Safe Sex / STD

[Kbkbal]

Far as I know there are only places for ladies but, given the sizeable gay population in the entertainment industry in Colombo, I'm sure there must be somewhere that specialises in male waxing.

In the meantime, have you considered shaving? I do about once a week using a Gillette Fusion razor and being VERY careful . Works fine.

Guys,

Do you know a SPA who do waxing public hair about cock and A. If there is one please PM me how we should tell them with out being embarassed.

Cheers,

JFJ

[JackForJill]

Guys,

Do you know a SPA who do waxing public hair about cock and A. If there is one please PM me how we should tell them with out being embarassed.

Cheers,

JFJ

[Twinky]

In SL forum there are two schools of thought on this one. One side advocates you to be overly cautious and to be borderline paranoid. The others, that includes me, guys like Kbkbal and many others, who suggests taking calculated risks, so you can actually have fun. I mean how could you really have fun if and after every session if you are paranoid that you probably caught something. If you are that much scared that you will catch an STD best thing to do is stay home or to be in a monogamous relationship.

You could catch STD even from innocent acts like kissing (herpes. Skin to skin contact) , you can catch chlamydia through a hand job. You could catch gonorrhea from BBBJ. There is a theoretical possibility of catching HIV from BBBJ too.

However, most likely you are not going to catch anything from any of the acts above.

You are unlikely to catch HIV from a BBBJ. HIV cannot live in saliva unless there is lots of blood present and you also need to have a cut in your penis.

Just like this post below I am not advising you to be reckless and not to use protection, but don't be too paranoid either. In Sri Lanka you should be more careful with mosquito than working girls.

Agreed again. One example I'd put here. I suffered lot for 4 months having infection to my penis skin with a rash. You know how it came. I wore a towel in an ordinary hotel room. I cannot tell you how much depressed I was. Have all possible protective protocols in your actions.

[NSeal]

In SL forum there are two schools of thought on this one. One side advocates you to be overly cautious and to be borderline paranoid. The others, that includes me, guys like Kbkbal and many others, who suggests taking calculated risks, so you can actually have fun. I mean how could you really have fun if and after every session if you are paranoid that you probably caught something. If you are that much scared that you will catch an STD best thing to do is stay home or to be in a monogamous relationship.

You could catch STD even from innocent acts like kissing (herpes. Skin to skin contact) , you can catch chlamydia through a hand job. You could catch gonorrhea from BBBJ. There is a theoretical possibility of catching HIV from BBBJ too.

However, most likely you are not going to catch anything from any of the acts above.

You are unlikely to catch HIV from a BBBJ. HIV cannot live in saliva unless there is lots of blood present and you also need to have a cut in your penis.

Just like this post below I am not advising you to be reckless and not to use protection, but don't be too paranoid either. In Sri Lanka you should be more careful with mosquito than working girls.

The chances of getting HIV from a BBBJ are minimal. In fact, it is not even that easy to catch HIV from unprotected vaginal sex. Especially if the girl is highly lubricated. Of course, it's not that difficult to catch HIV from unprotected vaginal sex either, so I wouldn't advocate it. Your biggest risk of HIV comes from unprotected Anal sex.

If you look at other forums on the ISG as well you will see that there are several BB clubs in Germany, for example, where the rule is bareback fucking and no one seems to have ever caught HIV (of course they perform a blood test before you are let in).

I hope no one takes this as an endorsement of unprotected sex with working girls, as it is not. If you ever feel worried you may have caught something, it's always better to go and get yourself tested even though you may feel embarrassed to do so. Better safe than sorry, especially where your wife / gf etc is concerned.

Having said that, though, I hate getting a blowjob with a rubber on so I don't think I will ever be persuaded to give up getting BBBJs!

[Kbkbal]

The chances of getting HIV from a BBBJ are minimal. In fact, it is not even that easy to catch HIV from unprotected vaginal sex. Especially if the girl is highly lubricated. Of course, it's not that difficult to catch HIV from unprotected vaginal sex either, so I wouldn't advocate it. Your biggest risk of HIV comes from unprotected Anal sex.

If you look at other forums on the ISG as well you will see that there are several BB clubs in Germany, for example, where the rule is bareback fucking and no one seems to have ever caught HIV (of course they perform a blood test before you are let in).

I hope no one takes this as an endorsement of unprotected sex with working girls, as it is not. If you ever feel worried you may have caught something, it's always better to go and get yourself tested even though you may feel embarrassed to do so. Better safe than sorry, especially where your wife / gf etc is concerned.

Having said that, though, I hate getting a blowjob with a rubber on so I don't think I will ever be persuaded to give up getting BBBJs!

Of course. You can get many STDs including HIV by Blow Job with No condom. There is always a probability. You can refer previous posts or search online for more details.

Cheers.

Shane

[Twinky]

I have been reading this forum for some time, and have not contributed to it like other mongers have. But as a person who does have lot of contacts with STD / HIV patients, I always practice very safe sex. Perhaps you guys might think its too paranoid. However, my perception is that the knowledge makes a difference and the experience too. Those mongers who have had lot of encounters and who are still STD free, may not hesitate to try things new but, I think that if you guys just do the math and think the number of encounters that an FL or an MP girl could have per year, you should realize the risk. I have no intention of discouraging any monger by this post, but I just want you guys to be safe.

Just to remind you guys, there was an FL who operated in Kandy, who was later on diagnosed as having HIVirus infection, had 28 other contacts after contact tracing. That story about one of Jina's girls being HIV positive is also true, because I know that person personally. I cannot mention her name in this open forum or through PM, sorry guys. Those who has sessions with her may get themselves investigated for STD / HIV.

The only relief in the prevalence of HIV in Sri Lanka in less than 0. 1, by to remind you this figure is a projected figure form the available data and these a considerable no of HIV positives who haven't developed symptoms yet.

Therefore I think it would be safe f you do not do DFK, DATY, BBBJ on FLs who have a very high mileage, or never do it. Because once you get Herpes or HIV that is the end of it.

It is true that as prostitution is illegal in this country, we cannot ask FLs t have a STD free certificate with them, but at least those places, like BIG MAMAs place should have this as a regular thing, considering the price they quote for FS,

I think its right that the mongers should have for the price they pay.

Be safe people, protect your valuable lives while having fun.

MM

100% agreed. We all must be careful. Assume that you are infected and you are having sex with your loved once, what will be the result!

Be safe guys, follow every possible security checking before jump.

By the way, it is interesting to see your name Mushroommaster. Could you tell us why have you chosen this name as the forum name? Haaa

[MushroomMaster]

I have been reading this forum for some time, and have not contributed to it like other mongers have. But as a person who does have lot of contacts with STD / HIV patients, I always practice very safe sex. Perhaps you guys might think its too paranoid. However, my perception is that the knowledge makes a difference and the experience too. Those mongers who have had lot of encounters and who are still STD free, may not hesitate to try things new but, I think that if you guys just do the math and think the number of encounters that an FL or an MP girl could have per year, you should realize the risk. I have no intention of discouraging any monger by this post, but I just want you guys to be safe.

Just to remind you guys, there was an FL who operated in Kandy, who was later on diagnosed as having HIVirus infection, had 28 other contacts after contact tracing. That story about one of Jina's girls being HIV positive is also true, because I know that person personally. I cannot mention her name in this open forum or through PM, sorry guys. Those who has sessions with her may get themselves investigated for STD / HIV.

The only relief in the prevalence of HIV in Sri Lanka in less than 0. 1, by to remind you this figure is a projected figure form the available data and these a considerable no of HIV positives who haven't developed symptoms yet.

Therefore I think it would be safe f you do not do DFK, DATY, BBBJ on FLs who have a very high mileage, or never do it. Because once you get Herpes or HIV that is the end of it.

It is true that as prostitution is illegal in this country, we cannot ask FLs t have a STD free certificate with them, but at least those places, like BIG MAMAs place should have this as a regular thing, considering the price they quote for FS,

I think its right that the mongers should have for the price they pay.

Be safe people, protect your valuable lives while having fun.

MM

[ShaneMister]

Guys,

Is there a risk of getting STD's buy having a blow job without a condom?

Of course. You can get many STDs including HIV by Blow Job with No condom. There is always a probability. You can refer previous posts or search online for more details.

Cheers.

Shane

[Nikorox720]

Guys,

Is there a risk of getting STD's buy having a blow job without a condom?

[NSeal]

Visit http://www.echannelling.com, you can then filter doctors by specialty. You can find a doctor who is specialized in STD. Then you can pick the hospital you have to go. You can just tell the doctor you are fine, but just need to do a check up.

I am sure you can do this without going to doctor and directly going to a lab testing place if you know what you need to get checked. Personally, I think going through a doctor is good.

My question is unless you have any symptoms why do the testing. Remember if you had some questionable sex (unprotected) you must wait least 2-3 months before you do a test after the incident. Usually after 6 months is the best.

If you didn't have unprotected sex as you stated and no symptoms don't get paranoid. I am sure you are negative.

Guys, I have been going to MPs and some free lancers and have always used protection. But just to be on the safe side, I would like to get myself checked for any STD. Can anyone guide me on how to get this done? Do I have to see a doc or can I just get my blood checked for any deseases?

[NitPicker]

Dear All,

I just wanted to bring in to your heads a new threat that's in place. It's a gift for our country which is the tourism boom post war but not so good when it comes to safe sex for mongers.

Past few months I have seen drastic growth in tourism where many single guys comes to SL from various countries. MPs are getting visited by tourists often. Of course then the chance of infection for Sri Lankan girl increases. There are certain uncommon STDs for Sri Lanka but I must say there is a high chance of a spread. Most MPs offer about 20-40% commision to guides and drivers who bring them tourists as a higher price is quoted for forigners. A place I know in Col3, charges 5500Rs from forigners while charging 2800 from locals. 1500Rs will go in to pocket of driver / guide who bring them the foreigners.

So, just a word of caution for you and me, always play safe. Not everyone is lucky.

We don't want Sri Lanka to be next Thailand when it comes to STDs.

Cheers.

Shane

Guys, I have been going to MPs and some free lancers and have always used protection. But just to be on the safe side, I would like to get myself checked for any STD. Can anyone guide me on how to get this done? Do I have to see a doc or can I just get my blood checked for any deseases?

[ShaneMister]

Dear All,

I just wanted to bring in to your heads a new threat that's in place. It's a gift for our country which is the tourism boom post war but not so good when it comes to safe sex for mongers.

Past few months I have seen drastic growth in tourism where many single guys comes to SL from various countries. MPs are getting visited by tourists often. Of course then the chance of infection for Sri Lankan girl increases. There are certain uncommon STDs for Sri Lanka but I must say there is a high chance of a spread. Most MPs offer about 20-40% commision to guides and drivers who bring them tourists as a higher price is quoted for forigners. A place I know in Col3, charges 5500Rs from forigners while charging 2800 from locals. 1500Rs will go in to pocket of driver / guide who bring them the foreigners.

So, just a word of caution for you and me, always play safe. Not everyone is lucky.

We don't want Sri Lanka to be next Thailand when it comes to STDs.

Cheers.

Shane

[ShaneMister]

i guess having your own standards are very important.

and making them sensible standards is equally important.

- mongering has its own moments of madnesses. i guess that adds favour to it and thats a big turn on. we all know what "little head over-powering the big head" means. having a good / reasonable control is essential i think.

- have your standards on what you do when you are drunk. thats very important.

- carry condoms with you. one in your wallet, (replace it always. it may get damaged) , and one in your car.

- think about std risk to your wife / gf.

safe mongering peeps.

cheers

this is true and wanted to give my experience to you. i have had sex with women from 14 different countries, and i can't remember the number of people. i have always used protection except with 1 who was my gf. i have got a skin to skin std once which was cured. but i need to tell you guys, sex is always with risk. it's like standing on top of a mountain with an iron stick when it's lightning. you will survive most of time but you will never know until you are struck by lightning. also you cannot measure your immunity level. so, we can't really say we are immune. it might be just luck.

let's assume one of every 10 sex workers is having hiv. and let's assume chance of getting hiv from unprotected sex is 10. which means there is only a chance of 1% to get hiv with a sex worker. so, if you continue doign it, you will get it someday for sure. some people might be immune, but remember hiv attacks the immune system itself so it is a nasty one. even most healthy and strong people like magic johnson got hiv so i don't think we can really trust we are immune. there may be immune people, but god only knows and no doctore or medical test and check it. so dear friends, play safe.

cheers.

shane

[BoyShares]

i guess having your own standards are very important.

and making them sensible standards is equally important.

- mongering has its own moments of madnesses. i guess that adds favour to it and thats a big turn on. we all know what "little head over-powering the big head" means. having a good / reasonable control is essential i think.

- have your standards on what you do when you are drunk. thats very important.

- carry condoms with you. one in your wallet, (replace it always. it may get damaged) , and one in your car.

- think about std risk to your wife / gf.

safe mongering peeps.

cheers

[NSeal]

Acne,

As you know I agree with you and stated many times about this only to be told by some mongers that I was wrong. Most of these guys are inexperienced and paranoid. One even went to the extent of saying there is no such thing as immunity.

I too had several such encounters over past 15 or so years and I too am STD free. Of course those encounters I was taking a calculated risk. We are not advising anyone to bang a street working girl without a cover.

From what I understand 1/1000 heterosexual encounters you could get something like HIV. Chances are much higher if it was unprotected Anal sex or if you already have other STDs.

As each of our bodies are different we cannot advice that this is the same for everyone. So as a general rule follow safe sex practices. If you are confident about your body and its capabilities you can sometimes push it little further.

Guys should also worry more about normal girls and MILFs that they do thinking they are safe and let their guard down only to catch something from normal girls.

I would like to share my experience with safe sex.

I might have more than 200 encounters upto day and I have done no condom sex with 4 MP girls for around 10 times. Had BBBJ with around 40 occasions and had done DATY to same number of girls. Luckily I am still STD free.

There should be something else controlling this.

Also, I have contacted couple of guys who posting no condom sex pictures in philipines forum and that guy replied me saying that he only got Clamidia in his life once. He used to have FS with prostitutes without condom for many times.

But, I guess when you are getting older, it's better to practice safe sex more as your immunity is weaker at old age.