Tips and techniques for sexually arousing women and making them orgasm

[Dan7373]

How much you enjoy being with a lady depends a lot on how much you want her.

And of course, a lot of your desire depends on the lady's good looks and personality. But not all of it. Some of it comes from your state of mind and whether you are in the mood or not.

A recent study has found that deliberately paying more attention to the desirable makes you desire it more.

https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_relea...-pwd110817.php

In a way, this is common sense. Because anybody, who has tried dieting, would know that it's harder to abstain from food, when you have some tasty food in front of you. Just focusing your attention on the food you want and fantasizing about eating it makes it much more desirable for you. And if in the end you start eating this food, then you'll probably really enjoy it, much more than in an ordinary situation, where you might be eating the food absentmindedly, while watching TV or something like that.

This study gives you a clue that you can actually increase your desire and enjoyment with the lady you want, if you take your time to think and fantasize about her, before you go for your session with her.

Of course, you can't fully enjoy with your lady, no matter how ready you are, unless she is ready for you too. Best enjoyment is mutual enjoyment. That's why you might want to focus your lady's attention on the things she might be interested in as a woman.

In one of my best encounters with a Thai massage lady, I was really doing her pussy with my cock in a face-to-face, side-by-side position. She hooked her top leg around my knee, and I held her close to me, so that I could go balls-deep inside her pussy every time. Then I took her hand and put it on my ass-cheek, so that she would feel how I was driving my dick.

I held her hand there for a while. And after a while, she gripped my ass with her hand and held her hand there on her own.

At the end of our ride, this lady had such a wild orgasm with me, that she couldn't have faked it. I've already had my orgasm with her, and I pulled out of her. Then she suddenly groaned and spasmed in an obvious orgasm. I quickly plunged my cock back inside her pussy and penetrated her as far as I could, all the way to my balls.

I wanted to experience this lady's orgasm. And experience it I certainly did.

Her pussy spasmed around my cock in a peristaltitic type of motion. Her spasm started like a tight ring around the root of my cock, and this tight ring moved along the shaft of my cock towards the tip. The sensation for me was that of having my cock milked to squeeze every last drop of cum out of it. This was a pleasant sensation for me. I definitely enjoyed it. And my orgasming girl was totally out of control. She gasped and groaned every time her pussy contraction started around my cock.

I stayed as deep as I could with my cock inside her pussy during her orgasmic contractions. But in between her contractions, I banged her pussy a little to let her know that I was enjoying her orgasmic plow. Her orgasm must've lasted for a good minute or two. Because she gasped, groaned, and spasmed her pussy around my cock several times. I held her close to me, stroked her body with my hands, and I really pushed my cock deep inside her pussy for maximum penetration, until she finished orgasming with me.

I think ladies often get distracted and don't pay full attention, when they are with a guy. And that's why they might not be fully into it with you. But you can change this situation by taking the lady's hand and holding it on your ass-cheek, while you are banging her pussy with your dick. This enables your handy lady to really feel your cocky lust and predict your every thrust.

Or you can just take your lady's hand and put it on your cock. After you do this with the lady several times, then she'll probably get the message and start grabbing your cock on her own, whenever you swing by her.

I know this from having a lady take my hand and put it on her pussy like this. She liked the way I masturbated her pussy to orgasm every time. So, after a few times, she started taking my hand and putting it on her pussy to let me know that she wanted me to do it again. And orgasm her every time I certainly did like this, with plenty of lube on my hand and on her pussy, of course.

[Dan7373]

Being in the mood to do the hot lady good is what you need to do the deed. But quite often this isn't as simple as it sounds.

Because even being in unfamiliar surroundings with an unfamiliar lady can distract you enough to interfere with your mood and performance.

What you choose to think about during your bout can make a big difference in how well you perform. You obviously need to think 'sexy thoughts' to stay in the mood with your lady. But what exactly does this mean in practical terms?

An article from The Times of India, advises you to think about a porn scene, among other things.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...ow/4454312.cms

I've tried doing this myself. And I'm not so sure that this works well. Because I get distracted from the lady I'm with and start fantasizing about the absent porn lady.

I think the best experience you get is when you focus all of your thoughts and your attention on the lady you are with. And this isn't just thinking about the lady in general. You need to think sexy thoughts about her. And this is easiest to do, when you have the lady's tit in your mouth and her pussy or ass in your hand.

Active foreplay is what I'm talking about. It's a lot easier to focus your thoughts on the lady's tit, when you are doing something with it. And the same is true for her pussy and ass.

If you stay passive and look where the lady is looking, then you end up looking at your own cock. Cock isn't sexy, even when it's your own, from a heterosexual guy's point of view. This is how you can get distracted and end up having performance anxiety enough to impair your performance.

I also found that focusing my attention on my own sensation of pleasure can easily lead to a premature ejaculation.

When you focus your attention on your pleasure, then your goal becomes to increase your pleasure. And there is such a thing as too much pleasure. You can end up doing the lady too hard and too fast. And you don't last.

Continuing to focus your attention on the chick, even when you are doing her with your dick, is probably the best strategy, when you want to last for a reasonably long time with her.

Because when you are thinking about your lady's sensations and how to make her feel this or that, then you end up doing a variety of things with her, rather than just banging her pussy with your cock all the time. This is how you remember to change your positions with the lady and stop once in while to suck on her tit and play around with her clit.

[Dan7373]

I found a good example of a guy making it pleasant for the lady in the way that some sex-therapists recommend.

It's basically using stretching and pressure to make it pleasant for the lady, rather than friction. Stretching and pressure gives the lady a very different kind of sensation than friction does. And apparently, it can be very pleasant for ladies.

Here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13809322a.webm

[Dan7373]

Riding the hot chick with your dick, while also fingering her clit with your hand, is a good way to equalize the pleasure and make it as pleasant for the lady, as it is for you.

And you don't actually need to bang the lady all the time. You can stop and just finger the lady's clit for a while, then bang her some more. This is a good way to last for a long time with the lady and make it pleasant for her.

Here are some examples of what I'm talking about:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13589712a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...)13842922a.mp4

[Dan7373]

Out of sight is quite often out of mind for many guys, when it comes to their woman's clitoris.

When you take the lady's pussy from behind in doggy for example, then you don't see her clitoris at all. You just pound the sexy girl, and you are happy with that.

But her clitoris is actually open and exposed for some good fingering from you. All you need to do is use your imagination during the penetration to see your lady's clitoris in your mind's eye and be the fingering guy.

Here is what I'm talking about. This is something to remember, when you take the hot lady from behind, and you don't see her clitoris:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13810512a.webm

[Dan7373]

One thing I like about P4P ladies is that they are a lot more liberated about being grabbed and penetrated.

With an ordinary woman, I would never grab her pussy and start fingering her clit, when I'm kissing with her. Because what the lady feels comfortable with depends a lot on her previous experience with guys. Quite often you have no idea how she will react to something like this. And that's why I don't do it. Even grabbing the lady's tit in this situation can lead to a sexual assault accusation.

But P4P ladies are different in this regard, not just from the guy's point of view, but also from their own point of view. Because P4P ladies have so much sexual experience with guys, that spontaneous foreplay is neither surprising nor upsetting for them. And sexual consent is assumed by both the lady and you, once you agree to be with each other. It's perfectly normal for a guy in this situation to grab the lady's pussy and finger her clit. And this is actually one of the pleasures I look forward to, when I go with a P4P lady.

Foreplay to get the hot lady on her way. That's what I call it. And I haven't yet met a P4P chick who would slap my dick for grabbing her like this. Here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13831432a.webm

[Dan7373]

One advice for cocky guys sex therapists give is that you should bend your cock, when you rock. This gives the lady a different sensation during penetration. And this also reduces friction for the lady inside her pussy. Because a lot of the action is in the stretching and in the pushing on her pussy, rather than you going in and out of her.

This is something to do with any lady, but especially with the lady who has some concern about your cock being too big for her. Because it's the friction that usually injures the lady. And anything you can do to reduce the friction makes it better for her.

Here is an example of a guy bending his cock inside the lady, rather than just going in and out of her:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13802932a.webm

[Dan7373]

Vaginal intercourse more often than not is a lot more pleasant for the guy, than it is for the lady.

This happens because the hot lady spreads her legs wide open for you to enter and ride. And most ladies never go beyond this first step. The lady just keeps her legs wide open for the rest of her intercourse with you. Her wide-open-legs position doesn't provide much stimulation for her clitoris. And that's why women are much less likely to orgasm during their sexual intercourse, than men are.

Some people look at this situation as if it's some rule or law of nature. It's like women are pre-destined to have less pleasure than men. And let's just leave it at that.

But I think this is an ignorant way of looking at it. Because it's all in the position. Sexual intercourse can be a lot more pleasant for the woman, when she closes her legs with your cock inside her pussy and makes herself so tight during the ride that you can't go in and out of her. You can only push and pull on her pussy with your cock inside her. Such tightness is very pleasant for the lady. And it usually leads to orgasm for her, if you do it like this with her for 10-15 minutes.

This much I can say from my own experience with ladies. And there is an easy way for a guy to do this with his lady. All you need to do is take the lady in the missionary position, with her legs wide open. And then you use your legs to bring her legs close together and make her pussy tight around your cock. And when you ride the lady like this, then you should also bring yourself up on her a little, so that the shaft of your cock pushes against the top of her pussy, where the glans of her clitoris is. Because this stimulates her clitoris more and makes it more pleasant for her.

From my experience I can say that not many ladies know about this position. Your lady probably won't know what you are talking about, if you suggest this to her. But I also found from my experience that you can take the lady like this entirely on your own. Once you are on top of the lady with your cock inside her, then it doesn't take much to bring her legs close together, move yourself up on her, and start tugging on her pussy with your cock and pushing the shaft of your cock against her clitoris at the top of her pussy.

One word of caution I would say is that you shouldn't actually try to slide your cock in and out of her. Because when you make the lady's pussy this tight around your cock, then sliding in and out of her might be painful for her, especially if you have a big cock. This is strictly for pushing and pulling on her pussy, without actually going in and out of her. Or else you might make it painful for her, rather than pleasant.

I found a good porn example of a lady and a guy doing it like this with each other. And it looks like the lady actually knows how to do it. Because she crosses her legs to keep her pussy tight around the guy's cock:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...13775952a.webm

[Dan7373]

I found from my experience with Thai P4P ladies that most of them will touch your cock with their hands only some very restricted and ritualized circumstances.

It's like they don't feel free to grab your cock and masturbate it whenever they feel like it.

The lady will take your cock with her hands, when she does oral sex on you. But at other times and in other circumstances, the lady often behaves as if your cock is strictly off limits for her. Not all ladies are like this. But many are.

I think even P4P ladies still feel some social inhibitions, when they are with a guy they don't know well.

But you can help such ladies relax with you and perhaps make them feel free to grab and handle your cock in a more spirit-free manner. Showing the lady a porn-clip on your phone, as the one below, might be a good way to let her know that you feel okay with this kind of thing, and you actually want her to do it:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/...)13826542a.mp4

[Dan7373]

I done some more reading about ways for people to enhance their sexual performance, and apparently, simply making yourself believe that you will perform well can in itself enhance your performance a lot.

It's called the Placebo Effect, and here is a good blog article about it:

https://www.thedailybeast.com/how-i-...nd-blowing-sex

I think this is the reason why a lot of people use various herbs and foods to enhance their sexual performance. It works for them, not because these herbs and foods have medicinal qualities, but because using them produces the Placebo Effect.

The Placebo Effect is basically making yourself believe that you well perform well, better than before. And it doesn't really matter how you gain this confidence and belief in yourself. This Placebo Effect happens even when the hot lady predicts to you that you are going to do her well and last for a long time too.

I was once with a lady who masturbated my cock with her hand, while saying that my cock was really big and hard. And make it big and hard she certainly did in no time. Then she started expressing some concern about how I was going to pound her with my cock and how I was going to last with her for a long time.

This lady was rolling my cock like a sausage between the palms of her hands. And she was saying things like, "You are really going to slap your hips on my cheeks, aren't you? Balls-deep every time! What am I getting myself into here!?"

I had the hardest erection pointing in her direction. And I surprised even myself that I was able to pound her so well and so long.

This lady literally talked me into really nailing her with my dick and lasting with her for a long time too. She gave me confidence and expectation, before the penetration. And then I did the rest with her.

Not many ladies understand this kind of stuff and behave like this with their guys. But some do. And that's what the lady's personality is all about. The lady might not be the best-looking chick to take your dick. But she might be good at making you feel confident with her in your sexual performance with her. And this makes all the difference in how well you nail her and how much you enjoy being with her.

I can say from my own experience that when the lady says to you that you are going to last for a long time with her, then this in itself makes you last longer with her.

Perhaps you can even try to get the lady to say to you that you are going to last for a long time with her. I've tried this tactic with one lady, and it seems to work.

When I was with my lady in the private room, then I started drinking Red Bull energy drinks, while saying to her that I was going to really pound her with my cock and last with her for a long time too. After a while, the lady expressed some concern about me pounding her too much and too long. She asked me not to do it too much.

It was like she believed my prediction that I was going to pound her and last for a long time with her.

I was waiting for this from her. And when she said it, then I reassured her that I was going to be nice with her. And I proceeded to foreplay her with my hands on her pussy, tits, and ass.

And I did end up pounding her and lasting with her longer than usual.

I think this is something to try for any cocky guy. Confidence, positive expectation, and positive belief. That's what it's all about. And it does work, based on what I can say from my own experience.

[Dan7373]

If you want to see how a guy on Viagra can nail a hot chick with his dick, then watch a good porn scene.

Because apparently, male porn actors routinely use Viagra and other similar methods to enhance their performance with the ladies. That's how they manage to bang their hot lady for 30-40 minutes and still have a raging erection at the end of it.
http://www.salon.com/2011/07/28/porn_13/.

I think it's important for most guys, including for myself, to last for a long time with the hot lady. Prolonging your physical pleasure is a part of it. But it's also about achieving an emotional union with your lady.

Penetrating the hot lady for the first time always makes me feel like a guest. I enter her pussy slowly. And I don't go balls-deep on her right away. Just being inside the lady is a pleasure in itself for me.

But once I get over the novelty of taking the hot chick with my dick. Then I need to make myself feel at home inside the hot lady's pussy with my bone. That's why I pick up my speed, go balls-deep on the lady, and really pound her. And that's also why I need to stay with the chick and do her for a long time with my dick.

You don't go from feeling like guest inside the hot lady's pussy to feeling totally at home right away. This process takes time. Not just for you. But also for the lady. Because you aren't at home inside the hot lady's pussy, until the hot lady says so.

And of course, this isn't something the hot lady says verbally. It's something you can tell from the way she stops watching the clock and just accepts your cock, like you have every right to be there balls-deep inside her pussy. And this is when you achieve your emotional union with the lady and just enjoy being with her. Because there is nothing like feeling at home with your big bone inside the hot lady's pussy.

Nailing a hot chick with your dick can be described as having three stages. First, both you and the lady feel that you are a guest inside her pussy with your cock. Then you go from being a guest to being a pest. You pick up your speed and go balls-deep on the lady. But she doesn't yet fully accept you, like you belong there. She is tense. And she is waiting for you to cum and withdraw. But you just keep nailing her. Loud slapping sounds. You slam your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks. Your cock goes balls-deep inside her pussy every time. And at this point, the hot lady realizes that you aren't a guest or a pest anymore. You are right at home inside her pussy with your bone. You aren't leaving any time soon. She might as well relax and enjoy it with you.

This is when the hot lady stops watching the clock and accepts your cock. And this is when you start feeling at home inside her pussy with your bone. And of course, there is nothing like home to go back to again and again. Home is where you are always welcome to relax and enjoy as much as you want.

And that's what your long, cocky ride with the hot lady is all about. It's not just about nailing a hot chick with your dick. It's about achieving an emotional union with the lady, where you feel totally at home inside her pussy with your bone.

The only word of caution I would say is that there is such a thing as taking too much Viagra. It doesn't work the same way for everybody. Some people need less. And some people need more. I've read some reviews from people who used Viagra, and the amount they take varies from 12.5 milligrams to 100 milligrams or more. Taking it on an empty stomach makes it works faster. But the amount of time it takes for Viagra to produce its effect varies from 1 hour to 15 minutes, depending on the person.

That's why you need to experiment and find out what works for you.

It's best to start with the smallest amount and keep increasing it a little at a time, until you get the desired effect. Because when you take too much Viagra, then you can end up with a raging erection that lasts for many hours. This might sound like fun to you. But the problem with this is oxygen starvation for your penile tissues. The blood goes into your cock and stays there, when you get an erection. There isn't enough blood circulation and transport of oxygen from your lungs to your cock. This doesn't cause any damage for up to two hours. But when you have a raging erection that never goes down for 4 hours or more, then you can start to get some serious tissue damage there due to oxygen starvation.

And of course, there is medical treatment, if you take too much Viagra. It involves taking a syringe and draining the blood from you cock. This relaxes your cock, makes the erection go away, and restores normal blood circulation there. This treatment might sound a little gross and scary to you. But it's a choice between either this or losing your cock. Because in extreme cases, it's possible to end up with so much tissue damage in your cock that it won't be any good for you anymore.

[Dan7373]

I have lost count of the number of times a P4P girl is so unaccustomed to being with a man who isn't already shooting his first load within minutes, no more than 4-5 minutes, her first reaction is to assume I have already been with another woman and popped within the hour. They will raise the question and ask/accuse me of it. LOL. ....

Perhaps you are misunderstanding the Thai lady, when you think that she is accusing you.

Because Asian cultures have all kinds of herbs and medicines for helping a guy do his lady real good and last for a long time with her. This is common knowledge in Thai culture. And that's why your Thai lady might ask you if you've taken some drug to help you last longer with her.

This isn't necessarily an accusation. The lady just wants to understand her situation.

I found from my experience that the Thai lady might yell at you a little, when she finds out that you've taken some performance enhancing drug with her. But she won't leave you high and dry. She'll work with you, until you cum.

Virtually every guy wants to last for a long time with his lady. This is a normal desire for a man to have. And it pays to be honest and open about it with the lady to avoid any misunderstanding with her. Good communication is the key. Let the hot lady know how long you want to plow.

I've had some Thai ladies flirt and joke with me at a bar. So, I warned the hot chick, whom I wanted to nail with my dick, "I like boom-boom long-long time". She laughed me in the face and said, "I don't believe". So, off I went with her to the private room. I wasn't ready for this lady. And the joke was on me. I lasted only two minutes with her.

But this lady was nice. She didn't laugh at me. So, I took her out for a long time to stay with me at my hotel room. And this time I really prepared myself for her. I drank two energy drinks in front of her, and I sprayed my cock with desensitizing spray. She looked at the bottle, understood what it was, and started yelling at me. But it was more a joke type of yelling, rather than a real upset. Because she was yelling about how big and hard my cock was and how she was in for it now. I didn't mind her yelling at all. And I really nailed this sexy girl for a good half-hour, just like I wanted.

Of course, you need to be sympathetic with the lady and offer her plenty of lube once in a while, when you are lasting for a long time with her. It's natural for a man to want a long ride with his lady. But it's not natural for any man to hurt his lady in the process. And it's your responsibility to make sure you aren't hurting her. Because the lady sometimes won't say anything on her own.

You don't always have a chance to tell the hot lady that you want to last for a long time with her in a flirting kind of way. And it can be embarrassing for the lady, if you start talking about it with her in front of others. So, I just get the lady's attention and whisper into her ear, "Boom-boom long time. Cock inside pussy one hour." And then I ask her, "Okay?"

If the lady agrees, then off we go together. Or the lady might whisper back in my ear, "Half hour." And this might be okay for me too. It's better to ask for more time, so that you have something to bargain with. And of course, the lady can also say 'No'. Which is okay too. Because you've just saved yourself from a misunderstanding and possibly a bad experience with the lady.

In Thai culture, it's embarrassing even for P4P women to talk about sex in public. And if you embarrass the lady like that, then she might say 'No' to you just to save her face. You need to make it private for the lady to get a sincere answer from her. And you don't even need to specify the time. Perhaps whispering into the lady's ear, "Cock inside pussy long-long time", is even better.

[EihTooms]

I don't think it's that simple for 2-minute-men and P4P ladies. Because a 2-minute-man isn't always a 2-minute-man.

I have lost count of the number of times a P4P girl is so unaccustomed to being with a man who isn't already shooting his first load within minutes, no more than 4-5 minutes, her first reaction is to assume I have already been with another woman and popped within the hour. They will raise the question and ask/accuse me of it. LOL.

Sorry, but when the vast majority of the Thai P4P women I have been with for the first time start the session with bizarre distractions like tugging on my dick like she is pulling a lawn mower rip cord, slapping or tapping my package like she is thump testing a watermelon, a rough cold water wash, and the ever popular speed machine rapid fire oral foreplay, I can only assume they are used to meeting men for whom such horrific treatment will do nothing to prevent them from shooting their wad within a very few brief and feeting minutes anyway. But that is definitely not the case with me. And their near universal disbelief and stubborn resistance to handling and blowing me otherwise only provides more convincing evidence that they very rarely are with a man who might take longer than 2-3 minutes for his first pop, imo. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if 2-Minute Men make up a good 90-95% of the customer stream these girls encounter.

[Dan7373]

Many women feel unsure and insecure about their looks with a guy. And the hardest moment for such women to deal with is when they get naked with a guy. Because this is when you can see it all, without much control from the girl.

And I'd say that this is the moment when you either make or break the rest of your encounter with the lady.

If at this moment, you go after the lady right away, like she is really hot, and start grabbing her pussy, tits, and ass, and hugging and kissing her too. Then the lady might slap your hand away here and there. But she won't have any doubts anymore about whether you even like her. Which makes it good for her, in terms of her insecurities.

Non-verbal actions speak louder than words. With your words you can lie. And ladies often don't believe guys. But when you start grabbing the lady's pussy, tits, and ass, as soon as she gets naked with you, then she knows for sure that you like her as she is.

Your hands don't lie, when you make them fly all over the lady's pussy, tits, and ass.

And unfortunately, the same is also true about honesty and lying, when the lady gets naked with you, but you don't react much. Silence and lack of action at this moment tells the lady that you are still deciding about the riding. You aren't sure if you like her. Which is a bit of a disappointment for her. Your lack of action at this moment tells the lady a lot. And it's a negative kind of telling. Because being neutral is the same as you not liking the lady much. Which ruins her mood with you.

That's why I like to let out a little gasp, when the lady gets naked with me. And I immediately go after the naked lady, with my hands all over her, like I really want her. I also give the lady a good nipple-suck at this moment, because this is my kind of thing.

And of course, it's not all about using psychology to make the lady feel good with you. You can really play the lady's pussy and clit in this situation and make it hot for her in a physical way too. Here are some pussy-grabbing examples of what you can do:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/012/...)12942231a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/012/...)12942331a.mp4

[Dan7373]

.... Although Dan trains us all up on girl wanking techniques with the hand, I am a very orally oriented guy, so I find that with a lot of experience and training, I can make most girls cum from DATY, but not all. I do have regular girls that are very difficult to cum, and only get there sometimes, some do not bullshit and don't bother to pretend, and have had others that just don't want to cum for fear of getting lazy or not being in the mood. ...

I'd say that the lady is more likely to let you do DATY on her, if you arouse her pussy with your hand first.

Hand-wanking the lady is a quick way to arouse her and get her in the mood for everything else you might want to do with her, including DATY.

In my experience, virtually all P4P ladies are okay with you foreplaying them and getting them sexually aroused. But some P4P ladies won't let you bring them all the way to orgasm. Because these ladies want to stay in the mood to do you good. And too much satisfaction can lead to flaccid action.

Some time ago, I took out a hot Go-Go lady several times. And every time, I started hand-wanking her pussy right away, as soon as she got naked with me. This hot lady wouldn't say anything. She just let me do it. So, I would keep sucking her nice tits and hand-wanking her pussy, until she orgasmed with me. Then I would immediately put on my condom and go for my pussy ride with her.

This lady would look at me, as if I was doing her a little too much. But she would let me have my pussy-ride with her anyway.

I could tell that my pussy-ride with this lady was a bit too much for her, so soon after she orgasmed with me. She would just grit her teeth and patiently wait for me to finish banging her pussy with my cock. And of course, having a second pussy-ride with her was totally out of the question. She wasn't in the mood for it anymore.

And the moral of this story is that you can destroy the hot lady's mood by doing her too good, even while she is still with you. Experienced P4P ladies know this. And that's why they are okay with you getting their mood going, but they aren't okay with you bringing them all the way to orgasm.