Tips and techniques for sexually arousing women and making them orgasm

[Dan7373]

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I do not know if it is true or not that some girls told me that they do not want to be lick on their Virgina. Is it true or not girls do not like that just like guys do not like blowjob from girls regardless of technique. (I know some girls have bad experience with guys do not know what to do at all but we are talking about guys do know how to do technique.

Also, when I go down there for like 40 minutes straight, she seems enjoy it but no sign of she getting climax soon, should I keep going or try something new. Sometimes you ask girls about this they do not know what to do either.

How can you tell girl just fake orgasm to make you feel good or just want to be done with you? Is there any actually physically changes when they do have orgasm.

Some young girls do enjoy getting head but they do not climax, for some older girls like late 20's early 30's they just climax without any problems I know every girl is different but I found large portion of girls with older age have better chance to climax. (normally I spend long period time with girls instead of just do it once and not see then again) . So do you guys also found the same thing?

I know for sure that some guys and some women don't want to receive oral sex, even when they are sexually aroused. Because I'm one such guy. And I know very well a Thai woman who doesn't want oral sex from guys either. She told me that some western guys threatened not to pay her, unless she let them perform oral sex on her, and only then she let them do it.

I think for Thai women, dislike of oral sex is partly cultural. Because according to Buddhist religion, the purest and the best part of the body is the head, while lower parts of the body are less clean and less pure. Which means that when you lower your face and contact it with lower parts of another person's body, then you destroy your purity and lower yourself in the moral sense of this word. This has bad implications for being re-born as an animal, rather than as a human being, in your next life, after you die.

You literally become like an animal in the eyes of the Thai lady, when you perform oral sex on her. This turns her off. And of course, if the lady is disgusted and turned off, then she will have difficulty with orgasming, even if what you do is physically pleasant for her.

For myself, I can say that receiving oral sex from a lady is physically pleasant for me. But it turns me off psychologically. Because it makes me passive with the lady. I'm not in a good position to do much with her, when she is performing oral sex on me. And this is a turn-off for me. Because I like to touch my lady a lot and have a lot of body-to-body contact with her. A lot of my pleasure comes from touching and groping the lady in sexual ways. And I don't like anything that limits my ability to do this, which includes receiving oral sex from the lady. It's like I have to restrain myself from doing what I want, when the lady is performing oral sex on me. And I don't like this.

I used to perform oral sex on ladies before. And I had an iffy experience with it. Sometimes it worked, and the lady orgasmed. But sometimes it took so long that my mouth and tongue was really tired, and I couldn't do it well anymore. It didn't always lead to orgasm for the lady.

That's why now I'm such a fan of doing it with well-lubricated fingers and hand, rather than with my mouth and tongue. Handy-cunnilingus is what I call it. Because I touch and massage my lady's pussy and clit with my fingers and hand the same way I did it before with my mouth and tongue.

It's basically oral sex that you perform with your hand, rather than with your mouth. There is no difference in the way you do it. You just use a different instrument to do the same thing.

And actually it's more than just the same thing. Because you have 5 fingers on your hand. Which you can use like 5 tongues going after the lady's pussy and clit at the same time. And the palm of your hand is like one huge tongue that licks her whole pussy all in one go. You just need to put plenty of lube on your fingers and hand to make it feel for the lady like wet oral sex. And she basically has 5 nimble tongues darting all over her pussy and clit. And then there is that one huge tongue that licks her whole pussy once in a while.

I found from my experience that ladies orgasm a lot better with me, when I use my fingers and hand to perform oral sex on them. Which isn't surprising. Because the lady basically gets many tongues going after her pussy and clit, rather than just one.

For Thai women, using your hands rather than your mouth is also culturally better. Because people's hands normally spend a lot of time on the same level as their genitals. There is no cultural problem at all when you touch the pussy of a Thai girl with your fingers and hand.

Your hand and her pussy are on the same level. Which makes it okay for you to touch her there. You don't become an animal, when you touch her like this.

[Gaolegao366]

HI guys,

It's my first-time post in this section. Here is some of experience with women. At the beginning, I was amateur. So When I went down on girls' Virgina with my tongue my tongue just go all over the places. When girls move their virgina I still do what I do.

Ever since I saw some random guy said online that you should ask girl how she like it done like should I go left, right or should I go slow or harder instead of ask if she likes it or not. Plus, when girls move their body it means they want you to lick the right part so keep the same position with your toungue. After I did what he told I feel when girls have orgasm they actually enjoy it instead of fake it and tell me it is good. Especially when their whole body shake so hard and shake like earthquake. That time I know I have done it the right way.

But right now I have some questions, I do not know if it is true or not that some girls told me that they do not want to be lick on their Virgina. Is it true or not girls do not like that just like guys do not like blowjob from girls regardless of technique. (I know some girls have bad experience with guys do not know what to do at all but we are talking about guys do know how to do technique.

Also, when I go down there for like 40 minutes straight, she seems enjoy it but no sign of she getting climax soon, should I keep going or try something new. Sometimes you ask girls about this they do not know what to do either.

How can you tell girl just fake orgasm to make you feel good or just want to be done with you? Is there any actually physically changes when they do have orgasm.

Some young girls do enjoy getting head but they do not climax, for some older girls like late 20's early 30's they just climax without any problems I know every girl is different but I found large portion of girls with older age have better chance to climax. (normally I spend long period time with girls instead of just do it once and not see then again) . So do you guys also found the same thing?

[Dan7373]

Once in a while you hear some guys complain that P4P women are doing it only for the money and not for the pleasure. Which implies that these guys aren't very good at pleasing their women. Because the woman's pleasure doesn't happen on its own. If the guy doesn't do much to please the woman, then that's the reason why she feels little pleasure and does it only for the money.

And making an effort to please the woman doesn't necessarily make it pleasant for her. You need to do it in a way that works, which takes some learning and experience.

I found some excellent examples where women demonstrate how to masturbate your lady's pussy with your hand. And I say they are excellent examples, because the woman's pussy is clearly aroused as a result of what the lady does. Which means that it works, and it's not just for show. Here are these examples:

1. http://i.imgur.com/BhIXXtC.gifv.

2. https://fat.gfycat.com/GiganticUnderstatedEsok.webm.

3. https://zippy.gfycat.com/AnimatedConcernedDonkey.webm.

4. https://zippy.gfycat.com/TautSerpentineGuanaco.webm.

5. https://fat.gfycat.com/GleefulInform...kparakeet.webm.

[Dan7373]

A recent study found that women who watched a "sexually arousing video rated the unpleasant tasks as less disgusting than did their counterparts who were not sexually aroused. They were also more likely to complete more of the tasks, suggesting that sexual arousal not only dampens the disgust response but also influences how much women are willing to do".

http://healthland.time.com/2012/09/1...youre-aroused/

I think this study implies that going after your lady's clit and masturbating it does more than just please her. It's also a way to replace your lady's normal feelings of disgust with willingness and lust. Arousing your lady isn't just about pleasing her. It's also about making her a lot more willing to take a good drilling.

I think this study answers a question that people ask once in a while, "How is it that some really good-looking young P4P ladies are able to do it with much older, overweight guys?" The answer to this question is that either these ladies have learned how to arouse themselves, or the less good-looking guys have learned from their experience to please their women more.

When you aren't the best-looking guy anymore, then you need to arouse your lady more. Because this compensates for your disadvantage and makes the lady just as willing to take a good drilling from you, as she would be from a better-looking guy.

This study also has implication for having anal sex with the lady. Because anal sex is something ladies are more likely to feel disgusted about than other types of sex. If you want to be a baddie and persuade the lady to have anal sex with you, then you need to go after her pussy and clit, masturbate it, and only after you truly and fully arouse her, then ask her for anal, either verbally or non-verbally with a finger or two.

Some people say that the only preparation for anal sex you need is plenty of lube and lots of foreplay. If you are going to be disgusted about possible fecal matter, then anal sex isn't for you. Because it can happen even after the best preparation. And you need to keep in mind that sexual arousal probably decreases disgust among men too. Which means that you might be disgusted about it afterwards, but you'll enjoy it while you are doing it.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertai...om-experience/

[Dan7373]

From my own experience I would say that a lot of women don't understand at first what you are trying to do, when you want to masturbate their clitoris. This kind of thing can lead to a bad misunderstanding, if you don't go about it the right way. Because it's far more common for guys to try to insert their fingers inside the woman's vagina than to masturbate her clitoris. And a lot of women don't like this.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...fingerbanging/

It's so rare for guys to masturbate their lady's clitoris that even in porn, you need to search long and hard to find examples of this. Here is one good example:
http://www.dirtyrotten%77%68%6F%72%6...mations-01.gif

But in any case, I think the safest way to start clitoral masturbation is during pussy penetration. Because when you already have your cock inside the lady's pussy, then she won't be too concerned about you wanting to put your fingers in there too.

Taking the lady's pussy in doggy with your cock puts her clitoris within easy reach of your hand. And once you bring her to orgasm this way, then she will know and understand more that this is how you want to masturbate her, when you go after her clitoris in some other way.

That's why I say that your first encounter with the lady is partly the two of you getting to know each other. It's only on your second or third encounter with her that you truly and fully get to nail her.

[Dan7373]

I'd say from my own experience that bringing a lady to orgasm takes a lot of imagination. It's not something you can do just by repeating the actions and the techniques that you see in porn GIF pictures.

Because when you are masturbating a lady's pussy, then you need to make decisions about how hard and how fast to do it, how to vary your technique, and when to change it completely. You need to do the right things in the right way and at the right time. And it's not just one time. This is something you need to do again and again for 10 to 20 minutes with the lady. If you get your timing wrong, or you do it too fast or too slow, or you use too much or too little pressure with your hand on the lady's pussy and clit, then it simply won't work for her.

I think you need to imagine how it feels for the lady based on the non-verbal feedback you are getting from her. If you keep your body close to hers, so that you can feel every little tension and movement she makes, then this enables you to get a pretty good picture of how she feels. And this is what you use to decide how to masturbate her pussy at any given moment in time. You basically need to tune yourself into her feelings so well and so much that your imagination of how she feels is very accurate, accurate enough to do it the right way with her.

There isn't any single right way of doing it with the lady. Because it all depends on how the lady feels. You are trying to arouse the lady and bring her to orgasm. Which is all about making her feel this way. And to make her feel this way, you need to know and understand her feelings, as you are doing it. Or else, you simply won't do it the right way, even if you imitate perfectly all the pussy-masturbation techniques you've seen other people use successfully.

I think the easiest and the most natural way to tune into your lady's feelings for pussy and clit masturbation is to hug her from behind, make a lot of body-to-body contact with her, and press with your hips on her ass-cheeks, so that her pussy is roughly where your cock would be, if you were masturbating yourself. Because when you put the lady's pussy very close to your cock and masturbate her like this, then you can adapt most of your self-masturbation techniques for masturbating her. You need to hold your hand in a different way, of course, because of the different anatomy. But the pressure with your hand, the speed, the timing, and the variation of your techniques can all be the same for her as they are for you. You basically masturbate the lady the same way you normally masturbate yourself in terms of the hand-pressure, the speed, the timing and the variation of technique. The only difference is how you hold your hand on her pussy. But mentally, in your imagination, it's the same masturbation for her, as it is for you.

This is doing unto her, as you do unto yourself. Which makes it easy for you to understand her feelings well enough to orgasm her.

I found some more GIF pictures where ladies masturbate themselves. Without a doubt, they are using the right techniques, and of course they know exactly how it feels for them. Their pussy-masturbation techniques are definitely something to learn from and imitate. You just need to realize that there is more going on than just what you see in the picture. Because it's all about making the lady feel the right way, and feelings is something you don't see. Feelings is something you can only imagine and understand with your mind well enough to do it the right way with her. Here are the pictures:

1. http://49.media.tumblr.com/1e00ac424...kfqio1_400.gif.

2. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn...6/10668457.gif.

3. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/...-hard-clit.gif.

4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/44e44ec13...6fsoo1_500.gif.

5. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/upl...ubbing-xxx.gif.

6. http://animatedpornpics.com/wp-conte...ornPics269.gif.

7. http://49.media.tumblr.com/cf0bd1866...8fzyo1_400.gif.

8. http://49.media.tumblr.com/153690fd9...8fzyo1_500.gif.

9. https://i2.xxgifs.com/galleries/2014...ng-her-ass.gif.

10. http://www.juicygif.com/albums/userp...ass-fucked.gif.

11. http://softscreams.com/wp-content/up...iz58o4_500.gif.

12. http://www.gifsfor.com/wp-content/up...-that-clit.gif.

[Dan7373]

When a hot lady is wearing tight jeans, then you can probably masturbate her to orgasm by rubbing her pussy hard and fast through her jeans. She doesn't even need to undress for you to orgasm with you. This much I can say from my own experience. You just need to adjust you pussy masturbation technique and make it firmer, harder, and faster, when you are masturbating the lady through her tight jeans.

There aren't many GIF pictures that show you how to masturbate a lady's pussy through her jeans, but I found one picture, where the lady masturbates herself through her panties. She is doing it faster and harder, than on a naked pussy. And that's how you need to adjust your technique, when you masturbate the lady through her jeans.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9...7ajuo1_500.gif

Of course the reason why you might want to masturbate the lady's pussy through her jeans, rather than wait for her to get undressed, is because you might end up waiting for nothing. If the lady isn't in the mood for it, then she won't take off her jeans. You need to arouse the lady first. If the lady's jeans are so tight that you can see her camel-toe (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camel_toe), then the quickest and the most effective way to arouse her is to masturbate her pussy through her clothing.

Masturbating the lady through her jeans can put some blisters on your hand. But once the lady is in her panties, then you basically have it made as far as masturbating her pussy goes. Here is what I mean:

http://images4.sex.com/images/pinpor...ankmyassplease

http://teen-sex-photos.eu/wp-content...982so1_400.gif

Another important thing for guys to realize about pussy masturbation is that you need to have some variation in your technique. Each GIF picture that I post here is only a looping moment frozen in time. It doesn't show you what happened before, and it doesn't show you what happens afterwards. It gives you a false impression that the lady's pussy-masturbation happens only one way, without much variation. When you are masturbating the lady to orgasm, then this can take anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes. And you definitely need to vary your pussy masturbation technique with her during this time. Or else it might get boring and even uncomfortable for her. I think pussy-masturbation techniques can be put into five broad categories: side-to-side, circular-motion, both side-to-side and circular, and along-the-slit. Here are some examples:

Side-to-side pussy-masturbation:
1. http://171gifs.com/wp-content/upload...t-Asses-3-.gif
This GIF shows my favorite way to masturbate a lady's pussy. I always make sure that I masturbate my lady's pussy this way at least some of the time. Because you really get to know the lady's pussy with your hand, when you spread her apart like this. You achieve a lot of intimacy with the lady, when you masturbate her pussy this way.
2. http://24.media.tumblr.com/09e7c00db...i6rao1_500.gif.
3. http://49.media.tumblr.com/6cd820cc4...mcueo1_500.gif.
4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/4e0312809...hfy9o1_500.gif.


Circular-motion pussy-masturbation:
1. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/upl...roudo1_500.gif.
2. http://45.media.tumblr.com/f22d1c566...j73wo1_500.gif.
3. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/upl...en-pussy_1.gif.
4. http://49.media.tumblr.com/9529c8a9e...vz5to1_500.gif.
5. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/...del-sierra.gif.
6. http://24.media.tumblr.com/591362d30...snzco1_500.gif.
7. http://38.media.tumblr.com/e02806dd4...t7hxp5_500.gif.

Both side-to-side and circular pussy-masturbation:
1. http://45.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2...p4wto1_500.gif.
2. http://porngifs.mobi/wp-content/uplo...tense-anal.gif.
3. http://beaverhunt.biz/wp-content/upl...-617770692.gif.
4. http://www.privatexxxstudio.net/wp-c...ivatexxx-9.gif.

Along the slit pussy-masturbation:
1. http://49.media.tumblr.com/3bc9f7ed2...jjv7o1_400.gif.
2. http://45.media.tumblr.com/b895b5738...vz5to1_500.gif.
3. http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mc...tnjdo2_500.gif.

Masturbating the lady's pussy during vaginal sex is an art in itself. Here are some examples of how you can vary your pussy-masturbation technique, while you are nailing the lady's pussy with your cock:
1. http://www.sexvideogif.com/wp-conten...ets-fucked.gif.
2. http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/D...89317038/2.gif.
3. http://a.im9.eu/gspot-though-anal-hu...-pussy-rub.gif.
4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/5b14baa92...vz5to1_500.gif.
5. http://49.media.tumblr.com/58898d77a...to1_r1_500.gif.
6. http://s3d4.turboimg.net/sp/d8e7b974...atty-pussy.gif.
7. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/...ets-fucked.gif.
8. https://i.xxgifs.com/galleries/21/bi...-wet-pussy.gif.

One final thing to say is that you need to pay attention to the situation and adapt your pussy-masturbation. If the lady is all oiled and and very slippery, then you need to pick up your speed and do it faster with her. Because the lady gets less friction, when she is very well lubricated, and you need to compensate for it by doing it faster with her. Here is what I mean:
https://i.xxgifs.com/galleries/1/big...sy-massage.gif

[Dan7373]

A lot of people say that porn is a fantasy and an illusion and that you shouldn't use porn for your sex-education. But I find this idea a little hard to believe.

Why wouldn't you want to learn from people, who are very experienced and who are experts at performing various sex-acts? It's like saying that experts don't know what they are doing, and you should learn from amateurs instead. This idea seems like total nonsense to me.

It's true that most porn videos aren't designed to be instructional, and they don't show you everything that porn-stars do. But it's not like porn-stars are hiding their sex-secrets from everyone else. You can find videos where porn-stars talk freely about how they prepare and what they do to make their sex look so easy and good.

I've recently watched a video, where a female porn-star mentioned using a lube injector to inject a lot of lube in her ass, before having anal sex with a guy. And I was little surprised to hear this, because I've read a lot of conventional anal-sex-advice at various websites, and none of them mentioned using the lube injector.

I suppose, this is the difference between experienced professionals and amateurs. Professionals do it so much that it won't work for them, unless they find the best way of doing it. But amateurs do it only once in a while, which enables them to tolerate some hurt and discomfort. Amateurs have time to recover and do it again the wrong way, and they don't learn from their experience.

But in any case, I did some research on the lube injector, and apparently its use by porn-stars is a huge reason why they are able to perform anal-sex so much better than amateurs. Here are a couple of website that describe the lube injector and give advice about how to use it:

https://www.slickn.com/articles/lube-shooter

http://www.maxprivate.net/what-is-good-anal-lube/

Apparently, some people use this lube injector for vaginal sex too. And this is definitely something to use, when the lady complains about you being too big in the cock department. Because the problem in this situation is too much friction for the lady, which can be decreased either by smaller-cock-size or by plenty of lube inside her. You can't reduce your cock-size. But you can certainly lube her up with the lube injector.

I think introducing Thai P4P ladies to the lube injector would greatly enhance their willingness and ability to perform like porn-stars, with some modifications, of course. You still want to use a condom in a P4P type of situation. And this means that you should use water-based lube, rather than vaseline or some oil-based lube. And using water-based lube means that you need to inject some water too, after a few minutes. Because water gets absorbed by the woman's body, which dries out the lube and makes it ineffective, unless you add some water.

Perhaps bringing a new lube-injector in a sealed package, as it was sold, and giving it as a gift to the lady would persuade her to try it with you. Because with a used injector, the lady might be concerned that you've used it on some other lady, and it might not be clean.

A lot of amateurs talk about the discomforts and pains of having anal sex. But a lot of it happens because they either learn by trial-and-error, or by listening to other amateurs, instead of learning from experienced porn-stars, who are clearly vary good at it, when you look at their videos.

For me, the big attraction of anal action is that it opens up the lady's pussy for some serious pussy-masturbation with your hand. When you have your cock inside the lady's pussy, then you are somewhat limited in your ability to masturbate her pussy and clit. But once you go anal on her, then it's pussy masturbation galore. Here is what I mean:

1. http://24.media.tumblr.com/cdad09ce1...sy0fo1_500.gif.

2. http://33.media.tumblr.com/31cccc1b8...4tk5o1_400.gif.

3. http://www.sexvideogif.com/wp-conten...-anal-fuck.gif.

4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/f02bf0ea7...4abo10_500.gif.

5. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/...bing-pussy.gif.

6. http://a.im9.eu/sharon-lee-asian-jui...y-rub-anal.gif.

7. http://49.media.tumblr.com/bdb276164...yv2mo1_500.gif.

8. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/upl...-stockings.gif.

9. http://ist2-2.filesor.com/pimpandhos...Prime-MILF.gif.

10. http://49.media.tumblr.com/e8aa026d5...7wtdo1_500.gif.

11. http://45.media.tumblr.com/77d592f87...vz5to1_500.gif.

12. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn...er=mccarty22nd.

13. http://45.media.tumblr.com/afa30955f...vz5to1_500.gif.

14. http://49.media.tumblr.com/5e3056999...hjvso1_500.gif.
I think this GIF is especially interesting to see, because the lady's pussy is so wide open on its own, without anybody spreading it apart. This is a clear sign that the lady is very aroused, and she is probably close to orgasm.

15. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn...6/14214549.gif.

16. http://www.niceandquite.com/wp-conte...lKakarikis.gif.

17. https://49.media.tumblr.com/da47185e...g1uso2_500.gif.

18. https://45.media.tumblr.com/5cafa224...g1uso7_500.gif.

19. https://49.media.tumblr.com/31e75a1b...g1uso6_500.gif.

20. https://49.media.tumblr.com/a42b3867...c4abo3_500.gif.

21. https://49.media.tumblr.com/197c3260...g1uso3_500.gif.

22. http://49.media.tumblr.com/14a896e4e...4a5do3_500.gif.

23. http://45.media.tumblr.com/9639abef5...vz5to1_500.gif.

24. http://45.media.tumblr.com/3b44a0d2e...k6xyo1_500.gif.

25. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn...&user=171gifer.

[Dan7373]

According to sex-counsellor and sex-therapist, Celeste Hirschman, "Most of the couples I work with actually bristle at the idea of scheduling sex; they feel like desire should emerge spontaneously, but actually desire is 'responsive,' meaning that it doesn't just emerge. What does desire respond to? Arousal. ".

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/...b0860f99db85e8

Waiting for spontaneous desire is like waiting for spontaneous fire. It might happen, if the lightning from the sky strikes at the right place and at the right time. But this is a really primitive way to do it. That's the way people did it with fire, before they learned how to make fire.

Celeste Hirschman says that people's sexual desire comes about as a result of stimulation. It can happen by accident, such when the lady inadvertently shows you her cleavage. Or it can happen deliberately, such as when the lady takes your cock and makes it hard as a rock with her mouth and hands.

My point here is that the lady's sexual desire also doesn't work well spontaneously. If you don't do anything to arouse the lady, or your technique for arousing the lady is poor, then quite often you don't have a good experience with the lady. Because the lady doesn't feel much sexual desire with you.

A lot of people seem to believe in spontaneous sex and desire. But that's not how the human body actually works. Perhaps this myth of spontaneity is the result of historical repression of sex. It used to be a sin to think and fantasize about sex too much. Which meant that doing it spontaneously, without any prior planning or thinking was the ideal way to do it.

We don't have as much sexual repression now. But a lot of people still believe in ideas left over in Western culture from past sexual repression.

[Captain Solo]

I had a fun time in Montevideo a few years ago. Uruguay has some very pretty Spanish-looking young girls and women. They are very nice, sweet, polite and gentle and pleasant, very much like Argentinians. I always like Uruguayans and Argentinians. They are the exact opposite of Brazilians and Paraguayans, who have darker complexion and are a lot rougher, crime-prone and more violent.

There were a few guys handing out flyers for brothels downtown Montevideo. I took a flyer and went into a tall multi-story stone building. Inside the wood floor and stair case already rotted out and collapsed like it had been bit with a bomb. There were a couple old, ugly women living in a dark apartment on the third floor, lit by candles, selling sex. They looked horrible, like a bunch of witches. I beat a hasty retreat down the broken stair case.

I walked to bar Pikaros around 11 PM. There were a couple girls but no client. Picked up this girl. She was the best-looking in the bunch. Can you recognize her? Paid about $100 then for ST. She was pleasant and compliant, posing for many sexy pictures. She was horny. We had hot sex. I enjoyed ravaging her sexy body, fucking her tight and wet pussy and came twice. If I had to attract her to come back for free sex for long term, I would have learned all Dan's lessons how to give her massive orgasms in this good thread. Hehehe.

I wonder where you went for your $2 putas then? Where would you go to look for girls for ST and LT in Montevideo now?

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!

[Dan7373]

Condoms?
No condoms in the 70's.

Yes, things have changed a lot since 1970's. I can only imagine how hard and fast you could nail the lady in various positions, after you've lubricated her with your first cum. In this situation, you last longer with the lady not just because you are working on your second cum but also because your ride becomes a very slippery slide.

But nowadays, condoms are widely used and for a good reason too. And I'm just saying that P4P ladies aren't doing themselves any favor, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. The guy can easily restrain his orgasmic reaction enough to hide it from the lady and continue banging her, until he is truly and fully satisfied with her.

PSE shops do it is safer, when they let guys have as many cumshots as they want. Because when the guy has no incentive to hide his orgasm from the lady, then he is much more likely to change his condom with her.

[Huevonn]

Condoms?

No condoms in the 70's.

Nowadays, a 14-year-old guy and the lady can get into a lot of trouble for having sex. In USA, the woman would get labeled as a sex-offender and put in jail for a long time. And the US government is putting pressure on all other countries to do it this way too.

But you are right that it's relatively easy for a guy to hide his orgasm from the lady, stay inside her, and then continue to bang her for his second cum with her. I remember one time I orgasmed with a lady, but I didn't go out of my way to show my orgasmic reaction to her. And then she had a hard time believing me that I orgasmed with her. She was kind of upset about it too, because she wanted me to show her my feelings of orgasm, when I had one.

If you are changing positions with the lady, then she might see that you already have cum in your condom. But if you stay with the lady in the same position from start to finish, then there is no way for her to know if the cum in your condom is from two cumshots or from only one.

I think this brings up an important point. The lady depends on the guy to show her his orgasmic feeling during his drilling. Which makes it easy for the guy to cheat. He can hide his orgasms from the lady and continue to bang her, until he is truly and fully satisfied. He doesn't even need to stop at two cumshots. He can have 3 or more, as long as he hides his orgasms from her.

Of course, continuing to bang the lady with a condom full of cum makes the sex more risky for the lady. If the condom breaks, then all of that cum ends up inside her. And cum-lubricated condom is also more likely to slip off the guy during sex.

Now that I think about it, the ladies are actually putting themselves at risk, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. Because these ladies are depending on the guy's honesty and integrity in a tempting situation. Even honest guys are bound to cheat once in a while, when the temptation is strong enough.

The rules of condom use clearly say that you are supposed to change condoms, after you've had a cumshot. But if changing your condom means that the lady will stop having sex with you, or she will ask you for a lot more money, then doing the right thing becomes very hard for the guy.

[Dan7373]

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!

Nowadays, a 14-year-old guy and the lady can get into a lot of trouble for having sex. In USA, the woman would get labeled as a sex-offender and put in jail for a long time. And the US government is putting pressure on all other countries to do it this way too.

But you are right that it's relatively easy for a guy to hide his orgasm from the lady, stay inside her, and then continue to bang her for his second cum with her. I remember one time I orgasmed with a lady, but I didn't go out of my way to show my orgasmic reaction to her. And then she had a hard time believing me that I orgasmed with her. She was kind of upset about it too, because she wanted me to show her my feelings of orgasm, when I had one.

If you are changing positions with the lady, then she might see that you already have cum in your condom. But if you stay with the lady in the same position from start to finish, then there is no way for her to know if the cum in your condom is from two cumshots or from only one.

I think this brings up an important point. The lady depends on the guy to show her his orgasmic feeling during his drilling. Which makes it easy for the guy to cheat. He can hide his orgasms from the lady and continue to bang her, until he is truly and fully satisfied. He doesn't even need to stop at two cumshots. He can have 3 or more, as long as he hides his orgasms from her.

Of course, continuing to bang the lady with a condom full of cum makes the sex more risky for the lady. If the condom breaks, then all of that cum ends up inside her. And cum-lubricated condom is also more likely to slip off the guy during sex.

Now that I think about it, the ladies are actually putting themselves at risk, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. Because these ladies are depending on the guy's honesty and integrity in a tempting situation. Even honest guys are bound to cheat once in a while, when the temptation is strong enough.

The rules of condom use clearly say that you are supposed to change condoms, after you've had a cumshot. But if changing your condom means that the lady will stop having sex with you, or she will ask you for a lot more money, then doing the right thing becomes very hard for the guy.

[Huevonn]

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!

Cumming twice with the lady is an iffy kind of thing, even in Thailand. Most women and most massage parlors look down on you, when you ask for it. Only some so called PSE shops accommodate this kind of a desire in men.

But now there is a new fertility study which found that a woman is over 3 times more likely to get pregnant from the man's second cum than from his first, when he cums twice within one hour.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/ar...n-fertile.html

The authors of the study say that this difference between the man's first cum and his second cum is probably due to the fact that first cum contains old sperm which is ineffective. But the man's second cum contains more fresh sperm, which is a lot more effective.

Of course, you aren't trying to get the lady pregnant in a P4P type of situation. But I think this study is relevant to men's desire for two cumshots with their lady. Because guys are designed by nature to like things that are better for reproduction. That's why men like hour-glass-shaped women, rather than pear-shaped.

I think this study is a vindication for guys who want to cum twice. This is a perfectly natural thing for a guy to want. And it's not something you should be ashamed to ask for, even at massage places that don't normally offer it.

Perhaps one way to get around this ban on a second cumshot with the lady is to take a second lady for another session, right after you finish with the first lady. If you are going to pay twice for having two cumshots, then you might as well enjoy two full sessions with two ladies. This is an expensive proposition. But it's something to do if you can afford it. And I'd say that this is a fair way to get your two cumshots at a one-cumshot-place.

Of course, the big attraction of second cumshot action is that you are bound to last longer with the lady second time around. If you really like some sexy chick, then she is the one to take for your second cumshot ride.

[Dan7373]

Cumming twice with the lady is an iffy kind of thing, even in Thailand. Most women and most massage parlors look down on you, when you ask for it. Only some so called PSE shops accommodate this kind of a desire in men.

But now there is a new fertility study which found that a woman is over 3 times more likely to get pregnant from the man's second cum than from his first, when he cums twice within one hour.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/ar...n-fertile.html

The authors of the study say that this difference between the man's first cum and his second cum is probably due to the fact that first cum contains old sperm which is ineffective. But the man's second cum contains more fresh sperm, which is a lot more effective.

Of course, you aren't trying to get the lady pregnant in a P4P type of situation. But I think this study is relevant to men's desire for two cumshots with their lady. Because guys are designed by nature to like things that are better for reproduction. That's why men like hour-glass-shaped women, rather than pear-shaped.

I think this study is a vindication for guys who want to cum twice. This is a perfectly natural thing for a guy to want. And it's not something you should be ashamed to ask for, even at massage places that don't normally offer it.

Perhaps one way to get around this ban on a second cumshot with the lady is to take a second lady for another session, right after you finish with the first lady. If you are going to pay twice for having two cumshots, then you might as well enjoy two full sessions with two ladies. This is an expensive proposition. But it's something to do if you can afford it. And I'd say that this is a fair way to get your two cumshots at a one-cumshot-place.

Of course, the big attraction of second cumshot action is that you are bound to last longer with the lady second time around. If you really like some sexy chick, then she is the one to take for your second cumshot ride.