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[Meat Loaf]

Meat Loaf & WaterBoy:

After living and working here day and day out for over a year, I would have to respectfully disagree with your opinions about non-pros in Nicaragua. I currently have two younger chicks that I am banging, one single no-kids, and the other a co-worker twice divorced with two kids.

Obviously, I make more money that both of them, and I am in a much better financial position than either of them, thus I spend the lions share of the money with both of them. One of them even has a boyfriend now, and we basically hook up for out of the routine sex and basic friendship as we developed a strong one. Both of these women try and do really nice things for me, cook for me (although both kind of suck), buy me what for them is expensive gifts, one will massage me and both of them offer me the use of their vehicles should I need it.

I have helped both of these women out of small time binds and have just been a buddy to them. One is surely interested in marrige and the other GAVE UP HER US RESIDENCY about two years ago, and does not want to leave Nicaragua. One I would surely like to get involved with and the other i is better off with someone else.

I could probably hook up with some other women if I wanted to. I will have to say that I do agree with quite a bit of what Meat Loaf says in terms of many Nica's running wild on your dime with little or no regard for manners or others expenses. Meat Loaf is darn well pretty accurate on most of what he relates about Nica, especially on the P4P scene. But, at the upper levels of society, which does not mean rich just better educated, I think he might be a little off, and there is plenty of the local talent available in that area, you just have to spend the time and look.

But, what I will also add is that it all depends on what kind of Nica's you are looking for. The more educated and working/professional women are available, but you are going to have to invest more time with them and be somewhat discreet. They are not going to go for a "wham, bam, thank you maam" type deal. I say that, but the one I work with is about as sexually close to a man **** that I know of. I am her boss and she basically uses me for sex, when she wants it.

The big thing that you have to understand about Nica's is that they have been conditioned by Nicaraguan men, which are some of the biggest dumbasses I have ever been around and the ones at the upper levels of society are about as worthless as tits on a boar hog. Thus, at all levels of society these women are conditioned to get what they can as fast as they can before the man royally screws them over. I can't tell you the amount of women, more so than any Latin American country that I have been in, that I know of down here that have just gotten royally screwed.

Managua is such a small big city that these women have to truly guard their reputations, thus they are much more discreet and careful than in other places. If you want some verification of all of this, just go to any of the nicer "motels" on a Thursday or Friday evening and see if you can get a room. Somebody is in them.

I would say that the Nica women, at least the educated and working ones, have more pride and are more appreciative than the women in most of Latin America, and out of my 40 years, I have spent 34 either living, living and working or just working from Brownsville to San Jose and in a few other places.

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Hello fellow-Texan:

Working / Professional Nicas will take the same amount of time as other Nicas, 1 to 6 months. Having a job is a big deal in Nicaragua so she already has a big head over the populace. You're a foreigner so that's good, but she'll still think of you as a money source.

It all comes down to how and where you met the girl. First impressions either through introduction, the employment rouse, the vacationer, etcetera are important factors in where she sets the gate to keep you out.

TJ, having a girlfriend that's a co-worker or employee is abuse of power and really can't count as a non-pro. If she worked at another company and you met her as an employee for your company is one thing, but you control her paycheck. More accurately, you have 8 hours a day to talk to her. Her guard is down or altered in the workplace versus meeting her as a stranger on the street. She may still bullsh*t about dating you since you work together, but you have a tremendous amount of access for communication.

I'm writing a post about Muchachos Nicas where I will expound upon their mentality.

I, Meat Loaf, spend my time with regular Nicas of both sexes and don't raly waste my time trying to be fresa (yuppie.) Whoever I come into contact with will be less educated than I and have less money than I, so I don't even think along those lines. (Obviously this is a generalization.) I make friends with everybody and wait for them to show their cards and f*ck themselves up with lies, rudeness, and other faults which manifest rather quickly. I do have social / professional friends (associates / people I know) in all levels of society, but if I wanted social status I'd stay in the USA. I'm here just because. I write this 'cause if a person wants to be fresa it's really stupid considering you're in the Major Leagues of Baseball competing agaist Little Leaguers. Don't kick a wounded dog when he's down.

Best Advice: Meet individuals, learn them, and decide their quality based upon knowing them. Don't waste too much time so you must be pro-active in the process of having them show their true colors. You can't approach this society any other way. Those people that think fresa are trying to immitate the USA and we ex-pats don't want that anyway!

[Meat Loaf]

Thanks TJTexan for a detailed and thoughtful explanation.

In line with the purpose of this forum: I am willing to pay for having sex with a much younger and more attractive women than I can find in my own country. I prefer semi-pros/non-pros. I am not looking for a wife. Merely girlfriends. As meatloaf has said, in the end they expect some sort of monetary gain. So what, I'll pay. I just have to attend meatloaf's school of "ASS-et" Management.

TJ - I am impressed to hear that you have two steady girlfriends. This fills my heart with joy.

Prospecting in my own country is a time and money consuming process, with lower chances of success. If I can expect similiar results from the same amount of time and energy spent, why bother even travelling to Nicaragua?

I have some questions about your post.

1. You said that, for the recruitment of non-pros, it takes discretion, time and persistence. How much time and persistence? Conquest on the 2nd or third date? After a month?

2. How much time should one spend before deciding he is drilling a dry hole, and move on?

3. In the states, you can typically expect to get a woman 5 years your junior. What about in Nica? Can you get one who is 15, 20 years your junior? How about a 18-20 year old hardbody as your girlfriend?

Thank you in advance for your post. I hope to hear more from you in this forum.

1. You can expect to "beg" a Chica Nica to go out with you on a date from 1 to 6 months. She's accustomed to having guys heckle her everyday and never does she respond. You have to do a lot of chasing and having her get comfortable in getting to know you. It's not easy!

2. Don't place too much faith into her responding. You need to talk to as many girls as possible waiting for one to fall. After they see another girl is interested then the other girls that you've been pursuing will start to come around. You need to invest time and effort in getting Chicas Nicas. It's not easy! How much time do you have? If you live here then you have until death. Aint nothing else happening in the country nor their lives so having you chase a girl is entertainment, gossip, and a way to kill time.

Prospecting. Exactly. Why even bother with Nicaragua if you must invest so much time for so little results. In fact, me not being able to get a girlfriend after 8 months of prospecting forced me to leave the country for 3 months. I've returned, but I'm dating and fucking and being friends with the people I met last year, so I haven't really built anything new. Because I have contacts from last year all of the new people I meet are through these contacts and my popularity from last year. Exactly, why bother? I'm lazy, cheap, and have aspirations that involve Nicaragua. For others it aint worth it. Life here sucks for all and frequent vacations outside of the country are needed for sanity and reality checks.

[Tj Texan]

1. You said that, for the recruitment of non-pros, it takes discretion, time and persistence. How much time and persistence? Conquest on the 2nd or third date? After a month?

2. How much time should one spend before deciding he is drilling a dry hole, and move on?

3. In the states, you can typically expect to get a woman 5 years your junior. What about in Nica? Can you get one who is 15, 20 years your junior? How about a 18-20 year old hardbody as your girlfriend?

Thank you in advance for your post. I hope to hear more from you in this forum.

Waterboy:

Let me try to answer as best as I can.

1. I think that really depends on what level of woman you hit on. If you go after the younger "hair dresser" or "shop clerk" type women that go out to a disco once a month, you probably can score after a couple of dates. If you get involved with the more educated ones, maybe some single mothers, I would probably guess you could get lucky after the 3rd or 4th date. After about 2-3 dates, I took the non-coworker chick to the coast for a long weekend, and bingo. My co-worker I nailed on the first time we actually, well second really, spent time together at night in a non-work setting. She is sex hungry little slutpuppy, and I think if she likes you she will do you upon meeting you, she has a history of that.

2. Gosh, I really would not know. I think women can sense that you are only trying to bang them, if you make the non-pros feel appreciated, desired and comfortable, you could probably do it pretty quickly. I think it is just going to depend on the chemistry between you, I would not get involved with a Nicaraguan chick that you don't really like as who knows how it is all going to turn out.

3. I am 40, the two women I mention are 27 and 32, FWIW. I also have the number of a very hot 20 yo hair dresser that I have gone out with one time, but she brought too many friends and pulled a deal that Meatloaf could relate to, ordering the most expensive meal, drinking the most expensive drink, etc. Etc. So I cut her loose early and have not called her or taken her calls again.

I would not call either of these women I see "steady" as I have represented my situation to them honestly upfront. One of them really probably uses me more than I used or use her.

If you are nice, in shape and decent I think your chances go way up with the non-pros. I would also hit on the casino waitreses, as they are semi-pro's and for the most part goodlooking. Some hotel employees and other service job women make themselves available also.

I hope this helps.

[Member #4167]

Thanks TJTexan for a detailed and thoughtful explanation.

In line with the purpose of this forum: I am willing to pay for having sex with a much younger and more attractive women than I can find in my own country. I prefer semi-pros/non-pros. I am not looking for a wife. Merely girlfriends. As meatloaf has said, in the end they expect some sort of monetary gain. So what, I'll pay. I just have to attend meatloaf's school of "ASS-et" Management.

TJ - I am impressed to hear that you have two steady girlfriends. This fills my heart with joy.

Prospecting in my own country is a time and money consuming process, with lower chances of success. If I can expect similiar results from the same amount of time and energy spent, why bother even travelling to Nicaragua?

I have some questions about your post.

1. You said that, for the recruitment of non-pros, it takes discretion, time and persistence. How much time and persistence? Conquest on the 2nd or third date? After a month?

2. How much time should one spend before deciding he is drilling a dry hole, and move on?

3. In the states, you can typically expect to get a woman 5 years your junior. What about in Nica? Can you get one who is 15, 20 years your junior? How about a 18-20 year old hardbody as your girlfriend?

Thank you in advance for your post. I hope to hear more from you in this forum.

[Tj Texan]

Meat Loaf & WaterBoy:

After living and working here day and day out for over a year, I would have to respectfully disagree with your opinions about non-pros in Nicaragua. I currently have two younger chicks that I am banging, one single no-kids, and the other a co-worker twice divorced with two kids.

Obviously, I make more money that both of them, and I am in a much better financial position than either of them, thus I spend the lions share of the money with both of them. One of them even has a boyfriend now, and we basically hook up for out of the routine sex and basic friendship as we developed a strong one. Both of these women try and do really nice things for me, cook for me (although both kind of suck), buy me what for them is expensive gifts, one will massage me and both of them offer me the use of their vehicles should I need it.

I have helped both of these women out of small time binds and have just been a buddy to them. One is surely interested in marrige and the other GAVE UP HER US RESIDENCY about two years ago, and does not want to leave Nicaragua. One I would surely like to get involved with and the other i is better off with someone else.

I could probably hook up with some other women if I wanted to. I will have to say that I do agree with quite a bit of what Meat Loaf says in terms of many Nica's running wild on your dime with little or no regard for manners or others expenses. Meat Loaf is darn well pretty accurate on most of what he relates about Nica, especially on the P4P scene. But, at the upper levels of society, which does not mean rich just better educated, I think he might be a little off, and there is plenty of the local talent available in that area, you just have to spend the time and look.

But, what I will also add is that it all depends on what kind of Nica's you are looking for. The more educated and working/professional women are available, but you are going to have to invest more time with them and be somewhat discreet. They are not going to go for a "wham, bam, thank you maam" type deal. I say that, but the one I work with is about as sexually close to a man **** that I know of. I am her boss and she basically uses me for sex, when she wants it.

The big thing that you have to understand about Nica's is that they have been conditioned by Nicaraguan men, which are some of the biggest dumbasses I have ever been around and the ones at the upper levels of society are about as worthless as tits on a boar hog. Thus, at all levels of society these women are conditioned to get what they can as fast as they can before the man royally screws them over. I can't tell you the amount of women, more so than any Latin American country that I have been in, that I know of down here that have just gotten royally screwed.

Managua is such a small big city that these women have to truly guard their reputations, thus they are much more discreet and careful than in other places. If you want some verification of all of this, just go to any of the nicer "motels" on a Thursday or Friday evening and see if you can get a room. Somebody is in them.

I would say that the Nica women, at least the educated and working ones, have more pride and are more appreciative than the women in most of Latin America, and out of my 40 years, I have spent 34 either living, living and working or just working from Brownsville to San Jose and in a few other places.

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[Tj Texan]

Meat Loaf & WaterBoy:

After living and working here day and day out for over a year, I would have to respectfully disagree with your opinions about non-pros in Nicaragua. I currently have two younger chicks that I am banging, one single no-kids, and the other a co-worker twice divorced with two kids.

Obviously, I make more money that both of them, and I am in a much better financial position than either of them, thus I spend the lions share of the money with both of them. One of them even has a boyfriend now, and we basically hook up for out of the routine sex and basic friendship as we developed a strong one. Both of these women try and do really nice things for me, cook for me (although both kind of suck), buy me what for them is expensive gifts, one will massage me and both of them offer me the use of their vehicles should I need it.

I have helped both of these women out of small time binds and have just been a buddy to them. One is surely interested in marrige and the other GAVE UP HER US RESIDENCY about two years ago, and does not want to leave Nicaragua. One I would surely like to get involved with and the other i is better off with someone else.

I could probably hook up with some other women if I wanted to. I will have to say that I do agree with quite a bit of what Meat Loaf says in terms of many Nica's running wild on your dime with little or no regard for manners or others expenses. Meat Loaf is darn well pretty accurate on most of what he relates about Nica, especially on the P4P scene. But, at the upper levels of society, which does not mean rich just better educated, I think he might be a little off, and there is plenty of the local talent available in that area, you just have to spend the time and look.

But, what I will also add is that it all depends on what kind of Nica's you are looking for. The more educated and working/professional women are available, but you are going to have to invest more time with them and be somewhat discreet. They are not going to go for a "wham, bam, thank you maam" type deal. I say that, but the one I work with is about as sexually close to a man **** that I know of. I am her boss and she basically uses me for sex, when she wants it.

The big thing that you have to understand about Nica's is that they have been conditioned by Nicaraguan men, which are some of the biggest dumbasses I have ever been around and the ones at the upper levels of society are about as worthless as tits on a boar hog. Thus, at all levels of society these women are conditioned to get what they can as fast as they can before the man royally screws them over. I can't tell you the amount of women, more so than any Latin American country that I have been in, that I know of down here that have just gotten royally screwed.

Managua is such a small big city that these women have to truly guard their reputations, thus they are much more discreet and careful than in other places. If you want some verification of all of this, just go to any of the nicer "motels" on a Thursday or Friday evening and see if you can get a room. Somebody is in them.

I would say that the Nica women, at least the educated and working ones, have more pride and are more appreciative than the women in most of Latin America, and out of my 40 years, I have spent 34 either living, living and working or just working from Brownsville to San Jose and in a few other places.

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[Meat Loaf]

I have lime and mango trees on my property that tower well above my tin roof. These trees shed their leaves frequently along with the fruit they bear. Due to the amount of fruit reaped from the trees my roof was being weighed-down by the leeves and fruit that rested above my head.

Local repairs guys were next door repairing the neighbor's roof so I had my employees ask them to clean my roof as well. Their compensation: The free fruit for which the trees beared was their form of payment. Being quiet, one roofer asked if he was getting compensated and I remained curious and mute. He asked for a bag so he may tote his mangos and limes (compensation.)

Had I not had the local Nica proposition the roofer; had I opened my mouth and answered his compensation question; had I requested this valuable service myself, I would have and was willing to pay the roofer cash money. For he cleaned my gutters, roof, and trees with extreme care and professionalism.

Moral of the Story: When abroad, having a trusted local communicate for you can be worth the service they charge you. The objective is to pay one person handsomely while preventing yourself from getting fleeced by all you come in contact with.

[Member #4167]

If you want a non-pro, like I truly do, Nicaragua is not the society for recruitment. Instead, go to Panama, Costa Rica, or Mexico. You can get "real" women galore in Mexico and they'll be bilingual, college educated, and take care of the home. Same thing in Panama. Same thing in Costa Rica.
In Nicaragua all you get is mierda (sh*t.)

I am not sure of your definition of non-pro. My definition of non-pro is really the same as semi-pro: a girl who is not actively working as a prostitute, but will date you for monetary/greencard advantages.

My comments

For retirement/long term living, Panama & Costa Rica are expensive to live in (for a third world country). Mexico is getting expensive and Nica/Cr women are much more attractive than Mexican women. I just don't find mexicanas to be all that attractive.

Why is Nica not good for the recruitment of non-pros? Why is it so hard there? Nica women fall in love, get pregnant and get married to other Nicos, why not foreigners? After all, we are wealthy foreigners offering the chance of living in el norte.

Could the problem be:

1. Is there a bias/suspicion against all foreigners? OR only americans?
2. They only trust those who are met through the referral network?

Thank you in advance for your advice.

[Member #4167]

Meat Loaf, I am trying to understand your advice

How to get real "non-pros:"
(2) Talking to Nicas on the street will not work.
(3) Acting like a gentleman when approaching Nicas will not work either.
(5) You need to approach them in the stores, casinos, and other locations using some rouse for conversation. This still will not produce any success.
(7) Reality: This place sucks for romance!
(8) You won't get any success with Nicas.

I agree with points 2,3 & 5 due to my own experience. I do not have enough experience to agree or disagree with points 7 & 8.

(1) Spend time in the country as a resident. Everyone will watch you and begin to speak with you.

(4) Best advice, show lots of C $500 bills and that you're spending money and the pros and non-pros will approach you.

(6) The only way you'll get any Nicas is to put in time and work the friendship network.

Are you saying that basically obtaining a girlfiend is a hopeless cause? There is a little bit of hope, that a 'girlfiend' can be obtained (ok - at least a golddigger girlfiend), but even if you do all the right things to obtain one, your odds are slim?

[Member #4167]

Hi Meat Loaf, I am glad to see you are still going strong on the Managua forum. It is a pleasure reading your reports, for both entertainment and informative value. Managua is a difficult city to monger in, with no street addresses and the prostibulos continually opening/closing.

Again, "non-pro" action in Nicaragua is few and far between. It will always come down to you giving them money. What may appear to be genuine interest in you will actually be a money quest with you paying the bill for her and her extended family.

Yes, Meat Loaf. I agree with you 100%. Their main motivation is to get money from you. Of course it is the norm in Nica that you are also required to assist their entire family as well.

I am a tacano, but I have no problem with giving them money/gifts. In a place with so much poverty such as Nica, I can afford to be generous (but still spend less than in the western countries). I give money/gifts within limits.

I agree with you in that, when the age difference is 20+ years, their motivation is money. I agree that their are no real non-pros, They are all in essence golddiggers. I accept this as a fact of life and search for a golddigger. I believe that the payments in money/gifts from the golddigger can be managed so that you are not significantly overpaying.

[Meat Loaf]

I am planning another trip to Nica and was doing some pre-trip research.

During my trip to Nica I spent the majority of my time hunting for non-pros. I found that Non-Pros didn’t respond to friendly greetings, or engage in small conversation. The Nica on the street was not very approachable. Not too friendly. Because the non-pro action was non-exsistent, I invariably wound up getting serviced in the brothels. I never made it with a non-pro in Nica.

I don't have time for weeks or months of courtship. I am not looking for an over 30 woman. I am looking to bed a reasonably attractive girl on the first or second date.

Meatloaf, one of the most valuable contributors to the board has been successful in finding non-pros. He has said, however, that many of these were sex employees, which I assume were former/current prostitutes. I would not really consider these non-pros.

Can someone tell me why I did very poorly with non-pros?

I speak a passable spanish and am not overweight or ugly.

Could the success factors be:

I need to live there for a long period of time?

Have a network of friends for introductions? Speak perfectly fluid Nica spanish?

Could it be that I have no game, or don't know how to play the game?

Can someone who has lived in Nica and has been successful bedding non-pros please advise me?

Water Boy,

Again, "non-pro" action in Nicaragua is few and far between. It will always come down to you giving them money. What may appear to be genuine interest in you will actually be a money quest with you paying the bill for her and her extended family.

How to get real "non-pros:"
(1) Spend time in the country as a resident. Everyone will watch you and begin to speak with you.
(2) Talking to Nicas on the street will not work.
(3) Acting like a gentleman when approaching Nicas will not work either.
(4) Best advice, show lots of C $500 bills and that you're spending money and the pros and non-pros will approach you.
(5) You need to approach them in the stores, casinos, and other locations using some rouse for conversation. This still will not produce any success.
(6) The only way you'll get any Nicas is to put in time and work the friendship network. Even then, you'll find nothing but girls with children in need of money. Furthermore, the person introducing you wants "props" for placing you, the foreigner with money, within the girl's grasp. It's a financial transaction at all times and under all aspects. Never Get Confused About This Fact! Never!
(7) Reality: This place sucks for romance!
(8) You won't get any success with Nicas.

* I know of only one (1) foreigner who has a real girlfriend. Her risk factor is that she's learning English real quick and has no children, so obviously she's looking to move up north and getting pregnant would be a plus for this transaction. Her intentions are polar opposite his. Nonetheless, they have dated for a while and he is the only foreigner I know who has had any success in romance. He admits he got lucky. And she never asked him for money either, but she did bring her family to my home and ask me to feed them (3 grown adults) and she shared my rum with them void invitation. I know lots of people with North American citizenship or natives of Nicaragua who reside in North America and they too have no (0%) success in romance. *

Water Boy, the problem is not you, but the problem are the Chicas Nicas.
This fact is confirmed by the citizens who I've discussed this phenomenon with.

If you want a non-pro, like I truly do, Nicaragua is not the society for recruitment. Instead, go to Panama, Costa Rica, or Mexico. You can get "real" women galore in Mexico and they'll be bilingual, college educated, and take care of the home. Same thing in Panama. Same thing in Costa Rica.
In Nicaragua all you get is mierda (sh*t.)

[Meat Loaf]

I am planning another trip to Nica and was doing some pre-trip research.

During my trip to Nica I spent the majority of my time hunting for non-pros. I found that Non-Pros didn’t respond to friendly greetings, or engage in small conversation. The Nica on the street was not very approachable. Not too friendly. Because the non-pro action was non-exsistent, I invariably wound up getting serviced in the brothels. I never made it with a non-pro in Nica.

I don't have time for weeks or months of courtship. I am not looking for an over 30 woman. I am looking to bed a reasonably attractive girl on the first or second date.

Meatloaf, one of the most valuable contributors to the board has been successful in finding non-pros. He has said, however, that many of these were sex employees, which I assume were former/current prostitutes. I would not really consider these non-pros.

Can someone tell me why I did very poorly with non-pros?

I speak a passable spanish and am not overweight or ugly.

Could the success factors be:

I need to live there for a long period of time?

Have a network of friends for introductions? Speak perfectly fluid Nica spanish?

Could it be that I have no game, or don't know how to play the game?

Can someone who has lived in Nica and has been successful bedding non-pros please advise me?

Water Boy,

Again, "non-pro" action in Nicaragua is few and far between. It will always come down to you giving them money. What may appear to be genuine interest in you will actually be a money quest with you paying the bill for her and her extended family.

How to get real "non-pros:"
(1) Spend time in the country as a resident. Everyone will watch you and begin to speak with you.
(2) Talking to Nicas on the street will not work.
(3) Acting like a gentleman when approaching Nicas will not work either.
(4) Best advice, show lots of C $500 bills and that you're spending money and the pros and non-pros will approach you.
(5) You need to approach them in the stores, casinos, and other locations using some rouse for conversation. This still will not produce any success.
(6) The only way you'll get any Nicas is to put in time and work the friendship network. Even then, you'll find nothing but girls with children in need of money. Furthermore, the person introducing you wants "props" for placing you, the foreigner with money, within the girl's grasp. It's a financial transaction at all times and under all aspects. Never Get Confused About This Fact! Never!
(7) Reality: This place sucks for romance!
(8) You won't get any success with Nicas.

* I know of only one (1) foreigner who has a real girlfriend. Her risk factor is that she's learning English real quick and has no children, so obviously she's looking to move up north and getting pregnant would be a plus for this transaction. Her intentions are polar opposite his. Nonetheless, they have dated for a while and he is the only foreigner I know who has had any success in romance. He admits he got lucky. And she never asked him for money either, but she did bring her family to my home and ask me to feed them (3 grown adults) and she shared my rum with them void invitation. I know lots of people with North American citizenship or natives of Nicaragua who reside in North America and they too have no success in romance. *

Water Boy, the problem is not you, but the problem are the Chicas Nicas.
This fact is confirmed by the citizens who I've discussed this phenomenon with.

If you want a non-pro, like I truly do, Nicaragua is not the society for recruitment. Instead, go to Panama, Costa Rica, or Mexico.

[Meat Loaf]

Que Bola, Meat Loaf ?

After spending 3 months in Cuba, I am glad to see your are still alive and well on the Nica board !

I read one of your back posts.

SO TRUE! This is true in Cuba as well. This is just Latin American culture, I guess. I especially hate it when you buy a girl a beer and she gives it to her MALE friend. What an insult!

Also true of the cuban girls. (Funny, but Ecuadorean girls don't act the same way!) They are pros at manipulating you to spend more money (on them). And then when you do, you are laughed at as a chump, a sucker. I have learned my lesson. I now reply "Si, soy tacano, soy el mas tacano in todo el mundo" (Yes, I am stingy, I am the stingiest in the world).

For people that don't have sh*t why do they try and act like they have sh*t.
I'll slap somebody for trying to give my gifts away. Better yet, I don't give gifts.

Good job on tightening-up those pockets. Truth be told, when you need something nobody will be around to aide you. Worse than that, they moochers live with a family while you live alone relying upon foreign bank account access.

F*ck Em!

[Member #4167]

I am planning another trip to Nica and was doing some pre-trip research.

During my trip to Nica I spent the majority of my time hunting for non-pros. I found that Non-Pros didn’t respond to friendly greetings, or engage in small conversation. The Nica on the street was not very approachable. Not too friendly. Because the non-pro action was non-exsistent, I invariably wound up getting serviced in the brothels. I never made it with a non-pro in Nica.

I don't have time for weeks or months of courtship. I am not looking for an over 30 woman. I am looking to bed a reasonably attractive girl on the first or second date.

Meatloaf, one of the most valuable contributors to the board has been successful in finding non-pros. He has said, however, that many of these were sex employees, which I assume were former/current prostitutes. I would not really consider these non-pros.

Can someone tell me why I did very poorly with non-pros?

I speak a passable spanish and am not overweight or ugly.

Could the success factors be:

I need to live there for a long period of time?

Have a network of friends for introductions? Speak perfectly fluid Nica spanish?

Could it be that I have no game, or don't know how to play the game?

Can someone who has lived in Nica and has been successful bedding non-pros please advise me?

[Member #4167]

Que Bola, Meat Loaf ?

After spending 3 months in Cuba, I am glad to see your are still alive and well on the Nica board !

I read one of your back posts.

(Nov/2007) I compiled this post over 6-months while living in Managua.

14. They offer and share what you purchased with their friends as if they purchased the item, without permission. Example: food, beer, rum, and cigarettes.

SO TRUE! This is true in Cuba as well. This is just Latin American culture, I guess. I especially hate it when you buy a girl a beer and she gives it to her MALE friend. What an insult!

(Nov/2007)

15. They call you "pinche" (cheap; ) "tacano" (stingy; ) and "codo" (cheap) if you don’t buy them something when they ask for your invitation to buy them something.

Also true of the cuban girls. (Funny, but Ecuadorean girls don't act the same way!) They are pros at manipulating you to spend more money (on them). And then when you do, you are laughed at as a chump, a sucker. I have learned my lesson. I now reply "Si, soy tacano, soy el mas tacano in todo el mundo" (Yes, I am stingy, I am the stingiest in the world).