Food in Tijuana

[Member #4730]

Well sh seems to be a sweet girl and not asking much if anything from you. I understand not wanting to go to GDL but it's a great city. Yes much more work for her compared to Tijuana were it's more of a factory worker city and not all the tech and large companies like GDL. It's a lot better scenery that is true. Also doesn't get as cold as Tijuana which most girls don't like when having to be in Tijuana in the winter.

They may work in a bar but they are still Latin women and very jealous. I've seen many fights over clients while hanging out.

I'm meeting her tonight and having dinner at Chapultepec. I'm bringing a list of more serious questions. We will see if I keep seeing her or just break it off. I don't get anxious meeting the other regulars where it feels natural and stress free. This one makes me feel like I'm walking on the edge of a cliff for some reason. She mentioned she would stay in Tijuana since she has cousins and a friend from her hometown in the area. I know when feelings get involved that jealousy creeps in. It happened in Thailand with another threesome where the Thai regular was jealous of the third wheel. I just never learn and junior takes over the party. Depending on the answers and body language she gives off, who knows, maybe I'm moving to Tijuana part-time. I may be falling face first into a pile of shit, but hopefully come out smelling like roses. I setup an SA account and getting hits from ladies in SoCal and Mexico so might try that angle if I get bored of the club scene/bar girls. The Latinas seem to be something else though or maybe it is due to me being able to drive over every week to meet them.

[Sol12]

I told her I'd be willing to help her out if she ever gets in a pinch and sent her $300 through money gram and also paid for the flight to TIJ. I said I could help her out more if she comes to TIJ as Id be able to see her more often. I don't feel like flying to GDL and never been before. She said more professional opportunities for her in GDL and also cheaper COL as well compared to TIJ. Also she said the scenery is a better fit for her and her aunt is working to help with her living expenses. I only do weed and ecstasy was like 2 decades ago. I like to feel present when I'm with people and not under the influence. Also everything I do comes from a good heart. I believe in trying to lift people up that bring value to your life. I've helped one regular fix stuff in her apartment and get her some furniture and this one I said I could help if she lived in Tijuana, but never thought that someone that worked in a bar would get jealous.

Well sh seems to be a sweet girl and not asking much if anything from you. I understand not wanting to go to GDL but it's a great city. Yes much more work for her compared to Tijuana were it's more of a factory worker city and not all the tech and large companies like GDL. It's a lot better scenery that is true. Also doesn't get as cold as Tijuana which most girls don't like when having to be in Tijuana in the winter.

They may work in a bar but they are still Latin women and very jealous. I've seen many fights over clients while hanging out.

[Member #4730]

So you seem to have a lot of conversations with this girl on texts and video so she might of gotten the wrong idea. It seems she wants more of a relationship with you or you are helping her out. It's your business and your money so I'm not judging you if you've been sending her money while she's back home it just makes me understand the situation more.

I would just talk to her about what she wants and maybe she'd be happy with you being like a sugar daddy that gives her a monthly allowance to help her and if she's in Guadalajara you would see her when you can and if she's in Tijuana then things would be better for you. No matter what city she lives in she will still be able to work on the side to make more money.

Yeah I wasn't sure what drugs you did as it seemed the girls you spent time with were all into them. Which is no big deal but some girls just want to party and have fun with a guy they trust. I agree that it's not attractive to see them always in this light. I hope you get your thoughts together on what you want and are honest with her at least so not to string her along. From all you say you seem to have a good heart and will do the right thing. Best of luck.

I told her I'd be willing to help her out if she ever gets in a pinch and sent her $300 through money gram and also paid for the flight to TIJ. I said I could help her out more if she comes to TIJ as Id be able to see her more often. I don't feel like flying to GDL and never been before. She said more professional opportunities for her in GDL and also cheaper COL as well compared to TIJ. Also she said the scenery is a better fit for her and her aunt is working to help with her living expenses. I only do weed and ecstasy was like 2 decades ago. I like to feel present when I'm with people and not under the influence. Also everything I do comes from a good heart. I believe in trying to lift people up that bring value to your life. I've helped one regular fix stuff in her apartment and get her some furniture and this one I said I could help if she lived in Tijuana, but never thought that someone that worked in a bar would get jealous.

[Sol12]

This is another important reality that I learned. These girls see every gringo as "wealthy". I'm stating the obvious, but relatively speaking, we are better off financially. But they do not really translate cost of living. They see you spend $500 in discretionary items and that is the equivalent, to us, of a gringo blowing 10 K in a club one night. You can try to explain cost of living to them, but as you said, some live in very meager conditions, so it just doesn't translate.

Maybe it's not worth the time to understand the mindset of these chicas. But I find it fascinating, in a sociological manner.

Well it's not just gringos they think and most Mexicans think if you live in the USA you can help them. I can't count the number of times that friends of mine here that have family in Mexico and if anything ever goes wrong they are on speed dial and call looking for money. Now some people are able to spend on things that seem expensive but most families here especially in California have many expenses and not much money left to help, the family always. They never seem to understand that.

[Member #4730]

Great advice, Sol. I'll add my two cents. I think you have to look at it from the girl's perspective. I would say 70% of bar girls are looking for a gringo to support them regularly so they can get out of the bar game. The important thing to keep in mind is that these girls have heard it all from drunk gringos. So I believe most are highly skeptical of everything. I think this girl is thinking one of two things. Either she caught feelings and she's hurt. In that case, the fact that she told you other girls are fine was a lie. She didn't want to scare you away with any sort of commitment. May not have even believed you. If she's coming to Tijuana to see you, that tells me she's thinking relationship. The other clue: she was not as receptive to multiple sessions. In my first relationship (former escort, not BG), she was always suspicious of my feelings, thinking I wanted "free sex". We eventually got over that but I think that might be on her mind. Again, many gringos lie to them regularly. I'm not defending her, just speculating on her mindset.

The other possibility is she sees you as a meal ticket and these other girls are the competition. That's cynical. But I think if this was the case, she would have given you the cold shoulder or anger, not tears.

I've been there. Multiple times. When you have regulars, the lines get blurred. Often times, on both sides. When you share meals, nights, life goals, etc, it's easy for feelings to get involved. I'm not discouraging you, but just be sure your head is clear with your wants and expectations.

Her face looked like she was ready to explode in tears, but did a great job of holding it back. I felt like shit and told her I'm here if you need me since I know she isn't working and want to make sure she completes her degree. If she doesn't complete her degree and continues working the bar, then I'll be disappointed, but not surprised.

The other regulars are about having fun and some could be catching feelings, but haven't came out to say anything. Some have puppy dog eyes when I leave, but could just be the fact they are mentally returning back to reality. This girl mentioned she was catching feelings on multiple occasions and I told her best to stay friends as I know I'm an intense person if I ever decide to let myself fall in love. I told her she shouldn't fall in love if she decides to continue working in the bars, as it only results in hurt feelings. Heartless for me to say, maybe, but like to be honest with them.

All of them have different things that keep my interest and it depends on the time of day on what I want satisfied. The sexcapade did make me realize and I think for her as well, I have issues as she wasn't that into it the last session before we had to leave. I think we had sex 7-8 times in the span of 18 hours together. I thought I met my sexual equivalent, but I guess I will have to keep searching if things fall out with her.

[Sol12]

Great advice, Sol. I'll add my two cents. I think you have to look at it from the girl's perspective. I would say 70% of bar girls are looking for a gringo to support them regularly so they can get out of the bar game. The important thing to keep in mind is that these girls have heard it all from drunk gringos. So I believe most are highly skeptical of everything. I think this girl is thinking one of two things. Either she caught feelings and she's hurt. In that case, the fact that she told you other girls are fine was a lie. She didn't want to scare you away with any sort of commitment. May not have even believed you. If she's coming to Tijuana to see you, that tells me she's thinking relationship. The other clue: she was not as receptive to multiple sessions. In my first relationship (former escort, not BG), she was always suspicious of my feelings, thinking I wanted "free sex". We eventually got over that but I think that might be on her mind. Again, many gringos lie to them regularly. I'm not defending her, just speculating on her mindset.

The other possibility is she sees you as a meal ticket and these other girls are the competition. That's cynical. But I think if this was the case, she would have given you the cold shoulder or anger, not tears.

I've been there. Multiple times. When you have regulars, the lines get blurred. Often times, on both sides. When you share meals, nights, life goals, etc, it's easy for feelings to get involved. I'm not discouraging you, but just be sure your head is clear with your wants and expectations.

Yeah I've had way too much experience in this area so I just want to help and not be the usual guy that says they are just working girls and are using you for money. That's just the easy thing to say and of all the girls I would see none ever asked me for money for family or other things. You couldn't be more correct on the things these girls hear. I always tell them that they can't fall for the flash and talk of most guys since 90% of the time it is just show.

[Sol12]

It is the girl I met over the summer that was upset about the threesome and then spent some overnights with in Marriott and HK. I wouldn't assume they would get jealous as they worked in the bar and should know most of the clients are international sex addicts. It could be good or bad as we vacation in other countries to sleep with women from all over the world. She is very intense and almost scary to be with at times as I enjoy it so much. My heart says to keep seeing her, but mind knows it is dangerous. All of the regulars I've met have something special that piques my interests and that is why I continue to see them until it isn't fun anymore. If she isn't cool with me seeing other chicas, then it will be a sad day as I'll just have to cut ties.

Like most have mentioned, by treating them like a regular women we must be putting something in their mind that there is a better life outside of their impoverished reality. Most don't have the support system so they go out on their own to try and improve their situation even though it is a fucked up reality. I know I mentioned to her the Airbnb was $250 for the night and she was surprised as she stated her rent for apartment was $500 per month and Im dropping it on one night with her in Rosarito. Also the meals out probably spent close to $200 just for food and drinks. I would imagine that is one months worth of food for her, but all relative as in the U.S. she wouldnt be able to survive, especially NYC. My exwife has family in Brooklyn and they rent their apartments out for $3k per month which are tiny, but right across from Manhattan. .

So you seem to have a lot of conversations with this girl on texts and video so she might of gotten the wrong idea. It seems she wants more of a relationship with you or you are helping her out. It's your business and your money so I'm not judging you if you've been sending her money while she's back home it just makes me understand the situation more.

I would just talk to her about what she wants and maybe she'd be happy with you being like a sugar daddy that gives her a monthly allowance to help her and if she's in Guadalajara you would see her when you can and if she's in Tijuana then things would be better for you. No matter what city she lives in she will still be able to work on the side to make more money.

Yeah I wasn't sure what drugs you did as it seemed the girls you spent time with were all into them. Which is no big deal but some girls just want to party and have fun with a guy they trust. I agree that it's not attractive to see them always in this light. I hope you get your thoughts together on what you want and are honest with her at least so not to string her along. From all you say you seem to have a good heart and will do the right thing. Best of luck.

[Dcrist0527]

I know I mentioned to her the Airbnb was $250 for the night and she was surprised as she stated her rent for apartment was $500 per month and Im dropping it on one night with her in Rosarito. Also the meals out probably spent close to $200 just for food and drinks.

This is another important reality that I learned. These girls see every gringo as "wealthy". I'm stating the obvious, but relatively speaking, we are better off financially. But they do not really translate cost of living. They see you spend $500 in discretionary items and that is the equivalent, to us, of a gringo blowing 10 K in a club one night. You can try to explain cost of living to them, but as you said, some live in very meager conditions, so it just doesn't translate.

Maybe it's not worth the time to understand the mindset of these chicas. But I find it fascinating, in a sociological manner.

[Dcrist0527]

Well another great report and opening up with everything that happened. Well I'm trying to remember which girl this is from your rotation. Off the top of my head this is the one that you did the threesome with that felt odd? So no matter what they say in the beginning they don't like you seeing other girls. Now some they might mind if it's just in the bar but seeing them away from work is getting more personal to her. When I was just hanging with my ex she knew I had a few other girls. One who I only saw in the bar and one who would come to my apartment. She didn't care about the bar one but hated the other girl.

Now she could be trying to tell you things to see if you are looking to be with her or if it's just easy sex. With as many times as you had sex and at one point she wasn't to into it might make her realize that you only see her in a certain light and it will never be serious. So talking about Guadalajara or Tijuana could be her seeing if you pushed for Tijuana more to maybe try to have a more serious relationship. The thing about NYC is odd or just some type of person lying to this girl to get her to NYC and now she's forced to have sex and who can help her?

Not sure what to say I know how shitty you feel since you didn't think it was serious but lots of these girls want to hook up with a guy so not to be in the business anymore.

Great advice, Sol. I'll add my two cents. I think you have to look at it from the girl's perspective. I would say 70% of bar girls are looking for a gringo to support them regularly so they can get out of the bar game. The important thing to keep in mind is that these girls have heard it all from drunk gringos. So I believe most are highly skeptical of everything. I think this girl is thinking one of two things. Either she caught feelings and she's hurt. In that case, the fact that she told you other girls are fine was a lie. She didn't want to scare you away with any sort of commitment. May not have even believed you. If she's coming to Tijuana to see you, that tells me she's thinking relationship. The other clue: she was not as receptive to multiple sessions. In my first relationship (former escort, not BG), she was always suspicious of my feelings, thinking I wanted "free sex". We eventually got over that but I think that might be on her mind. Again, many gringos lie to them regularly. I'm not defending her, just speculating on her mindset.

The other possibility is she sees you as a meal ticket and these other girls are the competition. That's cynical. But I think if this was the case, she would have given you the cold shoulder or anger, not tears.

I've been there. Multiple times. When you have regulars, the lines get blurred. Often times, on both sides. When you share meals, nights, life goals, etc, it's easy for feelings to get involved. I'm not discouraging you, but just be sure your head is clear with your wants and expectations.

[Member #4730]

Dang. That was better than the HBO series I was watching. Little love. Drama. Emotion. Heartache.

G.

Yeah it feels like I'm living a hbo series. The good thing is most of the other regulars are just about hanging out and having fun. This one in particular got to me as she is actually going to school and trying to better herself. It hits more deep knowing them more on a personal level compared to just fuck and forget and I think that is why the Thai boards say don't break the three day rule.

[Member #4730]

Well another great report and opening up with everything that happened. Well I'm trying to remember which girl this is from your rotation. Off the top of my head this is the one that you did the threesome with that felt odd? So no matter what they say in the beginning they don't like you seeing other girls. Now some they might mind if it's just in the bar but seeing them away from work is getting more personal to her. When I was just hanging with my ex she knew I had a few other girls. One who I only saw in the bar and one who would come to my apartment. She didn't care about the bar one but hated the other girl.

Now she could be trying to tell you things to see if you are looking to be with her or if it's just easy sex. With as many times as you had sex and at one point she wasn't to into it might make her realize that you only see her in a certain light and it will never be serious. So talking about Guadalajara or Tijuana could be her seeing if you pushed for Tijuana more to maybe try to have a more serious relationship. The thing about NYC is odd or just some type of person lying to this girl to get her to NYC and now she's forced to have sex and who can help her?

Not sure what to say I know how shitty you feel since you didn't think it was serious but lots of these girls want to hook up with a guy so not to be in the business anymore.

It is the girl I met over the summer that was upset about the threesome and then spent some overnights with in Marriott and HK. I wouldn't assume they would get jealous as they worked in the bar and should know most of the clients are international sex addicts. It could be good or bad as we vacation in other countries to sleep with women from all over the world. She is very intense and almost scary to be with at times as I enjoy it so much. My heart says to keep seeing her, but mind knows it is dangerous. All of the regulars I've met have something special that piques my interests and that is why I continue to see them until it isn't fun anymore. If she isn't cool with me seeing other chicas, then it will be a sad day as I'll just have to cut ties.

Like most have mentioned, by treating them like a regular women we must be putting something in their mind that there is a better life outside of their impoverished reality. Most don't have the support system so they go out on their own to try and improve their situation even though it is a fucked up reality. I know I mentioned to her the Airbnb was $250 for the night and she was surprised as she stated her rent for apartment was $500 per month and Im dropping it on one night with her in Rosarito. Also the meals out probably spent close to $200 just for food and drinks. I would imagine that is one months worth of food for her, but all relative as in the U.S. she wouldnt be able to survive, especially NYC. My exwife has family in Brooklyn and they rent their apartments out for $3k per month which are tiny, but right across from Manhattan.

The sad thing is that her aunt was the one that mentioned it as a means to make more money. I don't see how she is going to be able to survive as an intern in GDL with what they pay, but she said it is to gain experience and hopefully convert to full time position. The refreshing thing about seeing the regulars I meet in the bars is that I don't have to feel guilt about my hoing around. They know not to ask as I'm going to give them the honest answer. I think it is a temporary escape from their reality. Some regulars drink too much or smoke too much and it annoys me a little as the only vices I have are sex and gambling. They seem to use it as a crutch to disconnect from the matrix. It is similar to what I do when I spend time with them, but understand it isnt a normal relationship. Almost depressing at times, but it fulfills my wants and needs for that moment in time until I return back to the U.S.

[Sol12]

So I've been texting and video calling with a regular back at home in Sinaloa and she has been sending me videos and photos of her doing family activities and her hometown. I mentioned it was going to be my bday soon and she said she would fly to Tijuana so we could go on a trip. She is taking classes to finish her bachelors degree and haven't seen her in a few months. She told me her flight arrival time and I have never been to the Tijuana airport. I didn't know what to expect as not sure where the arrivals are dropped off and booked an apartment in Los Olas in Popotla via Airbnb. I still wasn't sure she was actually going to arrive until she texted me a photo of her airplane window while she was departing.

I left and ran into traffic trying to get into Tijuana so would miss her arrival time as she texted that she landed and waiting for me. I shot her a photo of the traffic and estimated arrival time. Eventually got to the arrivals 20 min. Later than the navigation estimate and wasn't sure where she was waiting. I did a videocall and tried to show her where I was waiting curbside for her in my car. She eventually found me and on our way to Rosarito. We catch up about life and she is debating between living in Guadalajara or Tijuana, but more opportunities for an engineering major in Guadalajara. I told her I could help her out more if she lived in Tijuana as I usually visit other regulars and clubs and wouldn't have to fly to meet her in GDL. She mentions she is hungry and wants to check out Los Pelicanos. We arrive to the restaurant and it is located right on the beach. The food was decent, but nothing to write home about. It was priced similar to USA Prices maybe due to the location and the USA Tourists. I recall getting a mariscos mixed plate and she got some aquachile shrimp dish. We got a few mixed drinks and shots of Don Julio. She mentions to the waiter it is my birthday and they bring out a cheesecake with something scribbled in chocolate syrup. I was a little tipsy, so didn't feel like reading what it said. The bill came out to 2,100 pesos with the tip.

We get back in the car and head to Los Olas and the apartment is huge. It is 2 br, 2 bath with a nice balcony overlooking the ocean on the 16th floor. We drop off our bags on the floor and we start making out. Clothes flew off and she kneeled down giving me a BBBJ in the kitchen. Eventually she tired out and bent over the kitchen countertop with her ass out suggesting doggy. I obliged and gave it to her and it felt great. I picked her up and took her to the bed and continued through positions and finished. Afterwards I gave her a facial cleaning brush and soniccare toothbrush and she gave me presents for my birthday, which was a leather wallet and a heart ornament. I said perfect, I'll put it on my Christmas tree and she said I could hang it from my rear view window in the car. Odd, but I guess. I told her not to get me anything and to just show up, but these chicas want to be hospitable I guess.

We put on some music with the Bluetooth speaker in the apartment and went with session #2 and I popped out my cock vibrating ring and she loved it. She got off and so did I. I can't recall how many times she got me off that night, but it must have been 4-5 times as she just does it for me. I think she was surprised as well since she asked me how many times did we have sex. During the sessions we mixed it up between cock vibrating ring and her vibrator, my tongue, and various positions. She just does it for me with her glances, moans, and English comments like "I love your dick. ".

We fill up the bathroom jacuzzi and clean up and chat, but can't recall what it was about. I also recall the Airbnb host leaving a bottle of LA Cetto merlot with a couple glasses which we opened and drank. She wasn't a fan of the wine and prefers cervezas. We get out and make love again and then decide to go downstairs to the jacuzzis on the first floor. It was around 8-9 pm and the place closes around 10. We were the only people in the complex using the 2 pools and 5-6 jacuzzis. They had 2 security guards walking around and we picked a hidden jacuzzi spot and I took my shorts off and she straddled me and it was entertaining. We swam in the heated pool and then she mentioned she was hungry and we decide to change and get tacos. We drove to Rosarito and found a taco place called Tacos El Poblano which was pretty delicious, but it was around midnight and anything probably tastes good at that hour. She mentions we should visit Ricky's Place in Popotla and we get in the car and head to the run down bar. It is an interesting place as you see a bunch of dollar bills taped together with writing on them, bras, and panties hanging from the walls and ceiling. We got a couple of margaritas and it was pretty tasty and just looked around the bar. Interesting place to see, but a one and done type of place...

Well another great report and opening up with everything that happened. Well I'm trying to remember which girl this is from your rotation. Off the top of my head this is the one that you did the threesome with that felt odd? So no matter what they say in the beginning they don't like you seeing other girls. Now some they might mind if it's just in the bar but seeing them away from work is getting more personal to her. When I was just hanging with my ex she knew I had a few other girls. One who I only saw in the bar and one who would come to my apartment. She didn't care about the bar one but hated the other girl.

Now she could be trying to tell you things to see if you are looking to be with her or if it's just easy sex. With as many times as you had sex and at one point she wasn't to into it might make her realize that you only see her in a certain light and it will never be serious. So talking about Guadalajara or Tijuana could be her seeing if you pushed for Tijuana more to maybe try to have a more serious relationship. The thing about NYC is odd or just some type of person lying to this girl to get her to NYC and now she's forced to have sex and who can help her?

Not sure what to say I know how shitty you feel since you didn't think it was serious but lots of these girls want to hook up with a guy so not to be in the business anymore.

[StRobert]

Chunks of shank beef in a beef broth with fresh vegetables, served hot and fresh with chips, salsa, rice, bean, tortillas, 70 pesos or $3.50.

Al Capone cooks all their dishes fresh, not precooked.

Hola Captain, I remember when you recommended Caldo de res for the first time, I've never eaten it before, but it's a good dish. I have had twice at the Montecarlo restaurant opposite the Adelita club. But it costs $ 5 there. I have to try Caldo de res in Al Capone restaurant. Recently I ate at Montecarlo restaurant "Pollo a la Jardinera" that is chicken jardinera style also vegetable soup (minestrone) and Pacifica light beer. The price was $ 8. 25. That chicken jardinera was very good. It is cooked with vegetables and potatoes.

[Gregyyr]

So I've been texting and video calling with a regular back at home in Sinaloa and she has been sending me videos and photos of her doing family activities and her hometown. I mentioned it was going to be my bday soon and she said she would fly to Tijuana so we could go on a trip. She is taking classes to finish her bachelors degree and haven't seen her in a few months. She told me her flight arrival time and I have never been to the Tijuana airport. I didn't know what to expect as not sure where the arrivals are dropped off and booked an apartment in LOS Olas in Popotla via Airbnb. I still wasn't sure she was actually going to arrive until she texted me a photo of her airplane window while she was departing.

I left and ran into traffic trying to get into Tijuana so would miss her arrival time as she texted that she landed and waiting for me. I shot her a photo of the traffic and estimated arrival time. Eventually got to the arrivals 20 min. Later than the navigation estimate and wasn't sure where she was waiting. I did a videocall and tried to show her where I was waiting curbside for her in my car. She eventually found me and on our way to Rosarito. We catch up about life and she is debating between living in Guadalajara or Tijuana, but more opportunities for an engineering major in Guadalajara. I told her I could help her out more if she lived in Tijuana as I usually visit other regulars and clubs and wouldn't have to fly to meet her in GDL. She mentions she is hungry and wants to check out LOS Pelicanos. We arrive to the restaurant and it is located right on the beach. The food was decent, but nothing to write home about. It was priced similar to USA Prices maybe due to the location and the USA Tourists. I recall getting a mariscos mixed plate and she got some aquachile shrimp dish. We got a few mixed drinks and shots of Don Julio. She mentions to the waiter it is my birthday and they bring out a cheesecake with something scribbled in chocolate syrup. I was a little tipsy, so didn't feel like reading what it said. The bill came out to 2,100 pesos with the tip...

Dang. That was better than the HBO series I was watching. Little love. Drama. Emotion. Heartache.

G.

[Member #4730]

So I've been texting and video calling with a regular back at home in Sinaloa and she has been sending me videos and photos of her doing family activities and her hometown. I mentioned it was going to be my bday soon and she said she would fly to Tijuana so we could go on a trip. She is taking classes to finish her bachelors degree and haven't seen her in a few months. She told me her flight arrival time and I have never been to the Tijuana airport. I didn't know what to expect as not sure where the arrivals are dropped off and booked an apartment in LOS Olas in Popotla via Airbnb. I still wasn't sure she was actually going to arrive until she texted me a photo of her airplane window while she was departing.

I left and ran into traffic trying to get into Tijuana so would miss her arrival time as she texted that she landed and waiting for me. I shot her a photo of the traffic and estimated arrival time. Eventually got to the arrivals 20 min. Later than the navigation estimate and wasn't sure where she was waiting. I did a videocall and tried to show her where I was waiting curbside for her in my car. She eventually found me and on our way to Rosarito. We catch up about life and she is debating between living in Guadalajara or Tijuana, but more opportunities for an engineering major in Guadalajara. I told her I could help her out more if she lived in Tijuana as I usually visit other regulars and clubs and wouldn't have to fly to meet her in GDL. She mentions she is hungry and wants to check out LOS Pelicanos. We arrive to the restaurant and it is located right on the beach. The food was decent, but nothing to write home about. It was priced similar to USA Prices maybe due to the location and the USA Tourists. I recall getting a mariscos mixed plate and she got some aquachile shrimp dish. We got a few mixed drinks and shots of Don Julio. She mentions to the waiter it is my birthday and they bring out a cheesecake with something scribbled in chocolate syrup. I was a little tipsy, so didn't feel like reading what it said. The bill came out to 2,100 pesos with the tip.

We get back in the car and head to LOS Olas and the apartment is huge. It is 2 br, 2 bath with a nice balcony overlooking the ocean on the 16th floor. We drop off our bags on the floor and we start making out. Clothes flew off and she kneeled down giving me a BBBJ in the kitchen. Eventually she tired out and bent over the kitchen countertop with her ass out suggesting doggy. I obliged and gave it to her and it felt great. I picked her up and took her to the bed and continued through positions and finished. Afterwards I gave her a facial cleaning brush and soniccare toothbrush and she gave me presents for my birthday, which was a leather wallet and a heart ornament. I said perfect, I'll put it on my Christmas tree and she said I could hang it from my rear view window in the car. Odd, but I guess. I told her not to get me anything and to just show up, but these chicas want to be hospitable I guess.

We put on some music with the Bluetooth speaker in the apartment and went with session #2 and I popped out my cock vibrating ring and she loved it. She got off and so did I. I can't recall how many times she got me off that night, but it must have been 4-5 times as she just does it for me. I think she was surprised as well since she asked me how many times did we have sex. During the sessions we mixed it up between cock vibrating ring and her vibrator, my tongue, and various positions. She just does it for me with her glances, moans, and English comments like "I love your dick. ".

We fill up the bathroom jacuzzi and clean up and chat, but can't recall what it was about. I also recall the Airbnb host leaving a bottle of LA Cetto merlot with a couple glasses which we opened and drank. She wasn't a fan of the wine and prefers cervezas. We get out and make love again and then decide to go downstairs to the jacuzzis on the first floor. It was around 8-9 pm and the place closes around 10. We were the only people in the complex using the 2 pools and 5-6 jacuzzis. They had 2 security guards walking around and we picked a hidden jacuzzi spot and I took my shorts off and she straddled me and it was entertaining. We swam in the heated pool and then she mentioned she was hungry and we decide to change and get tacos. We drove to Rosarito and found a taco place called Tacos El Poblano which was pretty delicious, but it was around midnight and anything probably tastes good at that hour. She mentions we should visit Ricky's Place in Popotla and we get in the car and head to the run down bar. It is an interesting place as you see a bunch of dollar bills taped together with writing on them, bras, and panties hanging from the walls and ceiling. We got a couple of margaritas and it was pretty tasty and just looked around the bar. Interesting place to see, but a one and done type of place.

We get back in the car and head back to the apartment and more sex. I think she was a little annoyed at this point as it is probably session 4 or 5 at this point and she is just worn out. I finish and we fall asleep around 1-2 am. For some reason I wake up at 5 am with a raging hard on and she moans like she isn't happy to be awoken with me rubbing junior on her thighs. I just couldn't resist her and we got it on and then she fell back to sleep. I couldn't go back to sleep and took a shower and looked out on the balcony. I was in my happy place in an apartment right on the ocean, sexy chica, good food, and good weather. I get back in bed and doze off for a short nap and wake up again with a raging hard on and we have sex again and use toys to assist in the fun. She mentions she loves the vibrating cock ring as it even comes with a remote that she can use to change the modes.

We freshen up and start packing as she is hungry and checkout is around 12. We clean the place up and make sure we aren't missing anything and she was able to attend one of her video call classes, but the second one she snoozed through. I felt bad as I hope I'm not making her struggle in her studies, but then again I'm such a selfish sex addict. I tell her we should go to LOS Portales and she wants lobster at Puerto Nuevo, but I showed her photos of when I went with another regular and she liked it. We got to LOS Portales and the views are amazing right on the cliff side of the Pacific Ocean. She likes it, but then inquires who I came with and I told her another chica. This comment made her go silent and things got awkward. I felt we were disconnected and I wasn't enjoying the experience anymore. We get our food and mixed drinks and I got the ribeye done medium rare and she got some seafood tostadas. The price was decent as the bill came out to $70 with tip for everything. The ribeye was only $29 and it was huge with mixed grilled veggies. Similar meal would be $60 plus in the USA.

We drive back to her cousins apartment in Tijuana and she is silent and looks like she wants to cry. It is a ping drive especially when the chemistry died. I felt like shit, but I told her she even texted she didn't mind me seeing other chicas. I shouldn't feel bad as I'm a monger and love isn't part of the equation of successful mongering trips. She just listens to Banda the whole way back and we hit traffic in Tijuana. I turn down the music and ask what's up. She asks how chicas I've been with since she was gone and me being honest told her 3. They are the other regulars I enjoy spending time with and overnights. She seemed to break down and put her sweater over her head and it really got awkward as I'm driving through Tijuana with a chica that has a sweater over her head. I guess she didn't want me to see her crying. I really felt like shit and couldn't put my finger on why. She is amazing sexually, but when we met she was a bar girl. She even texted me saying it isn't an issue. I just assumed she is a bar girl so no issues and apparently shit must have got lost in translation.

So at the end, not sure if she is going to pursue a career in Tijuana or Guadalajara, but she did interview for an intern position in GDL. She said they demand 6 hours per day for 5 days per week and they pay $300 per month. She told me through texts that she clears a minimum $300 per day when she worked at HK, so I guess bar girl math would make the internship not worth it, but she doesn't particularly enjoy it and wants something stable. She mentioned in the jacuzzi that she met some couple from NY that we're doing lines of cocaine she would make lots of money in the Big Apple and wouldn't have to sleep with anyone, but just provide companionship. I've never heard of such a thing, but apparently guys in the big city must pay for companionship without sexual services. I tried to attach photos of food, drinks, and the bar, but they are too large.