Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Mickey Thomas]

I recently started taking 2 raw garlic cloves in empty stomach every morning to bring down my cholesterol levels and the surprising side effect was significant improvement in erection strength after 3 days.

Would like to hear from others if they have any experience with any other veg / spice etc.

[Gman111]

Can anybody suggest good venerolgist in gurgaon.

[JustLetItBena3]

This is just my curiosity or someone else has also experienced this.

So this other day I had a date and at the same time had my sciatica flare up. To combat that, I took 1/2 tab of a muscle relaxant named Intagesic MR. After about 45 minutes of taking the muscle relaxant, I popped one Avanair 100 tab about 1 hour before action. What followed was just amazing. My time was 2 x and Full Rock hard erection, more firm than usual. By 2 x I mean twice the time, I would get with just avanair.

This probably is not recommended but I guess so is popping in erection pills. Do let me know, if any fellow on this forum has tried this or had a similar experience.

Cheers.

[Tylder]

I visited a sexologist who counselled me on my test results. He also said the same thing that 70% Indian men will have IgG positive result and advised me to drink water for the burning sensation.

The tingling and burning sensation that I had automatically went away after 2 weeks. I had also visited a urologist who found nothing wrong and suggested painkillers which I did not take.

However after a gap of 10 days, I once again started feeling burning sensation in penis. It has been more than 2 weeks now and there are no signs of improvement. Its almost 80 days post my sexual incident. I am planning to take a complete STD test from DrSafehands which also tests for gonorrhea. I am also not sure whether I injured my penis during masturbation, and hence the pain. I usually masturbate not by stroking my penis, but by rubbing myself against the bed.

Igg means its not active anymore. Active infection will come under igm. Hsv 1 is related mostly with oral herpes and hsv2 with genital herpes. Being said that one can have hsv1 in genital areas and hsv2 in oral areas. Until and unless you have an active infection and a test is being done by taking sample from that region it's difficult to say whether you are having oral or genital herpes. Since you have a history of mouth ulcers most likely you have oral herpes but that need not be true. Since its igg I don't think tingling sensation in your genital area is related to this but I may be wrong.

Herpes are not life threatening but for sure an inconvenience. It is recommended not to go for herpes test unless you have any symptoms. Most people who are herpes positive never get any symptoms or have very mild symptoms. Worst part of herpes is the virus can be active in you without any symptoms. So you won't be knowing it and unknowingly pass it to someone else. This is why it spreads so much. If we all mongers go for a herpes test 75% will turn out to be positive. So don't worry, you are not alone.

When you are having any tingling sensation in your genital areas try avoiding having any sex or getting cozy with your partner where your partner might touch your genital area. Remember herpes is a skin disease and spreads with any form of skin contact to the affected area. So better to take precautions as you don't know for sure which part of your body is affected.

Treatment wise I have heard homeopathy and ayurveda can keep it dormant for years.

[HituMonger]

This seems good for overall health too. Might try this.

Which ones to buy? Cordyceps Sinensis or Cordyceps Militaris?

You can do research over this as its available over google. But I have shared what I am using and found effective. Can try other versions and check difference. .

[IndianSexGuy]

For PE and erection issues I have found cordycep capsules very effective. I am 51 yrs but still can go long. Sometime don't get any ejaculation after first round. If I feel I am about to come I will pull out and change position that helps a lot. I have almost got in to 4-6 hrs with such intermittent breaks. I am gym goer for 20 yrs but not more than 3 times a week. Hope it helps. Two brands I have found very effective are available on amazon. Second one I had recently bought on amazon but seems no more available.

This seems good for overall health too. Might try this.

Which ones to buy? Cordyceps Sinensis or Cordyceps Militaris?

[HituMonger]

For PE and erection issues I have found cordycep capsules very effective. I am 51 yrs but still can go long. Sometime don't get any ejaculation after first round. If I feel I am about to come I will pull out and change position that helps a lot. I have almost got in to 4-6 hrs with such intermittent breaks. I am gym goer for 20 yrs but not more than 3 times a week. Hope it helps. Two brands I have found very effective are available on amazon. Second one I had recently bought on amazon but seems no more available.

[ThisFun]

Thanks for the sharing the wisdom. These tips and tricks are very useful. It all lies in our mind

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Thank you for your kind words. I thought of sharing since that's what this forum is for. Helping out each other.

-ThisFun.

[Zhango]

Thanks for the sharing the wisdom. These tips and tricks are very useful. It all lies in our mind

Hey buddy! I faced a similar problem at the beginning of my mongering time (used to get done within 1 or 2 minutes of penetration). This happens mainly because of the excited state of mind and the reverse psychology of fear of cumming early. However, I was given very wise advice by one of the indies I met that's applicable everywhere. I will summarize what she said.

1. Mind is the best aphrodisiac, it is also the best way to control and prolong your orgasms.

2. Always try and please your partner, put their needs before yours. That way they'll make sure that you get what you need.

3. Spend time generously on foreplay. It will boost your confidence which is a key to last long.

4. While you are in the act, enjoy your time. However, do not get entangled in the worry of not lasting long, you'll last longer.

5. Practice makes a man perfect. The more sessions you have, the better you'll get at the timing.

Personal advice:

A. It's important to have asexual interaction before the act. A playful hug or some frank conversations help a lot in containing the excitement.

B. Go slow! Its not a race. Try and enjoy your time.

C. Try changing positions or taking it out and engaging in foreplay again if you think you are close.

D. There are climax delay condoms which have sensation numbing cream at the tip, they do help if used properly. I haven't tried but I have seen a guys using numbing spray on his dick when I had a threesome. Maybe works, no harm in trying.

E. Kegel exercises, very easy and very effective if done consistently.

F. Pinching the tip when you are close to orgasm helps in the timing. (pic attached).

G. You can also try diverting your mind if you feel the sensations are overwhelming, and come back to reality once they are in control. (I used to count in my head backwards from 100 to 1 or count the tiles or estimate the room dimensions).

In the end, the human mind is inherently subjective. What worked for me might not work for you. But I sincerely hope this helps! Others may add something if I missed out.

-ThisFun.

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[KoolDude28]

Igg means its not active anymore. Active infection will come under igm. Hsv 1 is related mostly with oral herpes and hsv2 with genital herpes. Being said that one can have hsv1 in genital areas and hsv2 in oral areas. Until and unless you have an active infection and a test is being done by taking sample from that region it's difficult to say whether you are having oral or genital herpes. Since you have a history of mouth ulcers most likely you have oral herpes but that need not be true. Since its igg I don't think tingling sensation in your genital area is related to this but I may be wrong.

Herpes are not life threatening but for sure an inconvenience. It is recommended not to go for herpes test unless you have any symptoms. Most people who are herpes positive never get any symptoms or have very mild symptoms. Worst part of herpes is the virus can be active in you without any symptoms. So you won't be knowing it and unknowingly pass it to someone else. This is why it spreads so much. If we all mongers go for a herpes test 75% will turn out to be positive. So don't worry, you are not alone.

When you are having any tingling sensation in your genital areas try avoiding having any sex or getting cozy with your partner where your partner might touch your genital area. Remember herpes is a skin disease and spreads with any form of skin contact to the affected area. So better to take precautions as you don't know for sure which part of your body is affected.

Treatment wise I have heard homeopathy and ayurveda can keep it dormant for years.

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

[Lamboos]

I don't smoke. Drink once a week. No much porn. Sometimes I go 10 days without porn. BP and diabetes are not a problem for me as a thirty year old.

Nowadays even 20 year olds are having BP & diabetes, so your age doesn't matter. Now, if you are sure that your problem is not physiological, then it could be sexual performance anxiety which another bro has mentioned below. Try googling it and you should see a lot of articles on the same. Go through them and see if your experience is similar.

[ThisFun]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?

Hey buddy! I faced a similar problem at the beginning of my mongering time (used to get done within 1 or 2 minutes of penetration). This happens mainly because of the excited state of mind and the reverse psychology of fear of cumming early. However, I was given very wise advice by one of the indies I met that's applicable everywhere. I will summarize what she said.

1. Mind is the best aphrodisiac, it is also the best way to control and prolong your orgasms.

2. Always try and please your partner, put their needs before yours. That way they'll make sure that you get what you need.

3. Spend time generously on foreplay. It will boost your confidence which is a key to last long.

4. While you are in the act, enjoy your time. However, do not get entangled in the worry of not lasting long, you'll last longer.

5. Practice makes a man perfect. The more sessions you have, the better you'll get at the timing.

Personal advice:

A. It's important to have asexual interaction before the act. A playful hug or some frank conversations help a lot in containing the excitement.

B. Go slow! Its not a race. Try and enjoy your time.

C. Try changing positions or taking it out and engaging in foreplay again if you think you are close.

D. There are climax delay condoms which have sensation numbing cream at the tip, they do help if used properly. I haven't tried but I have seen a guys using numbing spray on his dick when I had a threesome. Maybe works, no harm in trying.

E. Kegel exercises, very easy and very effective if done consistently.

F. Pinching the tip when you are close to orgasm helps in the timing. (pic attached).

G. You can also try diverting your mind if you feel the sensations are overwhelming, and come back to reality once they are in control. (I used to count in my head backwards from 100 to 1 or count the tiles or estimate the room dimensions).

In the end, the human mind is inherently subjective. What worked for me might not work for you. But I sincerely hope this helps! Others may add something if I missed out.

-ThisFun.

[BadBoyLucifer]

If you smoke, watch too much porn or masturbate, stop those. Do some blood tests like testosterone, estrogen, BP, etc and check if things are normal. Stress and anxiety can also cause PE. As a short tem solution, you can wank off an hour or so before you meet the girl.

I don't smoke. Drink once a week. No much porn. Sometimes I go 10 days without porn. BP and diabetes are not a problem for me as a thirty year old.

[Lamboos]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?

If you smoke, watch too much porn or masturbate, stop those. Do some blood tests like testosterone, estrogen, BP, etc and check if things are normal. Stress and anxiety can also cause PE. As a short tem solution, you can wank off an hour or so before you meet the girl.

[BadBoyLucifer]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?