Tips and techniques for sexually arousing women and making them orgasm

[Dan7373]

I've read many reviews of ladies at the https://www.fiwfans.com website. And Woman on Top seems to be their first position with the lady almost every time. These ladies prefer to do it first, with them on top of the guy. Then they lie back or assume the doggy position for the guy to do them. The convention seems to be ladies first, then guys, when it comest to penetration and banging.

So, I was wondering why do ladies have to be first, then guys? Is there some good reason for this? Or is it just the habit and tradition of guys being gentlemen with the lady and letting her be first? Is it like a guy opening the door for the lady, so that she can enter first, then he follows her? Or is there something more to it than this?

For a long time I thought that this was just a social rules and guys being gentlemen with the lady. Ladies first, as they say. So, the lady does her Woman on Top thing first, then the guy gets his turn with her either on top or behind for doggy with her.

But I've recently been reading some questions and answers at another forum. And some ladies were asking there why their sex was often painful with the guy at first, but then eventually it would become pleasant for them after some time?

I thought about it and recalled some of my personal experiences with women. And I realized that the reason why sex can be painful for the lady at first is because the lady isn't quite ready in terms of her sexual arousal and lubrication. So, when the guy attempts penetration in this situation, then he basically ends forcing himself inside for the ride. Which is painful for the lady, who isn't quite ready. But the guy can't feel what the lady feels. So, he doesn't know and doesn't even try to be slow or careful. He has no feedback at all, and he just enters the girl, even though it's unpleasant and painful for her.

And that's the reason why Woman on Top (WOT) is so popular with P4P ladies as their starting position with their guy. When the woman gets on top of you and does the penetration herself, then she knows how it feels for her. So, she does it in a way that's comfortable for her. And if she feels any discomfort or pain, then she changes what she does and works at it, until you are inside for the ride in a way that's pleasant and comfortable for her. And once the lady bangs you for a while on top, then this lady becomes so ready, that she can turn around and let you pound without any pain or discomfort for her and in a way that's pleasant for her.

The problem with the guy doing the first penetration, when the lady might not be fully ready, is that he doesn't know what it feels like for the lady. And he can't know either. Because he can't feel the lady's feelings. Only the lady can feel and know how to plow, when the penetration might be painful and uncomfortable for her.

And this the practical reason why ladies should start with being on top of the guy. This has nothing to do with social rules or conventions, or the lady being in charge and dominating the guy. This is just common sense for making sex pleasant and comfortable for the lady throughout her experience with the guy. There is no reason why ladies should worry about pain and discomfort, every time they have sex with a guy. So, Woman on Top should come first, just in case the lady isn't fully ready. And once she works it out and starts banging your cock really well, then it's time for her to turn around and let you pound.

This is the routine P4P ladies have worked out with their guys. And there is a good reason for it. Because P4P ladies do many guys. And they have to do it the right way that enables them to do many guys. If they ignore their pain and discomfort, then they'll get some injuries, and they'll have to stop.

There is more than one way for a lady to make sure she is truly and fully ready. With her being in control and doing the Woman on Top thing is just one way. Another way is to use dildos that are about the same size as a guy's cock. The lady can penetrate and bang herself with a dildo, until she is fully ready for a guy. And that's what you see in some porn films. But in terms of efficiency and fun, it makes more sense for P4P ladies to do the Woman on Top thing with their guy, rather than do it with a dildo.

A dildo might come in useful for the lady, if she is with a guy who is totally against the Woman on Top thing. She can penetrate and bang herself with a dildo to make sure she is ready for the guy, and then let him do it with her.

[Dan7373]

I'm completely the opposite. As a VERY visual person, I need someone there with me to look at to masturbate or I won't be interested. Internet works, but something has to be physically in front of my eyes or it won't work. Imagination just isn't doing it for me.

As opposed to you, I really enjoy the first time with a girl, seeing her reactions, her moves, her sounds (I'm talking non P4P) and unfortunately, most girls have only a few techniques they repeat over and over so after a while it gets old (routine).

I like that everyone has different needs and likes, it makes us different and not always chasing the same carrot (if I can say that).

There is a big difference between a P4P lady and one that is not P4P.

You can seldom if ever accuse a non-P4P lady of being too fast with you and getting you to bang her right there on the spot, only a few minutes after you've met her. Usually, it's the other way. The non-P4P lady takes so long to go to bed with you, that you might give up and start looking for someone else. Non-P4P ladies give you plenty of time to get to know them and to fantasize about them. So, going home to masturbate about a non-P4P lady, after you've just met her, might lead to frustration and disappointment, when you meet her next time. Because you might be ready for this lady, but she won't be ready for you.

I'm talking about P4P ladies at a massage parlor or Go-Go, or some other place like that. These ladies don't wait. They are ready to go to bed with you right away. And although, this can be hot in a way, this can also be too fast.

I found from my experience that it's possible to be so excited and happy about meeting a new hot chick, whom I'm going to do with my dick, that I have some trouble getting an erection going with her. It's like the lady is out of my league in terms of her looks. So, I start thinking about looking good and doing good in front of her. And this thinking and feeling interferes with the task at hand. Which is getting it up and nailing her.

I need to focus on the lady to do her well. But everything is so sudden and so new, that I have some trouble focusing my attention like that.

Masturbating about such a lady, before doing her, prevents this kind of thing for me. Because it's like a practice run in my imagination. I imagine doing with her all the things that I want to do with her. And my imagination includes both my own and her feelings and reactions. Basically, it includes everything that would normally happen in a sexual encounter. It's like a mental simulation of doing it with her, before I actually do it.

Olympic athletes are taught to do this kind of thing in their sport to improve their performance. They repeatedly imagine in their minds performing some action they do in their sport. And this improves their performance above and beyond them just practicing it physically. Which isn't surprising. Because doing anything well depends on brain-training. The rest of the body is a tool for the brain. This tool also needs to be good and in shape. But a tool without the brain can't do anything on its own. It's the brain that enables the good use of a tool. And that's why training the brain makes the performance and the experience so much better.

When two people get to know each other well, then they build up models of each other in their brains. That's how they can think about and tell what the other person thinks and feels in any given situation. It's like the other person lives in their mind, and they have access to his thoughts and feelings. The other person in their mind is imaginary of course. But it's like a mental simulation that's based on reality. So, it is accurate to some extent, depending on how well you know the person. Sometimes, it's not accurate at all, but it still is there, and it works.

And that's what happens for me, when I meet a lady and get to masturbate about her. That mental simulation in my imagination creates a mental model of her in my mind. So, I don't feel blind to her feelings anymore, when I touch her. My mental model of her tells me how she feels. And that's what enables me to have a much better experience with her.

If I do it with her, before I have a mental model of her, then I don't know what to expect and how to predict. Which is a kind of disorientation in an unfamiliar situation. And that's what takes away some enjoyment from such an experience.

And I find that porn-movies are very helpful in fantasizing about the lady you want to do. Because you don't need to imagine the whole thing. You just need to imagine that the lady on screen is the lady you want to bang. And the guy banging her on screen is one of her customers. He is an example for you what you also need to do. And of course you can also imagine that you are the guy banging her.

If you chose a porn-star who looks somewhat like the lady you like, then this can help you with your imagination. Because it's a lot easier to imagine that your lady is that lady in the porn-scene, when they have similar looks. So, don't choose a blonde porn-star, if you are going to do a brunette lady. And if you are going to do an Asian lady, then try to find an Asian porn-star. You can even be more specific than that and try to find a Thai-lady scene when you are going to do a Thai lady.

[Dan7373]

First I have got to mention that I am 80 years old. And most of my adventures are in China. I don't do massage (veggie OK), or quickie joints. I like KTV's and usually pick one or two girls assuring that both are willing to "go out". Yes this is an expensive project, but what else will I spend my money on that I will get as much pleasure from!

I put porn on my PC attach it to the TV, Hotel or apartment, doesn't matter. I then leave it turned on with enough in the stack to assure that it is still playing when I return several hours later with my guests.

Relax together on the couch (I usually take a small suite), and watch the porn with them. After some conversation via translator, I will suggest that they go take their shower. When they return either in a robe or towel, then I will go take my shower. Not all the time, but enough to make it interesting, they are still watching the porn and masturbating themselves waiting for me to return. I think it is great fun to have the girl or girls waiting for me already wet. Back to the couch serious DFK and GFE and the evening proceeds. Almost always I keep one or both for the night and can usually get them off several times. Makes for me, a great night.

I've read some recent sex surveys of people in USA, and it's actually quite common for people to watch porn, while having sex with each other. A large percentage of people do it. And if you think about it, then you will realize that there are many reasons why having some porn on during your fuck-a-thon makes a lot of sense.

Porn helps both you and the lady get in the mood to do each other good. It's not all on you and her to foreplay and excite each other. Porn does some of the work, even before you start to pork.

And when you enter the lady for a ride with her, then porn can help you last for a long time with her. Because with the porn-movie running, you don't need to be gunning so hard and so fast that you can't last. You can stop and wait during your penetrate to avoid cumming prematurely. And the lady won't wonder why you've stopped being the cocky guy. You are obviously watching the porn-movie, and there is something exciting that distracts you from her.

It's important for the lady to have this kind of an obvious explanation of your behavior. Because the lady has no way of knowing that you are close to orgasm and that's why you've stopped. She is liable to start thinking that there might be something wrong with you or her. I've actually had this happen with one lady, when I stopped banging her. She asked me what was wrong? I was just close to orgasm and I wanted to make it last longer. That's why I've stopped. But she had no idea that this was the reason. She thought that maybe there was something wrong with me or her. She started to lose her mood. And I was about to lose my mood too. So, I went back to banging her and I didn't last for long with her.

In absence of information, people use their imagination. And people are naturally afraid of the unknown. So, people tend to think negatively, when they don't know what's going on. The lady might think that there is something wrong with you or her and lose her mood as a result, when there is no obvious explanation of your behavior. And having a porn-movie running prevents this kind of a situation.

It's like when you are eating lunch, while watching an action movie on TV. When something exciting or interesting happens, then people naturally stop eating and watch for a while. And then they go back to eating lunch. It's normal take many breaks like this, when the movie is exciting and you are eating while you are watching.

It's the same with watching a good porn-movie, while banging a hot lady. When something exciting happens in the movie, then you naturally stop banging the lady and watch the movie for a while. Then you go back to banging her. Your behavior looks perfectly normal and natural to her. And she doesn't wonder why once in a while you stop being the cocky guy. It's obviously the movie and not you or her. That's how it looks from her point of view.

And of course, the real reason why you might want to stop with your dick inside the chick is to avoid cumming prematurely. It's a way to last for a long time with her. It's just that the lady has no access to your feelings. She needs another reasonable explanation of your behavior to avoid losing her mood with you. And the porn-movie helps you with that. You can even time you banging to coincide with that in the movie and take breaks when they are changing positions or the lady is doing oral on the guy. This might make it more hot for your lady. Because it's like she is a part of the porn-movie, with her getting banged at the same time as the lady on screen is getting banged.

Many porn-scenes last for a long time nowadays. An hour or two is not unusual. And that's how long you can last with your lady, if you put on the movie and take breaks whenever you need to avoid a premature ejaculation. It's basically banging the lady the same way that you would masturbate yourself, when you want to last for a long time.

Watching a good porn-movie while having sex with a lady you like helps both of you get in the mood and stay in the mood. The porn movie also takes pressure off both you to perform all the time. It's not all on you to keep her in the mood. And it's not all on her to keep you in the mood either. The porn-movie does some of the work to keep both of you in the mood. And most important of all, this is a good way to last for a long time with your girl.

But the thing about being with two ladies at the same time is that you usually end up liking one of them more than the other. Because one of them is better looking and more hot in some way. So, you end up going after the hot one, with the other lady assisting you and helping both of you. It's possible to have equally good-looking ladies, where you really like both of them. But in most cases, you end up having more hots for one of them than for the other. And this can be a tricky situation. Because unequal treatment can lead to jealousy and bad feelings. The lady won't necessarily show it. But it's hard to hide something like this. And it can spoil the mood.

I think a threesome with two ladies can work well, when one of the ladies is a lesbian and you team up with her to do the hot one. It's like a 2 on 1, with you and the lesbian lady on the hot one. The lesbian lady won't feel left out. Because she also likes the hot lady, and she gets to do her too together with you. This kind of thing can also take some pressure off you to perform all the time to keep the mood going. The lesbian lady can do some of the work, while your rest and watch during their debauch.

[NicFrenchy]

I'm assuming that people are healthy enough to do the sex stuff. Because sex advice won't help ladies and guys, who need a medical doctor instead.

I'm completely the opposite. As a VERY visual person, I need someone there with me to look at to masturbate or I won't be interested. Internet works, but something has to be physically in front of my eyes or it won't work. Imagination just isn't doing it for me.

As opposed to you, I really enjoy the first time with a girl, seeing her reactions, her moves, her sounds (I'm talking non P4 P) and unfortunately, most girls have only a few techniques they repeat over and over so after a while it gets old (routine).

I like that everyone has different needs and likes, it makes us different and not always chasing the same carrot (if I can say that).

[MrClen]

First I have got to mention that I am 80 years old. And most of my adventures are in China. I don't do massage (veggie OK), or quickie joints. I like KTV's and usually pick one or two girls assuring that both are willing to "go out". Yes this is an expensive project, but what else will I spend my money on that I will get as much pleasure from!

I put porn on my PC attach it to the TV, Hotel or apartment, doesn't matter. I then leave it turned on with enough in the stack to assure that it is still playing when I return several hours later with my guests.

Relax together on the couch (I usually take a small suite), and watch the porn with them. After some conversation via translator, I will suggest that they go take their shower. When they return either in a robe or towel, then I will go take my shower. Not all the time, but enough to make it interesting, they are still watching the porn and masturbating themselves waiting for me to return. I think it is great fun to have the girl or girls waiting for me already wet. Back to the couch serious DFK and GFE and the evening proceeds. Almost always I keep one or both for the night and can usually get them off several times. Makes for me, a great night.

[Dan7373]

Sexual arousal includes both psychological arousal, which causes a person to want sex, and physical arousal, which causes physical changes that make it easier for a person to have sex.

Although these two factors often go hand in hand, some people may struggle with one or both aspects of arousal....

I'm assuming that people are healthy enough to do the sex stuff. Because sex advice won't help ladies and guys, who need a medical doctor instead.

One of my main ideas here is that you can have some conscious control over your own arousal and that of the girl. It doesn't have to be a passive process that somehow happens to you.

Because if you are passive about it and don't do anything to make it happen, then sometimes it might happen for you and sometimes not. You can end up with a lot of disappointments. But when you do it consciously and by choice, then it's much more likely to work well for you more or less every time.

Having some conscious control isn't just a mental process. It's about understanding how build up your sexual desire and tension, so that you will be really ready for the hot lady, when she takes you on. It's basically both physical and mental preparation, before the penetration.

One thing I've noticed about sex-worker ladies, who do it with many guys, is that they want to have some fun with their man. They enjoy their sexual pleasure. But they try to stay away from having an orgasm. And they will often stop you, when this is what you try to do. Most ladies will do it graciously and offer you to have a ride in their pussy, instead of you sucking their clit and making them orgasm. But stop you they will. Because such a lady wants to be ready for her next guy. And being satisfied in too good of a ride will destroy her mood to do her next guy good.

These ladies pace themselves and use their encounter with you to arouse themselves and stay in the mood for their next guy. That's why these ladies can take on several guys on any given day, one after another, and still enjoy it with every one of them. When the hot lady doesn't cum, then she is just aroused and ready to do her next man. She is still in the mood also to do him good.

And guys can learn a lesson from this. Which is that they can masturbate themselves to prepare themselves for the lady they like. This is both physical and mental preparation, because you fantasize about the lady during your masturbation. But you should be careful not to cum. Or else you will satisfy yourself and lose your desire to do her.

You need to consciously understand what it is that you are doing and why, so that you can be the cocky guy, when the time comes for it. If you just do it spontaneously without any thinking or planning, then chances are that you might not masturbate at all and not be ready for the girl. Or you might masturbate yourself to orgasm and lose your desire to do her. Which at the time might seem right. But then later on you will regret that you and she didn't get to have a ride. Because your desire for her will return. This much you can predict, when the lady is hot and available for you.

I often find it difficult to have a good sexual encounter with a hot lady I've just met. It's like I'm not yet ready for her. I like her alright. And I want to have a good ride. But I'm not yet in the mood to do her good. I can still do it with her. But I don't enjoy it as much as when I come back to see her the next day for the second time. And the reason why it works better for me for the second time is because I masturbate about her and fantasize about her to prepare myself for her. So, I'm really ready and in the mood to do her good, when I come to see her for the second time.

Most people masturbate themselves just for pleasure, and they leave it at that. But you can also use masturbation as a kind of physical and mental preparation. And for it to work this way, you need to stay away from doing it all the way to orgasm. Sex-worker ladies do something similar, when they have some fun with you and feel some pleasure, but they make sure that they don't orgasm with you. For them, this is physical and mental stimulation equivalent to masturbation, that doesn't go all the way to orgasm. So, they stay in the mood and do every guy good.

The problem with doing a hot lady, when you aren't quite ready for her is that you might have a disappointing experience with her and never come back to see her again. A lot of guys blame the lady in such a situation. But it might be them and not her. They just weren't ready for the lady, either mentally, or physically, or both.

[MaverickElias]

I think it can be a turn on for the woman to watch how your cock goes in and out of her pussy.

Because one time I was doing it with a massage lady side-by-side, face-to-face. There was enough space between our bodies for her to see how my cock was going in and out of her. And I was a little surprised at how much time she spent watching me bang her. She kept watching it for a long time, and it looked she was turned on just from watching it. Later, she orgasmed with me. Which is what makes me think that this can be a turn on for women.

Women usually aren't in a good position to watch how the guy's cock goes in an out of their pussy. This kind of thing is rare to see even in porn. But you can certainly set up the lady so that she can see it. I found one gif where the lady watches the guy's cock go in and out of her. And it looks to me like she is turned on by it too, just like my lady was. Perhaps this is something for a guy to try with his lady:

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Sexual arousal includes both psychological arousal, which causes a person to want sex, and physical arousal, which causes physical changes that make it easier for a person to have sex.

Although these two factors often go hand in hand, some people may struggle with one or both aspects of arousal.

It is worth noting that issues with arousal are likely to be multifactorial. For example, any of the following could have an impact on a person's ability to become aroused:

Cardiovascular conditions.

Mental health concerns.

Relationship issues.

Sexual beliefs.

However, there are a number of things that a person can try to increase arousal levels. Read on for tips and remedies on how to get turned on.

[MikelJulien]

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[Dan7373]

Nice video.

Unfortunately, this video isn't available anymore. Pornhub website removed it in their censorship frenzy. Perhaps this is the start of a new Dark Age in people's sex and sexuality. Because the most interesting practices and innovations often come from unknown amateurs, rather than from professional sex-workers.

But it's just common sense for how a woman can make her pussy tight for a guy. First he enters her pussy with his cock in the missionary position. Then he gives her some space and some room to bring her legs together and cross them, while he spreads his legs on top of her to the outside of her legs and helps her hold her legs together with his legs.

This is something to do for a guy who has a small cock, or when the lady's pussy is stretched out due to giving birth.

And I found that this can be a pretty good technique for a guy with a big dick to make it pleasant for the lady. Because when the lady is already tight and a big-cock guy enters her pussy for the ride, then her bringing her legs close together like that anchors the guy's cock inside her, and he can't go in and out of her.

But if he tries to ride her anyway in a gentle kind of way, then he ends up tugging on her pussy and stimulating her clit, especially if he pushes the top of his cock against the upper part of her pussy, where her clit is. A tight lady can orgasm this way, when she grabs and holds a big-cock guy with her pussy like that.

[Dan7373]

I really like to start with foreplay. That is, sucking from the breasts to the clitoris.

I feel that she is enjoying it and I penetrate my fingers before my dick. That way I can get all women to come quickly.

This I learned in some video on the site below.

https://pornogratis.vlog.br

I found from my experience with ladies that starting with the lady's tits right away for the foreplay often doesn't work well for the lady. You need to find the lady's clit first. Make sure it's erect. Hold it, or slowly massage it with a well-lubricated hand. And only then go for the lady's nipples and tits with your other hand and your mouth.

Because some of my ladies always felt uncomfortable with my foreplay, when I went for their tits right away. They pushed me away. And it wasn't because I was being too rough or doing it in a wrong way. Their tits were sensitive, and they pushed me away, no matter how I did it.

But then I've discovered that these same ladies really enjoyed their breast foreplay with me, when I went for their pussy and clit first with a well-lubricated hand and made sure that they were aroused and excited this way. It was like the night and day. The same lady, who earlier pushed me away, offered her tits to me and let me suck them as much as I wanted. And it was me masturbating her pussy and clit with a well-lubricated hand, while sucking her tits, that made the difference.

No clit, no tits. But make it pleasant for her clit, and she gives you her tits to suck all you want.

Perhaps not all ladies are like this. Some ladies let you start your foreplay with their tits right away. But it's hard to know if they are just gritting their teeth and being patient with you, or if they enjoy the feeling. Some ladies can be accommodating and patient like that.

Just to be safe in terms of making it pleasant for the lady, my advice for tit-sucking guys is to go for the lady's pussy and clit first with a well-lubricated hand. Arouse her this way and make it pleasant for her. And only then start sucking her tits, while continuing to masturbate her pussy and clit.

[SandraAllen]

One way to last longer with your lady is to help her relax her pussy with you.

Because tight pussy gives you too much stimulation. And too much stimulation is what makes you cum prematurely.

A lot of guys focus on themselves, when they want to last longer with their lady. They try to improve their endurance. But this is just one way of looking at it. Because you can also say that the problem isn't your lack of endurance. The problem is that the lady's pussy is too tight for you. Tight pussy gives you too much stimulation, and that's why you don't last.

If you can get your lady to relax her pussy with you, then you will get less stimulation during penetration. And that's why you will last longer with her, even with your normal endurance.

And the technique for getting your lady to relax her pussy with you is actually quite simple and easy.

You just need to penetrate your lady's pussy all the way to your balls and then wait for 5-10 minutes. And to make it entertaining for yourself and the lady, you can continue your foreplay with her. You can play around with her tits, suck her nipples, massage her body, and massage her clitoral area with your hand once in a while.

This is very informative and useful.

[SandraAllen]

I found another video where an older western guy takes a young Thai lady with his cock in the same orgasmic position.

This Thai lady actually crosses her legs with him. Which makes her pussy really tight for him.

He doesn't last long with her, probably because she is so tight. But he lasts long enough to show you how to do it. He even shows you how to get into this sex-position starting at the 1:45 minute in the video.

Here is the video link:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b2b2ec9ddd80

Nice video.

[Leninha]

I really like to start with foreplay. That is, sucking from the breasts to the clitoris.

I feel that she is enjoying it and I penetrate my fingers before my dick. That way I can get all women to come quickly.

This I learned in some video on the site below.

https://pornogratis.vlog.br

[Dan7373]

I've heard about Lazy Sex before. But I've never seen anybody do it in porn. I've searched for it long and hard. And I've finally found a good example of it on PornHub, at the link below.

It's actually a Thai guy doing it with a Thai lady. He enters the girl and hardly moves at all. He stays balls-deep inside her. And he moves just enough inside her to make it pleasant for himself. But he doesn't even come close to having an orgasm with her.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5fbba67fb335a

This guy takes the lady from behind, in the prone position. But I've done something like this with a Thai lady from the front, in the missionary position. And I found that I could make her orgasm by pushing the shaft of my cock against the upper part of her pussy, where her clitoris is.

She orgasmed before me. I wasn't even close to having an orgasm. Because I wasn't going in and out of her that much. I was just staying deep inside her and pushing the shaft of my cock against the upper part of her pussy. There wasn't much friction at all. It was the clitoral pushing and the stretching that orgasmed this girl.

A woman's clitoris is much larger than what you see outside. Most of the woman's clitoris is inside her body around her vagina. And that's why pushing the shaft of your cock against the upper part of her vagina makes it pleasant for her. A good picture of what the woman's clitoris is both internal and external is at the link below:

https://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/se...ris-3d-print /

So, when your cock is inside the lady's vagina, and you push the shaft of your cock against the upper part of her vagina, then you are actually pushing against the woman's clitoris, where the two parts of her clitoris join together at the top. This might be the so-called G-Spot, whose stimulation many women find very pleasant.

So, you might also make the woman orgasm by putting a finger or two inside her vagina and pushing with your fingers against the upper part of her vagina, while moving your fingers from side to side. This is a variation of doing it with your fingers, rather than with the shaft of your cock.

I've seen in porn, guys do this kind of stuff with their fingers. They basically find the place where the two parts of the woman's clitoris join together and stimulate her there. Here is an example:

https://dl.phncdn.com/gif/2282721.gif

Here is an example where the guy tries to stimulate the lady's G-spot with the shaft of his cock:

https://bestsexpositions.com/picture...sition-7-1.gif

Doing it with the shaft of your cock is a different kind of experience for both you and the lady. Because you are filling her up with your cock. Which stretches her vagina all the way inside. And you get some pleasure too. Because you are deep inside her, and you get some stimulation from her penetration.

I think stimulating the lady's G-spot with your cock is a more sure thing than doing it with your fingers. Because, with your fingers you can miss this spot and stimulate her in a wrong place. So, it won't work for the lady. But your cock is long enough to stimulate the whole length of her upper vagina. So, you are going to get her G-spot somewhere in there with your cock.

With your cock, you don't need to search for her G-spot and make sure you do it in the right place, the way you need to make sure with your fingers. So, it's easier to get it right with your cock, than with your fingers.

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Many ladies nowadays will let you have only one cumshot with them. And according to the statistics I've read, an average man lasts only two minutes with his lady. Which is a big problem. You might be paying for a 2-hour session with the lady and last only 2 minutes with her.

A lot of guys want to last with their lady for about as long as porn-studs do. Which is about 30-40 minutes. And some say that this is highly unrealistic. But I say that this can be done, and it's not that difficult to do. You just need to use a Delay Spray, which is a local anesthetic that desensitizes your cock and enables you to last for a long time. There are many such products online. Some use herb extracts, but most use Lidocaine as its active ingredient, and one product, Fortacin, uses a combination of Lidocaine and Prilocaine. Fortacin is supposed to be the best. But it can be hard to buy. So, Lidocaine is what you need to look for as the active ingredient. Because you don't really know what you are getting with herb extracts.

I found a Pornhub video where a guy demonstrates the use of the Royal Horse delay spray. And it's impressive to see how he lasts with his lady for over 40 minutes. This guy doesn't just last for a long time with his lady. He bangs this girl with such confidence and control that you seldom see even in porn movies. He doesn't strain, he doesn't groan, and he doesn't contort himself in various postures to hold back his cum. He just takes this lady from behind and slaps his hips on her ass-cheeks, like there is nothing to it. And she is pretty good looking too. Which usually makes it even harder for a guy to hold back his cum on her. You can check out the video at the link below:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5e5ba50308c3b

I've read many customer reviews of various such sprays. And it seems to be a struggle for many users between using too much and using too little. If you use too much, then you might not be able to get an erection going. And if you use too little, then it might not work for you.

So, I got such a spray for myself and experimented with it to see what's going on. I tested it using masturbation, rather than doing it with a real lady. And I found that it can work really well, if you desensitize only a part of your cock, rather than all of it. You just need to desensitize the most sensitive part of your cock. Which is the bottom part of the head of the cock. The top part of the head isn't as sensitive, and you don't need to desensitize it too.

So, you need to do only a partial desensitization that still leaves you with enough sensation to get a good erection going and feel some pleasure too. And you can do this by spraying this product on your finger and then using your finger to rub the spray only in the place that you want to desensitize. Which is the bottom part of the head of your cock.

My advice is to practice using this product with masturbation first. Because it takes some getting used to, and you need to practice and experiment with it to make sure that it works for you every time the way you want it to work. I think the key is to desensitize only the most sensitive part of your cock, rather than all of it.

But this isn't set in stone. If you are really sensitive, then you might need to apply more of this product to the most sensitive part of your cock and less to the rest of your cock. That's why you need to experiment using masturbation and find out what works best for you. And of course, spraying it on you finger and then applying it to your cock with your finger can lead to some waste of this product. But this is the only way you can desensitize only a part of your cock, rather than all of it.