San Jose - 2003 Reports

[Lee]

To all who may be in town.
Will be at the hotel Del Rey August 24th through August 31st. Would be happy to have a drink with and compare notes with anyone in town. Not my first trip to San Jose. From 1997 I've been making this trip about three times a year.
My last trip was in January. I like being there for Super Bowl weekend. Would like to take this opportunity to think all those who have posted since January for keeping me up-to-date. The last few posts have made reference to the quality of the girls. In the time I have been going to Costa Rica I would have to disagree with the posted that the quality of the girls have gone down. I would agree that the average age has decreased. And that may be why I consider the quality improvement. I do like that 19 to 24 group.
Not wishing to start any arguments I will qualify my statements by saying that I like short-term relationships. Two - three hours and I'm ready to move on. Not to say that I have not taken a girl for two or three days off to someplace.
I find Costa Rica and enjoyable place to visit. The people are nice to me and I do my best to be nice back. I believe in treating the girls with respect are as I like to put it( your money gets them to your room your attitude keeps them there).
Lee

[EddieC]

Real-Thrill,

A buddy of mine is an immigration lawyer. I asked him once (after a trip to Mexico) what it would take to get a visa for this girl to visit. He said it depends on where she's from. South and Central America are my thing and he said most countries down there are not easy.

One thing he suggested was to get my girl a visa to come visit like a tourist. If she gets that she can come and stay for 6 months before she leaves. After that she can go home and come back again later. He suggested I do that once or twice before making any moves towards marriage.

I don't know if this will happen to you but I was so eager to make it happen when I got back. But after a while the idea started to sink in. A month later I decided not to go through with it. Looking back I have no real regrets. I still travel for the "thrills." And maybe some day some lovely lady will catch my eye and hold it this time.

Good luck. If you want a good lawyer let me know.

Ed

[ViajeroTropico]

Mujerero,

I don't disagree with you one bit...my comments were more to compare what the fishing was like during the prime time of KL.., (I reference 1989 until the big demise in mid to late nineties) and more than the last 3-4 years at BM; there were some very fine trophies in these places, very fine, and as a much higher percentage as to what is there now. They were in their mid-twenties (sometimes a bit more) that didn't appear to have just gotten out of (or maybe still in high school)...

I really have no opinion as to whether this present situation isn't still good. You make a very good point: compare this to northern fishing grounds and there is no comparison, especially as you say for 40+ dudes who don't have tons of change to support high maintenance stock....

[Ace00]

Sale on US Airways to SJO for $338.
US Air website has a sale to SJO, Saturdays only, Nov 8, 15, 22, 29, Dec 6, return by Dec 13 from Boston, Baltimore, WDC, Phil, LaGuardia, Charlotte. Buy by Aug 1st. Check for add on from your city.
I assume their listing of Washington DC is Dulles.
Check for other dates and other prices. I am of the impression they fly there only on Saturdays, but check.

[Mujerero]

viajererotropico,

look on the bright side, bare midriffs help to expose whether they have a lot of stretch marks. besides i've had some pretty good times with 19 to 22 year olds. face it how likely is a 40+ year old to get something like that in the sack up in femi-nazi-land? it's a dirty old man's paradise."disneyland for men"i don't care if they wear jeans or stilleto heels and a garter belt, i'm gonna get 'em out of either, with all deliberate speed.

[ViajeroTropico]

what i learned cruising gringo gulch last night, and then an opinion.

first, spent some time in both pickup places, kl and bm. sat at length with a colombian, who just started her bm cruising in recent months, just about the time the authourities started getting tough. she has been in costa rica three years, got in on an asylum basis. that has run out...

anyway, she says that tourism is considered a number one tourist attraction, and recent fame and activities regarding the sex tourism destination was getting to be too much (plus this report possibly given on this board ealier regarding **** activities by some). without a doubt, any of us that have been monitoring this in the last decade could testify with regard to the significant number of domincans and nicaraguans that had been coming into the trade...

anyway, yes there has been a huge crackdown on dcoumentation..it freaked her out...she fixed her probelm by getting married to a tico...on paper only...nice trick.

anyway took her for a session, and although she wanted to, it wasn{t that good...i give it a five, only because she had a very sexy body, and once we did start sroking the hole she appeared to really enjoy it...this was one of those times i wish i had viagra or just a dildo...this lady really got off on penetration...

now an opionion. key largo is all remodeled, and yes they have created the back door so that they girls can run over from one side to the other real easy. it appears the only may be trying to get kl back to its glory days when it was pretty cool...besides having the ladies in there, it had a lot of tourist couples dancing, etc...somewhat of a more cloaked pickup meat market for pros..more of a night club with activiy than just a way station....

early in the night there was no cover, but when the music started, they wanted a cover...i refused to pay and they would let me pass...however, on a friday or saturday that might not fly...

the thing that struck me most about the scene was the huge number of 19 to 22 year olds cruising the bm...there were no tropies...i mean maybe a couple here and there...but not that many years ago, one could spot a just a really sexy lady...a 9-10, with class, ..now it seems the style is wear hip huggers and show midriff and you are sexy...very dsappointing.

another thing i saw was a disproportionate amount of ladies just sitting and hanging out on the restaurant side..with that little bar now over there...that was never that way in the glory days...it may have been because there wasn{t enough space on the other side, but it appeared to me more to be a thing of refuge and positioning if something happened...because there was a lot space at the time in the bm bar where those tables are...

perhaps things will mellow out...and this business will settle down...but for the moment i see this as waters fulll of minnow or shad, and the big lunkers have gone down to deeper water...spooked for awhile. by that i refer to tryly beatuiful ladies who were just woking on the side for a little extra income who knew how to please a guy....

sounds like new fantasy and other places is a place that offers a bit more security and some good ones are seeking refuge there,...but i didn´t go there to evaluate..just taking the opinion of those who recently report the quality being high there....

good luck on seeking out...i willl be back here in 3 months or so, and shall compare there...

[Mule69]

Hola...Read this yesterday in A.M. Costa Rica via their website article in part reads as follows "officials have generally looked the other way in matters of massage parlors,places of prostitutionhowever the Pachecho administration has adopted a moralistic tone and has used existing laws to clean up areas known for such activities.The continual weekend searches by the immigration police are directed at bars and hotels that cater to sexual contact".....Article uses Arte Sauna as an example....Damn I hope this shit cools off.....Mule

[ViajeroTropico]

Tanager..

What good points you make...had I totally understood the work and effort required for a cross-cultural marriage, I wonder if I would have done it....more to the point...it is more work than a normal marriage, and that is difficult enough...well stated, and I also think that your comment concern addiciton dysfunction, etc, was right on the mark..

[Tanager]

Real-Thrill,

If you’re talking about being with your Tica forever, then there certainly is no hurry. Speaking from experience, do not underestimate the challenges inherent in a cross-cultural marriage. Jaimito Cartero’s suggestions are good ones. Do you want to introduce this Tica to your family and friends and co-workers? Do you want her seated at the family dinner table on holidays? Maybe yes, maybe no...

Sex addicts? Men who travel to foreign countries for the express purpose of mongering apparently have a higher sex drive than most other men, but the word “addiction” implies dysfunction. If you’re suffering and your life is disintegrating because of uncontrollable cravings, then you are an addict. But if you are not suffering... if you are loving every minute of it and keeping it together like most of the guys you read on this board... then you are not an addict, you are simply an enthusiast (a connoisseur?).

Tanager

[ViajeroTropico]

fiancee visa..further clarifications...90 days to get married, after that one gets a temporary residency until one´s application for green card is approved, which in our case took about 8 months...

[ViajeroTropico]

fiance visa...is valid for 90 days...I know all about it..that is how I got mine into the country 24 years, 10 months ago....

[Mule69]

Wanda is not that thrilled that she has become famous via this site...Poor girl is working her ass off and she probably wanted to send a message that she has retired.The girl has mongers waiting in line and there is probably some resentment with the other girls..My bet is she is still working but wants it to slow down a bit..By the way her real name is rosarxxx and she supports her mom and son.She propably got someone to post she is through but i think not.She has great oral skills...but try some of the other girls ...Any suggestions....Mule

[Real-Thrill]

Viajerotropico or Jaimito,

Email me at real-thrill@excite.com.

My hobby buddy thinks I've fallen off my rocker. I think I'm taking a road less travelled.

Later guys,
Real

[ViajeroTropico]

real...I am in Costa Rica today...a little bit obligaed with business, but I will send you my opinion on much of what you wrote via email....bottom line is though...you are getting a taste of latin, no, Central American women who know what it is to be a women...you see, their heads haven't been all fucked up with stuff....later, V

[Afinidad]

Real-Thrill,

I enjoy those sort of questions. I think addiction involves obsession. Symptoms may involve a state of mind of always planning the next trip, neglecting important responsibilities, like family and work, spending money you cannot afford to spend, a general lose of control. Look at the needle junkie, they live for the next fix.

As to animal instincts, of course we have them, but many are successful at controling them, or at least practicing moderation. It seems in our best interest. Having said this, I have personally taken more of these trips than I could afford, spent too much time planning them in between, and on a couple of occasions, got out the calculator and found out that I could have skipped the travel and done escorts in my own back yard and come out cheaper. LOL, can these sex vacations be addictive? Yes. I am sure many on here would agree. lol

As to bringing a girl back, if you marry her overseas, I think they have to let her in, after all, she would be your wife. I cannot imagine there being a lot of red tape, but maybe there is.

It was mentioned that many mongers are married. I am only curious, how do you explain these trips? Do you say you are going to Central America with the buddies for fishing, then make sure you get a tan? What if they want to see pictures of the fish you caught? lol Do the other halves not start to get suspicious after a while? Most people I know were aware that Costa Rica is a prime destination for whoring, without me ever saying anything. It is not that big of a secret.

Afinidad