Cebu Travel Reports

[Starchild2012]

Starchild,

After your initial Cebu strike-out post I spent awhile thinking about your experience. First many of the guys who post here are white and can never really understand what you go through (myself included) unless they are a visible minority. You have to put up with alot of crap like girls thinking you are 5-6. You have to work harder than the average guy to try and over come the pre-conceived labels. You should be well aware of those obstacles to meeting and sleeping with young sexy filipinas, yet your last post had me scratching my head. You seem annoyed and upset that you are unable to score hot filipinas, and worse yet you seem to dismiss the available filipinas as being trash and not up to your level. You seem fixated on meeting and sleeping with some of the hottest and sexiest filipinas in Cebu, but you do not seem to want to put in the effort.

The only advice I can offer is for you to sign up to a quality online dating website where you can search out the filipinas who meet your high standards. You might have to spend alot of time online to send messages back and forth and have many chat sessions to find some of the better quality filipinas, but if you are not prepared to put in the effort you will end up right where you are now, lonely in Cebu.

Personally I have met alot of very high quality filipinas in Cebu. You just have to take the time to get to know them online before you visit. These women are the so-called "hotter ones" that you see all over Cebu, yet online they are easy to approach and make friends with. If she feels she can trust you and knows you will visit her half of the battle is already won. The other half begins when you meet her in person, but that's up to you, your game and your charm.

For almost a year now I have been saying that the game in Cebu has changed. Years ago it was very easy for a guy to walk around and get alot of looks, smiles and get stopped by filipinas who seemed happy to chat and possibly go for ST. A guy could land in Cebu and almost bat 1000 percent when meeting and banging Cebu chatmates. Those days are over. The word is out on foreign guys who visit the Philippines for sex and only a small number of the visitors are 'marriage-minded'. Ask any filipina you meet what she has heard about foreigners who visit Cebu and almost all will tell you stories of guys who visit and jerx2, lie and break promises. Those same filipinas learn the game quick and turn to scamming to extract money from kuripot chatmates who think she is banging him as a 'freebie'.

I would also like to point out that some of the members who post stories of sex-filled days and nights in Cebu are guys who spend alot of time in Cebu. Most have built up a contact list of sexy available filipinas who are happy to meet up and spend time together for a price. They fill there days and nights with the regulars and sprinkle in a few new ones every trip to spice things up. Other guys are living in Cebu and have alot of time to meet beautiful filipinas. Some are younger gwapo guys or guys who have an outgoing personality. They could get laid anywhere in the World and have no problem meeting filipinas and quickly getting them naked. That's why YMMV should be standard when posting, because one guys experience may not indicate future success for all.

I'm sorry and I apologize for last posts. I was expecting too much in a short period of time. I was just letting my steam out I guess considering I did not got laid for one full year back home and want to get things done asap and when bars too were not allowing to be bar fine I went bonkers and considering the Indian tag seems to have gotten worse than before. I was expecting a turn around like in Manila. You are very right. Cebu has changed, its not as easy as before now. You need time to settle down and make things fall on its own slowly. Here all things comes slow.

What you know, I found the match and a perfect girl for my liking today from filipina cupid, which seems to have much better turn over rate. This has really gone crazy from bad experience to a perfect girl in few days time hahaha. Things are coming back to normal. I'm feeling much better and happy now. I think there is some power or lack of my ignorance and stupidity that caused the fall out. Its totally changed now hahaha. I'm now confused whether to go to Manila or stick around in Cebu. I'm now looking for a long term relationship. Kinda. And this girl seems to be perfect. Thanks for the advice.

[GuyLuvsParty]

From Chicks Perspective

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[WestCoast1]

Personally I have met alot of very high quality filipinas in Cebu. You just have to take the time to get to know them online before you visit. These women are the so-called "hotter ones" that you see all over Cebu, yet online they are easy to approach and make friends with. If she feels she can trust you and knows you will visit her half of the battle is already won. The other half begins when you meet her in person, but that's up to you, your game and your charm.

For almost a year now I have been saying that the game in Cebu has changed. Years ago it was very easy for a guy to walk around and get alot of looks, smiles and get stopped by filipinas who seemed happy to chat and possibly go for ST. A guy could land in Cebu and almost bat 1000 percent when meeting and banging Cebu chatmates. Those days are over. The word is out on foreign guys who visit the Philippines for sex and only a small number of the visitors are 'marriage-minded'.

Thanks SA.

SC: An analogy. Some years ago I decided to try Jakarta. I had been vacationing for some time in pilipines. I was used to the usual things: AC, Manila freelance, Cebu, the province. In Manila, and cebu barfine places, I was used to girls approaching me. In fact, in Vikings (cebu) or freelance places, it was nearly impossible to get a drink in hand and then be left alone. Some girl would approach, chat me up, and want to go to the hotel. If I ignored her or said no, she would leave, and another girl would shortly make her way over to me. I got a real sense of confidence that I didn't need to do anything but sit and have a drink.

So, off to Jakarta. I'd read up on the board about the Block M bars. My first night I taxi'd to the Blok and sat in D's Place bar and ordered a drink. Watched some dancing. Saw LOTS of girls. Made eye contact. Nothing else happened. 30 minutes of watching. Tempting to order another beer. WTF is wrong with these women? No approach? Did I forget to shower? I left and went across the street to Top Gun. So many hotties! I got a beer and sat at the bar. Nothing. Not even a look from a girl. They all seemed so busy chatting each other up. I spend 15 minutes slowly walking from one part of the bar to another, through crowds of girls. Nothing. Nobody pulled on my sleeve, no "psssst!", nothing. To hell with this place. Across the street to My Bar; ordered a beer. 10 or so gents. 50 women, many dancing. Played a game of pool. Again, nothing. Is there something wrong with Indonesian women that they don't approach? Some older lady, apparently a mamasan of some kind, tried to set me up with a girl there, with the mama getting a tip. WTF is wrong with these girls? I heard them speaking english to other guys. Can't they chat me up? Fuck them all. I went back to my hotel, somewhat dejected.

Next day I read on ISG from some gent who had struck out at Top Gun a few days prior. Another member wrote: "Listen, if you can't get laid in TG, you aren't worth sh*t. The pussy trips over itself to get to your wallet if you have any game at all." Wow. I was depressed when I read that. Did I have no game? Actually, I did not. I had gotten so used to filipinas tripping over themselves to get to me, that I never brought any game to Blok M. Like a culture lightbulb going off in my head, I realized that I might have to actually chat some girl up (not the other way around). That's all it takes?

So that night I went back to Top Gun, didn't bother with a drink, just walked by some cutie, who smiled back at me. What's your name hun?"Christina." You want to go to my hotel with me?"Yes." How much do you want?"Five hundred." Will you take 250 (at that time, the going amount from the board)?"Mmmm. OK." And we were off to the races. Thirty seconds of chat, and out the door.

I tell this mildly embarrassing story for a reason. There was a wrong thought in my head (girls would approach me) , that was keeping me from finding the indo-snatch. The problem was not with the ladies, the problem was within me. It was easily rectified, but I was unaware of the issue. The problem might be the same with SC. If he is looking to have the higher-end, classier, pretty filipinas on his arm, then he is going to have infinitly more pre-visit game going on with those girls, and considerable woo-ing going on after arrival. No classy girl is going to drop her panties because you are in town for a week (see SA's: "that's up to you, your game and your charm"). You will have to woo her (and maybe her family). Hence, in your mind, you may be after something that is not easily obtainable, and not well-thought-out previous to arrival (as was my mis-reading of the Indo-situation). Thinking about what you want from cebuanas, who you are after, and what is needed to make that happen, will help for your next trip.

[Stroker Ace88]

Thanks for the advice. I been playing the bar fine, pick up date for some time now. May be I thought I would trade my self up. I think we can't disagree on this one, the hotter ones are with the Filipino guys. Period. The girls who have the money, the looks and are tall, fair and classy. Not the ones that hunt tourists who are sticky and hard to get rid off. Even the rich fat filipinos have better looking one than what we are offered. Its quite practical, filipinas would prefer a rich, good looking Filipino over us BUT my point is JUST WHAT MAKES A GHETTO GIRL, THE LEFT OVER, UGLY GIRLS TO THINK THEY CAN SCORE A FOREIGNER WHEN NOT LOCAL? These girls stick and not leave and wants money. Single moms, unemployed, poor, girls with stretch marks, girls with mustache and moles, ugly girls all assume they can score a foreigner. Just above the level of beggars is what is been offered as a girl for fun it seems. Ohh lets pick on tourists they are the easy catch. Just what makes them think if they are not liked by their own kind they would somehow be liked by foreigners. WHY?

Starchild,

After your initial Cebu strike-out post I spent awhile thinking about your experience. First many of the guys who post here are white and can never really understand what you go through (myself included) unless they are a visible minority. You have to put up with alot of crap like girls thinking you are 5-6. You have to work harder than the average guy to try and over come the pre-conceived labels. You should be well aware of those obstacles to meeting and sleeping with young sexy filipinas, yet your last post had me scratching my head. You seem annoyed and upset that you are unable to score hot filipinas, and worse yet you seem to dismiss the available filipinas as being trash and not up to your level. You seem fixated on meeting and sleeping with some of the hottest and sexiest filipinas in Cebu, but you do not seem to want to put in the effort.

The only advice I can offer is for you to sign up to a quality online dating website where you can search out the filipinas who meet your high standards. You might have to spend alot of time online to send messages back and forth and have many chat sessions to find some of the better quality filipinas, but if you are not prepared to put in the effort you will end up right where you are now, lonely in Cebu.

Personally I have met alot of very high quality filipinas in Cebu. You just have to take the time to get to know them online before you visit. These women are the so-called "hotter ones" that you see all over Cebu, yet online they are easy to approach and make friends with. If she feels she can trust you and knows you will visit her half of the battle is already won. The other half begins when you meet her in person, but that's up to you, your game and your charm.

For almost a year now I have been saying that the game in Cebu has changed. Years ago it was very easy for a guy to walk around and get alot of looks, smiles and get stopped by filipinas who seemed happy to chat and possibly go for ST. A guy could land in Cebu and almost bat 1000 percent when meeting and banging Cebu chatmates. Those days are over. The word is out on foreign guys who visit the Philippines for sex and only a small number of the visitors are 'marriage-minded'. Ask any filipina you meet what she has heard about foreigners who visit Cebu and almost all will tell you stories of guys who visit and jerx2, lie and break promises. Those same filipinas learn the game quick and turn to scamming to extract money from kuripot chatmates who think she is banging him as a 'freebie'.

I would also like to point out that some of the members who post stories of sex-filled days and nights in Cebu are guys who spend alot of time in Cebu. Most have built up a contact list of sexy available filipinas who are happy to meet up and spend time together for a price. They fill there days and nights with the regulars and sprinkle in a few new ones every trip to spice things up. Other guys are living in Cebu and have alot of time to meet beautiful filipinas. Some are younger gwapo guys or guys who have an outgoing personality. They could get laid anywhere in the World and have no problem meeting filipinas and quickly getting them naked. That's why YMMV should be standard when posting, because one guys experience may not indicate future success for all.

[Frenzy3]

If you like skinny and rich then Cebu is not your town, I can get a rich girl but she will be fat and because I live here her family will own my ass. I rather the normal middle class girls where the family own their house, the parents work one might even be working overseas sending back the cash.

If you are staying a long time go to where the pinay hang out, not prostittutes who already have sponsors. I hang out at the bars that uni students go and places where there are only locals who buy their own drinks.

SC Serious how long are you planing to stay? Why are you having trouble in pussy heaven?

[WestCoast1]

Why should I trade low. I'm the good guy here. I'm a honest, sincere guy.

See below "*".

If some Cebu veterans can guide me to a place where I can find decent, classy, good looking women whom I can have some meaningful conversation for 10 minutes or atleast non-ghetto types who lives in a house, has own bed, aircon and not live in some tin sheet house near the river. I would be glad.

I'm going to guess nobody will help you with this. These kinds of girls are not interested in foreigners? Gents?

I'm the nice guy here. I need a better deal. I need a hotter, taller, fair filipina women that these filipinos hold or a filipina who owns a car atleast and would once in a while take me out for dinner. I'm sick of dropping and picking girls in Ghettos of Cebu like Apas. Hahahaha.

* You seem to be hitting on this "nice guy" theme here several times. From your perspective, maybe that has merit. But from the filipinas perspective, that's mostly irrelevant. What is much more relevant to her: How can you help her? How can you help her family?

I would love to meet a classy filipina women. Who would for once take me out to dinner not the other way around always. I only get poor, ghetto, beggar and hungry girls . Hahaha.

You want to meet classy filipinas, with her own car, who will take you out to dinner! I'll let the other gents have a stab at this one.

[Starchild2012]

we've said it many times. you can go to phils with a long list of contacts, many of whom actually agree prior to your visit to a meet-and-fuck session. you might get shut out 100% when you arrive. they often don't mean what they say in chat. they are often to shy to take their clothes off during a first meeting. if you want non-pro's, you must provide some initial charm, and be prepared to have multiple dates. i'll pm you with some info on pro's.

sorry about the bad luck (see it for nothing more than that; it can happen to anyone, and will be better next time you're there and the barfines are back in play).

thanks for the advice. i been playing the bar fine, pick up date for some time now. may be i thought i would trade my self up. i think we can't disagree on this one, the hotter ones are with the filipino guys. period. the girls who have the money, the looks and are tall, fair and classy. not the ones that hunt tourists who are sticky and hard to get rid off. even the rich fat filipinos have better looking one than what we are offered. its quite practical, filipinas would prefer a rich, good looking filipino over us but my point is just what makes a ghetto girl, the left over, ugly girls to think they can score a foreigner when not local? these girls stick and not leave and wants money. single moms, unemployed, poor, girls with stretch marks, girls with mustache and moles, ugly girls all assume they can score a foreigner. just above the level of beggars is what is been offered as a girl for fun it seems. ohh lets pick on tourists they are the easy catch. just what makes them think if they are not liked by their own kind they would somehow be liked by foreigners. why?

it seems i'm not trading but compromising.

why should i trade low. i'm the good guy here. i'm a honest, sincere guy. who makes money by sincere means in a third world country. not easy considering the corrupting way people make money. i deserve better. if i was bank robber, thief or a ceo of some wall street corporation and these thing happen. i would say its karma but i have never hurt a fly in my life, i should be getting better deals. just been good to girls does not mean they would just starting exploiting me with some excuse of sick buffaloes and such that. being good seems to be the crime now. i understand. its the way the world is designed and all theories and life isn't fair mantra.

when i go to restaurants. i'm watching the girls opposite the table with filipinos all the time. these girls are clearly on another level. atleast, give me some girls whom i can take to a place for dinner and not get embarrassed. i know, filipinas seeing with an indian is awkward for them too. hahaha. but can we have some middle ground here. i don't want to get laid by ghetto types anymore. i have had too many already. if some cebu veterans can guide me to a place where i can find decent, classy, good looking women whom i can have some meaningful conversation for 10 minutes or atleast non-ghetto types who lives in a house, has own bed, aircon and not live in some tin sheet house near the river. i would be glad. just because i'm indian does not mean i have no class. hahaha. i don't much but common, what i have been offered here is way way way lower than what was my standard back home. if i wanted these kinds. i would have sticked to my place.

starchild2012 you need to try the bars if you can not score the other girls, there are pimps on the street who will help you find girls.

if it helps you i got a house here as the last tenant moved out as he was charged with [CodeWord123], that's right a indian guy who raped a local girl had to leave very fast. maybe you look like him?

hahaha. so now indian guys have to resort to [CodeWord123] to get laid in a sex paradise called philippines. manila is polluted with its problems but i seem to click there well. girls in manila are more bolder and they would come to stay in my place easily than here with lunch dates and what not.

not as fat or as hairless as me (lol) and i am the same. sc yuo must be doing something wrong? a good friend is indian and he had real trouble at first but now his like david, me and many others. maybe change the strategy? cebu is great place but don't tell everyone oplease. just my 2 cents

wr. i know, my issue is quality over quantity. why should i be the one to pick the left-over. i'm the nice guy here. i need a better deal. i need a hotter, taller, fair filipina women that these filipinos hold or a filipina who owns a car atleast and would once in a while take me out for dinner. i'm sick of dropping and picking girls in ghettos of cebu like apas. hahahaha.

hey starchild,

i just got back from manila and cebu. being indian did not prevent me from having fun. on the contrary, i believed it helped me to get laid with few non pro girls from the it industry.

do you ever consider it could be just you, not you being an indian.

hi buddy. i'm in the philippines scene for some time now. may be i started aiming high. the problem is quality over quantity. if you go to j ave. loft, vudu or some nice place to eat. the girl across the table is always hotter, better looking with a local filipino guy than what i'm holding in my possession. the difference of dia girls and non-dia girls that filipinos catch is vast like earth and moon. most of the girls we end up with are left-overs that filipinos don't want. i had some call center girls from accenture in manila last time and i have few lined up as well.

since, i'm here in ph for some time. i would love to meet a classy filipina women. who would for once take me out to dinner not the other way around always. i only get poor, ghetto, beggar and hungry girls . hahaha.

[Frenzy3]

starchild2012 you need to try the bars if you can not score the other girls, there are pimps on the street who will help you find girls.

if it helps you i got a house here as the last tenant moved out as he was charged with [CodeWord123], that's right a indian guy who raped a local girl had to leave very fast. maybe you look like him?

[WestCoast1]

If someone wants to use me as their guinea pig for biological experiments or shoot me as a target practice I'm available for free. Ohh my fuuking god. What a fuuuking major disaster it turned out to be making Cebu as my destination to get laid. Since, my last visit things have gotten real real bad now. Came here on Friday and since then it has been an endless parade of one disappointments after the other.

Apparently, Girls here just wants free lunch and they were never taught, there is no such thing as free lunch and yet they some how believe all tourist are their to be ripped off.

We've said it many times. You can go to phils with a long list of contacts, many of whom actually agree prior to your visit to a meet-and-fuck session. You might get shut out 100% when you arrive. They often don't mean what they say in chat. They are often to shy to take their clothes off during a first meeting. If you want non-pro's, you must provide some initial charm, and be prepared to have multiple dates. I'll PM you with some info on pro's.

So, all in all. I'm just walking dead in Cebu and booking my flight to Manila.

Sorry about the bad luck (see it for nothing more than that; it can happen to anyone, and will be better next time you're there and the barfines are back in play).

[Member #4351]

Even then some just want t scam you without giving sex.

Only scammed for two lunches at Friday's so far this trip. No big deal, I got to watch an interesting MMA fight on the TV while the girls were eating their Filipino Chicken BBQ.

[Sammon]

I can understand how starchild feels. Cebu is kind of exclusively for getting non pro girls. To get these girls it requires plenty of homework. Need to chat and develop a friendship first. So the girl starts trusting you. Many young girls are afraid of meeting foreigners. In fact one girl told me some european guy hit her friend because she did not want to perform BJ. Once they like you sex comes naturally. Even the girl who did not want me to see her naked body when we had sex first time was parading her naked body next day.

There is cerainly some technique starchild has to learn in order to bed these young fresh girls least of which is looking INdian.

Yes, it helps to look good not too fat and not too old. Money alone will not be enough unless the girl has a baby and desparate. Even then some just want t scam you without giving sex.

[Fritobugger]

Fat, ugly, and old but never had an empty bed the entire time there. I find the young single mom's to be some of the best girls ever. Happy for a little fun and happy for a little financial help that their departed high school sweetheart doesn't provide for the kid he made.

My third trip because I have business that takes me around Asia and the Pacific regions. As much as I dislike the general poverty and Catholic guilt crap, I find the girls to be real sweethearts.

[Wicked Roger]

I am fat and ugly with five hairs and I was just thinking about how Cebu is a monger's paradise. Then I read Starchild2012's post. Now he could be looking for white skinned, tall model types. These girls are hard to obtain anywhere, not only in Cebu.

Not as fat or as hairless as me (LOL) and I am the same. SC yuo must be doing something wrong? A good friend is Indian and he had real trouble at first but now his like David, me and many others. Maybe change the strategy? Cebu is great place but don't tell everyone oplease. Just my 2 cents

[DreamFanta]

hey starchild,

i just got back from manila and cebu. being indian did not prevent me from having fun. on the contrary, i believed it helped me to get laid with few non pro girls from the it industry.

do you ever consider it could be just you, not you being an indian.

if someone wants to use me as their guinea pig for biological experiments or shoot me as a target practice i'm available for free. ohh my fuuking god. what a fuuuking major disaster it turned out to be making cebu as my destination to get laid. since, my last visit things have gotten real real bad now. came here on friday and since then it has been an endless parade of one disappointments after the other.

apparently, girls here just wants free lunch and they were never taught, there is no such thing as free lunch and yet they some how believe all tourist are their to be ripped off.

combined that with their general hatred towards indians, which in recent years seems to have been gone up 10 times as many arabs and indians are all over cebu and done some bad shit to locals and no regular girls wants to come anywhere near us. the options for us seems to be all butt ugly girls in cebu no decent, educated women wants to be seen anywhere near us it seems.

don't kid yourself, all the hot, tall, fair girls in cebu are already been "claimed" by the local filipino guys who seems to have money now and others from local call center industry. i saw too many hot girls in it park with call center guys.

the leak which was in cebu which gave us some fresh young things seems to have been stopped, girls now have option to work in a call center and not care for guys. my finding in all freelancer hunting places like j. ave, mango has been, even a slight, i mean really slightly good looking women for a filipino standard will not go out with a foreigner. only the left over trash seems to meet you in all these freelance places as well.

plus, the option of bar fine has disappeared completely in cebu and the girls who are so called "freelancer" are really free 'because no local guys in their right mind will pick them up, so they hunt for last option loser tourists like me who are too desperate to get laid and not care for looks and body once they have one two many san migs.

ok. for a white guy (not trying to be racist, just practical). you still may have some good option but all my walkings to all places in cebu so far, i haven't seen a decent looking filipina with a foreign guy but you will have something to hold on to if quality is not an issue like something from province not a city girl which anyway. most of you guys don't prefer but for an indian. the road to paradise seems to have stopped. common. i can't even barfine now. so my money is of no use. the bars now outrightly refuse girls and say, they would meet them in j ave.

the condo rentals are also rip off for [CodeWord134] sized one bedroom and studio condos selling for 25000 pesos etc.

today is monday and many guys are working, so i'm going to j ave. to find some hot ones hahaha. may be some one will take pity on me. if you see an indian guy in blue t shirt and a sad face. thats me. say hello.

forget to mention about the korean invasion plus japanese guys. cebu seems like a mini-korea and these guys seems to corner some good looking filipinas in pick up bars as well. i would have to live in cebu for a year and develop a base before i see any results but so far all my dia contacts, filipino cupid contacts, tagged contacts have been a disappointment. they say lot of good things online but when you meet them in real. all they want is good lunch and then bye bye. if i want to be ripped off, i would do so back home with my own kind than travel 5000 miles for it.

all the left overs that no one wants in cebu is the only choice i seem to have. i feel bad for the girls too. just having to put up with us indians just because they are ugly, no filipino guys wants them so their only choice is indians. i also felt that vibe that western women, indian women have. thats sophisticated shi*t look they give sometimes to convey the message. i'm above your standard. i'm above your pay grade thingy. some iranian girls were in j ave and iranian guys trying their hard to pick them up. what a fuuking joke. do they really believe that would be ever possible even if they meet in mars. some farangs, iranians trying to pick up blonde, african american women as well and getting rejected. i don't even try these kinds now a days. korean and japanese. impossible to pick in cebu even if you do gangnam style naked.

so, all in all. i'm just walking dead in cebu and booking my flight to manila.

[Member #4351]

I have more than I can handle, just by using the chat sites. After seeing off my afternoon date with a 21 year old girl who had only recently put up a profile on DIA (I was her first foreigner..I believe it because the fact of the matter is, almost none of the guys on DIA ever make it here anyway), I saw a cutie sitting by herself in my hotel lobby who gave me the comeon eye (9:30 pm). The other night there was a sweetie sitting with some old Korean guy in the executive lounge. She was giving me the stare, so when he went to get some food I dropped my CP number next to her foot. An hour later she sent me a text. I am fat and ugly with five hairs and I was just thinking about how Cebu is a monger's paradise. Then I read Starchild2012's post. Now he could be looking for white skinned, tall model types. These girls are hard to obtain anywhere, not only in Cebu. Anyway, I'm having a good time and will be taking a double dose of Maca tomorrow for my 8:00 pm DIA hookup.

Sammon, they don't sell tampons because the girls are afraid it will take their virginities if they have one, or they aren't comfortable touching their own pussies. Only lately they are appearing in Peru, but its a hard sell for the aforementioned reasons.

I have noticed that having sex and orgasms often advances a girl's period.