Safe Sex / STD

[Member #4696]

Sanjaya SL,

Do go to the National STD / AIDS Control Programme on De Saram Place. Their protocols of working are excellent and you can get all the tests done for free. There was no judgement or intimidation whatsoever during my visits.

Hi,

Can I get STD blood test done in a private hospital? What's the place you guys are suggesting to get it done without being intimidated or judged?

I always use protection, but thought it would be a good idea to get tested once in a while since sometimes I am having BBJs.

[Sanjaya SL]

Hi,

Can I get STD blood test done in a private hospital? What's the place you guys are suggesting to get it done without being intimidated or judged?

I always use protection, but thought it would be a good idea to get tested once in a while since sometimes I am having BBJs.

[Tannyc]

I recently had one of my worst experiences on my visit to India, where I paid 10 K inr for just 2 sec of worried unprotected sex & 5 min HJ. I don't want to talk about the details (I have posted it in a different forum, if you want you can check it via my past posts), but I am very worried about the 2 secs my penis was inside her without a condom. Can someone tell me whether it's possible to get STDs in that 2 secs? If yes what kind? Can HIV be transmitted like that? I read around the internet & didn't get a clear answer. I would highly appreciate if someone here helped me.

Bro. Its actually 1 sec is enough if everything is in the way should be. But I don't think you will be any trouble like thae. But to be in a safe side better do a blood test from know place. Hope all ok and will not have any such issue.

[Naan1]

I recently had one of my worst experiences on my visit to India, where I paid 10 K inr for just 2 sec of worried unprotected sex & 5 min HJ. I don't want to talk about the details (I have posted it in a different forum, if you want you can check it via my past posts), but I am very worried about the 2 secs my penis was inside her without a condom. Can someone tell me whether it's possible to get STDs in that 2 secs? If yes what kind? Can HIV be transmitted like that? I read around the internet & didn't get a clear answer. I would highly appreciate if someone here helped me.

[KelumRoy]

Can anyone confirm there was a blood collection at Gampaha station. I'm not sure whether this is a made up.

5 people found HIV positive out of randomly tested sample from 160 people at Gampaha station.

http://www.lankadeepa.lk/

[The Old Teaboy]

A man in the UK has contracted a super-strength strand of gonorrhoea believed to be the first case globally to resist the main antibiotic treatment.

Public Health England (PHE) said the patient had a regular female partner in the UK, but contracted the infection from a sexual encounter with a woman in south-east Asia. He visited a health clinic for treatment in early 2018.

Attempts to get rid of the sexually transmitted infection with the recommended treatment a combination of antibiotics azithromycin and ceftriaxone have failed.

"We are investigating a case who has gonorrhoea which was acquired abroad and is very resistant to the recommended first line treatment," Dr Gwenda Hughes, the head of PHE's STI section said.

"This is the first time a case has displayed such high-level resistance to both of these drugs and to most other commonly used antibiotics. ".

https://www.theguardian.com/society/...gth-gonorrhoea

South-east Asia could be Indonesia, Cambodia, somewhere like that. Probably not Sri Lanka, but if any our girls are doing bareback sex, be careful.

[Chathuyasho]

Hey folks,

Would like to know if there is a risk of CBJ and a lip kiss which was no longer than for few seconds. Gone through the net and found there is very low risk.

[Cofee Man]

5 people found HIV positive out of randomly tested sample from 160 people at Gampaha station.

http://www.lankadeepa.lk/

[The Old Teaboy]

What is the Sri Lanka Age of Consent?

The Age of Consent in Sri Lanka is 16 years old. The age of consent is the minimum age at which an individual is considered legally old enough to consent to participation in sexual activity. Individuals aged 15 or younger in Sri Lanka are not legally able to consent to sexual activity, and such activity may result in prosecution for statutory

"Defining Child Abuse:

A child is defined by the Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC) as "Every human being below the age of 18 years unless under the law applicable under the child majority is attained earlier (World Health Organization). ".

http://www.jetwinghotels.com/wp-cont...nce-Policy.pdf

There is a difference between the "age of consent (16)" and the "age of majority (18)".

"Age of Majority (Amendment) Act (No. 17 of 1989) - Sect 3

Replacement of section 2 of the principal enactment,

3. Section 2 of the principal enactment is hereby repealed and the following section substituted therefor:"
2. From and after the coming into force of this section, all persons when they shall attain, or who have already attained, the full age of eighteen years shall be deemed to have attained the legal age of majority, and except as is hereinafter excepted, no person shall be deemed to have attained his majority at an earlier period, any law or custom to the contrary notwithstanding."

http://www.commonlii.org/lk/legis/nu...989279/s3.html

Another interesting point is whether a person below 18 is able to get married:

"Who may give consent to marriage of a minor.
(1)
(a) The father of any person under eighteen years of age; or
[S 22(1)(a) am by s 2 of Act 12 of 1997.]

(b) if the father be dead or under legal incapacity, or in parts beyond Sri Lanka and unable to make known his will, the mother; or
(c) if both father and mother be dead or under legal incapacity, or in parts beyond Sri Lanka and unable to make known their will, the guardian or guardians appointed over the party so [CodeWord903] by the father, or if the father be dead or under legal incapacity, by the mother of such party or by a competent court, shall have authority to give consent to the marriage of such party, and such consent is hereby required for the said marriage."

http://srilankalaw.lk/Volume-V/marri...ordinance.html

It is not clear on that page whether the father could consent to a child below 16 getting married, but in any case sex would be illegal below 16.

[NoMoreNonsense]

What is the Sri Lanka Age of Consent?

The Age of Consent in Sri Lanka is 16 years old. The age of consent is the minimum age at which an individual is considered legally old enough to consent to participation in sexual activity. Individuals aged 15 or younger in Sri Lanka are not legally able to consent to sexual activity, and such activity may result in prosecution for statutory [CodeWord123] or the equivalent local law.

Sri Lanka statutory [CodeWord123] law is violated when a man has consensual sexual intercourse with a girl [CodeWord903] 16. The age of consent lowers to 12 when married, and not judicially separated from her husband.

Sri Lanka does not have a close-in-age exemption. Close in age exemptions, commonly known as "Romeo and Juliet laws" in the United States, are put in place to prevent the prosecution of individuals who engage in consensual sexual activity when both participants are significantly close in age to each other, and one or both partners are below the age of consent.

Because there is no close-in-age exemption in Sri Lanka, it is possible for two individuals both under the age of 16 who willingly engage in intercourse to both be prosecuted for statutory [CodeWord123], although this is rare. Similarly, no protections are reserved for sexual relations in which one participant is a 15 year old and the second is a 16 or 17 year old.

[NoMoreNonsense]

https://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/hpvandme...ruary-2012.pdf

[JezJames]

Been there done that.

Due to medical reason I had to get this done. A severe recurrent [CodeWord109] infection.

Once the foreskin is gone the tip gets desensitised. The plus point is I can last longer than usual.

If I were you I would try and stay intact. At least you can wank yourself a lot easier.

As an other member already noted, getting circumcised will only decrease your sensitivity. Unless there's a medical reason for it, I'd definitely advise remaining intact. Maybe experiment with a few different condom brands.

[Travv]

Check with feminist groups like the National Organization for Women (NOW) if you can't locate Lorena Bobbitt, the Feminists have knives and are willing to help you lose your sensitivity problems forever! If your balls itch, let them know and they will use the knife to fix that problem for you too, no charge! LOL.

You can get it done at KALEEL Hospital, Maradana.

[Redwing]

Does anyone know a good, reliable place to get circumcised. I feel like having lesser feeling and ineffective erection when condom is put. Hope it would get better with circumcision.

As an other member already noted, getting circumcised will only decrease your sensitivity. Unless there's a medical reason for it, I'd definitely advise remaining intact. Maybe experiment with a few different condom brands.

[Johny81]

Does anyone know a good, reliable place to get circumcised. I feel like having lesser feeling and ineffective erection when condom is put. Hope it would get better with circumcision.

You can get it done at KALEEL Hospital, Maradana.