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[Explorer8939]

I know a 55 year old former bargirl from Chumphae who has hooked a Farang "boyfriend", and he is paying her to build a house for her to live in.

C'Mon. Guys, WTF is up with handing your money to Thai ladies?

[Explorer8939]

Bargirls hate to admit they have customers.

This week, I set up a trip to Phuket later this year with a bargirl. I happened to ask her if she will have time to go, since she has lots of customers. Her response "I no have customers".

At the moment she sent that message, she was on Koh Larn, with a customer.

[Mr Enternational]

Please. Let us not confuse thai culture with bargirl culture.

He does it everyday. By now he should not be surprised by the actions of hookers. But for some reason he can not get enough of stalking them to know their every move.

[Werqweq]

BTW, in Thai culture, a woman gives her lover money, and takes money from men she doesn't love.

Please. Let us not confuse thai culture with bargirl culture.

[Explorer8939]

Many older bargirls have adult children. As a general rule, the daughters help to support their mom, some are bargirls themselves. But the adult sons leech off their mothers until the mothers have no cash or are dead. But some older bargirls bring their sons to Pattaya to work bar (cashier or bartender), and try to arrange something with a working bargirl who has cash. I have even seen bargirls trying to sell their son to a bargirl.

But most bargirls just send cash to their son when they get the call for money.

Thai men are much cleverer than bargirls when it comes to extracting money. Bargirls are pretty good at asking for money from customers via social media, but Thai men are better at face to face requests for money. They don't charge for sex, they just barrage the lady with reasons why she should give them money "I want to see you tomorrow, but my moto not work. I want to take it to the shop, but I have no money".

So even bargirls with many customers have zero in the bank, because they hand so much money to their boyfriends.

BTW, in Thai culture, a woman gives her lover money, and takes money from men she doesn't love.

[Explorer8939]

Some people are offended by mongers who overpay. You know, the guys who pay 10,000 baht for one night. And they certainly raise the going rate by overpaying.

But, the lonely guys who send ladies money when they go home do much more damage. Because most ladies are lazy, and if they have cash in hand will stop working, and blow their money on their Thai boyfriend or some Karaoke boy.

More to the point, if you send a lady money, you are training her to not want to see you. Because when you do show up, she has to work for money.

[Tvataham274]

I'll have boots on the ground this Friday / Saturday. Though granted I'm just a rookie on my second trip, I'll try to provide some brief summaries to help out the other mongers.

[Explorer8939]

Given the large number of posts by people planning to come to Pattaya, there aren't many trip reports posted here.

Part of that is normal human nature, but its also due to the first time mongers who come to Pattaya and then fall in love with a bar girl. Since "their" bargirl is special, they don't post.

These are the guys who throw money at their bargirl, and buy her gold baht (which she sells once they leave).

[Horatio]

The mamasan said the woman went back home to be with her Thai boyfriend and probably wasn't coming back. The mamasan also said the woman had only been there two days and implied but did not say that she didn't like it.

When you go to a bar, and the Mamasan tells you a lady is not there, the Mamasan will tell any story to cover for the lady's absence.

What a Mamasan will never say is "lady is with customer".

[Explorer8939]

That plan went nowhere. I went back last night and the mamasan said the one girl went back home. She had a Thai boyfriend. She had only worked there 2 days. The couple times I have been to that bar there were about 6 women there. Last night was just 2. I did not see the other sister.

When you go to a bar, and the Mamasan tells you a lady is not there, the Mamasan will tell any story to cover for the lady's absence.

What a Mamasan will never say is "lady is with customer".

[Horatio]

That plan went nowhere. I went back last night and the mamasan said the one girl went back home. She had a Thai boyfriend. She had only worked there 2 days. The couple times I have been to that bar there were about 6 women there. Last night was just 2. I did not see the other sister.

I took a girl home from a bar last night. Her sister works in the same bar. I would like to bring both back with me tonight. Do most sister not want to do threesomes together or are most okay with it? I know it will depend on the particular women, just asking what you think my chances are. They are 28 and 29. The one I had yesterday is new to this or seems to be. She spoke no english. Thank you for any advice.

[Banana Boi]

Sagami 002 L warning

There are now fake goods on the market in Thailand. The fakes are cheap latex condoms that are prone to break.

From reading this board you would think condoms breaking is what guys want.

Fight at the bar across the street

Saw something similar on my 1st trip to Pattaya, Thai guy pulling pretty Thai girl's hair then throwing her to the ground numerous times. She just took it. Tons of guys nearby did nothing. I was across the street and a bit too far away. Then the guy tried to throw her on to oncoming traffic on 2nd Road. That was the last straw for the girl. Next thing I see is the girl pulling out all her Muay Thai moves on the guy until he's flat on the ground and not moving.

[XXL]

There are now fake goods on the market in Thailand. The fakes are cheap latex condoms that are prone to break.

[Horatio]

My hotel room is on the 4th floor and across the street is a bar. This afternoon at 3 pm I hear a bunch of yelling so I look out the window. I can't see what is going on under the roof, but soon enough some 60 ish westerner tries to leave the bar but a Thai woman is grabbing at him screaming. He manages to break away and gets about 20 feet into the street. Then she comes running at him, hitting him. Then grabs hold of him and they both fall. He gets on top of her and holds her down by putting his fore arm on her neck. Bunch of people in the bar are just watching. There was a Thai security guard in a guard shack about 20 feet away. He does nothing. Finally the guy gets up and runs. The woman screaming at him. One of the other bar girls runs over and gathers all the change off the ground that came out of his pocket. I don't have any idea what it was about or who was right. The guy was wanting to get away. There were two westerners about 60 ish also sitting at the counter table facing the street. They seemed totally unperturbed by what was going on. When the fighting was behind them they weren't even watching. I was really surprised no one tried to break things up. The guy held the woman on the ground for maybe a minute or a bit more.

[Horatio]

You may already be aware that many Thai girls refer to their friends as cousins or sisters. Same thing with many Koreans girls. If you want true sisters, you might want to verify that. If you just want 2 girls, my comment is not relevant.

Thanks, I do know that. It's just a cool thought that I will always have. If they aren't really sisters I'll never know. I did ask one if they had same mama and same papa, and she said yes.