Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Member #4727]

Relax if no symptoms.

Just relax.

I have redness on top of penis head which is under the foreskin area. I tried lulufin cream but didn't work.

Have rashes on back, underarm, middle of the chest and lower back.

[HotStud251]

Relax if no symptoms.

Just relax.

Friends,

I am very much afraid after receiving oral sex from a sex worker. I read a lot of articles online. Every article says there are 100 percentage possibilities for catching STD form unprotected blow job. It's been a month and what should I do now. Please help me on this friends.

[Member #4727]

Friends,

I am very much afraid after receiving oral sex from a sex worker. I read a lot of articles online. Every article says there are 100 percentage possibilities for catching STD form unprotected blow job. It's been a month and what should I do now. Please help me on this friends.

[Michelle01]

Hello members,

Yesterday I posted for the help in the forum and many have responded. I hope other senior members will also extend their help.

I was just scrolling down the pages of this forum and found a lot of confusion regarding STI and infection. I would like to put my two cents across, as I consider myself to be one of the best person to advice on this ongoing issue due to my profession.

Friends, vaginal infection or any other type of STI is very common now a days and easily curable if you take medication in time, but prevention is always better than cure. I think the WG is suffering with "Candidal vulvovaginitis" which is a yeast infection and is easily curable if medication is taken in time. If delayed, the yeast infection can go up to Cervix or Uterus. In that case electrocution (killing yeast / bacteria by electric charge) or extraction of Uterus has to be carried out.

Now advice for my dear monger friends:

1) Before starting the deed, just see and smell the vagina. If there is odor or you find white discharge or skin rashes near genitals, be alert. In that case either use hand job or blowjob (since you have already paid or committed to pay)..

Excellent explanation, thanks for the information, you cleared up a lot of my doubts.

In short, everything that is treated in time with the right medication gets better fast.

It's always better to take the necessary precautions and have safe sex.

[VictorStar]

If it was your 1st time pulling back the foreskin, you 'll feel pain. Gradually it 'll decrease.

About white stuff around penis head / swollen head better to consult a doctor. It's common infection and applying some oilment 'll bring it back to normal. Don't worry it's normal only. Urinary infection 'll make it swollen and cause pain on tips.

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

[IntMain123]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

I agree with Lamboos, first go and see a doctor to run tests. If it is you need to act fast to get rid of STI.

I had similar symptoms and the issue was a fungal infection called candida or thrush. Candida is always present on uncircumcised penises, but during some favorable environment conditions, it multiplies. It makes the foreskin rigid and it cracks when expanded.

I just had to apply a fungal cream for 2 weeks and it was already better. I was also prescribed a steroid cream to reduce the inflammation and make the foreskin soft and stretchy.

Go and see a doc soon, could be something that can be treated.

Let us know about the diagnosis.

[Member #4720]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

Hi 'SherryBng',

I'm responding to your query from my position as a certified Medical Practitioner, to benefit all members and alleviate your stress. Based off your limited preliminary history sans visual picture, I would make a presumptive diagnosis of contact dermatitis accompanied by inflammation, courtesy of a bacterial / fungal infection limited to superficial skin. Infection having been limited from diffuse urethral spread, perk of being uncircumcised, which would be my blind guess in your case. Pathogenic invasion is limited by the foreskin, so long as sanitary hygiene is kempt well. Your mention of obesity furthermore substantiates my inclination towards this condition. In the heat of passion, your member may have been subject to excessive frictional and abrasive 'rub-and-tug' forces, sandwiched and vicitimized be / w your body mass and the sliding motion of the ignorant woman's, in an attempt to expedite arousal and get you to climax ASAP. To add to this, shortcoming of genital hygiene on her part or soiled undergarment of hers soaked in bodily secretions (fomite) may have transmitted a commensal bacteria / fungus (vaginal Candida albicans) over to your groin end while you were ferrying through her.

With due respect to 'Google' intellects, coconut oil and petro-jelly is far from an established remedy at addressing the root cause and at best a placebo, to intermittently soothen and soften the sensitive skin overlying genitalia. Akin to blowing at your balls, I'd say. If lathered in either generously, you stand to develop folliculitis involving pubic hair due to underlying damp and humid conditions down there from the outset. I digress. I wouldn't panic too much. Dab 'T-BACT' and 'CANESTEN S' ointments in alternation, every 6th hourly for a week-10 days. Apply with either sterile cotton or clean, dry hands; to establish a thin film overlay. Refrain from applying on inner aspect of penis. Consult a Dermatologist if symptoms persist, speedy recovery.

[Lamboos]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

Don't waste time self diagnosing with google. Most STDs have very similar symptoms that even doctors may not be able to identify some cases without tests. As you are experiencing symptoms for so long, go and see a doctor immediately.

[GutlesShawk]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

Consult a urologist immediately I think its nothing serious or an STD its an early onset of foreskin tightening due to bad hygiene can be treated by broad spectrum antibiotics and tropical ointments.

This is not self treatable with otc medications.

See a urologist preferably in a govnt hospital.

Any delay may lead to requirement of minor surgery.

[MorningMonger]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin.Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

Best case scenario. Candida or yeast infection leading to balinitis. Friction burns can cause similar but wouldn't last this long.

Worst case. Herpes.

Best is to consult a doctor.

[SherryBng]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

[SherryBng]

I have been seeing this girl for approx 2 years now. Started with massage and now FS. I am sure I didn't have unprotected sex. May be just rubbed over her undies. Problem came after few days. There was a light irritation on foreskin. I just ignored it. But after few days I started to observe white was stuff. Googled and got to know its smegma. Now I tried to pull my foreskin to clean head. But I had trouble and it started paining. After close inspection I could see kind of cuts on foreskin and it foreskin was swollen. Again checked Google and remedy was vaseline and coconut oil. I did apply on skin and cleaned regularly. 2 weeks later I master bated but it was painful. Redness and could see cuts on foreskin. Immediately I washed the entire area and applied vaseline. Problem still persists. I am washing twice and applying vaseline now. Please tell me if the condition is serious, advice and which specialist to consult. I am tall and obese.

Your quick advice will be appreciated.

[Snorlax17]

Hi,

For past 1-2 months I am having low sex drive and soft erections. I used to have very good sex drive before that and now I am getting worried. I do strength training 5-6 days a week and eat right. I can't understand what's happening. Also for few days I am having slight pain in my left balls.

[BangDude]

I normally order online with store pickup option. I have never been asked for prescription while picking up the medicines.

But don't you have to upload the prescription while placing the order? I haven't come across a platform yet which allows this. Though haven't tried this store pick up option.

[BruceWayne7]

You did great buddy by not getting scared of them. These are just scammers and not real police and they just pray for gullible people.

I remember I also had a similar experience where BF of a WG started blackmailing me that I had got the girl pregnant. I simply told them to fuck off and threatened them in return. They never called to bother me again.

One advice which I got from a fellow senior here and I also follow is that we should never be soft be such blackmailer and we should threaten them with legal action to be taken against them.

Just sahring one of my experience. I had Horrible experience SA. Did try to engage one from Kol. Just had few chats. In WhatsApp's and tele. But didn't finalize as she is from Kol and no responsive. Today got a call threating me that some Police officer is calling he shared my what app chat. There was nothing offline in it. He was telling I had intimacy's with her and she is under aged. , he is gone file a case against me. He told he charges 35 k if he want to drop case against me. The number end with xx876 and one more number he called me ending with xx588 . I told him go and file mean while I will file a case in Cyber dept against. He was irritating me so much I have to block the number. He had video call in xx876 wearing police uniform. I told them to file the case as these are big frauds. I am posting to make you people aware people just threaten to loot money. There is no judicial law or anything to enforce a crime on you if you had chatted decent with person and not abused any one. Please don't deposit any amount if some one threatens you.