Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[WoodLand]

Hello,

Can anyone please suggest some medicine to strongly boost sexual desire. I am 40+ and miss my strong libido since last 2 years.

Sildenafil (viagra) or tadalafil (cialis) can only give hard erections but not increase sexual desire. Dapoxetine delays ejaculation but does not increase desire. So combo tablets of tadalafil & dapoxetine are useless for libido.

Herbal formulas are not working as before. Some users on ISG have suggested testosterone injections or softgels but some users point at serious side effects of using such steroids.

Is it possible to take any safe medicine for 2-3 days for very strong libido boost and then discontinue? That would be best. If there is any such medicine which is not steroid and powerful booster for sexual desire. That would be best.

If anyone else has personal experience in this matter --Please PM and help.

Bro, don't use medicines for these things. Remain fit and eat healthy. That's the best medicine.

[GentleSapien]

Note: This is not medical advice and I'm not a doctor. Do your own research and please dispute if anything wrong.

First I tried to find some summary view of all the std's discussed here, couldn't find so I have compiled these. Hope it helps.

Main source:

https://www.cdc.gov/std/default.htm

https://www.healthline.com/health/se...itted-diseases#types.

== Vaccines available == Generally effective before any sexual activity or if already not infected.

Hepatitis A.

Hepatitis b.

HPV.

== Curable. Bacterial == Generally anti bacterias given for treatment.

Chlamydia.

Syphilis.

Gonorrhea.

Trichomoniasis.

== Non Curable. Virus ==.

HPV. Spread by skin or sex. Vaccine available.

Hepatitis b. Spread by blood or body fluids. Vaccine available.

Hepatitis C. Spread by contact with blood.

Herpes. Spread by contact with active sores or even normal skin.

HIV. Spread by contact with blood, genital or rectal fluids, breast milk.

== Skin contact transmissions ==.

Syphilis.

Herpes.

HPV.

== Vaccines Procedure ==.

Availed these in one of A clinic.

Got a prescription from a general doctor (doctor told hepatitis A vaccine not needed since it is temp infection).

Hep be. Dose 1 - same day, dose 2- 1 month, dose 3 - 6 month.

Hpv. Dose 1 - same day, dose 2- 1 month (this vaccine bit costly about 2. 7 k per dose).

== Others ==.

General suggestion is STI's need to be tested periodically and should be treated to tackle the impact.

PEP should be taken within 72 hours in case of suspected exposure - (ex. Condom breakage. Someone confirm this).

== Inputs needed from any doctor here (for Non curable virus segment) ==.

DFK -.

BBBJ -.

DATY -.

Condom suggestions to avoid break -.

[Naked Desires3]

Hello,

Can anyone please suggest some medicine to strongly boost sexual desire. I am 40+ and miss my strong libido since last 2 years.

Sildenafil (viagra) or tadalafil (cialis) can only give hard erections but not increase sexual desire. Dapoxetine delays ejaculation but does not increase desire. So combo tablets of tadalafil & dapoxetine are useless for libido.

Herbal formulas are not working as before. Some users on ISG have suggested testosterone injections or softgels but some users point at serious side effects of using such steroids.

Is it possible to take any safe medicine for 2-3 days for very strong libido boost and then discontinue? That would be best. If there is any such medicine which is not steroid and powerful booster for sexual desire. That would be best.

If anyone else has personal experience in this matter --Please PM and help.

[Shivaswamy]

Even with a super sexy girl, if I wear condom I loose erection. I am too afraid to go unprotected sex. Any hope for me?

Hey brother!

Was going through your FRs and boy oh boy, what a kinky chap your are just like me. Sniffing, licking armpits, burquas and what not! Thoroughly enjoyed reading your sexcapades!

And back to the problem, I also had a similar issue. I kept losing erection with some ladies with condom on penetration but my erection was perfectly fine to last a 20 minute intensive BBBJ. Quite an embarrassment and I have never taken any blue pills in my life and don't intend to also. Bare-backing is like playing Russian roulette. I can get an erection to masturbate and BBBJ is fine so I'm physically perfectly fine. So losing erection while penetration with a condom on is a mental block. I came across this torch like toy. It's called a "fleshlight ". It mimics the sensation of a * Mostly made out of rubber pussy molds from famous porn stars to get a feeling of fucking them. So I ordered one online. I picked the "Stoya" porn starlet's fleshlight. I put on a condom after erection, lubed my toy a little and masturbated with different stroke variations and speed. You can also mount it on a bathroom tile type wall with suction cups to get the actual feel of moving the hips and fucking rather than using the hand. I completely stopped using my hand and only relied on the sensations of the fleshlight mimicking actual fucking by using a wall mount. This solved my problem of staying erect with a condom on while penetrating. I realized sex is as much a mental thing as it is physical as I used my imagination to keep my horny radar up and maintain longer erections coupled this with the flashlight sensations. It was like discovering myself! Hand held, death gripping the dick while wanking to pornos is the main culprit here. Need to rewire the pleasure stimulus by employing a artificial pussy to pound a real one with greater satisfaction. You can msg me to know about the link I ordered from as I don't know if it's okay to post here. I think we would connect well too as our kinkiness wavelengths match!

Cheers mate!

[Member #4758]

Bro,

I had very similar issue to what you have vividly described. Like you, I also went online and kept on doing my own medications and didn't stop Mongering until it worsened so much one day that the tip of my penis got stuck to my glans from both sides and it caused me so much pain that I don't want anyone to endear. Every time I urinated it was painful like hell. It was difficult driving the car to meet doctors then.

So, my advise to you would be to either stop having sex with WGs until your swelling subsides completely and you can retract your foreskin completely or immediately undergo laser surgery by a good urologist in your area.

Post surgery, it would take 4-6 weeks to completely recover and you need to bandage every day so that no infection develops in that vicinity again post surgery.

Though doctors will say that laser surgery is completely painless and bloodless and doesn't require much stitches but the process is entirely the opposite.

Surgery is the last resort and better keep consulting urologists for your condition rather than self medicating as we don't become doctors by googling nor are we trained to treat ourselves nor are we rat / mice to experiment on ourselves.

Completely stop having sex as my condition worsened one day when one WG while putting condom stretched my foreskin so much that my foreskin and glans got stuck to each other in due course.

Will be extremely happy if your problem gets cured without the ordeal of undergoing a surgery. Keep posting will be happy to know your progress as I can relate to your problems more than anybody else.

Take care bro.

We all write FR with our encounter everyday but we rarely write about the issues we face due to mongering especially sexual health. So today I am writing about it.

As we all know that offices closed last year due to covid and we all have to work from home. It has put a tremendous mental pressure on most of us as we are single and need emotional as well as physical support. Due to closure of office most of our friends have also moved too their hometown and our outing has restricted to only mongering. I was also facing such issues and due to that my blood sugar level has also significantly risen up due wot WFH in my company and less going out only for mongering. If you don't know it can affect your mongering also which I will let you know.

As spas were closed, many indies were out of scene and only Thais were available which I have tried multiple times so last year I went to my hometown in festival times so change my routine, and to spend some time with my family..

[Gajak44]

Does anyone have bad experiences before GF / Birds and gone limp at the time of deed, I get solid morning wood and my T levels are pretty Ok, but as soon as I get into the deed I go limp, I fucking have no clue why, I got used to masturbating with soft porn and I get lot of pleasure in that, maybe its due to that, to get erect I have to take 50 MG of manforce and I am OK. Anyone in the same boat and came out of it? I am 35.

Hi bro,

This could be because of reduction in physical and emotional sensitivity by watching too much porn. Watching porn, and uninhibited masturbation can set wrong expectations for both your brain and dick. Stop watching porn and reduce mastrubation (avoid it for a while). Include exercises everyday. With WG, waam baam thank you mam setup may not be helpful. Go for more GFE with wife / GF or a GFE wg. In a month or two your the muscles would have gotten the message.

Don't fall into the vicious cycle of overthinking. That's the biggest problem.

[Msid2710]

Hi brothers,

Is there common vaccination available in our country for STD diseases such as hepatitis. Any private hospitals doing that?

Thank you.

Both Hep A and Hep B have vaccines. Ask any physician and he / she should be able to prescribe. I'm not sure if there's an age factor. I got these before turning 18 and before any sexual activity. Also Hep see doesn't have a vaccine. Gardasil is given to girls for HPV and again recommended before their first sexual encounter.

[Member #4785]

Hey guys, I have been reading and wanted to inform you all this:

Breast milk can contain HIV.

HIV positive mothers are not even supposed breastfeed their children unless they are on HIV Treatment.

So drinking WG's milk is same as bareback sex.

I will not be indulging in this kink, neither should you all.

Ideally before the birth at the hospital all tests including HIV is done to the mother and if she is feeding the baby with the MILK it is very well means she is HIV free. Besides you can only get HIV through breastmilk and not give it.

[Mythic1]

Hello all,

I want to know from all senior mongers about precaution they take from Sexually transmitted infections when they do DATY, Rimming and exchange saliva with french kiss. Some of the disease can take up to a decade to surface.

Many have here admitted to sucking on tropical fruit and consumed its juice. Are you fully aware of risks? If yes, please do provide solutions.

Seriously even French kiss?

[Rathinirvedam]

Does anyone have bad experiences before GF / Birds and gone limp at the time of deed, I get solid morning wood and my T levels are pretty Ok, but as soon as I get into the deed I go limp, I fucking have no clue why, I got used to masturbating with soft porn and I get lot of pleasure in that, maybe its due to that, to get erect I have to take 50 MG of manforce and I am OK. Anyone in the same boat and came out of it? I am 35.

[Mphopper]

Hello all,

I want to know from all senior mongers about precaution they take from Sexually transmitted infections when they do DATY, Rimming and exchange saliva with french kiss. Some of the disease can take up to a decade to surface.

Many have here admitted to sucking on tropical fruit and consumed its juice. Are you fully aware of risks? If yes, please do provide solutions.

[Guru23]

Hey bros,

Can anyone please share contact of an indie / spa girl or SP girl who is lactating?

Also, sorry if I sound naive but these lactating girls, do they let you drink their breast milk??

Hey guys, I have been reading and wanted to inform you all this:

Breast milk can contain HIV.

HIV positive mothers are not even supposed breastfeed their children unless they are on HIV Treatment.

So drinking WG's milk is same as bareback sex.

I will not be indulging in this kink, neither should you all.

[StreetFoodLove]

Hey bro,

I would suggest not take start the PEP without proper doctor prescription.

I am experiencing loss of appetite after starting the medicines and feel lethargic and sleepy.

Sure Bro.

Was just exploring. How to handle those emergency situations of high risk contact.

[BruceWayne7]

Just curious.

Is PEP OTC medication?

Can anyone take it without any doc prescription (after having unsafe session)?

Any side effect?

Dosages?

Hey bro,

I would suggest not take start the PEP without proper doctor prescription.

I am experiencing loss of appetite after starting the medicines and feel lethargic and sleepy.

[StreetFoodLove]

Guys,

I am looking for "Allopathic" doc for STD / STI treatment. When I am searching with these keywords in google. I am not getting any doc with this specialization. Mostly I am getting 'Homeopathic or Ayurvedic " docs in Practo. Or "Dawakhana" type docs.

What is the specialization of doc, who treats STD / STI and how to find a good or nearby doc for STD / STI treatment, who is not "Homeopathic or Ayurvedic ".

Is Homeopathic or Ayurvedic more effective in STD / STI treatments?

Please advise.

TIA.