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Double Standards
I always find it interesting that individuals expect others to live at standards that are not even held up in their own country of origin. My understanding is that child care payments mandated by court order in the (Dis) United States of America are paid by one parent to the other parent but the use of those funds are not monitored in anyway by the courts. The individual can do whatever they want with the payments at their sole discretion.
Those that come from privilege often do not understand the cultures of those that do not. Especially when visiting.
Originally Posted by
Franciscass
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With respect, not that unusual and certainly not specific to Thailand. Taking something off the top for oneself happens everywhere and in many scenarios. Sometimes its pure greed, sometimes its expediency, but yes agreed raiding the kid's piggy bank is not on and if he was being told it was all going to the school then no doubt she's guilty as charged. You mention "it did not sound like what he had sent" so possibility a lost in translation episode? Also I presume quite apart from the savings account at the school he was also supporting her and the kid in some other way. Possible the two got mixed up? If there was no confusion about the actual amount in question what surprised me about the tale was the girl giving a number that was less than what he had sent. If she was being dishonest you would imagine she would have given the same amount he had sent as he was unlikely to be in touch with the school.
To finish may I suggest another rather more cynical explanation. There was no savings account to begin with.
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Originally Posted by
MrEnternational
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Wingman told me a crazy ass story today. He has a kid in Pattaya. So the school set up a savings account for the kids. He sends money when he is not in Thailand so his kid's mom can send it to school for the account. The teacher called and asked his kid's mom if she could borrow some of the money and the mom said no. 3 weeks later when the new semester began, the school called a meeting with the parents and asked if the teacher called anyone asking to borrow money. They advised them that the teacher had been stealing the kids' money. So all the parents had to give a number of how much money they had sent. His kid's mom told him a number that it did not sound like he had sent in total. So his kid's mom had been skimming off the money that was supposed to go to the kid's savings. Did not matter anyway because the teacher stole whatever was left to actually go to the savings. This kind shit does not shock me at all anymore. I already know what we are dealing with. Thailand is truly fucking amazing.
With respect, not that unusual and certainly not specific to Thailand. Taking something off the top for oneself happens everywhere and in many scenarios. Sometimes its pure greed, sometimes its expediency, but yes agreed raiding the kid's piggy bank is not on and if he was being told it was all going to the school then no doubt she's guilty as charged. You mention "it did not sound like what he had sent" so possibility a lost in translation episode? Also I presume quite apart from the savings account at the school he was also supporting her and the kid in some other way. Possible the two got mixed up? If there was no confusion about the actual amount in question what surprised me about the tale was the girl giving a number that was less than what he had sent. If she was being dishonest you would imagine she would have given the same amount he had sent as he was unlikely to be in touch with the school.
To finish may I suggest another rather more cynical explanation. There was no savings account to begin with.
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Originally Posted by
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I will be visiting Bangkok in December for 1 week, what is the budget you guys recommend? I was thinking maybe 30 or 40 k baht?
It depends on if you want to have any fun or not. If you just want to sit in a hotel room and then go fuck girls it's enough. If you actually want to go out and enjoy Bangkok it's not enough.
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Originally Posted by
Inarius
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I will be visiting Bangkok in December for 1 week, what is the budget you guys recommend? I was thinking maybe 30 or 40 k baht?
30-40 k only for girls only I assume. Gogo girls for 7 days 35 k ST to 49 k LT. Thermae for 7 days 17,500. Massage joints around Phrom Phong less than or nearly the same as Thermae. FL's even cheaper. So yes 30-40 k for a week for girls only should suffice if you mix things up.
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Originally Posted by
MrEnternational
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Wingman told me a crazy ass story today. He has a kid in Pattaya. So the school set up a savings account for the kids. He sends money when he is not in Thailand so his kid's mom can send it to school for the account. The teacher called and asked his kid's mom if she could borrow some of the money and the mom said no. 3 weeks later when the new semester began, the school called a meeting with the parents and asked if the teacher called anyone asking to borrow money. They advised them that the teacher had been stealing the kids' money. So all the parents had to give a number of how much money they had sent. His kid's mom told him a number that it did not sound like he had sent in total. So his kid's mom had been skimming off the money that was supposed to go to the kid's savings. Did not matter anyway because the teacher stole whatever was left to actually go to the savings. This kind shit does not shock me at all anymore. I already know what we are dealing with. Thailand is truly fucking amazing.
If you send money to a Thai lady, she is going to use it for whatever she wants, drinking, slots, a Thai man. That is the norm in Thailand.
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Wingman told me a crazy ass story today. He has a kid in Pattaya. So the school set up a savings account for the kids. He sends money when he is not in Thailand so his kid's mom can send it to school for the account. The teacher called and asked his kid's mom if she could borrow some of the money and the mom said no. 3 weeks later when the new semester began, the school called a meeting with the parents and asked if the teacher called anyone asking to borrow money. They advised them that the teacher had been stealing the kids' money. So all the parents had to give a number of how much money they had sent. His kid's mom told him a number that it did not sound like he had sent in total. So his kid's mom had been skimming off the money that was supposed to go to the kid's savings. Did not matter anyway because the teacher stole whatever was left to actually go to the savings. This kind shit does not shock me at all anymore. I already know what we are dealing with. Thailand is truly fucking amazing.
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Originally Posted by
Inarius
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I will be visiting Bangkok in December for 1 week, what is the budget you guys recommend? I was thinking maybe 30 or 40 k baht?
For 3 days, you will be okay.
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Recommended budget for a newbie?
I will be visiting Bangkok in December for 1 week, what is the budget you guys recommend? I was thinking maybe 30 or 40 k baht?
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Originally Posted by
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My Thai buddy says the secret to getting around Thailand without sudden toilet emergencies is to never drink the broth from your noodle bowl.
There was a huge ball of hair in mine once. How Sway, how?
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Originally Posted by
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I used to like Det5 on Soi 8. Has a nice outdoor seating area with trees strung with lights and swamp cooler misters like they use by the benches in football. When you sit down they give you a nice refrigerated wash cloth. Their Larb Moo & Green Curry were good and plentiful, not really cheap though.
Agree Det 5 across from the Adelphi Suites is a fantastic restaurant and so is Kinnaree beside it. Not positive they're open either since when I last walked by the trees and shrubs were very overgrown. Det 5 used to have everything meticulously maintained.
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TooDirty
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My Thai buddy says the secret to getting around Thailand without sudden toilet emergencies is to never drink the broth from your noodle bowl. LOL.
Broth should be fine if it was properly boiled. What people get sick from is ice in your drinks.
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Originally Posted by
TooDirty
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I always carry some toilet paper in my pocket when in Thailand. LOL My Thai buddy says the secret to getting around Thailand without sudden toilet emergencies is to never drink the broth from your noodle bowl. LOL.
Even better is one of those teeny tiny foldable towels like you got from a camping supply store. Fit perfectly in your fashionable murse. At times I've considered carrying a spare pair of under shorts.
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Terminal 21 is off the chain
Originally Posted by
TooDirty
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Terminal 21 food court is cheap and gets pretty good reviews.
Called Pier 21 and I absolute concur with this. You give them cash and they give you a card that you can load up to 500 THB. Hard to spend 200 THB even if you are really hungry. Great movie theater next to Pier 21. There is also a gourmet Thai Food restaurant that has won awards. But I have not eaten there. Terminal 21 is like my second home. I like the place!
There is a giant Christmas tree up outside. I was like, WTF?
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Originally Posted by
WanderingMan
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Does anyone have suggestions for decent Thai food near the Nana area? One thing I love about traveling to Thailand is their delicious food.
Terminal 21 food court is cheap and gets pretty good reviews.
I used to like Det5 on Soi 8. Has a nice outdoor seating area with trees strung with lights and swamp cooler misters like they use by the benches in football. When you sit down they give you a nice refrigerated wash cloth. Their Larb Moo & Green Curry were good and plentiful, not really cheap though. Don't know if Det5 is still in operation or not, haven't been back since a few years before the Chyna virus.
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RE: Thai toilet procedures
I always carry some toilet paper in my pocket when in Thailand. LOL My Thai buddy says the secret to getting around Thailand without sudden toilet emergencies is to never drink the broth from your noodle bowl. LOL.
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Originally Posted by
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Too funny about the toilets. Thai call it Ya Dom.
It's Rule 97.5, Section 2 of Travelers Rules for Life: There is a distinct correlation between the time of sudden attack of diarrhea and the filthiness / stench of the nearest toilet.
I have never gone anywhere without Ya Dom for as long as I can remember. Siang Pure usually because it's more pocket size, but since I have been carrying a murse, I usually have one of the little jars or bottles with me.
Back in the day, we used Vicks Vaporub. Try being around a 6 day floater in the summer without it.