Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

**Member #4622** · 08-25-18 04:45

Originally Posted by WhyNott [View Original Post]

With this mindset, it is difficult to even get an erection with a WG which otherwise you would have got while masturbating.

You are unmarried, not in a committed relationship, why you feel guilty about some one you don't even know (your Future Wife) and your parents have nothing to do with your sex life. Stop thinking too much if you really want to enjoy sex.

Thank you so much bro.

For making me clear in my thoughts.

**Ashish760** · 08-24-18 16:35

Originally Posted by Rajbat777 [View Original Post]

Hello friends!

First I want to tell about myself. I'm from typical Indian Middle class family. I don't have any girl friend in my life. In fact I don't know how to behave with girls. I accept this is the mistake of mine. I don't want to blame anyone.

I am 26 years old and huge interest in having sex. I had tried once in Bangalore with a prostitute but turned into awful experience. After that I felt guilty of that experience. This happened a year back. I think I have betrayed my parents and my future wife. Now I started urging for sex. But can't control my mind. I always wanted to have sex with the mature women. Also I am having thought that I'll get addicted once I go through the next one..

Bro,

I can understand your situation.

You can find one partner and can do sex with her. If you can't and I know its hard too.

You can go with WGs. There is no bad in that.

Few points to remember.

Always do it in a limited way. Try to manage it from the start so that it won't become habit.

Always think from your mind.

And most important do everything to be safe. Believe me bro. Sexually transmitted diseases are no good. Research about them thoroughly.

And also keep rates in check.

Thanks,

Ashish.

**Why Nott** · 08-24-18 13:29

With this mindset, it is difficult to even get an erection with a WG which otherwise you would have got while masturbating.

You are unmarried, not in a committed relationship, why you feel guilty about some one you don't even know (your Future Wife) and your parents have nothing to do with your sex life. Stop thinking too much if you really want to enjoy sex.

Originally Posted by Rajbat777 [View Original Post]

Hello friends!

First I want to tell about myself. I'm from typical Indian Middle class family. I don't have any girl friend in my life. In fact I don't know how to behave with girls. I accept this is the mistake of mine. I don't want to blame anyone.

I am 26 years old and huge interest in having sex. I had tried once in Bangalore with a prostitute but turned into awful experience. After that I felt guilty of that experience. This happened a year back. I think I have betrayed my parents and my future wife. Now I started urging for sex. But can't control my mind. I always wanted to have sex with the mature women. Also I am having thought that I'll get addicted once I go through the next one.

I'm not against sex. Sex is a need for everyone. Maintaining respect and dignity with the escorts is the foremost thing.

For others I don't know. But my fellow Indian friends know my situation. So please help me.

**Member #4622** · 08-21-18 10:06

Hello friends!

First I want to tell about myself. I'm from typical Indian Middle class family. I don't have any girl friend in my life. In fact I don't know how to behave with girls. I accept this is the mistake of mine. I don't want to blame anyone.

I am 26 years old and huge interest in having sex. I had tried once in Bangalore with a prostitute but turned into awful experience. After that I felt guilty of that experience. This happened a year back. I think I have betrayed my parents and my future wife. Now I started urging for sex. But can't control my mind. I always wanted to have sex with the mature women. Also I am having thought that I'll get addicted once I go through the next one.

I'm not against sex. Sex is a need for everyone. Maintaining respect and dignity with the escorts is the foremost thing.

For others I don't know. But my fellow Indian friends know my situation. So please help me.

**Tatankaa** · 08-20-18 19:01

Originally Posted by Anand1234 [View Original Post]

I think you are suffering from delayed or also called retarded ejaculation. Unfortunately there is no medicinal cure available for this even with sexologist. There are multiple reasons why this happen like masturbation, watching porn, stress etc. You only have options of psychological cure, What you have to do is find a partner, get intimate regularly with the same partner, program your mind slowly and eventually come into vagina, easier said than done though.

Bro,

If I will speak very honestly, I ejaculated only once with a WG when I didn't masturbate for 15 days or so. That too in WOT position (I pumped from down), still I didn't feel much in Missy. After that again I started masturbation.

I tried to hold so many times but not easy for me, specially when I work in a huge office campus full of hot girls. I also had GF 2 years back but she didn't agree for sex just foreplay. 2 months back again I didn't masturbate for 15-17 days and visited a WG. But my bad luck, that experience turned into KLPD.

Now am very sad and confused, I see hell lot of people suffering from premature ejaculation but my problem is rare one so wondering if it has any cure.

I also agree with your comment of one partner with whom I also get emotionally connected and get enough time than a WG and possibly can get rid of my problem.

Thanks. Experts comments are welcomed.

**BoobsManiac** · 08-20-18 15:24

Originally Posted by Nexus88 [View Original Post]

And I got just opposite problem not sure if this is because of over masturbation. I was doing masturbation almost 5-6 times a week since my teen age and now when am 28, facing ejaculation issues. In last few years I had sex with so many girls, but I don't feel any sensation during veginal intercourse, after sex every time I need to get HJ from girl, I am also overweight so cannot pump too much like any other normal person. Or am very used to of only masturbation or HJ now. I read that if I stop masturbation then this problem can be cured but its very difficult for me to hold for 1 month or so. Seniors and experts please please advise me do I need to meet sexologiest, is this problem due to over masturbation or can be anything else. My sex life became hell because of this.

Yes this is due to too much masturbation. Avoid masturbation for 6-8 months and you will get better. Don't worry. Too much masturbation has made your mind to think and get more pleasure using your hands rather than the pleasure coming from actual intercourse penis vaginal sex. Avoid masturbation from now onwards.

**RandomIndiDude** · 08-20-18 10:44

Originally Posted by RandomIndiDude [View Original Post]

Hi,

I have very less experience in sexual intercourse with an another person (5-6 times) and was heavily addicted to masturbation for many years. Now I have adopted NoFap and trying to rewire my brain by doing it with actual girls, hence my interest in mongering.

I am not able to stay hard for even 10 secs but it's relatively better than the fact that I was not even able to get hard before. I need to increase my stamina. Any advice? Thanks.

I was wondering if any of you have experience with the Stamina training unit model of the flesh light. Does it helps in building stamina?

Well the thing is buying a flashlight is a much better option than having paid sex just for building stamina financially but then real thing is the thing.

**Anand1234** · 08-20-18 09:49

Originally Posted by Nexus88 [View Original Post]

And I got just opposite problem not sure if this is because of over masturbation. I was doing masturbation almost 5-6 times a week since my teen age and now when am 28, facing ejaculation issues. In last few years I had sex with so many girls, but I don't feel any sensation during veginal intercourse, after sex every time I need to get HJ from girl, I am also overweight so cannot pump too much like any other normal person. Or am very used to of only masturbation or HJ now. I read that if I stop masturbation then this problem can be cured but its very difficult for me to hold for 1 month or so. Seniors and experts please please advise me do I need to meet sexologiest, is this problem due to over masturbation or can be anything else. My sex life became hell because of this.

I think you are suffering from delayed or also called retarded ejaculation. Unfortunately there is no medicinal cure available for this even with sexologist. There are multiple reasons why this happen like masturbation, watching porn, stress etc. You only have options of psychological cure, What you have to do is find a partner, get intimate regularly with the same partner, program your mind slowly and eventually come into vagina, easier said than done though.

**Nexus88** · 08-18-18 15:06

Originally Posted by RandomIndiDude [View Original Post]

Hi,

I have very less experience in sexual intercourse with an another person (5-6 times) and was heavily addicted to masturbation for many years. Now I have adopted NoFap and trying to rewire my brain by doing it with actual girls, hence my interest in mongering.

I am not able to stay hard for even 10 secs but it's relatively better than the fact that I was not even able to get hard before. I need to increase my stamina. Any advice? Thanks.

And I got just opposite problem not sure if this is because of over masturbation. I was doing masturbation almost 5-6 times a week since my teen age and now when am 28, facing ejaculation issues. In last few years I had sex with so many girls, but I don't feel any sensation during veginal intercourse, after sex every time I need to get HJ from girl, I am also overweight so cannot pump too much like any other normal person. Or am very used to of only masturbation or HJ now. I read that if I stop masturbation then this problem can be cured but its very difficult for me to hold for 1 month or so. Seniors and experts please please advise me do I need to meet sexologiest, is this problem due to over masturbation or can be anything else. My sex life became hell because of this.

**RandomIndiDude** · 08-18-18 05:05

Originally Posted by ThaneRJ07 [View Original Post]

If only you had PM, we could have discussed.

PM now active. Let me know your advice.

**ThaneRJ07** · 08-17-18 00:52

If only you had PM, we could have discussed.

Originally Posted by RandomIndiDude [View Original Post]

Hi,

I have very less experience in sexual intercourse with an another person (5-6 times) and was heavily addicted to masturbation for many years. Now I have adopted NoFap and trying to rewire my brain by doing it with actual girls, hence my interest in mongering.

I am not able to stay hard for even 10 secs but it's relatively better than the fact that I was not even able to get hard before. I need to increase my stamina. Any advice? Thanks.

**RandomIndiDude** · 08-16-18 13:34

Hi,

I have very less experience in sexual intercourse with an another person (5-6 times) and was heavily addicted to masturbation for many years. Now I have adopted NoFap and trying to rewire my brain by doing it with actual girls, hence my interest in mongering.

I am not able to stay hard for even 10 secs but it's relatively better than the fact that I was not even able to get hard before. I need to increase my stamina. Any advice? Thanks.

**TharkiLaunda1** · 08-11-18 20:39

Originally Posted by KartikMacho [View Original Post]

This is sarcasm right? Chances of getting HIV from a single unprotected contact in gay anal sex is 0. 11% and vaginal is 0.08%. This I am saying unprotected. Chance of getting HIV from a protected intercourse is NIL. It is not easy to get HIV unless one is taking loads up the ass day after day.

If this is not sarcasm, I have a better product for the people who are shit scared.

I don't think the HIV virus will stay alive outside the human body, else another method can be- a hiv + guy masturbates inside a public toilet, ejaculates on the seat, someone with a boil on his thigh goes for a [CodeWord116] and sits on the cum of the HIV + guy, but never read about such cases.

**BoobsManiac** · 08-11-18 17:39

Originally Posted by KartikMacho [View Original Post]

This is sarcasm right? Chances of getting HIV from a single unprotected contact in gay anal sex is 0. 11% and vaginal is 0.08%. This I am saying unprotected. Chance of getting HIV from a protected intercourse is NIL. It is not easy to get HIV unless one is taking loads up the ass day after day.

If this is not sarcasm, I have a better product for the people who are shit scared.

This pic is really hilarious LOL.

**KartikMacho** · 08-11-18 03:41

Originally Posted by Annanagarmong [View Original Post]

The answer is no. It only reduces the chances of transmission of virus. Suppose your having sex with a female with protection it doesn't protects your base of penis. Scrotum and thighs from contact highly contagious vaginal fluid of female. A minor cut will invite the virus. While removing the condom will you remove it without touching the outer surface which has contact with vagina. Even minor cuts in your finger can allow the virus to enter.

Unprotected oral sex is another danger. Anybody fluid contact can transmit the deadly virus. If you want to have safe sex means dry sex is the best way. O kissing, smooch, vaginal fuck. No oral sex without condom. Try even hand job with condom, or dry humping.

There are full condoms which are in trial which is like our trunks. That covers our thigh and scrotum which is hundred 100 safe.

Play safe. We have a only one life and loving family.

This is sarcasm right? Chances of getting HIV from a single unprotected contact in gay anal sex is 0. 11% and vaginal is 0.08%. This I am saying unprotected. Chance of getting HIV from a protected intercourse is NIL. It is not easy to get HIV unless one is taking loads up the ass day after day.

If this is not sarcasm, I have a better product for the people who are shit scared.