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02-19-19 19:22 #13150
Posts: 1280Mongering and reality
It's worth pointing out the importance of periodically stepping outside of the mongering and internet worlds. Staying only in these worlds seem to be pretty limiting to personality growth. The constant unearned "yes" heard from working girls inevitably warps one's reality of self. A little confidence is great but losing the reality check from real women creates a delusion of grandeur. Worse, when one is rejected from a WG, it may send one down a path of constructed realities.
Even if staying away from extended mongering trips, mongering abstinence at home also helps keep one grounded in reality and social interactions. Living isolated lives in Norwegian fishing villages, Japanese Manboos, or car camping in Audi wagons while mongering cannot be good for psychiatric health. In addition to removing the impetus for improving social skills, these isolated realities may even distract one from progressing up one's career to make more income or inhibit motivation for keeping up with health and physical appearance. Mongers who are in particular danger are childless men who have no true relationships to keep them grounded.
Obtaining a real date with a normal girl, even if she is 30 years old and 5 pounds overweight, can help to keep one in tune with reality. A normal holiday, seeing something new, allows one to experience reality and enrich one's existence. Some volunteer work or mission trips may even connect one to people in need, giving you a deeper purpose. Living in front of a computer screen at work only to return to a screen at home with intermittent visits to prostitutes is hardly a healthy existence. It would inevitably lead to the construction of false realities of the real world. I've witnessed these delusions first hand with some mongers. But I have faith that deep down there is a loneliness, a yearning for real human interaction. That loneliness that I sense is actually a glimmer of hope that there is some humanity left in the socially isolated monger.
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02-19-19 18:18 #13149
Posts: 970Originally Posted by Pistons [View Original Post]
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02-19-19 18:09 #13148
Posts: 1280Originally Posted by Pistons [View Original Post]
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02-19-19 17:43 #13147
Posts: 1361Threesomes (Dreier)
I have had, I think, a fairly high number of threesomes with various girls in a number of FKKs all over Germany (and one in Globe so far!) as well as one in Peru (non professionals). What are your favourite threesomes? My first ever 3 some was with Emel and a German girl at Palace. My last one was at Globe with Carmen and Bella. The most unexpected was with 2 girls in Peru (non pros); the most disappointing one was in Artemis last time I went there! I'm still not sure if a threesome is better than taking each of the girls separately but it is a male fantasy that never grows stale! The best ever was at Atmos when one of the girls licked my ass while her friend blew me!
It can be a good way of experiencing two girls quickly if one has a long list of targets. I want to try 3 girls next. That would be awesome.
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02-19-19 14:00 #13146
Posts: 6686Originally Posted by Takedown [View Original Post]
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02-19-19 04:54 #13145
Posts: 970Originally Posted by Pistons [View Original Post]
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02-18-19 22:28 #13144
Posts: 1280Originally Posted by McAdonis [View Original Post]
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02-18-19 21:33 #13143
Posts: 78Gentlemen,
The purpose of this Forum is to provide for the exchange of information between Men on the subject of finding Women for Sex. The ladies probably have their Forum to discuss men.
Let's get back to the subject.
Thank You,
Jackson
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02-18-19 18:47 #13142
Posts: 6686Originally Posted by CaneUppHosAss [View Original Post]
The moral is that when normal people start believing in growth, the next bust is very near! I believe thus we are approaching that point very rapidly now. But perhaps not going to see the big burst before in the 2nd half of the year.
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02-18-19 18:44 #13141
Posts: 6686Originally Posted by CaneUppHosAss [View Original Post]
100% sure. Unless FED reverts their stance, and actually reduces interest rates before June, and rises them as foretold, I am willing to bet anyone here 500 euro that we will see a financial crisis in 2019. Be it in China, US or Europe. Most likely starting in China before spreading fast like a house of cards.
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02-18-19 17:50 #13140
Posts: 2073Originally Posted by Takedown [View Original Post]
Number of true sociopaths in general population are between 1-3 percent. I suspect that percentage might be slightly higher with con-artists, but short answer to your question is that I believe most WGs who push the illusion too far to maximize their own financial gain fall under categories two and three above. That said not all WGs want to be con-artists, or they set their own limits. When the self-deception no longer assuages their guilt, they may sever the relationship with the lovesick monger. This allows them to say "I hustled him, but at least I did not financially cripple him, so I am still a moral person". This is no different than say a robber who breaks into homes, steals all the electronics and jewerlry, but leaves the kid's video game system and family dog.
Regarding neutralization techniques, it was coined back in the 1950's. Most people have a concept of an "ideal self" that generally is influenced by societal norms. When any behavior deviates from this ideal self, self-deception kicks in to assuage one's guilt. Let's take soldiers for instance. Most people believe the act of killing another human is morally wrong (unless one is a sociopath / psychopath of course). But if one can be convinced that they did it for their religion, for their country, or for their family, this "barbaric" act becomes easier. As I mentioned before, finding ways to dehumanize the enemy also lowers inhibition. https://www.voa.org/moral-injury https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Techni...neutralization.
Regarding unconventional sense of morality: this idea pertains to the Sub-Cultural Theory which attempts to explain why certain segments of society (I. E poor people) commit more crimes. Subcultures invert the values of mainstream society. Street-fights, robbery, and grafitti in poorer communities are considered praiseworthy. For a street kid say in Brazil or Colombia, these acts confer status from their peer group. These poor people often feel the system is stacked against them, and legitimate avenues to "success" are not available to them, and thus robbing a fat-white tourist from a foreign country is permissible. Success is defined differently, as is morality. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subcultural_theory.
The direct person-to-person deception of another individual can involve utter ruthlessness. This may take such extreme forms as the person who takes a widow into his or her confidence and leaves her penniless. Offenders of this type may manifest a number of traits including lack of affection or empathy, lack of remorse and a general lack of conventional conscience.
Many con artists also seemed to have a misanthropic view of human nature and assumed that others were as scheming and dishonest as they were. There is no doubt that generating a dislike and lack of respect for the victim makes it easier to treat them badly. As one con man said, any people I dont like I can hustle better
They blame their victims for being stupid or deserving of their fate, they minimise the harmful consequences of their actions or they may simply display an arrogant indifference. They are also likely to believe that it is a dog-eat-dog world and everyone is out for number one.
https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/323c/bb963ebaf4f386fd97c3109fe4cb761b67fd.pdf
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02-18-19 14:23 #13139
Posts: 78With Euro dollar approaching 1.13, even 1.12 on some days, it is a good time for our American friends to be making a trek down to the lands of pleasure in Germany for a quick anal bang, perhaps?
A year ago, the exchange was at 1.25. If you are an American, your dollar will fetch almost 10% more Euros today.
Moreover, the growth expectation in Eurolands is again getting worse (which is one of the main reasons that drove up the exchange rate in favor of dollar). Perhaps a few more girls will enter these clubs as they can't find meaningful job prospects outside the club.
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02-18-19 08:28 #13138
Posts: 970Punching Above Our Weight.
In fighting, there is an old term, fighting or punching above your weight. This term was used to describe a standout fighter with the skills to defeat opponents, even those who are bigger and appear much stronger.
I've heard a lot of feedback that lineups have slipped the last few years. I agree that there appears to be a lot less new, super attractive ladies in the Sauna Clubs. I think the reality is that technology allows near realtime reporting on many forums. This let's us keep track of comings and goings at the clubs on a much closer level, even when we find ourselves half way around the world. Secondly, it seems a lot of the prostitutes are staying in the business longer. Thirdly, with the assistance of ED medications the average age of male clients is creeping higher, and to a man I his 70's and 80's a 35 year old prostitute still looks pretty good. A lot of these old guys on pension have nothing but time and money to burn.
Regardless of all this, most of the women in a SC are well above the standards that most of the Male clients could pull at a night club. For this reason, I'm happy to stay in the SC scene with the women others complain about being low level wit prostitute behavior. Without them, would be a lot less happy.
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02-18-19 06:08 #13137
Posts: 6686Originally Posted by Polyamorist [View Original Post]
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02-18-19 03:11 #13136
Posts: 1280Originally Posted by Pksimar69 [View Original Post]