal with LOL.

My current setup is perfect. My main girl, two headmonsters, and two or 3 new possibilities. Between my girl and my headmonsters I'm very satisfied, so I'm not really pressed when the new girls over play their hands.

Coolie's right!

You either train them or they'll train you.

I was lucky, I had a 7 year regular to practice on, so was prepared for my current 4 year regular.

She was always attentive to my needs and we got along OK, but there were a few things that had to be straightened out. Little things like examining my quenta, and arguing with the server about the bill!

The biggie was her showing up at my place from PP, unannounced, bearing gifts. In that first year, twice I kicked her out. Once I had the security March her to the gate in the middle of the night! She literally gives me everything she has to give, including her place in PP, her family campo, and even her two hot GFs, so that was really hard to do, seeing her go off into the night!

I also got her down to now coming in for 2 or 3 days at a time, leaving me some time for hanging out with buddies, or just chilling. That took a year or so, and now it's routine. We each have a life outside each other. But truthfully we are always happy to see each other!

I was recently in the local emergency hospital with a painful plumbing problem. They are used to scraping moto drivers off the street, so there was no "bedside manner" from the attendants. It was torture, LOL.

She showed up an hour after I checked in, took over with the doctors, and stayed with me for the whole 3 days, slept in my bed even. She got me out of there when they wanted to operate, and demanded my xrays, scans and records, and told them any operation would be done in Canada.

Got me home, took care of the prescriptions, laundry, diet, and nursed me back to health! Now I'm feeling great!

I never saw a woman care so much, and I was married twice!

I always say, you know who your friends are when you have a abscess on your ass, and she takes care of that too!

I actually feel lucky we found each other, because we never run out of things to talk about!

When my buddies complement me on how good she is to me, I always caution them. "so far"! LOL.

[John Gault]

Easy to say until she lets you hit it raw!

You can have all the BBBJ you want, you can have condoms that are almost like natural feeling, you can have SW that let you bare back them.

The bottom line is nothing compares with natural sexo with a girl who you know is clean, and has real feelings for you.

All my dealings with women around the world, and I still want the one who I know is clean.

I feel you Mr. Slick.

[Mr Enternational]

Mr. Gogo you know what it is. Thats your house, so you run the show. At ALL times.

Easy to say until she lets you hit it raw!

[Coolie High]

I buy some grilled chicken from the food truck and eat half. I put the rest in the fridge. My girl takes it out the fridge and says we don't use the fridge like that. I explained my points to her about bacteria and put it back in the fridge. Next morning my chicken was back out and had been sitting out all night. You will adjust culturally but they won't.

I buy a bottle of water, a coke, and a strawberry soda and ask my lady if she wants anything while we are at the colmado. She wants nothing. Then I wake up in the middle of the night wanting to wet my whistle and just starred at the fridge in disbelief. This girl had opened all three bottles and took a swig from each. I explained it was mine, and she shouldve asked but she just didn't understand. Whats mine is hers is her opinion.

Mr. Gogo you know what it is. Thats your house, so you run the show. At ALL times. You give them an inch and they'll go for a mile. And It sounds like your main girl is doing alot of little quirky shit for NO reason that's going to eventually severly piss you off. So next time she takes your food out the fridge after you told her not too or open all 3 bottles and take a swig out of all 3 (seriously who the fuck does that) you kick her ass out quick fast and in hurry. And then you call up your 2nd hunny and tell her to bring a Coke and a smile, a bottle water and your strawberry soda LOL. Her ass is getting way to comfortable with you and needs to be reminded that she too can be replace.

Politics, religion, race and world events are not even brought up to save them from saying stupid shit. My ex is a dark skinned Dominicana that will cut you if you say she is black.......

Now see this pisses me off. If I was with your ex I smack fire out of her and give her a real reason to cut me. Seriously I'm sick and tired of seeing black and brown NOT loving themselves and their skin tones. Its 2020. A NEW decade. Damn near the Jetsons out here with dudes flying jetpacks in Dubai but here we are in this day and age still dealing with folks that self hate their on skin tone. From the Caribbean all the way to India where you see beautiful dark skin, long hair beauties not loving themselves has severly pissed me off. I don't care what culture she's from that type of self hate has got to end. And itll only end by calling that bullshit out. So each one teach one. And I've would've done the Ike and Anna Mae "eat the cake" moment by forcing her ass to watch ALL the past beauty pageants from last year and see how every last pageant that won was black.

Hell even here in the states we still dealing with the last residue of it but anyone that's around me especially my woman better get with that "negro and moreno es bonita" vibes real quick OR get the fuck away from me expeditiously. I respect the culture but I will NEVER respect self hate and will call it out every time.

[Mr Gogo]

Could not but laugh at all the idiosyncrasies described by you. Question: Why do you need "my girl" when there is a boatload around that can perhaps even be put on a weekly rote?

I ask myself that every time "my girl" pisses me off. I like having the go-to-girl. That one that stands out from the rest by fulfilling all your fantasies and acting loyal. I like date night with a special girl. I like BB sex without worries. My girl will be there if I'm in jail or the hospital. She cooks and cleans in my apartment like its hers.

But she has to not over step her bounds. I'm fair and generous but I also want time for me. Not looking for a wife, but a companion that acts like her life is about me.

Now if you have a rotation every week of five girls, condoms will probably come into play. They will probably look at it as a business transaction only. And you have 5 different personalities to deal with LOL.

My current setup is perfect. My main girl, two headmonsters, and two or 3 new possibilities. Between my girl and my headmonsters I'm very satisfied, so I'm not really pressed when the new girls over play their hands.

[Tempoecorto]

I've learned to not discuss certain topics with Dominicans. My girl swears there is no carona virus and that it will never touch the DR. Politics, religion, race and world events are not even brought up to save them from saying stupid shit. My ex is a dark skinned Dominicana that will cut you if you say she is black.

Could not but laugh at all the idiosyncrasies described by you. Question: Why do you need "my girl" when there is a boatload around that can perhaps even be put on a weekly rote?