Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Kabir30]

Hey everyone,

I have a genuine question, wanted to ask here before asking WGs as it is a bit embarrassing. I was obese earlier and had lost a lot of weight in recent years, thus, I have got extra foreskin that is resulting in a buried penis. I do not want to undergo a circumcision or any other medical procedure. I have a cock ring that I can use to hold the extra skin at the base and when I try to do without it, the condom slips off in the middle of FS. I want to ask whether I can use these toys or accessories with WGs during my mongering sessions? I want to avoid bare backing with them. Also, it is a simple one, no vibration and stuff, just a plain silicone ring that fits in the pocket.

Also, does anyone have any experience of purchasing fleshlight online? I am interested in getting a STU (stamina training unit) but not sure, where to purchase it or if it is even worth it.

[PkPatra]

Bro,

I tried couple of things as per the inputs received from other friends. What I did is small and simple things like below and I could see an improvement. So instead of trying medicines etc please try this and incase of no improvement you may try alternate options.

1. Stopped watching Porn & Masturbating frequently.

2. Occasional visits to spa for having direct contact with ladies and FS instead of watching unrealistic videos.

3. Regular exercise. Daily at least 1 HR is very important.

4. Less sugar intake.

5. Have good diet. You can google for more details.

Even after that if you need any help, I saw a post in Delhi forum, link below. Please contact him.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...351&viewfull=1#post2675351.

I have been suffering from PE.

Most of the time in foreplay itself I ejaculate or during BJ. Hardly I can last 1 min.

I can see disappointed feelings in WG.

Tried delay sprays but it causes side effects burning sensation when sprayed at tip of penis. So I stopped.

Please help me with any solution. Any tablet / capsule available?

[Member #4737]

Possible STD / HIV exposure please help.

Valentine's week had a mistake, had unprotected sex with independent wg, and now I am feeling like I have sore throat, possible HIV, I am scared as hell, please advise how to get tested discretely and where results are kept discrete.

Don't know what to do, harmones really have messed me up.

Visited a sexologist ASAP.

Don't tense too much.

Start post prophylactic medication.

[Member #4737]

Bro, thousands of people bareback with thousands of other people in commercial sex trade. Comes with considerable risks but let's try and seperate the risks.

The biggest risk to consider is definitely HIV / AIDS because of the lack of a complete cure and bearing the disease for a lifetime.

The second set of risks are around STDs. These will be troublesome for a week or two but pretty much all STDs are treatable with antibiotics and it's good practice for people who monger or have multiple partners to always do a full STD test panel at any lab.

In the recent years, across the west, barebacking has drastically shot up and this is mainly because now we have preventive treatments to drastically reduce the likelihood of getting HIV / AIDS. Most people in the medical profession that I know bareback and take the daily pill for protection. Google search Truvada and PrEP or Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis to understand more about this. Another recommendation for anyone who is in this lifestyle is to defeinitely get two shots of HepB vaccine which again saves you from the next most disastarous STD after HIV.

Thank you brother. Well said.

[Member #4737]

I have been suffering from PE.

Most of the time in foreplay itself I ejaculate or during BJ. Hardly I can last 1 min.

I can see disappointed feelings in WG.

Tried delay sprays but it causes side effects burning sensation when sprayed at tip of penis. So I stopped.

Please help me with any solution. Any tablet / capsule available?

It's all about brain brother.

Practice healthy masturbation once in a while.

Masturbate with nothing in the mind. Don't use any videos or pictures or any fantasy thoughts.

Just observe your body experience.

It works well.

Try it.

[LazyBoy069]

I have been suffering from PE.

Most of the time in foreplay itself I ejaculate or during BJ. Hardly I can last 1 min.

I can see disappointed feelings in WG.

Tried delay sprays but it causes side effects burning sensation when sprayed at tip of penis. So I stopped.

Please help me with any solution. Any tablet / capsule available?

[RgBoy]

I'm a 27 year old guy. Lean built and reasonably healthy. I had developed occasional PIED during covid but it's now better. However I still have a high refractory period. Difficulty getting it up after releasing twice in a day. Have had to abandon the third session at times. This is not a problem for third or even fourth release if I'm jerking off to porn with lube. However I've now almost quit watching porn.

I stay in a relatively dry city (Lucknow) and mainly go to Delhi or Kolkata for mongering and seek to make to make the most of the time I have available there.

Should I consider taking Cialis or tadalafil? What is the possibility that it may start affecting my natural erection without medication. Of course I would love a harder erection but that I anyway get if I'm getting some mind blowing service by a new working girl or trying something novel. My main problem is high refractory period. Thanks in advance.

[PakkaIdiots11]

Finally got time to write post after a long time.

After reading the posts of the last several months, it seems that most of the people are facing the problem of early ejaculation.

Surely it is a big problem that when we are spending 4-5 thousand rupees at a time and we are not able to take advantage of it even for 5 minutes.

Sometimes we book for the whole night and spend 15-20 thousand and after a shot of 20 minutes there is no ability to do anything again.

In fact, all working women also know very well that most people do not have enough stamina to make them happy, so they are also in the process of finishing quickly.

But what if we are so stamina that we can please the woman to such a level that after that she surrenders herself completely to you and involves herself wholeheartedly in the whole act.

And then there is a different level of fun, for which we spend so much. When the woman herself wants that you fall in love with her more and more.

All the working girls or women I have spent time with till date, everyone definitely said that I have never seen as much stamina as you.

So brothers, the purpose of writing such a long post is that if any brother is going through this kind of problem, then he can message me personally.

I know an ayurvedic doctor who makes an ayurvedic pill. In it, he makes a tremendous formula from many types of herbs.

I can't tell you what a wonderful herb it is. You can stay for more than 2 hours in a row. And not only does time increase, but we enjoy it as when we first started having sex in our youth.

If you masturbate after eating that pill, then you will forget the fun you have had in your life so far.

Not very expensive Makes a pill of Rs. 200. Because a lot of expensive herbs are put in it. Vaidyaji is an old man, he does not know how to operate mobile much, but his disciple will courier you. Hidden packing is also shipped.

Many of my friends of all ages are using it, till date no one has got any side effect. You have to take it 2-3 hours before. And there is no dry mouth or any other problem like Viagra etc.

Its biggest advantage is that you do not get tired and can easily have sex 4 to 5 times in a night.

It makes the body like a new youth. In which we want to do everything again and again.

I have a personal guarantee. You must also post your review by using it so that more and more friends can take advantage and enjoy the money they are spending. And those who make our 5 thousand theirs in 5 minutes can be taught a lesson.

Have fun as much as you can.

Regards.

[Wanaf]

Is it insulting to ask a WG or SP if the girl has recently taken medical tests to confirm that they don't have any diseases? What is the right etiquette in India?

Bro, thousands of people bareback with thousands of other people in commercial sex trade. Comes with considerable risks but let's try and seperate the risks.

The biggest risk to consider is definitely HIV / AIDS because of the lack of a complete cure and bearing the disease for a lifetime.

The second set of risks are around STDs. These will be troublesome for a week or two but pretty much all STDs are treatable with antibiotics and it's good practice for people who monger or have multiple partners to always do a full STD test panel at any lab.

In the recent years, across the west, barebacking has drastically shot up and this is mainly because now we have preventive treatments to drastically reduce the likelihood of getting HIV / AIDS. Most people in the medical profession that I know bareback and take the daily pill for protection. Google search Truvada and PrEP or Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis to understand more about this. Another recommendation for anyone who is in this lifestyle is to defeinitely get two shots of HepB vaccine which again saves you from the next most disastarous STD after HIV.

[XxxJk18]

Well done bro, my doctor said the same and got the hepb vaccine. 2 shots. Any idea if we need to get it periodically?

Bro, thousands of people bareback with thousands of other people in commercial sex trade. Comes with considerable risks but let's try and seperate the risks.

The biggest risk to consider is definitely HIV / AIDS because of the lack of a complete cure and bearing the disease for a lifetime.

The second set of risks are around STDs. These will be troublesome for a week or two but pretty much all STDs are treatable with antibiotics and it's good practice for people who monger or have multiple partners to always do a full STD test panel at any lab.

In the recent years, across the west, barebacking has drastically shot up and this is mainly because now we have preventive treatments to drastically reduce the likelihood of getting HIV / AIDS. Most people in the medical profession that I know bareback and take the daily pill for protection. Google search Truvada and PrEP or Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis to understand more about this. Another recommendation for anyone who is in this lifestyle is to defeinitely get two shots of HepB vaccine which again saves you from the next most disastarous STD after HIV.

[XXXperimental]

Bro, thousands of people bareback with thousands of other people in commercial sex trade. Comes with considerable risks but let's try and seperate the risks.

The biggest risk to consider is definitely HIV / AIDS because of the lack of a complete cure and bearing the disease for a lifetime.

The second set of risks are around STDs. These will be troublesome for a week or two but pretty much all STDs are treatable with antibiotics and it's good practice for people who monger or have multiple partners to always do a full STD test panel at any lab.

In the recent years, across the west, barebacking has drastically shot up and this is mainly because now we have preventive treatments to drastically reduce the likelihood of getting HIV / AIDS. Most people in the medical profession that I know bareback and take the daily pill for protection. Google search Truvada and PrEP or Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis to understand more about this. Another recommendation for anyone who is in this lifestyle is to defeinitely get two shots of HepB vaccine which again saves you from the next most disastarous STD after HIV.

So definitely go do the STD Panel test at any lab. Check for HIV, HepB, Gonorrhea, Syphylis as mandatory tests in the panel.

Cheers!

Another thread for the day!

Friends, Today, I was reading some of the threads and found people went bareback and 'logically' received strict NO from sensible mongers.

I want to confess something that will make you mad, but I made that mistake.

I don't know if it's me only or any other 'highly stupid adventurous' person. But, I did bareback with plethora WG (your famous Delhi's indies, SP girls), my tinder girls and even in foreign soil. Because I like it without cover.

Generally, I am more into foreplay than actual penetration. In a full days (6-7) session, I am happy with 2/3 shots. I allow women to open up, make then comfortable, do foreplay, make them almost come and then they are in such intimate position 'where they go with the flow" I. E.

My recent tinder girl, who's is very fit, she loves to explore different position with me I. E, blindfold, handcuff, in bathroom, backdoor, or all position that she see in porn. But, I meet her 10+ times, and unfortunately all bareback!

I know, I made this 'sin'. I want to know your opinion, what must be my next action plan!

[Dr Jonny]

Fellow brethren,

I was wondering about the prevalence of STI / STDs amongst ISG mongers. Presumably, protected sex is the norm (there may be a few exceptions). But then, there is significant physical contact, whether it's with a WG or be it B2Bwith a masseuse. Further, one cannot always be sure to keep hands away from own sensitive parts after a round of fingering and things like that.

While condoms provide safety against HIV, it doesn't necessarily provide safety from the entire gamut of sexually transmitted bacterial / viral infections. Shouldn't mongers be getting infected every now and then? But that doesn't seem to be the case. We're banging away to glory but very few reports start with "I contracted".

I request the more experienced / knowledgeable amongst us and medical professionals to please throw some light.

Also, what are the meds / shots / vaccines that a monger must take, to enhance health safety, in the pursuance of this hobby.

Peace.

P. S. Posting in Delhi forum because it's the most active and it's the one that I read the most.

[Penguin22]

Greetings everyone,

Long story short, I never had a GF so I happened to stumble upon MR and I got some contacts from Mumbai.

I met a few of them and had multiple experiences one fine day I found a pimple near the base of my pp and it slowly spread near the scrotum.

I showed a doctor they did some blood tests and I'm positive for herpes.

I wanted to get married by arranged marriage but I don't see any hope now because I don't think anyone would accept this condition.

Will it get cured.

The doctor hasn't provided any medication.

They said it will go away and they also lasered the pimples which were there.

What would this mean for my partner if I do happen to find someone what should I tell her?

Please help.

[RedStarFallen]

Hi fellow ISGians,

I have been regular to my sp, like once 2-3 weeks. We strictly use condom. BJ without Condom. All my Sp's girls are mostly house wife who provide service like monthly once or at least that's what he says. I don't have any symptoms or anything, just want to make sure I'm clean. What test should do in a hospital to know whether I don't have any Infection / HIV. Can we walk into hospitals like Apollo and do these test? What test should I ask for? Please help. Thanks in advance. Do I need any Prescription to do these?

[Fizzz]

Hello fellow mongers.

I come here with a curious problem and a heavy heart. I am having trouble in penetrative sex. My problems starts when I am wearing rubber. Doesn't matter on the brand or type of rubber (tried them all mostly), I start to go limp during penetration. Some observations of mine.

I have no problem in oral activity. With or without rubber it is perfect. No issues during foreplay either. Have tried no fap challenge for 3 , 4 or 5 days and have seen that penetration marginally improves on abstaining myself. Don't know what will happen during bareback as it's not an option. This has resulted into situations where my mind wants to have sex but my body responds otherwise. Doctors or learned seniors of this forum, kindly suggest me some measures and how to identify the root of the problem (mental or physical)?.

I think this is mostly a mental issue. Be relaxed. Avoid anxiety. If no improvement meet an andrologist. You can search online for one. He will usually do some tests to see if this is a physical issue.

Taking some dietary supplements (like some vitamin / mineral tablets) or medicines like slidenafil could improve the situation too.