Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[ForeverAlone4]

Whom you kissed or you got BBJ.

Tell us; We will tell the risk bro.

Br.

Kevin.

Newbie so asking before doing anything stupid that I shouldn't have done.

[KevinDen]

Are DKF and BBBJ safe, I love both of these but worried that I may contract something, or am I just overthinking?

Whom you kissed or you got BBJ.

Tell us; We will tell the risk bro.

Br.

Kevin.

[Member #4785]

Dear bro,

I just need information who was experience in it kindly help me and give me knowledge about hsv; I read this about in internet it was very confusing, is the test report will be 100 % as accuracy or produce false report.

Is there any cure there for this disease. Any knows how to deal with it; how to get tested how the symptoms will be for hsv-1 kindly answer ASAP.

Thanks in advance.

Hsv 1 is oral herpes which can be contacted by fluid transmission from person who is having a viral outbreak and hsv2 is genital herpes which can be spread through fluid transmission to your genitals. There is no cure for both these. Symptoms for include blisters sore throat fever painful erection.

[ForeverAlone4]

Are DKF and BBBJ safe, I love both of these but worried that I may contract something, or am I just overthinking?

[KevinDen]

Dear bro,

I just need information who was experience in it kindly help me and give me knowledge about hsv; I read this about in internet it was very confusing, is the test report will be 100 % as accuracy or produce false report.

Is there any cure there for this disease. Any knows how to deal with it; how to get tested how the symptoms will be for hsv-1 kindly answer ASAP.

Thanks in advance.

[GhyGuy]

Please suggest something for stamina, I get very good erection, can fuck for two times within one hour with full erection. But I am getting tired very fast since last few years. Please suggest something for stamina and energy. I am 37.

[MySecretLife]

Yesterday I just sucked her boobs and just licked her necks and ribs.

But I doesn't done any mouth kiss.

If you didn't do DFK/LFK/Lip-Kiss, then no contact or exchange of saliva.

I got throat burning sensation within a 2 hours.

Today got evening fever like sensation.

How to deal with this.

If whatever you've mentioned is correct, i.e. there is no contact or exchange of bodily secretions, so, minimal or no risk of contracting any STI except HSV.

Did you observe any visible rashes/warts/lesions/blisters around-neck/backside-of-ear-lobes/any-other-body-part of your partner just to know if she has any active viral shedding? If you didn't observe any visible symptoms, you need not worry at all.

You might want to consult a General-Physician/Internal-Medicine or an ENT Doctor for your sore-throat. Till you consult a Doctor, you might want to do Betadine or Octenidine or Luke-warm-salt-water gargle.

In short, no need to be anxious and panic bro as yours is a minimal or zero risk activity.

Note:- I'm not a qualified medical professional and this post no way substitutes consultation of a qualified medical professional.

[KevinDen]

Hi all,

I am regular reader of this forum and posted few reports of MP visit. Had deep mouth kiss with Thai therapist on July 1st week, after two days I had cold and fever. When tested Doctor said Lymphocyte are more so I am carrying Virus and infection. The medicine didn't work, three days back I hot blisters on my upper lips and having body pain and tiredness. Please advice if you know any better doctor in Bangalore. I didn't had any intercourse, only mouth kiss for a minute and boob sucking.

I am dead scared now, please guide me what should I do? Is there any possibility that I have infected with HSV.

Regards,

Vikki.

Yesterday I just sucked her boobs and just licked her necks and ribs.

But I doesn't done any mouth kiss.

I got throat burning sensation within a 2 hours.

Today got evening fever like sensation.

How to deal with this.

Help me bros.

Thanks in advance.

Some one answer my questions it will be helpful.

[KevinDen]

Few days back I sucked breasts of a sex worker, no scars there and no breast milk nor blood while doing so, I'm worried because I had a sore throat, should I be worried.

Anyone had same situation?

[KumarLS]

Appreciate the acknowledgement, brother and glad that it helped to an extent.

When you mentioned overthinking, I was questioning myself about my past. I used to think a lot, had a couple of fantasies (male harmonies responsible for that, or may be because of the erotic content that flows in, even in the best movies that we talk about).

None of them worked out, and instead, life sucks when you think and that takes a complete negative turn.

Anyways, don't think a lot brother. If you are into business, think of the positive, negative, workarounds, alternatives and a lot. That helps.

At mongering, safety and privacy plus the girls consent and involvement are the only things that our thoughts should be into as they are important for a good time spent, that is worth investing. If we have them, overthinking should be stopped.

It's either a yes or no in life. You either go for the pleasure understanding the risks involved. Or else, stay away from it thinking that being in a safe net is better. We all have choices. So any choice is supposed to be self made as personal preferences differ.

Example: I am an average fit guy and not someone with packs or anything. I used to see this girl and she was damn hot.

Obviously, I could not initiate a conversation in the office because of the strict HR policies. And I don't want to risk career for the pleasure or mental satisfaction. Let me be honest, we all have that secret crush. We may not want to have sex or something, but a sweet talk or a hug, or a company is what we look for.

And the level of intimacy is increasing, and I have my fingers crossed for anything that works out in the future and I don't have any hopes but a good friend is worth having in the mechanical lives we live. If it works out, that's a plus though.

Therefore, Tinder made it work as I was looking for alternatives. I did not have sex with the similar girl I found. I mean, she is not the same girl I see in office, but a much better and hotter version than that. But, we went on casual dates we had hugs, and kissed each other passionately at a romantic date. As we had some common interests, and that kinda worked out.

May not be the heroic stuff as in I had sex with her story, but my mind is now at peace and has the thought of being with the girl in office left. Whenever I see this girl now in the office, smile and we have a few conversations now. Don't know how it worked out. But it did.

Sometimes, brain needs that medicine and that made me get back to my work. The thought of talking to someone hotter and their company is now pacified.

Sex is always not the criteria for me, and a good time and a good conversation with the hot or sexy girl works at times like a charm. Instead of mechanical sessions, I ease of my brain with good conversations, and good company. And all of that happens with a bit of talk, and listening to others and when they see that they are being listened to, the opportunity kicks in. Lot said, would end it here as this is my experience and can be different for others.

P.S. Mutual consent, and playing it safe without exploiting anyone makes this safe for everyone around and a time worth cherishing. Also if you are on tinder and married, it's better not to set any marriage proposal and be very clear about life and that you are not into any thing serious. Don't let someone increase hopes and then make a mess out of their and our lives.

With that, I end the overthinking seminar LOL.

Anyways, stay safe and happy mongering.

Kumarls,

Your answer is very helpful and highly appreciated.

Being an over thinking guy it has added a lot of confidence to my mindset.

Thanks.

[SadBoyz]

Bro you think a lot. Its 21st Century no one is faithful neither before or after marriage. You are overthinking the situation.

Nah man, this is very wrong. There are always people who don't fit the average criteria. I mean, you aren't wrong completely but stereotyping it would only make this guy being insecure all the time. Hes already panicked about having sex right now. Which I find completely absurd but that is my opinion, it doesn't mean I don't respect his thoughts. Its all on how we all have lived our life and has been brought up.

There are a lot of people who are genuine and faithful to their spouses but that doesn't mean there aren't people who go behind their loving ones to have fun. Who is right or wrong is not for us to judge but stereotyping will definitely give people insecurities and anxiety.

Think about it, if this guy gets married and few of the situations make him over think that his wife is cheating on him when she's not but hes so skeptical because hes lived a mongering life and that is affecting his thought process. Making him believe that the wife might have also had some lovers before marriage and now she's going back to it. The anxiety will kill him into depression.

There's always an option to ask the wife but then he'd have to reveal his side of mongering then again the wife must be a pure one and she goes ham over his mongering side. So its too risky. Best is to clear things before getting married.

All in all, have faith in your partners. It doesn't matter what past they've had, what matters is that they want to create their future together.

[KumarLS]

The very first advice I would recommend in this instance is. Stop thinking a lot about the issue and start reaching out to a specialist at the earliest.

From the type of issue shared, I would not go for generic advice if I were you.

Better to reach out to a doctor bro. I had some issues, and I was reluctant to even think of visiting them. But, they were friendly, and it was a good visiting session and the issues are solved.

When it comes to sperm quality, thickness or even the question regarding kids etc. Better not to take risks in the name of generic advice. A doc would check the symptoms, prescribe treatment and shall share suggestions.

If you are concerned, I would recommend practo. Go with their online consultation and don't provide any pics unless you are sure. Just initiate the dialog and you should feel comfortable about the discussion further at a cost of about 100-200 rupees.

Not a straight forward one. But my 2 cents as I faced issues wherein my partner had an issue and I had the blame on me. So, get checked and avoid mental trauma.

Hi Brethren,

I think I'm having a problem. When ever I climax my cum only dribbles. I thought it was because of too much skin but seems like even after pulling skin & climaxing it just dribbled & it's been the same from very long time. I'm 28 & would be getting married shortly I'm really scared if I can even make kids.

Secondly I'm not able to keep my erection. Climaxing too soon.

Let me know if anyone faced 1st problem & have you over come it? For 2nd I'm going to RTTF to see for suggestions. Any help is appreciated.

PM is open.

SB.

[StarterBlaster]

Hi Brethren,

I think I'm having a problem. When ever I climax my cum only dribbles. I thought it was because of too much skin but seems like even after pulling skin & climaxing it just dribbled & it's been the same from very long time. I'm 28 & would be getting married shortly I'm really scared if I can even make kids.

Secondly I'm not able to keep my erection. Climaxing too soon.

Let me know if anyone faced 1st problem & have you over come it? For 2nd I'm going to RTTF to see for suggestions. Any help is appreciated.

PM is open.

SB.

[Member #4671]

MILF. I am no expert at it bro. I do have a fantasy to be at an elder women. Not too old, but a good aunty type of less than age 30 or 35 with good physique.

But, I have not met any till date in that category. So can't comment on experiences or anything.

It's your fantasy. So, I am no one to say what's right and what's wrong unless she is ok to have it with you and that's not leading to anything else that it is not supposed to.

If you are from Hyderabad, check with any senior if they can help with a contact. Meet them. Not sure about MPs in this space bro. As I said, I have no experiences on that front and will not be able to comment. But, if you can get an indie contact better.

Weak charishma. Bro, I did not mean to say that one has to look handsome. Looks does matter and I won't say that they don't. But more than that, your way of putting it across matters.

Girls don't like handsome hunks. Even if they do, that's short term. Some like the intellectual ones, some the funny ones. Don't crack jokes out of thin air. Just be humorous and love the company..

No words to Express my gratitude Kumar bro. Truely you are awesome Thank you much. I'll change my attitude. Will further update my fun.

[Member #4671]

Bro you think a lot. Its 21st Century no one is faithful neither before or after marriage. You are overthinking the situation.

Thank you brother. What you said was right.