Date In Asia

[MadisonGuy]

Damn who the heck ruined the online dating with Pinay? It's been close to a decade since I've done it but they're all just wanting money for photos now. WHo the hell is feeding these people, it's ruining the pick up game. Literally every girl has asked for money. I never had that happen a decade ago, they were all happy to plan on meeting when I visited. I'm not really in the game anymore, but I feel bad for the guys who are because it's really crappy right now. Maybe the ease of sending money over internet has made things worse. Give them money when you see them, or don't depending on the girl and your intentions. There's hundreds of videos on pornhub just type in Pinay or Filipina, no need to pay for that grab or live chats.

[Kabul Guy]

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Rose is seeking a daddy that wants companionship only and not anything that is sexual.

Not uncommon here on any dating profile for them to say long term only nothing sexual then hop in the sack in the first 10 minutes.

They do this so if friends and family see it they can deny what heir real reason is. Plausible deniability only. How they deny the extra few thousand p in their purse is another story.

I ignore that part and simply ask straight out in first few chats if they want to meet for sex. If no then good bye, if yes then HELLO.

[Cuba Tourist]

I went to look at Sa and the first profile was for 2 girls -- good start, right? Toobrokegirls. But it was terrible once you read a bit.

Hi! Welcome to our profile! We're two college girls looking to meet new people and make connections.

First up we have Zoe. (First girl in the profile) she's okay with everything and anything (but with boundaries of course). She's awkward at first but once you both get comfortable with each other she won't stop talking. A great cook as well! If you two meet you have to let her cook for you! Physically she's a little chubby but working on getting her body back, 5'7 in height and wears glasses.

Second, we have Rose (who is the second girl in this profile) she wants to try out being a sugar baby but without anything sexual. She's very fun to be with and witty as well. A really great conversationalist, talk to her about anything and everything and she always has something to add on. Physically, she's quite petite, around 5'4 in height and wears glasses too.

Both girls are open to travelling, companionship and friendship as well. If you want to know more about us, send us a message here and be sure to direct it properly! We both manage this account and will identify ourselves when we chat.

Rose is seeking a daddy that wants companionship only and not anything that is sexual.

[TJ222]

I am surprised anyone can even use the site anymore. I had an account I used for years with no problems. Got tired of it and deleted it. About a year later I decided to see how the site was doing, made a legit new account, real email, real picture, real basic deets, nothing untoward, and bam, instabanned. Contacted support. Nothing. Tried again, instabanned.

[Kabul Guy]

.... But if people think that a different website actually would produce a better batch of candidates I would not be adverse to try.

My best results in finding high quality smart sexy women has been on SA. I had a 22 year old hottie move in for 2 and a half months, sexy and horny as hell, had a university degree so could actually talk to her and she never asked for any cash. I did buy here a phone when she lost hers (true loss, it was working fine no cracked screen and it fell out of her pocket on a trike) I paid for a short course she needed to keep her qualifications current and other than expenses that was it. No demands for higher and better accommodations, fancy meals etc, she was content to stay home and fuck and suck all day except when I wanted to go out then she was a classy lady on my arm.

We might still be together had her parents not found out what was going on and insisted she come home right now.

This weekend have first face to face with a 32 year old nurse, OFW experienced smart and sexy who has indicated a willingness to spend the rest of her life sucking and fucking all I want. We wil see how it works out but should be an interesting weekend. She promises to be a slightly older version of Miss 22 and does not have the same family issues and domination of her parents.

For my money, if you want smart women, sexy and with regular lives they are on SA. Yes some scammers and fuglies but easy to sort them out.

[Sammon]

Yes, administration at DIA has loosened a bit. I have openly asked for sex and compensation. So far they have not banned me. I had been banned 3 times few years back. Always managed to open new accounts. I believe my being locked out is because I was nasty to ladyboys on many occasions who pretended to be girls in the beginning and later confessed. Now I am polite.

My target age group is 18-23. I have found many good looking at least based on the pics. I always take them to chatting sites and see them cam to cam. Most of the pics are photo shopped. I have been lucky over the years to find pretty girls and I have posted pics of them.

I avoid girls with babies mainly because their motivations are to get money and not service you well. Although they tend to be ready for sex quicker.

At this stage in my life I am interested in young pretty girls stay with me as GF and travel and do things rather than one for breakfast, one for lunch and one overnight.

Ofcourse lots of questions about how serious etc. I do not promise anything. I have seen girls get angry at me on chatting and later came back to be with me. It is natural because they are looking for a way out when dating foreigners. Currently chatting a 20 year old quite pretty and planning to stay with her on my next trip next month. Plan is 4 days in Taipei alone to see sights then to Cebu. Have been chatting with many Philippine OFW in Taipei to see if they want to stay with me but do far no luck. They all want to get married and come to America LOL.

[PedroMorales]

I am returning to the Philippines after several years absence. I am still using my same date in Asia account. .

The moron admins on DIA screwed it up. Sad.

Thanks for the reports. DIA's model is obviously setting up relationships and they are weeding out folk who post here and the women folk posting here look for. I'd imagine the ladyboys have every imaginable app opened to maximise business. The women we might look for are long gone from DIA.

One thing about age. The Jolibee and Red Horse diet is not good for women wanting to keep a trim figure.

[Cuba Tourist]

I am returning to the Philippines after several years absence. I am still using my same date in Asia account. The last several days have been going on there and sending messages like crazy. The response has been overwhelming. Despite hours of responding, I still have 70 unread messages. There does appear to be a lot more ladyboys than before but maybe I'm just more discerning and able to pick them out better.

There's definitely less highly attractive women. There used to be tons of really really pretty girls and now sometimes I have to scroll three or four pages just to find one. I'm not sure why that should be since presumably photography has made it easier to create a beautiful photo in the last 10 years so more girls should be able to produce top shelf photos. So I have to presume that this is because a lot more of them are actually ugly.

There's a lot more single mothers so that's bad as well and a lot of them want to send photos of them with their child or children. I have to resist the urge to tell them that I just want to fuck them and they should leave their children out of this. Obviously they're looking for a foreign guy who wants to support their child.

I started 18 to 25 and then I started to pick some of the photos that they display at the bottom of a profile. I ended up moving into the 28 to 35 age range and I thought it would be easier. This turned out not to be the case. Much more of the older women start a challenging me right away. They wanted to know exactly how old I was how many times have been to the Philippines and especially how I could prove that I was serious and not just interested in as they call it fun. Because there are so many responses it's easy enough to just terminate these discussions. But as result I went back to looking at the younger group.

There's also less working students usually University of Cebu students who are there on scholarship and have to work 15 or 20 hours a week as part of the arrangement pair this was very good because they were bright and intellectually interested but still needed money. I haven't seen barely any like that although I'm sure there are few who just didn't announce that.

I've learned to just keep the conversation simple and direct. They like a compliment such as you have a nice smile. They want to know that you're coming as in I'm coming to Cebu next month. They want to know that you have resources as in I'm planning to stay in a nice hotel and they don't want to be told that you're going to be a butterfly. I put in a few things to make it clear that any serious relationship is way down the road and that I'm looking for someone sensuous but I don't rub it in their face.

They really should separate out the ladyboys somehow. I find myself scanning the photos carefully to try to figure out who's who. Apparently this is a problem for the women as well. One woman wrote in her profile I'm not a ladyboy. It's very hard to tell. Most of the really super attractive women turn out to be ladyboys. Most of the ladyboys appear to identify themselves as such in the profile so it's not a huge problem but it makes the whole process less enjoyable and probably annoys everybody.

The administrators seem to have lightened up a little bit. Last time they would only let you send the same message for five times and then they would stop letting you email messages and say you have to send unique messages. This didn't make any sense because if it was an initial message you don't know if the woman is even going to read it so there's no point in personalizing it. They've stopped that and now you can send the same message to your heart's content.

They are also our little bit less sensitive about what you say. I'm pretty careful not to say anything to explicit about money or sex but once in a while something slips through. 10 years ago they banned me briefly for saying a few things that were really entirely innocent. Now I said something a little bit more explicit about money by accident and they didn't seem to take any notice.

I don't know if there be any particular benefit in trying a different website. This one is easy to use and I know how it works. There seems to be a good selection certainly a lot and I've been getting plenty of phone numbers. The quality is not so good. There's almost nobody there who's middle class and bright. There's not that many that are that pretty. But I am not sure that I'll find either of those things on any other website either. But if people think that a different website actually would produce a better batch of candidates I would not be adverse to try.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

Haven't used DIA here in a few years.

The news is not good.

At least 50% scammers. Nearly half flakes when trying to meet. Response rate is high but out of 100 responses, about 1 will actually meet. Another 5 will waver and eventually flake. At least 10% will post "Hi" to whatever question you ask.

The moron admins on DIA screwed it up. They not only made a TON of ENEMIES by banning and deleting people for no reason other than they did not act exactly like the prude admins of the site want.

Then they got rid of all the woman profiles of women looking for fun. And all the pic of their bodies, face shots only mostly, nothing sexy.

Cannot even tell if the girl is fat or has tits. Profiles are all the same, vacuous, BS and lies.

I got past all their BS requirements to register (took some time and effort) and found it was not even worth the effort.

Mostly now there are flaky girls who think their snatch is made of gold and want to be treated like a princess. Lots of fugly ones too.

The website is still free and works well, but the admins there a aholes, there is no freedom and the quality and attitudes of the girls are not much different from the cr*ap you get in the USA.

Just a weak shadow of it's past glory. In the past they still had a lot of scammers and ladyboys, but at least you could find sexy girls wanting to have fun. Now it's bad attitude and flake time.

Sad.

[BrainDrain]

Nice post Sammon. I had to resort to ghosting recently to get rid a chick whom I connected with on WeChat. I felt pretty bad about it. We'd been chatting since late November, but had never met. Very pretty and not a working girl, although I reckon she'd been with a few foreigners before. I was cultivating her to meet on my next trip as I think she would have been a keeper. She was well and truly falling in love so it was time to pull the plug.

Thanks for sharing this. It's a real pain when that happens as you also have to trash a few other connections.

I had one good profile for a few years then decided that I need to trash it based on a particular EE cup Filipino. Last week I installed snapchat and somehow it identified that she was a possible contact. As long as we are using social media, those evil people will try and "reconnect with your friends".

BD.

[Acejack]

I go harder on the exclusive thing as I am not looking to share but once I leave its welcome to Dumpsville. Population YOU. Phillipino girls are realistic but I try to let them live the dream while I can.

[PedroMorales]

I like how most profiles always have words of wisdom, the types one might find in a school primer, eg, : Riches are not measured in material goods but in the jewels of the soul. My favourites are laong the lines of "I am not a scammer" very like Is the Pope a Catholic?

[Albert9989]

Most of successes are from DIA. In fact all of them. There is a trick to get what you want. Ignore their profile, I do not even bother to read them. Also I ignore most of their ramblings and just get to the point. In order to avoid getting locked out I take the conversation to Skype or other. There it is easy to get to the point. Money and stay issues are discussed and get together is arranged and fun had. Initially all of them come across as girls building castles in the air and day old virgins but almost all of them are willing to have fun if you play it right. I find lots of them are honest real girls looking for happy life but will settle for friendship and repeat service. Many ladyboys are there trying to scam but if you ask directly they do admit.

I have met and had lots of fun with many young girls and many are very good in bed ready to please. I look for GFE. So much so I do not like stinky pussies of bar girls, their attitude. And also fuck and run mentality. Cost wise it is much cheaper with DIA girls.

Have taken vacations with many and they were good.

Yes, it is true some bail out but is partly their choice. They might have found better prospects. Like wise I have left many girls hanging because I found somebody better. It is part of dating. Even here in USA some girls have dumped me and I have dumped some after making plans. No difference in DIA. You take good with the bad. I'am not offering castles and they soon find out it is just another date and fun. Some do fall in love like anywhere but what to do. I am there to sample many.

Totally agreed with you, I do exactly the same way with DIA, and it worked very well. I don't like also the clubs and WG, so here I could find real GFE but I always stay very clear on what I expect, only some time together, nothing more, and when they accept this thne its really wondeful time we can spend together. And they all know that I can meet other girls too.

[Engine Driver]

Some do fall in love like anywhere but what to do. I am there to sample many.

Nice post Sammon. I had to resort to ghosting recently to get rid a chick whom I connected with on WeChat. I felt pretty bad about it. We'd been chatting since late November, but had never met. Very pretty and not a working girl, although I reckon she'd been with a few foreigners before. I was cultivating her to meet on my next trip as I think she would have been a keeper. She was well and truly falling in love so it was time to pull the plug.

[Sammon]

Haven't used DIA here in a few years.

The news is not good.

At least 50% scammers. Nearly half flakes when trying to meet. Response rate is high but out of 100 responses, about 1 will actually meet. Another 5 will waver and eventually flake. At least 10% will post "Hi" to whatever question you ask.

Things have changed so much that I do better on USA dating sites. Not in terms of the response but in terms of those you actually meet.

In person approaches don't work well here either. Things have really changed. I'm in the Philippines now. Looks like a sellers market much like western countries. Not much like the past.

I find it hard to believe too when I look back on what I'm writing but it's true.

I did find some young and attractive women with a great deal of effort but all were way below average sexually. Not really worth my time.

Most of successes are from DIA. In fact all of them. There is a trick to get what you want. Ignore their profile, I do not even bother to read them. Also I ignore most of their ramblings and just get to the point. In order to avoid getting locked out I take the conversation to Skype or other. There it is easy to get to the point. Money and stay issues are discussed and get together is arranged and fun had. Initially all of them come across as girls building castles in the air and day old virgins but almost all of them are willing to have fun if you play it right. I find lots of them are honest real girls looking for happy life but will settle for friendship and repeat service. Many ladyboys are there trying to scam but if you ask directly they do admit.

I have met and had lots of fun with many young girls and many are very good in bed ready to please. I look for GFE. So much so I do not like stinky pussies of bar girls, their attitude. And also fuck and run mentality. Cost wise it is much cheaper with DIA girls.

Have taken vacations with many and they were good.

Yes, it is true some bail out but is partly their choice. They might have found better prospects. Like wise I have left many girls hanging because I found somebody better. It is part of dating. Even here in USA some girls have dumped me and I have dumped some after making plans. No difference in DIA. You take good with the bad. I'am not offering castles and they soon find out it is just another date and fun. Some do fall in love like anywhere but what to do. I am there to sample many.