Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Decadent Guyy]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

[MySecretLife]

Can anybody suggest me good STI panel test across NCR region and how much is cost?

Samuel123 Brother,

Lal Ji's Pathology Laboratory has branches across New Delhi, Noida, Gurgaon / Gurugram and an STD panel test costs around INR2800. Also, do an online search for dr safe dot com.

I'm from Bangalore. I've availed services from both of them using my mongering phone number and e-mail. My experience was good with both the laboratories, reports can be viewed online providing privacy and discretion.

Note:-

I.) In no way, I am neither associated with any of the above mentioned organizations, nor endorsing / advertising them for any commercial or financial gains.

II.) In Bangalore, while availing STD panel test, one need to sign a HIV consent form.

III.) While giving sample, you might want to consider window period of at-least 4 weeks after your last deed / encounter for accurate results.

IV.) If you are availing tests from doctor safe, check about the referred lab reputation and ensure that it is NABL accredited.

Regards,

MSL.

[AnupamGuy]

Hey bro,

Absence from sex and relying on masturbation leads premature ejaculation and quite common. Consult sexologist and they give medicine and advise you to improve frequency of sex to improve this. It works.

Cheers.

Hi,

I am thinking you are having some psychological non confidence. Because you haven't had sex for sometime it will take some time to gear it back. So don't worry do some meditation. You'll be OK. Just as yourself deeply. All the best.

[Samuel123]

Can anybody suggest me good STI panel test across NCR region and how much is cost?

[Member #4622]

Hello members,

Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Hi,

I am thinking you are having some psychological non confidence. Because you haven't had sex for sometime it will take some time to gear it back. So don't worry do some meditation. You'll be OK. Just as yourself deeply. All the best.

[NriMonger]

Hi guys,

I am upset over something.

I got a contact of a girl from Rahulbhai.

I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

9 pm.

She was high, smoked few cigarettes, we drank vodka.

After that we kissed.

And in flow.

She gave me blowjob without condom for 2 mins.

Then she tried to put my dick inside her vagina without condom.

I stopped her and put condom on.

I started fucking suddenly after 10 seconds.

I got upset over without condom blowjob and stopped her and asked to leave.

I tried to pay her 4 k but she refused.

And finally we left hotel..

How are you doing now bro?

[Kartikrai]

Hello members,

Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Bro,

You need to first understand that precum is bound to be released if you are sexually excited.

But in your case it is not clearly known whether it is precum or not because in general conditions it is released when the tool is fully erect. Sometimes it can be released during the flaccid state of the penis also. I think you should first make sure that whether the thing which you are assuming as precum is actually precum or [CodeWord109]. If the shot is hardly within one minute is a sign of worry because it should ideally be 5-10 minutes for a normal healthy person. In my view you need to see with a doctor for the time factor but the precum / [CodeWord109] thing you have to clarify.

[VMike]

Hello members,

Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

[Sdaboo]

Hi,

Would suggest that you go to any big tertiary hospital (Apollo, Fortis, Manipal) in Bangalore and seek a consultation from a Urologist, depending on your age and sexual activity a lot of conditions can cause this. Do not ignore this issue and seek professional help at the earliest.

Hi,

I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

Experts any remedy?

Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

Regards,

Vishwanath.

[MySecretLife]

Hi,

I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

Experts any remedy?

Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

Regards,

Vishwanath.

Disclaimer:- I'm not a medical professional.

Vishwanath Brother,

Even though my response might sound daunting and exhaustive, I'm posting few questions to get better clarity.

1.) Are you circumcised or uncircumcised?

2.) If you're uncircumcised, could you retract and release your foreskin with out any pain or discomfort?

3.) Have you developed hyper sensitivity of the glans recently or it has been there for a while?

4.) Does your glans become sensitive when your penis erect or do you feel sensitivity during flaccid condition also?

Reason for asking is that usually for an uncircumcised men glans will be sensitive, it takes a while to de-sensitize it.

I have an uncircumcised penis and tight foreskin, I couldn't retract my foreskin earlier even when in flaccid condition. Once I started practicing. Over a period of an year, I could retract fully when in flaccid condition. Initially it used to be painful experience while cleaning smegma, but over period of time, with constant practice and persistence, I have overcome the issue. It depends on the individual and it requires patience.

Though I don't want to quote the name, thanks to the senior who guided me. You can refer to phimosisjourney dot com.

In case if you are looking for medical help, just Google three-best-rated dot com, I personally had good experience when consulted top rated doctors from the three-best-rated dot com.

Wish you all the best.

Regards,

MSL.

P.S.: In no way I'm either personally or commercially associated with the above mentioned portals or the doctors.

PPS: As mentioned at beginning of my response, my intent is to help you, my response in no way is a substitute of qualified medical professional consultation.

[Unknown111]

Hi,

I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

Experts any remedy?

Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

Regards,

Vishwanath.

[SkypeKahinka]

Bro,

I have been in the same situation, trust me, I understand what you going through. This is pure anxiety related side effects. Stress contributes to upset stomach, sore throat and severe sweating at times. Don't worry, consult a decent doctor in Delhi about the situation. I can guide you. Pm if you need details of the sex specialist. Just relax, you can't do anything about something which might not be there.

Hi guys,

I am upset over something.

I got a contact of a girl from Rahulbhai.

I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

9 pm.

She was high, smoked few cigarettes, we drank vodka.

[MySecretLife]

I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

She gave me blowjob without condom for 2 mins.

Then she tried to put my dick inside her vagina without condom.

I stopped her and put condom on.

I started fucking suddenly after 10 seconds.

I got upset over without condom blowjob and stopped her and asked to leave.

I tried to pay her 4 k but she refused.
Now I slept okay on 8th Feb.

9th Feb.

I started getting anxiety.

Over the without protection blowjob and the thing she tried to fuck without blowjob.

10th Feb.

I was getting depressed and anxiety is also getting high.

I am not able to eat anything.

I went to a sexologist doctor explained him everything he said risk is low but took money for HIV tridot test and it came out negative.

12th Feb.

I took elisa HIV test with p24 it came negative.

Although I know window period is not enough.

13th Feb.-15th Feb.

My stomach is paining.

16th Feb.

I read on internet about pcr test for HIV.

Which check viral load.

I took it and result was negative.

17th Feb.

I was feeling okay and eat food properly.

Although I was not liking the food but.

Still ate.

18th Feb.-20th Feb.

Back to square 1.

My BP is 150 - 90 from 4 days straight.

I went to doctor and took BP med also.

21st Feb.

Rahul bhai helped me and that girl got convinced to come and take test with me.

I took her and did.

Elisa test with P24 for HIV.

Pcr test for HIV.

Herpes igg and igm.

Her herpes igg was positive 2.45 something.

But HIV was negative in both test.

I went to doctor he gave me throat and stomach meds for 3 days.

22nd.

I am very happy my mood is back to normal.

Although my stomach was still paining sometimes but I ignored and ate good food.

23rd.

I don't know why but my stomach is still upset and bad taste in mouth sometimes.

I think I am fearing that pcr test for HIV was done only for HIV 1 not for hiv 2.

My condition has improved a lot.

The only risk I fear is that girl gave me blowjob without condom for 2 minutes only but still I am getting anxiety.

I think I will calm down only after window period of 4 weeks passes and I see negative test.

Can anyone help me with their suggestions how to keep my self calm.

And tell me that if any risk is there.

Symptoms.

Disclaimer:- I'm not a qualified medical professional, my intent of reply is to help you, take contents my post with a grain of salt.

Hello Brother,

It seems you had exposure of unprotected oral-sex / Blow-job for 2 minutes on 7th Feb 2019 (18 days back).

Few points that I would like to mention which might help you:

i.) If you don't have any cuts / sores / wounds on your penile foreskin, the risk of catching HIV is very very negligible. Also if the WG also doesn't have any cuts / sores / wounds / bleeding-gums then also contracting HIV is very very negligible. Also HIV virus is very fragile and can't sustain in Saliva. They say that no HIV cases reported / recorded due to unprotected oral sex (remember above exceptions).

ii.) Two weeks is a decent window for P24 Antigen and PCR test for HIV-I&II. I'm unsure in Delhi, but in Bangalore HIV I&II PCR plus Antigen costs you around 8. 5 K. You can google dr safe hands.

iii.) About Herpes, IgG indicates early infection. However, sometimes it is not accurate / equivocal. Did you take HSV I + II composite IgG test, if yes, better to take separate tests and also like HIV, for HSV also there are PCR tests, PCR tests should give you a clear idea.

iv.) HSV is not curable but manageable, during outbreaks you can take the anti-viral medicines, if at all if the doctor says you've contracted HSV.

v.) Lastly, you seems to have severe anxiety disorder, please seek professional help / counseling and also you might want to do PCR tests to get fair idea, confidence and peace of mind. Of-course you can take ELISA / ELFA, STI panel, CBC, [CodeWord109] Routine & Culture test after a month of your exposure.

Regards,

MSL.

[PakkaIdiots11]

I want to increase my time which is low and identified dejac-T meeting requirements. Tried to find it in Noida but none of the medical store has that. Able to see in online pharmacies but they need prescription. Any bro can direct me to medical store with this and / or sexual performance drugs available freely preferable in Noida area?

I give you a contact but your PM not active.

[AnupamGuy]

I want to increase my time which is low and identified dejac-T meeting requirements. Tried to find it in Noida but none of the medical store has that. Able to see in online pharmacies but they need prescription. Any bro can direct me to medical store with this and / or sexual performance drugs available freely preferable in Noida area?