D. F. Escorts

[AldousM]

Let me give one to the group here. My second to last date was Glory31 from seeking. She was probably a 7 or 8. Her pics were her when she was an 8 or 9. She still looks good but put on a few pounds with Covid. She was up for DFK and oral natural but the act was covered. Honestly, her DFK was average and her BBBJ was below average, she did not know how to stroke with a HJ. Her awkward skills convinced me that she had not been with many guys. I asked her how many, and she said three.

Would I see her again? If I had not had the others, I would have. She was sweet, intelligent, but it was her cowgirl. Her cowgirl was off the chart, and she rode me so hard that she nearly broke my dick off. I could tell that she had not had sex for a while because she was like a man who got a sip of water after being in the desert. She had not had dick in a while.

Like the model / lawyer, Glory31 has Spanish ancestry and a European passport so flying to the USA is very doable for her. In fact, unlike so many other Latinas, getting a Mexican woman to the USA for a visit is often possible. I paid her $100 and was with her for four hours. She is SB material for sure and could be a great SB if she lost her pre-Covid weight and improved her skills.

But the date and sex with her was definitely a different experience than any escort I had been with. I hope someone picks her up.

I'm taking her out for sushi and sex on Friday! However it looks like I agreed to a bit more than you paid. Any other tips from her are greatly appreciated, and will be paid back with a bottle of tequila if we ever meet.

I guess I understand why she's always posing with that face on her pictures now.

[DramaFree11]

Seeking girls come with drama, that's just a fact. Humans are complex creatures, and the societal conditioning around sex makes women behave in even more complex ways. Of course, on top of that is just the fact that for some people flaking / lying is just a 'normal' thing to do while for others it is a character flaw. I am certainly no saint to expound on the character flaw angle but I think you get the gist of what I mean.

My first experience on SA 3 years ago was actually a girl in CDMX that I was complete in awe of. She and I spent several hours before I even thought of sex. We were having a wonderful time drinking the excellent red wine and dining in one of the fancy condesa restaurants. Finally she said, "I can't stand not touching you anymore" and then proceeded to have wild sex with me. The date lasted for 12 hours instead of scheduled 3 and at the end she refused to take more than the gift which I had assured her. I can swear she genuinely enjoyed the date.

A few month later I am back in the city and say, hey let's meet. She blocks me and never replies back. Go figure!

So true, you are leaving out the Substance Abuse Issues that a lot of these girls have. The girls I am meeting in MTY it is real not an issue, but the Houston and Austin Chicks, it was a major problem.

[SonicBoom1]

It is so funny you say that AW. When I scheduled my trip to CDMX, I was planning on spending half the time in Mexico City and half the time in Cancun with a seeking girl I met named Fit and Hot Girl. I met her two weeks earlier and she and I had a great time together. We fucked bare all night. She was tight, gave great head, kissed well, and was sweet. I paid her $200 for the whole night.

She even did girlfriend like things with me like asked me to let her know I made it home safe, got mad when I didn't hug her in bed. She connected with me some when I was away. I would have bet anyone she would have been waiting for me when I came back.

Nope.

Seeking girls come with drama, that's just a fact. Humans are complex creatures, and the societal conditioning around sex makes women behave in even more complex ways. Of course, on top of that is just the fact that for some people flaking / lying is just a 'normal' thing to do while for others it is a character flaw. I am certainly no saint to expound on the character flaw angle but I think you get the gist of what I mean.

My first experience on SA 3 years ago was actually a girl in CDMX that I was complete in awe of. She and I spent several hours before I even thought of sex. We were having a wonderful time drinking the excellent red wine and dining in one of the fancy condesa restaurants. Finally she said, "I can't stand not touching you anymore" and then proceeded to have wild sex with me. The date lasted for 12 hours instead of scheduled 3 and at the end she refused to take more than the gift which I had assured her. I can swear she genuinely enjoyed the date.

A few month later I am back in the city and say, hey let's meet. She blocks me and never replies back. Go figure!

[AquaWatt]

I just want to agree with AW here. The flakage percentage in CDMX may be the worst I have ever seen, and the street is a good plan be if the escorts flake on you.

Sad but all true Elvis. Luckily though the situation turns about 180 after you're a repeat customer. If you treat a girl nice and she trusts you then she'll probably flake on some other poor monger to come see you first. That's only to be expected for a girl to go for comfort and safety over seeing some new guy who could be trouble. Escorts, at least the smart ones, never forget what they do can be dangerous.

[Elvis 2008]

So CenTexCrash I hope you won't waste a weekend waiting on flaky escorts to answer you. Probably better to head over to Sullivan when you're on a tight schedule.

It is so funny you say that AW. When I scheduled my trip to CDMX, I was planning on spending half the time in Mexico City and half the time in Cancun with a seeking girl I met named Fit and Hot Girl. I met her two weeks earlier and she and I had a great time together. We fucked bare all night. She was tight, gave great head, kissed well, and was sweet. I paid her $200 for the whole night.

She even did girlfriend like things with me like asked me to let her know I made it home safe, got mad when I didn't hug her in bed. She connected with me some when I was away. I would have bet anyone she would have been waiting for me when I came back.

Nope.

I told her that I would be on June 26 when in reality I was there June 23 as I wanted to see other women. I thought that we would head to Cancun, and she then said, "I am not comfortable with that". She says that I will see you on the 26th and 28th, and she blows me off on the 26th. I was pissed. She then texts me the next day and says that she wants to spend the next 3 days together. I tell her that a friend of mine has taken me out of town. I tell her I can see her on the night of the 29th late. She does not show then. She says she can meet me my last day on the 30th at 1 PM. She gets there at 3:30, and the whole time she is demanding to see pictures of me and my friend. Clearly, she thinks I was lying and I was, but she lied first.

I love Mexico City but there clearly is a culture of lying and stealing that is not as prevalent as I have seen in other places. This was hardly the only example of it, and honestly, it was mild compared to other instances I will not go into.

I cannot tell you how many Twitter babes said they were available and when I asked them to show up ASAP, they would not come. One night I was blown off so much that I had to be satisfied by a street girl.

So if anyone wants to meet up with Hot and Fit girl, I give her my strongest recommendation. The first night I was with her was one of the best nights of sex I have had in my life.

And honestly I have no hard feelings because I would not have met the stunning women that I did had we spent so much time together.

I just want to agree with AW here. The flakage percentage in CDMX may be the worst I have ever seen, and the street is a good plan be if the escorts flake on you.

[AquaWatt]

And I have been talking to a few girls on WhatsApp. I think I've narrowed 4 prospects. I think.

I'd suggest you double down or triple down on that. The last time I tried a quick weekend visit to CDMX I contacted about 30 escorts on Whatsapp. Started with a few ladies I had seen before but none of them was working the weekend. That would've worked because if you're repeating she'll likely show. For about 25 others I just pasted the same message to most of them. Hola nine. Estas disponible el fin de semana que viene? Half never responded. The half who did respond some were not available but a half dozen said yes to Saturday night Sunday. Three were JC gold list recomendations. I made a firm date with one of the JC favorites and told the others I would get back to them.

She confirmed the day before and confirmed again the morning of, then still flaked. No apology. Just turned off her phone and stopped communicating. I started sending Whats to 2, 3, etc on the list asking if available. Several who promised to be available now had their phones turned off because the Whats never went through all afternoon. One who said yesterday she would be abailable now said she doesn't work weekends. That blew the whole afternoon sitting in the bar sending Whats. There wasn't even any action in the bar on a Sunday. A couple of ladies wrote back they were busy now but others never responded.

Then insult on top of injury the JC recomendation who confirmd a 1 pm date then flaked sends a Whats 10 hours late asking if we're still on. I'd already shut off the phone and gone to bed.

So CenTexCrash I hope you won't waste a weekend waiting on flaky escorts to answer you. Probably better to head over to Sullivan when you're on a tight schedule.

[Juan Carter]

Just remembered one other slight snag: ideal hotels only list their nightly availability Sun-Wed. For Thu-Fri-Sat it looks like hourly rates only.
As a safety measure booked a civilian / staging hotel 2 blocks from Villas Patriotismo. And I have been talking to a few girls on WhatsApp. I think I've narrowed 4 prospects. I think.

Under the Red Light hotels withing the city limits were not supposed to accept guests except for "essential workers". Now under the orange light, hotels within the city limits are allowed to have guests up to 30% of their maximum allowed occupancy. (Inside restaurants at 40%) This does not mean that any specific hotel or restaurant will in fact be open. I very strongly recommend that you verify your booking site reservation with a telephone call to your hotel. In pre-COVID times your could not book a 24 hour room online for Friday or Saturday nights for many hotels yet they might otherwise be available, sometimes at a higher rate, if you showed up at the door; the Amazonas comes to immediately to mind. Now mid-COVID I have no idea what hotels are available for long or short time. Official CDMX COVID information can be found at https://semaforo.covid19.cdmx.gob.mx/tablero/ Good luck, good hunting.

[CenTexCrash]

Some hang ups already encountered: Viva Bus's super convenient ground shuttles for airport-city center transfers are suspended to Covid, need to seek alternate shuttle service or shell out funds for a taxi. I can't think of the other hang ups.

Just remembered one other slight snag: ideal hotels only list their nightly availability Sun-Wed. For Thu-Fri-Sat it looks like hourly rates only.

As a safety measure booked a civilian / staging hotel 2 blocks from Villas Patriotismo.

And I have been talking to a few girls on WhatsApp. I think I've narrowed 4 prospects. I think.

[AquaWatt]

I thought my vehicle related non-monger mission in Nuevo Laredo was to be finished last weekend, but that got punted into overtime, damnit. End result, I have a 4 day weekend and have to waste at least one day going back to Laredo to fish out the car, and one possibility is just ride a bus to Laredo Thursday, pick up car and dead head back to Central Texas and be done with it, and resume July 4th weekend back home.

Other possibility: I haven't had action since March, I have a 4 day weekend, and with parades and gatherings canceled, heatwave in forecast, there is zero hurry to retreat back home.

Here is my outlook I tossed together. I apologize in advance. Actually, not really. Again it's not a question of if I'm crazy but how crazy (and itching for flesh).

-Wednesday, immediately after work, catch a LONG Greyhound that runs 4 pm-1 am Austin to Monterrey. Thinking Motel Dali, get some sleep for early rise.

-Thursday. Freshen up, monger scene starts around 10 am get at least one session in, maybe 2 (doubtful), don't over do, don't spin wheels finding dead leads. Report to MTY airport by 3:30-4 pm for 5:30 pm flight MTY-TIJ. Get settled in and explore a night in Zona Norte if that's still relevant during Covid. Hit the sack.

-Friday. Freshen up early, and back to TIJ airport for 9 am flight TIJ-CDMX. Touch down 2:30 pm, try to be settled in by 4 pm. See how lenient Villas Patriotismo is. Narrowing candidates for an early evening date and a late matinee date. Wondering if love hotels have been known to freeze the meter (holds breath).

-Saturday. Maybe afternoon monger scene or be on my best behavior. Does Sullivan / Merced have daytime prospects? Get another doubling early evening and matinee evening. Same as above. Or do afternoon date, early evening date, then browse Sullivan.

-Sunday. Report to airport for 12 pm flight CDMX-MTY. Would like to hang around, but on someone else's schedule (boo!) so need to catch a bus and be back to Nuevo Laredo at a decent hour. Hope and pray personal vehicle in equation is finished and ready to drive because I didn't think that far ahead of a fallback plan.

Some hang ups already encountered: Viva Bus's super convenient ground shuttles for airport-city center transfers are suspended to Covid, need to seek alternate shuttle service or shell out funds for a taxi. I can't think of the other hang ups.

That's an ambicious plan! Weekends in CDMX are a ***** for visiters like you and myself with limited time. If you're going to see any of the escorts we've reviewed here you need to be starting on Whatsapp like yesterday. If you're seeing a girl for the first time there's maybe a 50-50 chance she'll show up.

Most of the times I've tried to do a weekend in CDMX I got a lot of flakes. Last time I tried it I was only one night at the airport hotel before early departure. I started on Whats three days out but none of my regulars was interested in working Sunday. A lot of these girls have kids in school or daycare M-F and so they're playing mom on weekends. I got firm commitments from three of JCs highly recommended list. The first one flaked and the other two who promised they were available both had their phones turned off.

And another reason to avoid the weekend is that love hotels are flaky with reservations. It's happened to me twice I arrived on Friday or Saturday and they couldn't find me a room even when I had their confirmation in my hand.

Sullivan is just not my scene but it's probably a better fit for your time frame.

[Elvis 2008]

-Friday. Freshen up early, and back to TIJ airport for 9 am flight TIJ-CDMX. Touch down 2:30 pm, try to be settled in by 4 pm. See how lenient Villas Patriotismo is. Narrowing candidates for an early evening date and a late matinee date. Wondering if love hotels have been known to freeze the meter (holds breath).

-Saturday. Maybe afternoon monger scene or be on my best behavior. Does Sullivan / Merced have daytime prospects? Get another doubling early evening and matinee evening. Same as above. Or do afternoon date, early evening date, then browse Sullivan.

Patriotismo is not expensive, like $30 a day, and you check in at 3 PM. I also like that you can line up a room there on booking.com but be aware the rooms tend to go fast so plan ahead.

All the street walker regions that JC told me about that I checked out were active. I think I drove by Sullivan street and it was lined by working girls. I also saw action in the hotel Savoy area which I think is different than Sullivan. I was in an Uber that drove up Sullivan I believe. I recall seeing like 30 working girls on the prowl.

Anyway, yes, there is plenty of street action.

[Elvis 2008]

Great info Elvis, I tend to agree with you. I too have done both sb and escorts. I had two in Costa Rica and 1 in MTY. I tend to like semi-pro. What I mean is an employed lady that is just looking for some side cash and not too greedy.

Al, I didn't explain the value part well. In Mexico, I only had very limited success the first three or four times I went to Mexico and pretty much they were escorts masquerading as SBs. I totally get the claim that escorts are as good as sugar babies, cheaper, and fulfill fantasies as well. I would have told guys the hunt for SBs was as pointless in Mexico as it is in the USA.

Since Covid hit though, things have changed. Between CMDX and Monterrey, I met three lawyers, two dental students, a business administrator / MBA type, a Nike manager, esthetician, and a clothing store manager. All went into the SB market due to covid related changes. The point is there really wan't a SB market in Mexico prior to Covid but there is now, and I am not sure how long it will last.

I had seven SB dates when I was in Mexico City. Four of the women wanted a price upfront. Three completely trusted me to take care of them when we were done.

Looks wise, there was no difference between the looks of SB prospects and escorts in my pre-Covid trips. This trip, I was with four women that were SB prospects that I considered 10's. There was a model / actress, a model / lawyer, a marathon runner, and a boxer of all things. One was Venezuelan, a Cuban-Mexican mix, a pure Mexican, and a Colombian.

Of the seven dates, I was bare with three of them. Of the 10's, two out of four let me go bare, and the other two said that they would be okay with it after I got testing. IMO you are getting nowhere trying to go bare with escorts. And no, I do not want to debate the ethics of it, but that is one reason to go the SB versus escort route.

The other thing with me is taking trips. One of the 10's, the marathon runner, really liked me and after meeting me, texted me every day. I took her shopping at Walmart our second date (my only repeat), and later that day after having sex, she fell asleep in my arms for 2 hours. When I mentioned going to Cancun, she was excited, and I booked our trip. She has not mentioned price, and she may be disappointed if I pay her nothing (I won't) but she would still want to go.

The hard bodied Venezuelan escort wanted $1500 for two days. Another SB prospect, but really escort like, wanted $750 with no length of time specified. I suspect the boxer and lawyer / model would both have been open to it. The model / actress would have wanted escort like rates.

Let me give one to the group here. My second to last date was Glory31 from seeking. She was probably a 7 or 8. Her pics were her when she was an 8 or 9. She still looks good but put on a few pounds with Covid. She was up for DFK and oral natural but the act was covered. Honestly, her DFK was average and her BBBJ was below average, she did not know how to stroke with a HJ. Her awkward skills convinced me that she had not been with many guys. I asked her how many, and she said three.

Would I see her again? If I had not had the others, I would have. She was sweet, intelligent, but it was her cowgirl. Her cowgirl was off the chart, and she rode me so hard that she nearly broke my dick off. I could tell that she had not had sex for a while because she was like a man who got a sip of water after being in the desert. She had not had dick in a while.

Like the model / lawyer, Glory31 has Spanish ancestry and a European passport so flying to the USA is very doable for her. In fact, unlike so many other Latinas, getting a Mexican woman to the USA for a visit is often possible. I paid her $100 and was with her for four hours. She is SB material for sure and could be a great SB if she lost her pre-Covid weight and improved her skills.

But the date and sex with her was definitely a different experience than any escort I had been with. I hope someone picks her up.

[AldousM]

-Friday. Freshen up early, and back to TIJ airport for 9 am flight TIJ-CDMX. Touch down 2:30 pm, try to be settled in by 4 pm. See how lenient Villas Patriotismo is. Narrowing candidates for an early evening date and a late matinee date. Wondering if love hotels have been known to freeze the meter (holds breath).

Villas is working 100% confirmed.

Had a 4 hour date with LizKitsune this past Friday. Sneaked in some gin and chocolates, and fucked like crazy. I highly recommend her.

She's tall (around 5'10) fit, and has a few tattoos on one of her legs. Tits have been worked on professionally.

[CenTexCrash]

I thought my vehicle related non-monger mission in Nuevo Laredo was to be finished last weekend, but that got punted into overtime, damnit. End result, I have a 4 day weekend and have to waste at least one day going back to Laredo to fish out the car, and one possibility is just ride a bus to Laredo Thursday, pick up car and dead head back to Central Texas and be done with it, and resume July 4th weekend back home.

Other possibility: I haven't had action since March, I have a 4 day weekend, and with parades and gatherings canceled, heatwave in forecast, there is zero hurry to retreat back home.

Here is my outlook I tossed together. I apologize in advance. Actually, not really. Again it's not a question of if I'm crazy but how crazy (and itching for flesh).

-Wednesday, immediately after work, catch a LONG Greyhound that runs 4 pm-1 am Austin to Monterrey. Thinking Motel Dali, get some sleep for early rise.

-Thursday. Freshen up, monger scene starts around 10 am get at least one session in, maybe 2 (doubtful), don't over do, don't spin wheels finding dead leads. Report to MTY airport by 3:30-4 pm for 5:30 pm flight MTY-TIJ. Get settled in and explore a night in Zona Norte if that's still relevant during Covid. Hit the sack.

-Friday. Freshen up early, and back to TIJ airport for 9 am flight TIJ-CDMX. Touch down 2:30 pm, try to be settled in by 4 pm. See how lenient Villas Patriotismo is. Narrowing candidates for an early evening date and a late matinee date. Wondering if love hotels have been known to freeze the meter (holds breath).

-Saturday. Maybe afternoon monger scene or be on my best behavior. Does Sullivan / Merced have daytime prospects? Get another doubling early evening and matinee evening. Same as above. Or do afternoon date, early evening date, then browse Sullivan.

-Sunday. Report to airport for 12 pm flight CDMX-MTY. Would like to hang around, but on someone else's schedule (boo!) so need to catch a bus and be back to Nuevo Laredo at a decent hour. Hope and pray personal vehicle in equation is finished and ready to drive because I didn't think that far ahead of a fallback plan.

Some hang ups already encountered: Viva Bus's super convenient ground shuttles for airport-city center transfers are suspended to Covid, need to seek alternate shuttle service or shell out funds for a taxi. I can't think of the other hang ups.

[Juan Carter]

Peeling back all the layers of your thesis, a hooker is a hooker regardless of the smoke and mirrors, and I'm fine with chicas wanting to leave right after a session. In fact, I want them gone more than they want to be gone.

I am reminded of the old joke with the punchline "We've established what you are, now we are just haggling over the price. " To me, it is like being a little bit pregnant. They all are real people with private lives. Probably 95% of the escorts I have met claim to be students. I don't judge, a few professional girls have become my friends. The Sugar Baby sites are a good place to find clients rich enough to pay a cover charge to shop. If it makes you feel better believing you are with a "semi-pro" then feel as good as you want. A good professional girl will try to fulfill your fantasy.

[HotelAl]

Great info Elvis, I tend to agree with you. I too have done both sb and escorts. I had two in Costa Rica and 1 in MTY. I tend to like semi-pro. What I mean is an employed lady that is just looking for some side cash and not too greedy. Here's an example, I brought a lady an iPhone 6, I paid $200 and saw her 4 times and gave just uber fare. We would spend hours together.

The difference between an escort and a sugar baby (SB) is that escorts are purely an exchange of sex for money while a sugar baby sugar daddy relationship usually includes sex for something of value (usually money but not always), but there is at a minimum of at least a friendship component to the relationship. Thing is the sugar baby and escort concepts vary in value from country to country.

In Mexico, I have had a hard time with SBs in the past. The women posting on seeking were escort types with an inflated sense of self-worth. The value of escorts than over SBs in Mexico was immense. After 8 days and many dates, I really only found one who met my criteria of someone who I enjoy spending time in and out of the bedroom with. In fact, the only reason I came to CDMX was that I could not go to Colombia.

What has changed now though is that Covid has hit and many of the best and most amazing women have become available. They are not the sad sack losers who cannot get a job, are hooked on drugs, and are bitter and blame men for their condition. They are amazing women who just lost their jobs from Covid.

So if you are a guy who is married and just wants or needs to taste strange, escorts are probably the way for you. For me, after a while, it was not satisfying to meet women, pay them, and see them wanting to run out of the room. Even when you are with one who wants to stay, and if she is escort enough, she will want to be paid by the hour and becomes frustrated when she does not get it. Some really believe the by the hour stuff is for their company and not sex.

It takes a special woman to be a SB then. She has to be strong enough to shrug off the prince charming fairy tale and do what needs to be done to survive and not fall into the trap of being a victim but lose herself and wind up a working girl. She is also going to have to withstand societal shaming because every time she is seen with an older man, everyone is going to think she is a working girl out for money. At the end of the day, she has to be able to stand and say, "Stop telling me what I should do. He makes me happy, and isn't that what is important, being with a man who makes me happy?

And most guys are not cut out to be Sugar daddies. A SB is someone you care about, someone you do not pay to leave. The most common question I get from guys is how much. That is an escort mentality. The idea is that you are going to take care of your SB and meet their needs, but while you take input from them, you decide what their needs are not them. It is easy to confuse needs and desires. Steve Jobs said it is easier to make money than to give it away. Giving money the wrong way can lead to dependence and resentment. You have to be strong enough to say no, deal with an often short term unhappy woman, and find a woman who knows that when you tell her no, it is in her best own interests that you did so.

On top of that, being a good sugar daddy means you need to be secure. Most people in society want to believe that the woman who is a 9 or 10 should be with the guy who is a 10. For the most part of my life, I believed it. Hell, we are trained to believe that. Every TV show and movie shows the attractive couple but think about it. What does a woman get being with a guy who is an Adonis? She looks cool. And? The notion is if the guy looks good he is successful in most other areas of his life. What I have noticed is the opposite. I shy away from Adonis type men in the business world because I have learned that they are male working girls expecting to be paid off for just being around versus doing the job at hand. The 10 women know that. They are in demand from the 10 men and one of my SBs after dating a 10 man said, "I will never go out with someone equally good looking to me again. " She was tired of making him look good, fending off the other women, and in the end, she asked, "What am I really getting out of this relationship?

How many times have you read that the women do not really want to be with you? They just want your money and really prefer people their own age. If you believe a hot woman wants to be with you, you are delusional right? I used to think that too, but I don't now. There are beautiful, young women who do want to spend time with me and not just for money. They call, email, and text me every day. I am helping out six women right now in Colombia and one in Brazil. Four of them have vocalized to me that they feel all alone right now, and the other three have at some time or another let me know they feel that way. I have said to those four, "You are not alone. You have me. " They may have just one-seventh of me, and society may tell them if they do not have a whole man, they should leave me, but the women then ask themselves, "isn't one seventh of him better than nothing?

I didn't accept when a woman said "You are the best lover I have ever had. ", but after I heard it for the fifth time, I did believe it. With me, common sense maneuvers seem to be uncommon, and my stamina has increased not decreased with age.

One Colombian woman was upset with me when I insisted on uncovered sex. We men are trained to think we are assholes for asking for that. Hell to some people, it is practically rape and most times I would have blown the woman off when she suggested I was an asshole for wanting it. However, I felt this woman was worth my time in setting her straight so I said to her, "Don't give me that strong woman, victim bullshit. You and I both know that there are a hundred women I could call right now who would fulfill my needs. I will be patient. I will wait if you are not comfortable, but I am not going to put up with shaming after all I have done for you. If you are not interested in fulfilling my needs, then I am not interested in fulfilling yours, and this is over. ".

I used to get pissed off about this: giving women money and then having to discipline them. Now I think it is a greater gift than even money. These women get to be disciplined by someone who is truly out for their own best interests. The best women know this and say, "Thank you so much for being patient with me when I was being such a *****" as happened with this girl.

Do you want a woman who sucks a great cock or do you want a woman who does the same thing but gets off on pleasing you? I like the SBs more but I do see escorts when I have a need for a sure thing.

The women really define if they are prostitutes not us. If a woman lets me know that she feels like a working girl, I turn it on them. Well, then show the world you are not like that. Some of them, the best ones, get it. One of my SBs insists on cooking for me, cleaning for me, and won't let me pack my own suitcase when I leave town. It doesn't take much for people to see then whether our relationship is based on sex for money or not, and it is really obvious to other women.

It is like dating. You will be stood up. You will spend money and not get a return on it, but you do it to find a special woman or women.

Is it worth it? Well, you will have to continue to read my adventures, but as a bit of foreshadowing, I think most people would say yes.