Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Member #4671]

What if you future wife is betraying you right now? Give it a thought LOL.

Nice Sarcasm brother.

Let her enjoy. She also has needs.

But once after marriage, she has to be true to me and I'll so be same 100%. That's my ethics.

[JustTimePass]

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

What if you future wife is betraying you right now? Give it a thought LOL.

[Member #4671]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2019/11/08/first-sexually-transmitted-dengue-case-confirmed-spain/

https://www.theolivepress.es/spain-news/2019/11/10/europes-first-case-of-dengue-fever-transmitted-by-sex-recorded-in-spain/

https://www.firstpost.com/health/sexually-transmitted-dengue-case-confirmed-in-spain-7635201.html

Yes.

I'm a biology guy. So I know bit abour this transmission. Not only Dengue many other viruses is having the ability to transmit through Semen. But not recorded properly in the world. Generally the Africa is the hub of these diseases. But they are not properly studying there. Anyway preventive measures is the only way to protect us.

[MySecretLife]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2019/11/08/first-sexually-transmitted-dengue-case-confirmed-spain/

https://www.theolivepress.es/spain-news/2019/11/10/europes-first-case-of-dengue-fever-transmitted-by-sex-recorded-in-spain/

https://www.firstpost.com/health/sexually-transmitted-dengue-case-confirmed-in-spain-7635201.html

[Member #4671]

Hello Starhunter,

My situation is to a great extent similar to that of yours is.

I have the same questions in my mind despite the need to go ahead and meet someone.

Yes brother.

I gave inferiority complex. Trying hard to come out of that. But couldn't. I didn't have any relationship in my life. Neither a girl who is a friend. So only option to fulfill my desire is this way. Suggestion from ISG friend KumarLS is really helpful. If you want do it or don't do it. But don't feel regret about that. This is a need brother.

[PleasureMaster]

Hello Starhunter,

My situation is to a great extent similar to that of yours is.

I have the same questions in my mind despite the need to go ahead and meet someone.

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

[Member #4671]

Glad that it was helpful brother.

When it comes to tinder or other dating apps, let me share my view.

You would find one or the other to be a scamster. So don't pay any advance or stuff like that.

And, you have mentioned that you are not married. So, you are lucky to be honest. I mean, it's tough for a married fella to be on tinder and get into the game. I would not even call it a game.

Just like the way, we males have feelings. Girls do. So, they would also like to hookup with a guy. Some love people with good physique, some love the jobs or positions, some like the charisma or humor and so on.

Just like the way we men are different, same goes with women.

If I ever have a chance to travel back in time, I would postpone my marriage a bit and do the following.

Hit gym and maintain good physique. Six packs not required. Better stay fit. And if you love gym, get cult fit membership. Helps you check out and make friendship with fit girls or want to be fit girls. Sometimes the sexier ones!.

Wow. You are really great brother. You are one among in very few who would like to help other. Hats off for that. Sorry one more thing. I am a MILF lover bro. I don't know is this a problem. I always fantasize like that. How about the opportunities of that. So that's why I'm preferring MP. I'm not a good looker and having weak charisma. I don't think so tinder will be a platform for me.

[KumarLS]

Glad that it was helpful brother.

When it comes to tinder or other dating apps, let me share my view.

You would find one or the other to be a scamster. So don't pay any advance or stuff like that.

And, you have mentioned that you are not married. So, you are lucky to be honest. I mean, it's tough for a married fella to be on tinder and get into the game. I would not even call it a game.

Just like the way, we males have feelings. Girls do. So, they would also like to hookup with a guy. Some love people with good physique, some love the jobs or positions, some like the charisma or humor and so on.

Just like the way we men are different, same goes with women.

If I ever have a chance to travel back in time, I would postpone my marriage a bit and do the following.

Hit gym and maintain good physique. Six packs not required. Better stay fit. And if you love gym, get cult fit membership. Helps you check out and make friendship with fit girls or want to be fit girls. Sometimes the sexier ones!

Go out on travelling. Share some pictures (if you are comfortable) on the platform and seek travel partners. Meet people and go out on a bike or a car or whatever works out.

Or, people look out for good friends as they are new in city.

Not every match would be willing to sleep with a man.

So stay cautious. And make sure your score that is sex on a consensual basis and not on pretending that marriage drama. And you would have an idea about the girl you are with.

All of this if you get a match.

But, what about match? Well, have a good profile picture and better profile. Some ladies prefer or share Instagram. Check out if you can follow them and make friends.

And don't swipe right every profile. Swipe right good profiles whom you want to meet. Don't show our desperation to make tinder work. It would work.

And then, experiment with tinder premium. Boost your profile at specific times on weekends. Check out what works best for you and see how your date does.

Other apps include hinge.

Note. Tinder is fun and better. You get good ones, and not the working ones at times. It's a much better experience than WG. Personal opinion and that differs.

And scoring on tinder makes or breaks your patience. It's not like swipe right and we are in bed, especially in our country. However, looks and charisma can make it faster.

And most importantly, give life the chance to live and marry after a bit. Even if it goes south or north, you would still be happy about life.

Cheers.

Thank you so much brother. I got my answer. Really an eye opener post.

Appreciate your concern a lot.

One more suggestions.

How to score on tinder?

[Member #4671]

At Age: Don't think too much bro. I am 27 as well.

I had so many similar questions like the way you did. But let me ask you one thing.

If you ever go to office or may be to a party place and see that sexy or beautiful girl, don't you get any feeling?

If yes, we are perfectly normal. And age is not a constraint if feelings or hormones are looked at. Problem in our country is a lot of moral stuff, to show on the face and therefore the fear of society or sex as a sin is a generic perception.

At Betraying future wife and parents:

I am married. I won't get into personal details. But, what if we can't have a healthy sex life after marriage?

Some women fear, some women feel shy or some marry just because they have to marry and don't have any interest..

Thank you so much brother. I got my answer. Really an eye opener post.

Appreciate your concern a lot.

One more suggestions.

How to score on tinder?

[KumarLS]

At Age: Don't think too much bro. I am 27 as well.

I had so many similar questions like the way you did. But let me ask you one thing.

If you ever go to office or may be to a party place and see that sexy or beautiful girl, don't you get any feeling?

If yes, we are perfectly normal. And age is not a constraint if feelings or hormones are looked at. Problem in our country is a lot of moral stuff, to show on the face and therefore the fear of society or sex as a sin is a generic perception.

At Betraying future wife and parents:

I am married. I won't get into personal details. But, what if we can't have a healthy sex life after marriage?

Some women fear, some women feel shy or some marry just because they have to marry and don't have any interest.

If that's the case, don't we end up being virgin for life, except the self jobs or spa massages?

What would someone call that? People in this forum or anywhere else seek sexual or physical pleasure not because of the fact they want it, but they need it.

If we can't get food in house, we get it in hotel. Same way.

Anyways, this is my POV.

Last but not least.

If you ever sleep with a WG, make sure you are not exploiting her. She is not a minor. Else you will feel much worse than what you are feeling.

Also, don't indulge in mongering or paid sex with a lot of thoughts about being in a wrong game. Reason. Even if you enjoy for time being, you may have to go through the baggage.

So, clear your mind and have clarity to whether this is to be pursued or not. If not, leave it. If yes, better stay protected and do it with safe ones.

Else, score on tinder.

My two cents.

Cheers, and safe mongering.

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

[RandomIndiDude]

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

Chill bro. It's just sex and pleasure. You are not betraying anyone. It will be betrayal if you are married and still mongering.

[JoseNosay]

How to deal with this crappy thinking.

Truvada Prep (works vs HIV if used daily).

Antibiotics monthly one day dose runs vs the other STDs.

If you some how catch HIV, an opportunity to frequent the seedy South African red districts & report raw sex from there.

[Member #4671]

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

[Member #4671]

Hola mongers,

I'm not new to Mongering but won't count myself as a pro too. From the past few days my is clouded with the risks of STDs from the birds we taste. Most of these birds take good care of their bodies absolutely well. Despite, they sleep with many many men across all ages and health conditions. It scares the shit of me to hear that few birds give BBJ, rimming and DFK. My apologies if my words put your mind off by talking this nonsense.

How to deal with this crappy thinking.

Don't worry too much brother. I think you have taken proper prevention during your every acts. Yes I know these kind of thoughts will mess up our mind. If you are serious, just have some STD test. Anyway just for the sake. That'll free up your mind. Enjoy your life. Nothing will happen.

[Smeesara]

Hola mongers,

I'm not new to Mongering but won't count myself as a pro too. From the past few days my is clouded with the risks of STDs from the birds we taste. Most of these birds take good care of their bodies absolutely well. Despite, they sleep with many many men across all ages and health conditions. It scares the shit of me to hear that few birds give BBJ, rimming and DFK. My apologies if my words put your mind off by talking this nonsense.

How to deal with this crappy thinking.