General Reports

[Goferring]

Duly noted. Still learning as I go, hoping to enjoy Cebu as much as I've been fantasizing about these past few days.

1. Never send money.

2. Only give money after meeting.

3. Have a back up plan.

4. What looks pretty in pictures may not be true in person.

5. Compatibility is a must to keep the girl with you.

6. Expect many many late / no shows.

7. Don't plan your day around, or wait for, a girl to arrive (see 6 above). Give her a time to meet and a number to call you when she arrives. Then get on with your day. If she is late you haven't wasted time sitting in a cafe waiting for her.

7. Expect 2/10 drop in hotness vs online photos. Video chats are a must before meeting.

8. Don't be afraid to ask if she is a real girl.

9. If everything looks too good to be true then it probably is.

10. Expect to pay some newbie / skin tax. It's part of the learning process. Don't take it personally, it happens to everyone.

11. Don't take anything seriously. Have fun.

12. Don't fall in love.

[Sam Ayaka]

1. Never send money.

2. Only give money after meeting.

3. Have a back up plan.

4. What looks pretty in pictures may not be true in person.

5. Compatibility is a must to keep the girl with you.

Duly noted. Still learning as I go, hoping to enjoy Cebu as much as I've been fantasizing about these past few days.

[Sammon]

First time traveler to PH, and decided on Cebu based on friends who are traveling with me here and who will leave after two days to Malaysia. As my holiday isn't as long as theirs, I decided to stay my entire holiday in Cebu. All my hotels booked based on some reading from the Hotels forum. As this is my first time mongering abroad (There is the caveat of my time in Chiang Mai and Bangkok Thailand but it was pretty lackluster), I have read up on the numerous reports here on this forum and tried to base my hotel stays around the more popular areas (I. E. , Osmena, IT Park, Ayala etc.).

Given this is a first for me, I have made many "rookie mistakes" that I definitely learned from. Here's a few of such. Downloaded Pina Love and tried to gather up some girls who are willing to accommodate. Messaged one who seemed rather friendly and nice. We chatted for a few days and then "can you please help; I will do anything. Please send for load and food". She was quite the looker so I asked if she could send some pictures or videos. She did and asked for "help". I asked how much, and she replied 5000 pesos. Uh, wtf. I said no, she then kept lowering and lowering. I agreed to send 500 p she was rather happy and sent me some more enticing videos and promised to take good care of me when we met. Yes, I know mistake on my part but definitely learned quick. Fast forward a few weeks and received a message asking for help again. I told her straight up, no. She said it's okay don't worry sent me a few more pictures. Another few weeks pass by, this time with a new reason / excuse she needs help. "Please anything will help, my phone is in the pawn shop and I need help getting it back". Not entirely sure how she would've been messaging me without her phone, perhaps using a friends phone or what not. I ignored this message for a few days and received a message from a number I didn't save. "Hey it's me, are you still interested? I messaged her primary number she asked for help once again. I said "No, not until we meet". Radio silence since then, although it doesn't appear she has been online in WhatsApp. I'll probably send a message upon arrival, as she was quite the looker but obviously will not oblige to ridiculous amounts for "help".

Aside from this one girl, I do have many assured girls strictly looking for "fun". So, hopefully these girls will accommodate my stay. Of the few on this list there was one that had a seemingly odd request. We messaged a week ago and we agreed on prices and such so seemingly a sure deal. She messages me the day after, "can you do me a favor?" My eyes start rolling as I expected a "please help, anything will do" text but she asks "can you see me first before your other girls?" I ask why, she just replies please again. I say sure as she is a really young beauty. But I'll probably indulge in others before her. Anything I should be wary of for this one girl and her request? Seemingly innocent but I'm not entirely sure.

Ultimately, I'm looking forward to my time in Cebu city and will indulge to my hearts content (hopefully). As such, will do my best to report back here. I plan on purchasing a subscription here in the coming days as I'the like to exchange information with fellow board members and perhaps meet a few of you fellas out here for beers or what not.

-S.

1. Never send money.

2. Only give money after meeting.

3. Have a back up plan.

4. What looks pretty in pictures may not be true in person.

5. Compatibility is a must to keep the girl with you.

[Sam Ayaka]

First time traveler to PH, and decided on Cebu based on friends who are traveling with me here and who will leave after two days to Malaysia. As my holiday isn't as long as theirs, I decided to stay my entire holiday in Cebu. All my hotels booked based on some reading from the Hotels forum. As this is my first time mongering abroad (There is the caveat of my time in Chiang Mai and Bangkok Thailand but it was pretty lackluster), I have read up on the numerous reports here on this forum and tried to base my hotel stays around the more popular areas (I. E. , Osmena, IT Park, Ayala etc.).

Given this is a first for me, I have made many "rookie mistakes" that I definitely learned from. Here's a few of such. Downloaded Pina Love and tried to gather up some girls who are willing to accommodate. Messaged one who seemed rather friendly and nice. We chatted for a few days and then "can you please help; I will do anything. Please send for load and food". She was quite the looker so I asked if she could send some pictures or videos. She did and asked for "help". I asked how much, and she replied 5000 pesos. Uh, wtf. I said no, she then kept lowering and lowering. I agreed to send 500 p she was rather happy and sent me some more enticing videos and promised to take good care of me when we met. Yes, I know mistake on my part but definitely learned quick. Fast forward a few weeks and received a message asking for help again. I told her straight up, no. She said it's okay don't worry sent me a few more pictures. Another few weeks pass by, this time with a new reason / excuse she needs help. "Please anything will help, my phone is in the pawn shop and I need help getting it back". Not entirely sure how she would've been messaging me without her phone, perhaps using a friends phone or what not. I ignored this message for a few days and received a message from a number I didn't save. "Hey it's me, are you still interested? I messaged her primary number she asked for help once again. I said "No, not until we meet". Radio silence since then, although it doesn't appear she has been online in WhatsApp. I'll probably send a message upon arrival, as she was quite the looker but obviously will not oblige to ridiculous amounts for "help".

Aside from this one girl, I do have many assured girls strictly looking for "fun". So, hopefully these girls will accommodate my stay. Of the few on this list there was one that had a seemingly odd request. We messaged a week ago and we agreed on prices and such so seemingly a sure deal. She messages me the day after, "can you do me a favor?" My eyes start rolling as I expected a "please help, anything will do" text but she asks "can you see me first before your other girls?" I ask why, she just replies please again. I say sure as she is a really young beauty. But I'll probably indulge in others before her. Anything I should be wary of for this one girl and her request? Seemingly innocent but I'm not entirely sure.

Ultimately, I'm looking forward to my time in Cebu city and will indulge to my hearts content (hopefully). As such, will do my best to report back here. I plan on purchasing a subscription here in the coming days as I'the like to exchange information with fellow board members and perhaps meet a few of you fellas out here for beers or what not.

-S.

[Mdemde]

Yesterday afternoon, some pics below.

TRIGGER WARNING
VIEW PICS WITH CAUTION, CONTAINS MALE NUDITY, MAY BE UPSETTING AND/OR DISTRESSING AND/OR EMOTIONALLY CHALLENGING FOR SOME INDIVIDUALS. :-p

[Mdemde]

Yesterday afternoon with one of my regulars.

[Goferring]

. Here and now is the rule.....I thought I would get two really pretty I chatted on cam but once I landed their demand and requirements I could not deal with....

That's why I only message when I'm in town. Does she want to meet today, yes / no? No time for dying uncle's or the general run around. It's also an unspoken given why an old married guy wants to meet a 20 yo student now, today.

It doesn't stop the bus fare con but that's easy and quick to weed out and move on.

Enjoy. G.

[Amadeuss]

*When you say that you pick them up from Southern terminals, do you physically drive down there or just send cash for tickets? Given the very high no show rates I very very rarely stray from girls come to me and we meet in the condo or nearby coffee shop etc. I can imagine a lot of trips to bus stations, only to arrive and no one is there. Half a day lost for nothing.

From my hotel near Osmena Circle the terminal is just 10 min taxi away. And for sure she must send me pictures or even better a WhatsApp location (more girls now use WhatsApp then before) that she is now in the bus. Bullshit like " I am on the way" is useless.

At the exit there is a DonkinDonught shop, perfect to sit down and watch the passengers leaving the terminal. Easy spot to meet and all the girls feel pampered that someone is picking her up at the terminal.

[Sammon]

Mdemde is living there. Consequently he has plenty of options to pick and choose and experiment. For a one week warrior like me or anybody else timely manner is essential. Cannot deal with bullshit. Here and now is the rule. Although I have been successful in getting girls to stay with me this visit I did not find horny knock dead gorgeous girl. I had better luck in Manila. Every trip is different. I thought I would get two really pretty I chatted on cam but once I landed their demand and requirements I could not deal with.

As for those girls living outside Cebu City it is a logistics issue. Most say they do not have money for transportation and I do not send money. I got burned before when I did send money but never more than 500 pesos. Some girls will make an effort with promise of 2500 pesos for one night which is big for them. As for their family objecting if there is a will there is a way.

As for age I target only 18-23 or 25 . Why? There is a thing like age hardened if you go for older girls. All girls I had are simple and no kids. They all had jobs and consequently they do not care for breakfast in the hotel. Even when I took them they are not used to big breakfast. They just eat little Philippine food. Besides it feels good to lay beside a young hard body.

Unless if it is a regular repeat GF do not take any gifts. Money is the King. They exactly know how to get things they need cheaply. Most often they buy used phones, clothes etc cheap. One girl texted me saying her mother really liked the apples she bought with my money. It warms your heart.

There are students living in Cebu city in dormitories but they have restrictions. They could only come during daytime only which I do not like.

[Goferring]

Agree with your approach. And your failures and silly demands. To score will work well if you are a long term resident. But much more challenging if you are a one week visitor.

On your take on locations, I experience its easier to get girls from the south. Talisay, CarCar. To pick them up at southern bus terminal, than girls from Lapu Lapu or the north..

I'd agree that it's a numbers game but remember that's both ways. A cute girl will receive '00's or even '000's of messages that will likely just be time waters. We (guys in town, wanting to meet now for sex) need a process to rapidly sort the dead wood and also remain front of mind for suitable girls.

My rapid sort questions are a combination of:

Will she give me her WhatsApp number straight away? If she won't she's very unlikely to meet for sex.

Same for will she send me photos and video chat.

Is she living in the nominated town now. Not Cebu Province, Cebu City. Not she moved away for work last month.

Is she meeting guys for fun or only chat mates for cash, marriage and kids etc. As mentioned elsewhere, what she says in her profile is meaningless. That's just for friends and family.

Any technicalities around meeting after work, days of classes, family commitments etc.

Personally, I'm happy for first dates, meet with friends etc as 90% of these usually end up back at the room anyway.

I'm pretty polite and respectful when asking these questions as there is no need to scare shy girls away. However, I don't waste time with girls that aren't going to deliver.

P.S. A good way to sort prospects and scare off scammers and shy girls is to say that I am here, now, and want to meet. Not just chat forever. That's very attractive to girls who are ready to go but a waste of time for shy girls or the scammers etc.

*When you say that you pick them up from Southern terminals, do you physically drive down there or just send cash for tickets? Given the very high no show rates I very very rarely stray from girls come to me and we meet in the condo or nearby coffee shop etc. I can imagine a lot of trips to bus stations, only to arrive and no one is there. Half a day lost for nothing.

Enjoy. G.

[Amadeuss]

It's a numbers game, the more messages you send out the more you will get in the way of replies! I use pinalove, dateinasia and tinder.

I get many messages from women in their 30's, 40's and 50's, even some in their 60's, but I do not bother to reply to them. My target is 18 and 19 year old girls, but the majority of messages I send out to these girls never get a reply. Of those that do reply, more than half stop responding after a few exchanges.

If a girl replies to me I always tell her that I live in Cebu City then ask her where she lives. I am looking to meet up with girls who live in or close to Cebu City, if she lives too far away I drop the conversation as I don't want to waste their time or waste my time.

After a few brief messages I normally send them a brief "I want to meet you" message and wait for a response. If they are interested then I invite them over to facebook or whatsapp and continue on there.

I have tried many different approaches, normally I will tell the girl that I am looking for 'fun', and if she is agreeable then the next step is to arrange a day/time/place to meet. In most cases, we agree a price before we meet.

Agree with your approach. And your failures and silly demands. To score will work well if you are a long term resident. But much more challenging if you are a one week visitor.

On your take on locations, I experience its easier to get girls from the south. Talisay, CarCar. To pick them up at southern bus terminal, than girls from Lapu Lapu or the north.

On the age, easier to get a horny 35 year old then a handphone-stitched 19 year old.

Its anyway a lot of homework.

[Mdemde]

Just out of interest: how many hit and miss you got on Pinalove?

I experience many of the girls only want a sugardaddy from internet (send me load, send me fare), but hesitate to meet in real. Or, the other group, come to their house and talk to their parents.

Newbie here.

I am also interested, since it seems that most of the girls are either looking for genuine serious relationships, or camgirls.

I would be interested to know your "strategies" on pinalove hehe.

It's a numbers game, the more messages you send out the more you will get in the way of replies! I use pinalove, dateinasia and tinder.

I get many messages from women in their 30's, 40's and 50's, even some in their 60's, but I do not bother to reply to them. My target is 18 and 19 year old girls, but the majority of messages I send out to these girls never get a reply. Of those that do reply, more than half stop responding after a few exchanges.

If a girl replies to me I always tell her that I live in Cebu City then ask her where she lives. I am looking to meet up with girls who live in or close to Cebu City, if she lives too far away I drop the conversation as I don't want to waste their time or waste my time.

After a few brief messages I normally send them a brief "I want to meet you" message and wait for a response. If they are interested then I invite them over to facebook or whatsapp and continue on there.

I have tried many different approaches, normally I will tell the girl that I am looking for 'fun', and if she is agreeable then the next step is to arrange a day/time/place to meet. In most cases, we agree a price before we meet.

Sometimes I make no mention that I am looking for fun, and will just arrange to meet them and go for a meal and see what happens.

I have also been offered camgirl shows but always turn them down, I am only looking to meet up with girls for sex.

On some profiles the girls say that they are looking for a husband or long-term relationship, but this doesn't stop me from sending them a message and I have actually met and gone to bed with quite a few of them. I have never told them that I am looking for anything long-term.

More than a few of the girls I chat with ask for a load or for money to help with hospital bills/food etc, I always politely decline and tell them that we need to meet first.

Like many posters here, I have had many no-shows, as well as late arrivals, but it's all part of the game and no point in getting annoyed or worked-up about it.

The girl in the creampie pics I posted 2 days ago here gave her age on her profile as 24 which is outside my target age, but she looked very pretty in the pics on her profile so I sent her a message and ended up meeting her. She let her real age slip when we met, she is actually 27!

[MrJones87]

Just out of interest: how many hit and miss you got on Pinalove?

I experience many of the girls only want a sugardaddy from internet (send me load, send me fare), but hesitate to meet in real. Or, the other group, come to their house and talk to their parents.

Newbie here.

I am also interested, since it seems that most of the girls are either looking for genuine serious relationships, or camgirls.

I would be interested to know your "strategies" on pinalove hehe.

[Amadeuss]

Via pinalove. Yesterday was the first time I met her. She wanted 3k for an overnight till 6am, I only wanted S/T and did my best to bring her down to 1k but she would not move down from 2k which is what we eventually agreed on, plus fare. IMHO not worth 2k, if I did decide to meet her again it would only be for a max of 1k.

Just out of interest: how many hit and miss you got on Pinalove?

I experience many of the girls only want a sugardaddy from internet (send me load, send me fare), but hesitate to meet in real. Or, the other group, come to their house and talk to their parents.

[Mdemde]

Via pinalove. Yesterday was the first time I met her. She wanted 3k for an overnight till 6am, I only wanted S/T and did my best to bring her down to 1k but she would not move down from 2k which is what we eventually agreed on, plus fare. IMHO not worth 2k, if I did decide to meet her again it would only be for a max of 1k.